Comments on: 10 Big Red Flags Your Relationship Is Going Downhill http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:45:08 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Eric http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-4211 Eric Tue, 17 Feb 2009 00:21:58 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-4211 <a href='#comment-4116' rel="nofollow">@Ray</a> - This is to Ray. I commend you for wanting to stay in this relationship and make it work. There is nothing worse for kids than divorce, and I can see that it would break your own heart as well. Did you know that our actions influence our attitudes far more than the other way around? When you smile, you start to feel happier. If you kick your dog, you will start to feel angry. Act out your love for your wife. Buy her flowers. Call her in the middle of the day just to say hello. I don't believe that you "never" loved her. Remember the things you used to love about her, the things you used to do together, and try to recapture some of those emotions. Act it out until it becomes real. Also, there's a great book to help you along the way-- it's called The Love Dare. Try reading it. This is all about putting someone else first. Love her until it becomes a lifestyle again. Best of luck!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4211','Eric'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4211','Eric','<a href=\'#comment-4116\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Ray<\/a> - This is to Ray. \r\nI commend you for wanting to stay in this relationship and make it work. There is nothing worse for kids than divorce, and I can see that it would break your own heart as well. \r\nDid you know that our actions influence our attitudes far more than the other way around? When you smile, you start to feel happier. If you kick your dog, you will start to feel angry. \r\nAct out your love for your wife. Buy her flowers. Call her in the middle of the day just to say hello. I don\'t believe that you \"never\" loved her. Remember the things you used to love about her, the things you used to do together, and try to recapture some of those emotions. \r\nAct it out until it becomes real. \r\nAlso, there\'s a great book to help you along the way-- it\'s called The Love Dare. Try reading it. This is all about putting someone else first. Love her until it becomes a lifestyle again. \r\nBest of luck!'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Ray – This is to Ray.
I commend you for wanting to stay in this relationship and make it work. There is nothing worse for kids than divorce, and I can see that it would break your own heart as well.
Did you know that our actions influence our attitudes far more than the other way around? When you smile, you start to feel happier. If you kick your dog, you will start to feel angry.
Act out your love for your wife. Buy her flowers. Call her in the middle of the day just to say hello. I don’t believe that you “never” loved her. Remember the things you used to love about her, the things you used to do together, and try to recapture some of those emotions.
Act it out until it becomes real.
Also, there’s a great book to help you along the way– it’s called The Love Dare. Try reading it. This is all about putting someone else first. Love her until it becomes a lifestyle again.
Best of luck!
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]]> By: Luisa http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-4132 Luisa Wed, 14 Jan 2009 18:29:26 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-4132 I wish I could have paid more attention to #3 - (Avoidance about talking of the future). But no more regrets! Thanks for the list, it will definitely help the next time around.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4132','Luisa'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4132','Luisa','I wish I could have paid more attention to #3 - (Avoidance about talking of the future). But no more regrets! \r\nThanks for the list, it will definitely help the next time around.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I wish I could have paid more attention to #3 – (Avoidance about talking of the future). But no more regrets!
Thanks for the list, it will definitely help the next time around.
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]]> By: Ray http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-4116 Ray Fri, 09 Jan 2009 03:54:09 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-4116 Wow, I am doing half of those right now to my wife. I am not having an affair, but I have been thinking of why I am married, for many years!! We married when were 20, 18 yrs ago. The main reason I have stayed around is because of the kids AND I hate failure!! Recently during business trips away from home, I've noticed more and more that I do not miss her. I just feel soo bad from a personal level to tell her after 18 yrs, I NEVER loved you?! What am I to do? It is eating me up inside, but I'm not sure where to go from here!! I MUST do something soon I can't keep this inside much longer.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4116','Ray'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4116','Ray','Wow, I am doing half of those right now to my wife. I am not having an affair, but I have been thinking of why I am married, for many years!! We married when were 20, 18 yrs ago. The main reason I have stayed around is because of the kids AND I hate failure!! Recently during business trips away from home, I\'ve noticed more and more that I do not miss her. I just feel soo bad from a personal level to tell her after 18 yrs, I NEVER loved you?! What am I to do? It is eating me up inside, but I\'m not sure where to go from here!! I MUST do something soon I can\'t keep this inside much longer.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Wow, I am doing half of those right now to my wife. I am not having an affair, but I have been thinking of why I am married, for many years!! We married when were 20, 18 yrs ago. The main reason I have stayed around is because of the kids AND I hate failure!! Recently during business trips away from home, I’ve noticed more and more that I do not miss her. I just feel soo bad from a personal level to tell her after 18 yrs, I NEVER loved you?! What am I to do? It is eating me up inside, but I’m not sure where to go from here!! I MUST do something soon I can’t keep this inside much longer.
