Comments on: 10 Rules To Make Long Distance Relationships Work http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:45:08 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: holly http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/comment-page-6/#comment-5536 holly Fri, 06 Nov 2009 22:58:29 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/#comment-5536 <a href='#comment-5465' rel="nofollow">@-XchelsX-</a> - hey well i think i would have done the same thing to be completely honest like idk i get a lil jealous when i think he is talk in to other girls i have had that happen to me b4 with my ex huband..well me and my bf have been together for like a month now and we r like head over heels for each other but we havent told it bluntly lol but one day i had his phone and there was a pic of a blonde girl well a message had poped up and it said well i seen u on sat with that girl u was all over that B..ch i was like omg what the world u know well i asked him about it and him being hispanic he said it was his friends u know he had to txt the girl bc his friend couldnt spell enlish i was so upset i called a guy friend had him come pick me up and everything i was crying abd well come to find out he as tell the truth but the lesson i learned is a guy is a guy if he is looking then maybe its just to see what he truly has i mean my bf will look at a girl and then look at me and say im the best he will ever meet well i hope i helped u out what im trying t o say is .......when u see a cute guy not u at least glance??? see dont get mad at every little thing it will ruin ur relationship bad!!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5536','holly'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5536','holly','<a href=\'#comment-5465\' rel=\"nofollow\">@-XchelsX-<\/a> -\n\nhey well i think i would have done the same thing to be completely honest like idk i get a lil jealous when i think he is talk in to other girls i have had that happen to me b4 with my ex huband..well me and my bf have been together for like a month now and we r like head over heels for each other but we havent told it bluntly lol but one day i had his phone and there was a pic of a blonde girl well a message had poped up and it said well i seen u on sat with that girl u was all over that B..ch i was like omg what the world u know well i asked him about it and him being hispanic he said it was his friends u know he had to txt the girl bc his friend couldnt spell enlish i was so upset i called a guy friend had him come pick me up and everything i was crying abd well come to find out he as tell the truth but the lesson i learned is a guy is a guy if he is looking then maybe its just to see what he truly has i mean my bf will look at a girl and then look at me and say im the best he will ever meet well i hope i helped u out what im trying t o say is .......when u see a cute guy not u at least glance??? see dont get mad at every little thing it will ruin ur relationship bad!!'); return false;">quote</a></div> @-XchelsX- -

hey well i think i would have done the same thing to be completely honest like idk i get a lil jealous when i think he is talk in to other girls i have had that happen to me b4 with my ex huband..well me and my bf have been together for like a month now and we r like head over heels for each other but we havent told it bluntly lol but one day i had his phone and there was a pic of a blonde girl well a message had poped up and it said well i seen u on sat with that girl u was all over that B..ch i was like omg what the world u know well i asked him about it and him being hispanic he said it was his friends u know he had to txt the girl bc his friend couldnt spell enlish i was so upset i called a guy friend had him come pick me up and everything i was crying abd well come to find out he as tell the truth but the lesson i learned is a guy is a guy if he is looking then maybe its just to see what he truly has i mean my bf will look at a girl and then look at me and say im the best he will ever meet well i hope i helped u out what im trying t o say is …….when u see a cute guy not u at least glance??? see dont get mad at every little thing it will ruin ur relationship bad!!

