Comments on: 10 Positive Break Up Quotes And What We Can Learn From Them

By: kylee

kylee — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 15:52:36 +0000

well u deserve it if u broke her heart!!! Dont play with girls hearts!!! they will play with yours ever worse!!!

By: Toya

Toya — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:43:05 +0000

I feel better now I working on myself now and loving myself I'm trying to workout get really fit and go to school and just get my life good and confidence up BUT he called me and I ignored it and I didn't call him back I guess he was expecting me to do that . He called for two days straight I kept hitting the ignore button. he also send me a message on myspace saying I need to tell you something. He even took the pic of him and the girl off and put just him. I ignored everything cause right now its just to painful to talk or look at him. He makes me sick Oh yeah he gave up after those two days and put the pic of him and the girl back up guess he thinks Im stupid its whatever I'm totally done So until I find the one...I'll be sitting here with a loaded gun protecting my heart so it doesn't get broken apart again

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By: leese

leese — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 09:47:41 +0000

@iamhurt - I feel your pain. My boyfriend just broke it off with me after 5 years. I've been a miserable cow for the past week. Not eating, sleeping, and crying my heart out. What i found that worked was to be distracted by friends or working out. I swear i thought i was gonna die but you just have to hold your head up high and move forward with your life. It may suck and you feel like nothing is gonna get better unless your back with him but man i tell you. ITS OKAY. Time will pass by and it's their loss :)

reply | @iamhurt<\/a> - \r\n\r\nI feel your pain. My boyfriend just broke it off with me after 5 years. I\'ve been a miserable cow for the past week. Not eating, sleeping, and crying my heart out. What i found that worked was to be distracted by friends or working out. I swear i thought i was gonna die but you just have to hold your head up high and move forward with your life. It may suck and you feel like nothing is gonna get better unless your back with him but man i tell you. ITS OKAY. Time will pass by and it\'s their loss :)'); return false;">quote

By: Kelly

Kelly — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 23:16:39 +0000

@iamhurt - IAMHURT...i am going thru the exact with my ex. I known him for 4 years and even unknowingly gotten pregnant by him and lost our baby. I was there for him when his mom died and every other time he needed me. Only to find out he was doing his thang on the side with a gurl with half the beauty and class i had. I broke up with him even though i was still sleeping wit him from time to time, which only made my feelings hurt, made me sad all the time, and even lowered my self esteem and confidence. I literally did not wish 2 live without him. He told me he loved both of us and that we were a like in every way and that he couldnt choose. He wanted me and her, but I realized and told him that he couldnt love 2 people and that he didnt love me bc if he did we wouldnt be were we were. I told him I would make it easy for him and i left him alone. I could not b his gf here and she b his gf up there so i left him alone. I know it was the right thing to do but I still feel like im hurt,sad and lonely. I dont know now if im capable of ever feeling love or giving it again after all he was my first real love.

reply | @iamhurt<\/a> - IAMHURT...i am going thru the exact with my ex. I known him for 4 years and even unknowingly gotten pregnant by him and lost our baby. I was there for him when his mom died and every other time he needed me. Only to find out he was doing his thang on the side with a gurl with half the beauty and class i had. I broke up with him even though i was still sleeping wit him from time to time, which only made my feelings hurt, made me sad all the time, and even lowered my self esteem and confidence. I literally did not wish 2 live without him. He told me he loved both of us and that we were a like in every way and that he couldnt choose. He wanted me and her, but I realized and told him that he couldnt love 2 people and that he didnt love me bc if he did we wouldnt be were we were. I told him I would make it easy for him and i left him alone. I could not b his gf here and she b his gf up there so i left him alone. I know it was the right thing to do but I still feel like im hurt,sad and lonely. I dont know now if im capable of ever feeling love or giving it again after all he was my first real love. '); return false;">quote

By: Toya

Toya — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 22:38:51 +0000

I was with my boyfriend for 3 years In the middle of our relationship I move far away because I felt stuck where we were and the economy was bad i tried to find a better job so maybe he can move up with me but I moved back after 2 months and everything felt to different he acted different he treated me so bad when I came back I felt terrible because it was only 2 months and I moved back because it was to hard so instead of welcoming me he told me to go back we kept arguing from there plus he befriended his cousin in law and spend more time with her than me he also hardly talk to me on the phone during the 2 months I was away he treated me so bad I broke up with him during the time of the break up I was feeling desperately lonely and I met this guy and hooked up with him I felt bad about it and stop talking to him then my ex found out and said I cheated on him and started acting hysterical he said in his head it wasn't over I moved away far and we didn't talk for awhile I sent him a hate email during the time his internet was off few months later he emailed me back saying he still loved me we talked then I said don't call me no more than awhile after that we started talking again talking over getting back together we talk and talked up to this point we got into a argument he ignored me and a week later he posted picture of him and another girl hugged up on myspace talk about cold blooded he was filling me up until he could break me with that he got revenge on me and it hurts so much because everything I did I loved him now I'm sitting here filling stupid cause i should have never got with him cause I feel like the whole time he didn't love me I'm a fool in love He hurt me so bad its like somebody shattered my chest and back open and i can't stop crying I'm trying to work out to clear my mind but I really need someone to talk to my family won't talk all they will say is I told you to stay away from him I feel all alone someone please help me

