8. Not able to be reached

In the past, there was never a problem reaching your partner, be it at work or in private. They were always answering the phone or cellular.

Now s/he rarely answers the phone, and doesn’t call you back any more. Text messages are also answered late, if at all.

Another indication of seeking independency.

9. Makes unusual confessions

There were issues in your mutual past, which were never addressed before. Now they are not only a subject of discussion, they often lead to disputes.

“I never liked your mother, father, friends, outfit, political view, nose, etc.” are just some examples for sudden confessions of dislike and disagreement.

This is a very serious indication and should not be taken lightly.

10. Avoidance of long and intimate eye-contact

This is another serious red flag, which unfortunately often manifests when it is already too late.

Your partner cannot look you in the eye, because they have either noticed that they don’t love you any more, or because of guilt. They may have already separated her/himself emotionally, and is considering the next step.

Be careful!

If you notice only a few of these red flags in your partnership don’t panic! Going on a witch-hunt now is the worst you could do. A few of these signs doesn’t have to mean anything, if they appear every once in a while.

Just talk to your partner about it, without pushing the panic button.

Be aware of jealousy, that green-eyed monster.

Jealousy is one of the most negative emotions there is. Never accuse your partner of something without proof, you can create irreversible damage.

If you notice more than a few red flags at once, if not all of them, then heads up, something‘s going on.

As mentioned, communication and a recollection of your initial relationship virtues is a vital step in finding a way back together again.

If Kevin wouldn’t have shut his eyes to the facts, he might still be in a relationship.

Always walk through life with trust, but keep your eyes wide open.

I know you will now.

Your friend,

Eddie

(Photograph is from istockphoto / lisegagne)