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]]> By: tenescia http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-3907 tenescia Sat, 29 Nov 2008 19:04:42 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-3907 dont feel bad cause its happen to me too it seem i gave in to much love and he didnt give the same percentage back i broke up with him when i went through his phone and found that he was texting this chick telling her how sexy she was i mean he doesnt tell me that at all and i was like pissed off at that and on top of that i found a condom in his wallet this is not the first time that this has happened i left this time and im not turning back because he hurt me bad what should i do my heart is broken i been mith this guy for almost two yrs and i love him but he has been cheating on me i done forgave him i dont know how many times i left this time im just tired of it.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3907','tenescia'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3907','tenescia','dont feel bad cause its happen to me too it seem i gave in to much love and he didnt give the same percentage back i broke up with him when i went through his phone and found that he was texting this chick telling her how sexy she was i mean he doesnt tell me that at all and i was like pissed off at that and on top of that i found a condom in his wallet this is not the first time that this has happened i left this time and im not turning back because he hurt me bad what should i do\r\n\r\nmy heart is broken i been mith this guy for almost two yrs and i love him but he has been cheating on me i done forgave him i dont know how many times i left this time im just tired of it.'); return false;">quote</a></div> dont feel bad cause its happen to me too it seem i gave in to much love and he didnt give the same percentage back i broke up with him when i went through his phone and found that he was texting this chick telling her how sexy she was i mean he doesnt tell me that at all and i was like pissed off at that and on top of that i found a condom in his wallet this is not the first time that this has happened i left this time and im not turning back because he hurt me bad what should i do

my heart is broken i been mith this guy for almost two yrs and i love him but he has been cheating on me i done forgave him i dont know how many times i left this time im just tired of it.

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]]> By: grace http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-2425 grace Sun, 06 Jul 2008 05:34:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-2425 I am breaking up in tow weeks and I plan to write a letter sometimes that is the best when you feel things may get violent or the other person is going to try to talk you out of it.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('2425','grace'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('2425','grace','I am breaking up in tow weeks and I plan to write a letter sometimes that is the best when you feel things may get violent or the other person is going to try to talk you out of it.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I am breaking up in tow weeks and I plan to write a letter sometimes that is the best when you feel things may get violent or the other person is going to try to talk you out of it.
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]]> By: bella http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-1908 bella Sun, 27 Apr 2008 22:08:48 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-1908 If someone can please give me some advice on how to break up with my boyfriend. We have only been together for 4 months but it feels like forever... hes a really nice guy and he gets me whatever I want but im starting to feel he is just buying my affection. I dont find myself attracted to him at all and since we got together he doesnt have a life of his own. Im a 20 year old female with a two year old daughter, I told him when we got together I wanted to take it slow because I had been going through alot of stress and pain from my last boyfriend. Everything was good for the first week, now it just feels like he never wants to go home and he calls every hour when hes not at my house. I know it sounds pretty simple and i should just leave him, but its difficult for me to tell him this. How can I put it in a nicer way?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('1908','bella'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('1908','bella','If someone can please give me some advice on how to break up with my boyfriend. We have only been together for 4 months but it feels like forever... hes a really nice guy and he gets me whatever I want but im starting to feel he is just buying my affection. I dont find myself attracted to him at all and since we got together he doesnt have a life of his own. Im a 20 year old female with a two year old daughter, I told him when we got together I wanted to take it slow because I had been going through alot of stress and pain from my last boyfriend. Everything was good for the first week, now it just feels like he never wants to go home and he calls every hour when hes not at my house. I know it sounds pretty simple and i should just leave him, but its difficult for me to tell him this. How can I put it in a nicer way?'); return false;">quote</a></div> If someone can please give me some advice on how to break up with my boyfriend. We have only been together for 4 months but it feels like forever… hes a really nice guy and he gets me whatever I want but im starting to feel he is just buying my affection. I dont find myself attracted to him at all and since we got together he doesnt have a life of his own. Im a 20 year old female with a two year old daughter, I told him when we got together I wanted to take it slow because I had been going through alot of stress and pain from my last boyfriend. Everything was good for the first week, now it just feels like he never wants to go home and he calls every hour when hes not at my house. I know it sounds pretty simple and i should just leave him, but its difficult for me to tell him this. How can I put it in a nicer way?