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By: slynns

slynns — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 23:30:42 +0000

@casey - He's not worth you if he were a fool to let you go. Just like I did, move on! It may be hard but it's worth it. Never give up!

reply | @casey<\/a> - \r\nHe\'s not worth you if he were a fool to let you go. Just like I did, move on! It may be hard but it\'s worth it. Never give up!'); return false;">quote

By: melanie

melanie — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 21:57:24 +0000

and if you have to leave i wish that you would just leave cause your presence still lingers here and it wont leave me alone

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By: Dan Hatcher

Dan Hatcher — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 17:25:54 +0000

@iamhurt - It sometimes seems like the end of something but it's not. Through divorce I learned that I was able to spend time with someone, grow with them, learn and exchange and it made me a better person. It didn't feel good when it was over but, it could have been alot worse. I think getting to know myself and spending time with friends really helped. Of course there were those who would say- "Well there's two sides to every story", looking back I realized their judgemental attitude was because they didn't want to deal with any problems. If you act like there's no problem everyone seems to be OK with anything. But at home is where you can cry and let your support system be there for you until you feel strong enough to start back walking. Why spend your time though with someone that is selfish and thrives on trauma when you can eat a banana split and go to the mall with friends. Hope this encourages you- I've had a number of years of experience and like to share the ups and downs along my path.

reply | @iamhurt<\/a> - It sometimes seems like the end of something but it\'s not. Through divorce I learned that I was able to spend time with someone, grow with them, learn and exchange and it made me a better person. It didn\'t feel good when it was over but, it could have been alot worse. I think getting to know myself and spending time with friends really helped. Of course there were those who would say- \"Well there\'s two sides to every story\", looking back I realized their judgemental attitude was because they didn\'t want to deal with any problems. If you act like there\'s no problem everyone seems to be OK with anything. But at home is where you can cry and let your support system be there for you until you feel strong enough to start back walking. Why spend your time though with someone that is selfish and thrives on trauma when you can eat a banana split and go to the mall with friends. Hope this encourages you- I\'ve had a number of years of experience and like to share the ups and downs along my path.'); return false;">quote

By: Christinnna

Christinnna — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 01:49:50 +0000

My bestfriend has been dating this boy for like, ever . I can 't stand to see her with him . All he does is cheat and she isn 't strong enough to let go . I need advice .

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By: Diego

Diego — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 19:54:40 +0000

@casey - hello casey, i am sorry to hear what happened to you. i too have had this happened to me on january 6,2010. my life came crumbling down on that day. i was very much in love and i had held a relationship for a year and a half. it was on december 26 2009 taht i decided to take that extra step. i asked her to marry me on that day. even though i knew that we did fight but what great couple doesnt. we always got through the hard times and we couldnt go 10 sec with out talking to each other. i basically recreated out first date when i proposed and on the same spot where we irst kissed i got on my knee and asked her to spend the rest of her life with me. she said yes and i was very happy and so was she. even though i am 19 about to turn 20 and she is 18 i knew that i wanted her to be the one that i wanted to be with. at the time my parents didnt agree with me getting married soo young and not having the support of my paernts brought me down. but i never stopped the plans of us getting married. prior to us getting engaged we had gone shopping to almost 800 dollars worth of appliances and things for when we moved out. we basically had a set goal. we wanted to have something when we moved out and not be with nothing. well on january 6,2010 we had a agruement that morning. that mornign i was to go to her house at 9 am sharp and ask her dad for her hand. i was infront of her house on the phone 5 min prior of me walking into her door. the last thing i told her was she need to control her anger and learn to drop things that had no importance. she then said to me i am done. with everything. she broke up with me and broke the engagement off. i waited 15 min or so and knocked on her door. she then opened it and i saw her dad and mom sitting down and my x had her eyes ballin. she told me i was no longer welcomed att her house and that she didnt want anything to do with me. i told her that she didnt want to do this she said she did and it was over and she kicked me out. i left. i gave her 4 days and unfortunately we worked together. i talked to her the following week, she3 had changed her hair color and started to wear contacts. i sat down with her at the job before we closed and she told me in my face that her new look was for her new life that she didnt love me that she didnt want to be with me... i my head i asked my self how can this be possible over a week...and that thing is that she was smiling while she said this... it hurt me soo bad.i quit my job of 5 years because i couldnt work with her... till this day i have not spoken to her. believe me their is not a second i dont think about her but we all must learn to say this to our selfs... what gives that other person the right to tell me what i am worth. noone has the right to tell u what your worth. the only person is yourself. we dont need that person to live life. its like a habit. u and i were used to seeing that person everyday and u grew costome to that. we must break that habit and try to keep our mind in the state of what can i do to improve my self. not for his or her sake but for mine. if that person took the privalige of love then why should you give them the satisfction of them seeing you distraught in depression. its not worth it ur not keeping ur pride ur keeping ur mind healthy. depression leads you to do stupid things. i miss her i really do and i know that the person whom talked to me that tusday and said to me i dont love you wasnt her. unfortunately we listen to the person that influences us the most and that is our parents. she is listening to her mother and i know that all her mom is doing is blind folding her so that she wont be hurting. honestly i am a great guy i really am the people that know me know that i am respctful and mature for which is becoming a pediatric nurse, and even though i have 2 years to go i am going to stick to my goal. its hard o keep your head up but trust me its not impossible, keep in mind that its not that u lost something he or she were the ones who lost something greater. Keeping ur faith and going closer to god helps alot!! there is a quote that i saw on the internet that i told to my x a while back that i know made her open her eyes to some extent and i hope to god that she opens her eyes before its too late. "Watching you walk out of my life doesnt make me bitter or cynical about love, but rather it makes me realize that if i wanted to be with the wrong person all this time, how beautiful will my life be when the right person comes along?" this quote is strong in so many ways. beileve in urself and believe in god. ull get past it one way or another. whether its with him or in my case her in our lives. GOD is all powerful and he gives us what we need to make us stronger not to make us weaker. i hope that my story helps(i know its a novel hahah) . take care and keep ur head up.