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]]> By: Yvette http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/comment-page-6/#comment-5512 Yvette Mon, 02 Nov 2009 12:56:23 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/#comment-5512 I've been in a LDR for 2 and a half years, 5 months of that time moved to his state and lived with him. I missed my family and decided to go back home. We ended but 3 wks after I left we are now back on and in 3 months he's coming back to my home state where we met to stay for good. We met while we were working together, he was attending school, graduated and had no choice to move back home. Its a struggle but our love keeps us going. You have to be strong and have a lot of trust to be in this kind of relationship. Its not easy, but what is.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5512','Yvette'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5512','Yvette','I\'ve been in a LDR for 2 and a half years, 5 months of that time moved to his state and lived with him. I missed my family and decided to go back home. We ended but 3 wks after I left we are now back on and in 3 months he\'s coming back to my home state where we met to stay for good. We met while we were working together, he was attending school, graduated and had no choice to move back home. Its a struggle but our love keeps us going. You have to be strong and have a lot of trust to be in this kind of relationship. Its not easy, but what is.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I’ve been in a LDR for 2 and a half years, 5 months of that time moved to his state and lived with him. I missed my family and decided to go back home. We ended but 3 wks after I left we are now back on and in 3 months he’s coming back to my home state where we met to stay for good. We met while we were working together, he was attending school, graduated and had no choice to move back home. Its a struggle but our love keeps us going. You have to be strong and have a lot of trust to be in this kind of relationship. Its not easy, but what is.
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]]> By: Melissa http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/comment-page-6/#comment-5482 Melissa Mon, 26 Oct 2009 21:10:16 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/#comment-5482 Great article. My boyfriend actually found this a few months ago.. I wish he found this 3 years ago... would have saved soo much pain. Me and my LD have been on and off for 3 years. This time around we've stayed together for 5 mouths as of the 8th. We are extremely happy right now, he'll be coming to see me for the first time in 8 months. I met him on chatpit.. Many people dont think this can work.. bc there is no or very little physical contact. Personally, being bi polar. Long distance relationships are alot easier for me because of that. You get to know the actually person inside.. and then when you get your chance.. you can get to know them on the outside.. you know what i mean ? I think you should like.. post this on like myspace and facebook, make it known that LDR's can work.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5482','Melissa'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5482','Melissa','Great article.\r\nMy boyfriend actually found this a few months ago.. \r\nI wish he found this 3 years ago... would have saved soo much pain. \r\n\r\nMe and my LD have been on and off for 3 years. This time around we\'ve stayed together for 5 mouths as of the 8th. We are extremely happy right now, he\'ll be coming to see me for the first time in 8 months. I met him on chatpit.. \r\nMany people dont think this can work.. bc there is no or very little physical contact. Personally, being bi polar. Long distance relationships are alot easier for me because of that. You get to know the actually person inside.. and then when you get your chance.. you can get to know them on the outside.. you know what i mean ?\r\n\r\nI think you should like.. post this on like myspace and facebook, make it known that LDR\'s can work.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Great article.
My boyfriend actually found this a few months ago..
I wish he found this 3 years ago… would have saved soo much pain.

Me and my LD have been on and off for 3 years. This time around we’ve stayed together for 5 mouths as of the 8th. We are extremely happy right now, he’ll be coming to see me for the first time in 8 months. I met him on chatpit..
Many people dont think this can work.. bc there is no or very little physical contact. Personally, being bi polar. Long distance relationships are alot easier for me because of that. You get to know the actually person inside.. and then when you get your chance.. you can get to know them on the outside.. you know what i mean ?

I think you should like.. post this on like myspace and facebook, make it known that LDR’s can work.

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]]> By: anonymous http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/comment-page-6/#comment-5466 anonymous Thu, 22 Oct 2009 21:34:42 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/#comment-5466 <a href='#comment-5465' rel="nofollow">@-XchelsX-</a> Hey i just got out of a long distance relationship. and well all i can really tell u is that Boys will be boys and watch that kind of stuff you know, but they will hit the age when they will soon realize to grow up and stop u know? but be carful with the guy haha.. might end up breakin ur heart<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5466','anonymous'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5466','anonymous','<a href=\'#comment-5465\' rel=\"nofollow\">@-XchelsX-<\/a>\r\n\r\nHey i just got out of a long distance relationship. and well all i can really tell u is that Boys will be boys and watch that kind of stuff you know, but they will hit the age when they will soon realize to grow up and stop u know? but be carful with the guy haha.. might end up breakin ur heart'); return false;">quote</a></div> @-XchelsX-

Hey i just got out of a long distance relationship. and well all i can really tell u is that Boys will be boys and watch that kind of stuff you know, but they will hit the age when they will soon realize to grow up and stop u know? but be carful with the guy haha.. might end up breakin ur heart

