Comments on: 10 Big Red Flags Your Relationship Is Going Downhill http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill Learn how to survive a break up, rediscover your true self and find Mr/s Right Thu, 17 May 2012 03:09:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: DodgedABullet http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-10457 DodgedABullet Mon, 29 Nov 2010 02:50:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-10457 I know of an ex-boyfriend who is already doing this type of thing to his new wife. He is such a loser. I tried to tell her, but she is stuck in a situation where she had a kid with someone else, and now needs a father for her child. Too bad he is her only choice. He will control her until she gives up. It's just sad she didn't listen. He is emotionally unavailable. The funniest thing is, when he was lying that he wasn't seeing anyone, he did it while having his back turned to me. I knew it was time to drop that zero after that. Too bad he insists on still calling me. No thank you. WHAT A FAKE ASS. If you know you don't love someone, don't bother marrying them. Too much manipulation in this world and not enough truth. I know of an ex-boyfriend who is already doing this type of thing to his new wife. He is such a loser. I tried to tell her, but she is stuck in a situation where she had a kid with someone else, and now needs a father for her child. Too bad he is her only choice. He will control her until she gives up. It’s just sad she didn’t listen. He is emotionally unavailable. The funniest thing is, when he was lying that he wasn’t seeing anyone, he did it while having his back turned to me. I knew it was time to drop that zero after that. Too bad he insists on still calling me. No thank you. WHAT A FAKE ASS. If you know you don’t love someone, don’t bother marrying them. Too much manipulation in this world and not enough truth.

]]> By: kh829 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-9425 kh829 Mon, 25 Oct 2010 05:18:15 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-9425 Did you ever think she may feel the same way? And it would be a blessing to cut ties. I am going through all the signs now and I wish he would just say it if that is what he is feeling so we can both just move on. He needs to either come back emotionally or let me go. It's cruel to not be there physically, emotionally, or mentally and when we ask if there is something we can do or if they don't want us any longer... the conversation is deverted to another topic. Did you ever think she may feel the same way? And it would be a blessing to cut ties. I am going through all the signs now and I wish he would just say it if that is what he is feeling so we can both just move on. He needs to either come back emotionally or let me go. It's cruel to not be there physically, emotionally, or mentally and when we ask if there is something we can do or if they don't want us any longer… the conversation is deverted to another topic.

]]> By: Renaepurdon http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-8216 Renaepurdon Tue, 20 Jul 2010 20:43:51 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-8216 I find it interesting that i pretty much went threw every single phase. funny, that i was kevin and he was the girl.(he dumped me, after cheating on me, now they dating)<br>we talk often and he is still with her, but still phones me, asking about my dating life. i have met a very nice guy after 4 months after the break up, and we are friends. he treats me like a princess and makes me feel amaizing. but i know im not emotionally ready for a relationship, also still getting over my x. i have been very honest with this person and he understands... its nice, honest and slow... its not the full story, but im happy to let anyone know, anything they want to know. keep smiling...it only gets better. I find it interesting that i pretty much went threw every single phase. funny, that i was kevin and he was the girl.(he dumped me, after cheating on me, now they dating)
we talk often and he is still with her, but still phones me, asking about my dating life. i have met a very nice guy after 4 months after the break up, and we are friends. he treats me like a princess and makes me feel amaizing. but i know im not emotionally ready for a relationship, also still getting over my x. i have been very honest with this person and he understands… its nice, honest and slow… its not the full story, but im happy to let anyone know, anything they want to know. keep smiling…it only gets better.

]]> By: Eric http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-4211 Eric Tue, 17 Feb 2009 00:21:58 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-4211 <a href='#comment-4116' rel="nofollow">@Ray</a> - This is to Ray. I commend you for wanting to stay in this relationship and make it work. There is nothing worse for kids than divorce, and I can see that it would break your own heart as well. Did you know that our actions influence our attitudes far more than the other way around? When you smile, you start to feel happier. If you kick your dog, you will start to feel angry. Act out your love for your wife. Buy her flowers. Call her in the middle of the day just to say hello. I don't believe that you "never" loved her. Remember the things you used to love about her, the things you used to do together, and try to recapture some of those emotions. Act it out until it becomes real. Also, there's a great book to help you along the way-- it's called The Love Dare. Try reading it. This is all about putting someone else first. Love her until it becomes a lifestyle again. Best of luck! @Ray – This is to Ray.
I commend you for wanting to stay in this relationship and make it work. There is nothing worse for kids than divorce, and I can see that it would break your own heart as well.
Did you know that our actions influence our attitudes far more than the other way around? When you smile, you start to feel happier. If you kick your dog, you will start to feel angry.
Act out your love for your wife. Buy her flowers. Call her in the middle of the day just to say hello. I don’t believe that you “never” loved her. Remember the things you used to love about her, the things you used to do together, and try to recapture some of those emotions.
Act it out until it becomes real.
Also, there’s a great book to help you along the way– it’s called The Love Dare. Try reading it. This is all about putting someone else first. Love her until it becomes a lifestyle again.
Best of luck!