reply | @casey<\/a> - hello casey,\r\ni am sorry to hear what happened to you. i too have had this happened to me on january 6,2010. my life came crumbling down on that day. i was very much in love and i had held a relationship for a year and a half. it was on december 26 2009 taht i decided to take that extra step. i asked her to marry me on that day. even though i knew that we did fight but what great couple doesnt. we always got through the hard times and we couldnt go 10 sec with out talking to each other. i basically recreated out first date when i proposed and on the same spot where we irst kissed i got on my knee and asked her to spend the rest of her life with me. she said yes and i was very happy and so was she. even though i am 19 about to turn 20 and she is 18 i knew that i wanted her to be the one that i wanted to be with. at the time my parents didnt agree with me getting married soo young and not having the support of my paernts brought me down. but i never stopped the plans of us getting married. prior to us getting engaged we had gone shopping to almost 800 dollars worth of appliances and things for when we moved out. we basically had a set goal. we wanted to have something when we moved out and not be with nothing. well on january 6,2010 we had a agruement that morning. that mornign i was to go to her house at 9 am sharp and ask her dad for her hand. i was infront of her house on the phone 5 min prior of me walking into her door. the last thing i told her was she need to control her anger and learn to drop things that had no importance. she then said to me i am done. with everything. she broke up with me and broke the engagement off. i waited 15 min or so and knocked on her door. she then opened it and i saw her dad and mom sitting down and my x had her eyes ballin. she told me i was no longer welcomed att her house and that she didnt want anything to do with me. i told her that she didnt want to do this she said she did and it was over and she kicked me out. i left. i gave her 4 days and unfortunately we worked together. i talked to her the following week, she3 had changed her hair color and started to wear contacts. i sat down with her at the job before we closed and she told me in my face that her new look was for her new life that she didnt love me that she didnt want to be with me... i my head i asked my self how can this be possible over a week...and that thing is that she was smiling while she said this... it hurt me soo bad.i quit my job of 5 years because i couldnt work with her... till this day i have not spoken to her. believe me their is not a second i dont think about her but we all must learn to say this to our selfs... what gives that other person the right to tell me what i am worth. noone has the right to tell u what your worth. the only person is yourself. we dont need that person to live life. its like a habit. u and i were used to seeing that person everyday and u grew costome to that. we must break that habit and try to keep our mind in the state of what can i do to improve my self. not for his or her sake but for mine. if that person took the privalige of love then why should you give them the satisfction of them seeing you distraught in depression. its not worth it ur not keeping ur pride ur keeping ur mind healthy. depression leads you to do stupid things. i miss her i really do and i know that the person whom talked to me that tusday and said to me i dont love you wasnt her. unfortunately we listen to the person that influences us the most and that is our parents. she is listening to her mother and i know that all her mom is doing is blind folding her so that she wont be hurting. honestly i am a great guy i really am the people that know me know that i am respctful and mature for which is becoming a pediatric nurse, and even though i have 2 years to go i am going to stick to my goal. its hard o keep your head up but trust me its not impossible, keep in mind that its not that u lost something he or she were the ones who lost something greater. Keeping ur faith and going closer to god helps alot!! there is a quote that i saw on the internet that i told to my x a while back that i know made her open her eyes to some extent and i hope to god that she opens her eyes before its too late. \"Watching you walk out of my life doesnt make me bitter or cynical about love, but rather it makes me realize that if i wanted to be with the wrong person all this time, how beautiful will my life be when the right person comes along?\" this quote is strong in so many ways. beileve in urself and believe in god. ull get past it one way or another. whether its with him or in my case her in our lives. GOD is all powerful and he gives us what we need to make us stronger not to make us weaker. i hope that my story helps(i know its a novel hahah) . take care and keep ur head up.'); return false;">quote