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]]> By: -XchelsX- http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/comment-page-6/#comment-5465 -XchelsX- Thu, 22 Oct 2009 13:40:42 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/#comment-5465 Hi to everyone who reads this. I need a little help. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and we just had our first MAJOR argument last night. Sure, we've had discussion where we dont see eye to eye, but it seems those differences bring us closer. Not this time. I felt disrespected because of a video he favourited on YouTube. It was a bunch of barely legal girls dancing like... Well, it was very inappropriate and they barely had clothes. Thats saying a lot coming from me, since Im 18. Well, I brought it up with him and he kind of flipped. I explained to him how I felt. That by favouriting that, or even watching it, he was somewhat lusting for those girls. Did he want me to dress like that or did he wish I looked like that? I dont know. I told him all of my thoughts, how I felt disrespected, and how it really bothered me and he wasnt being empathetic at all. Nor sympathetic. In the end, I was the one that ended up apologizing so it wouldn't lead to a break up. He says I threw everything out of proportion and I never said anything before when he was watching "other" videos *hint, hint* via the internet. Was I wrong and did I throw everything out of proportion? I just need some advice and anyones thoughts on this, please. And thanks to all who may help. Big thanks to Eddie! This site had been an amazing help and guide for me. Its never let me down before.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5465','-XchelsX-'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5465','-XchelsX-','Hi to everyone who reads this.\r\n\r\nI need a little help. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and we just had our first MAJOR argument last night. Sure, we\'ve had discussion where we dont see eye to eye, but it seems those differences bring us closer. Not this time. I felt disrespected because of a video he favourited on YouTube. It was a bunch of barely legal girls dancing like... Well, it was very inappropriate and they barely had clothes. Thats saying a lot coming from me, since Im 18.\r\n\r\nWell, I brought it up with him and he kind of flipped. I explained to him how I felt. That by favouriting that, or even watching it, he was somewhat lusting for those girls. Did he want me to dress like that or did he wish I looked like that? I dont know. \r\n\r\nI told him all of my thoughts, how I felt disrespected, and how it really bothered me and he wasnt being empathetic at all. Nor sympathetic. In the end, I was the one that ended up apologizing so it wouldn\'t lead to a break up. He says I threw everything out of proportion and I never said anything before when he was watching \"other\" videos *hint, hint* via the internet.\r\n\r\nWas I wrong and did I throw everything out of proportion? \r\n\r\nI just need some advice and anyones thoughts on this, please. And thanks to all who may help.\r\n\r\nBig thanks to Eddie! This site had been an amazing help and guide for me. Its never let me down before.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Hi to everyone who reads this.

I need a little help. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and we just had our first MAJOR argument last night. Sure, we’ve had discussion where we dont see eye to eye, but it seems those differences bring us closer. Not this time. I felt disrespected because of a video he favourited on YouTube. It was a bunch of barely legal girls dancing like… Well, it was very inappropriate and they barely had clothes. Thats saying a lot coming from me, since Im 18.

Well, I brought it up with him and he kind of flipped. I explained to him how I felt. That by favouriting that, or even watching it, he was somewhat lusting for those girls. Did he want me to dress like that or did he wish I looked like that? I dont know.

I told him all of my thoughts, how I felt disrespected, and how it really bothered me and he wasnt being empathetic at all. Nor sympathetic. In the end, I was the one that ended up apologizing so it wouldn’t lead to a break up. He says I threw everything out of proportion and I never said anything before when he was watching “other” videos *hint, hint* via the internet.

Was I wrong and did I throw everything out of proportion?

I just need some advice and anyones thoughts on this, please. And thanks to all who may help.

Big thanks to Eddie! This site had been an amazing help and guide for me. Its never let me down before.

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]]> By: Moniqah http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/comment-page-6/#comment-5464 Moniqah Thu, 22 Oct 2009 03:52:49 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/#comment-5464 Eddie... Great article!! It's always good to know that there are people like you who stay positive and provide positive feedback regarding long distance relationships! Everything you outlined in your article is true, LDR are not impossible, it's about being strong and believing in what you have. You gave practical, doable and legitimate advice! :)<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5464','Moniqah'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5464','Moniqah','Eddie...\r\n\r\nGreat article!! It\'s always good to know that there are people like you who stay positive and provide positive feedback regarding long distance relationships! Everything you outlined in your article is true, LDR are not impossible, it\'s about being strong and believing in what you have. You gave practical, doable and legitimate advice! :)'); return false;">quote</a></div> Eddie…

Great article!! It’s always good to know that there are people like you who stay positive and provide positive feedback regarding long distance relationships! Everything you outlined in your article is true, LDR are not impossible, it’s about being strong and believing in what you have. You gave practical, doable and legitimate advice! :)