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]]> By: Jaime http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-1356 Jaime Mon, 25 Feb 2008 00:16:22 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-1356 The 10 steps really helped me out on what my man is doing. Now I see that he might be trying to end it with me. And here I feel it is all my fault but, it is not. He is just wishy washy and needs to grow up a lot more before he really decides what he wants in a relationship and I really guess it is not me.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('1356','Jaime'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('1356','Jaime','The 10 steps really helped me out on what my man is doing. Now I see that he might be trying to end it with me. And here I feel it is all my fault but, it is not. He is just wishy washy and needs to grow up a lot more before he really decides what he wants in a relationship and I really guess it is not me.'); return false;">quote</a></div> The 10 steps really helped me out on what my man is doing. Now I see that he might be trying to end it with me. And here I feel it is all my fault but, it is not. He is just wishy washy and needs to grow up a lot more before he really decides what he wants in a relationship and I really guess it is not me.
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]]> By: Toneah http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-689 Toneah Sat, 08 Dec 2007 12:21:28 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-689 I wish I had read this 10 years ago. I'm still recovering from that breakup.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('689','Toneah'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('689','Toneah','I wish I had read this 10 years ago. I\'m still recovering from that breakup.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I wish I had read this 10 years ago. I’m still recovering from that breakup.
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]]> By: Khalil http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-644 Khalil Tue, 04 Dec 2007 23:44:05 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-644 Another home run, Eddie! I love it! For me I got the basic bottom line is something we should be doing no matter what stage our relationship is in...Be Aware! As long as we are always paying attention to our significant other, we will always be in a situation where we can either keep injury from happening, stop the bleeding, or, pardon the analogy, cut and run. Great work again, Eddie! Khalil He Said She Said...A Love & Relationships Blog www.khalilanddiday.com<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('644','Khalil'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('644','Khalil','Another home run, Eddie! I love it! For me I got the basic bottom line is something we should be doing no matter what stage our relationship is in...Be Aware! As long as we are always paying attention to our significant other, we will always be in a situation where we can either keep injury from happening, stop the bleeding, or, pardon the analogy, cut and run. Great work again, Eddie!\r\n\r\nKhalil\r\nHe Said She Said...A Love & Relationships Blog\r\nwww.khalilanddiday.com'); return false;">quote</a></div> Another home run, Eddie! I love it! For me I got the basic bottom line is something we should be doing no matter what stage our relationship is in…Be Aware! As long as we are always paying attention to our significant other, we will always be in a situation where we can either keep injury from happening, stop the bleeding, or, pardon the analogy, cut and run. Great work again, Eddie!

Khalil
He Said She Said…A Love & Relationships Blog
http://www.khalilanddiday.com

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]]> By: Other Infidelity related blogs · Survive Your Partner’s Affair http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-521 Other Infidelity related blogs · Survive Your Partner’s Affair Sun, 11 Nov 2007 18:43:36 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-521 [...] Lovesagame carried a post by Eddie Corbano, a relationship coach on the red flags that indicate a relationship is going downhill. [...]<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('521','Other Infidelity related blogs · Survive Your Partner’s Affair'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('521','Other Infidelity related blogs · Survive Your Partner’s Affair','[...] Lovesagame carried a post by Eddie Corbano, a relationship coach on the red flags that indicate a relationship is going downhill. [...]'); return false;">quote</a></div> [...] Lovesagame carried a post by Eddie Corbano, a relationship coach on the red flags that indicate a relationship is going downhill. [...]
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