]]> By: Luisa http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-4132 Luisa Wed, 14 Jan 2009 18:29:26 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-4132 I wish I could have paid more attention to #3 - (Avoidance about talking of the future). But no more regrets! Thanks for the list, it will definitely help the next time around. I wish I could have paid more attention to #3 – (Avoidance about talking of the future). But no more regrets!
Thanks for the list, it will definitely help the next time around.

]]> By: Ray http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-4116 Ray Fri, 09 Jan 2009 03:54:09 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-4116 Wow, I am doing half of those right now to my wife. I am not having an affair, but I have been thinking of why I am married, for many years!! We married when were 20, 18 yrs ago. The main reason I have stayed around is because of the kids AND I hate failure!! Recently during business trips away from home, I've noticed more and more that I do not miss her. I just feel soo bad from a personal level to tell her after 18 yrs, I NEVER loved you?! What am I to do? It is eating me up inside, but I'm not sure where to go from here!! I MUST do something soon I can't keep this inside much longer. Wow, I am doing half of those right now to my wife. I am not having an affair, but I have been thinking of why I am married, for many years!! We married when were 20, 18 yrs ago. The main reason I have stayed around is because of the kids AND I hate failure!! Recently during business trips away from home, I’ve noticed more and more that I do not miss her. I just feel soo bad from a personal level to tell her after 18 yrs, I NEVER loved you?! What am I to do? It is eating me up inside, but I’m not sure where to go from here!! I MUST do something soon I can’t keep this inside much longer.

]]> By: tenescia http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-3907 tenescia Sat, 29 Nov 2008 19:04:42 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-3907 dont feel bad cause its happen to me too it seem i gave in to much love and he didnt give the same percentage back i broke up with him when i went through his phone and found that he was texting this chick telling her how sexy she was i mean he doesnt tell me that at all and i was like pissed off at that and on top of that i found a condom in his wallet this is not the first time that this has happened i left this time and im not turning back because he hurt me bad what should i do my heart is broken i been mith this guy for almost two yrs and i love him but he has been cheating on me i done forgave him i dont know how many times i left this time im just tired of it. dont feel bad cause its happen to me too it seem i gave in to much love and he didnt give the same percentage back i broke up with him when i went through his phone and found that he was texting this chick telling her how sexy she was i mean he doesnt tell me that at all and i was like pissed off at that and on top of that i found a condom in his wallet this is not the first time that this has happened i left this time and im not turning back because he hurt me bad what should i do

my heart is broken i been mith this guy for almost two yrs and i love him but he has been cheating on me i done forgave him i dont know how many times i left this time im just tired of it.

]]> By: grace http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-2425 grace Sun, 06 Jul 2008 05:34:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-2425 I am breaking up in tow weeks and I plan to write a letter sometimes that is the best when you feel things may get violent or the other person is going to try to talk you out of it. I am breaking up in tow weeks and I plan to write a letter sometimes that is the best when you feel things may get violent or the other person is going to try to talk you out of it.

]]> By: bella http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-1908 bella Sun, 27 Apr 2008 22:08:48 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-1908 If someone can please give me some advice on how to break up with my boyfriend. We have only been together for 4 months but it feels like forever... hes a really nice guy and he gets me whatever I want but im starting to feel he is just buying my affection. I dont find myself attracted to him at all and since we got together he doesnt have a life of his own. Im a 20 year old female with a two year old daughter, I told him when we got together I wanted to take it slow because I had been going through alot of stress and pain from my last boyfriend. Everything was good for the first week, now it just feels like he never wants to go home and he calls every hour when hes not at my house. I know it sounds pretty simple and i should just leave him, but its difficult for me to tell him this. How can I put it in a nicer way? If someone can please give me some advice on how to break up with my boyfriend. We have only been together for 4 months but it feels like forever… hes a really nice guy and he gets me whatever I want but im starting to feel he is just buying my affection. I dont find myself attracted to him at all and since we got together he doesnt have a life of his own. Im a 20 year old female with a two year old daughter, I told him when we got together I wanted to take it slow because I had been going through alot of stress and pain from my last boyfriend. Everything was good for the first week, now it just feels like he never wants to go home and he calls every hour when hes not at my house. I know it sounds pretty simple and i should just leave him, but its difficult for me to tell him this. How can I put it in a nicer way?

]]> By: Jaime http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/comment-page-1/#comment-1356 Jaime Mon, 25 Feb 2008 00:16:22 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/#comment-1356 The 10 steps really helped me out on what my man is doing. Now I see that he might be trying to end it with me. And here I feel it is all my fault but, it is not. He is just wishy washy and needs to grow up a lot more before he really decides what he wants in a relationship and I really guess it is not me. The 10 steps really helped me out on what my man is doing. Now I see that he might be trying to end it with me. And here I feel it is all my fault but, it is not. He is just wishy washy and needs to grow up a lot more before he really decides what he wants in a relationship and I really guess it is not me.

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