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]]> By: Jan http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/comment-page-6/#comment-5421 Jan Sat, 10 Oct 2009 15:32:52 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/#comment-5421 I have a question for those that have a long term relationships. Sometimes when you are talking to each other it makes me wonder what others say to each other or how they always have something to talk about. To make a long story short I have been in a long distance relationship for about six months now and at the beginning we have been talking a lot basically sharing and learning about things from each other to the point where I basically learned everything about his life and he knows about mine. And now it has seem that when we talk there is less and less to talk about because we pretty much know what each other's day is like. I understand that it isn't necessarily to always have something to say to each other and that just the prescence of the person is enough at time but it makes it hard since I'm afraid that we might slowly drift apart. Another thing is that I have met this person online and with the way my schedule is and my family situations I can not see this person for about another year or maybe until August of next year.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5421','Jan'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5421','Jan','I have a question for those that have a long term relationships. Sometimes when you are talking to each other it makes me wonder what others say to each other or how they always have something to talk about. To make a long story short I have been in a long distance relationship for about six months now and at the beginning we have been talking a lot basically sharing and learning about things from each other to the point where I basically learned everything about his life and he knows about mine. And now it has seem that when we talk there is less and less to talk about because we pretty much know what each other\'s day is like. I understand that it isn\'t necessarily to always have something to say to each other and that just the prescence of the person is enough at time but it makes it hard since I\'m afraid that we might slowly drift apart. Another thing is that I have met this person online and with the way my schedule is and my family situations I can not see this person for about another year or maybe until August of next year.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I have a question for those that have a long term relationships. Sometimes when you are talking to each other it makes me wonder what others say to each other or how they always have something to talk about. To make a long story short I have been in a long distance relationship for about six months now and at the beginning we have been talking a lot basically sharing and learning about things from each other to the point where I basically learned everything about his life and he knows about mine. And now it has seem that when we talk there is less and less to talk about because we pretty much know what each other’s day is like. I understand that it isn’t necessarily to always have something to say to each other and that just the prescence of the person is enough at time but it makes it hard since I’m afraid that we might slowly drift apart. Another thing is that I have met this person online and with the way my schedule is and my family situations I can not see this person for about another year or maybe until August of next year.
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]]> By: kim sharma http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/comment-page-6/#comment-5406 kim sharma Wed, 07 Oct 2009 14:25:50 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/#comment-5406 hi jen, i understand your feelings but you should talk to him straightway that what does he want . You should ask him that which type of relationship he is expecting from you because it is going to be much easier for you in future if you guys have set up everything before because one side dedication doesn't work for so long so it's better to face the truth rather knowing the truth but trying to deny it. hope you will think practically about this<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5406','kim sharma'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5406','kim sharma','hi jen,\r\n\r\ni understand your feelings but you should talk to him straightway that what does he want . You should ask him that which type of relationship he is expecting from you because it is going to be much easier for you in future if you guys have set up everything before because one side dedication doesn\'t work for so long so it\'s better to face the truth rather knowing the truth but trying to deny it.\r\n\r\nhope you will think practically about this'); return false;">quote</a></div> hi jen,

i understand your feelings but you should talk to him straightway that what does he want . You should ask him that which type of relationship he is expecting from you because it is going to be much easier for you in future if you guys have set up everything before because one side dedication doesn’t work for so long so it’s better to face the truth rather knowing the truth but trying to deny it.

hope you will think practically about this

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]]> By: Jen http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/comment-page-6/#comment-5396 Jen Tue, 06 Oct 2009 03:53:20 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/#comment-5396 There is something truly special about long distance relationships. As frustrating as it may be sometimes it is always worth it in the end. My boyfriend is in the Marine Corps and I am in my 4th yr of college. We are each doing our own thing seperately, and it's terribly difficult to be apart all of the time because of school, work, and deployments. When we are together there is nothing better. We cherish every minute we have together even if it's only for a weekend. I have to say that I definitely agree with all ten rules!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5396','Jen'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5396','Jen','There is something truly special about long distance relationships. As frustrating as it may be sometimes it is always worth it in the end. My boyfriend is in the Marine Corps and I am in my 4th yr of college. We are each doing our own thing seperately, and it\'s terribly difficult to be apart all of the time because of school, work, and deployments. When we are together there is nothing better. We cherish every minute we have together even if it\'s only for a weekend. I have to say that I definitely agree with all ten rules!'); return false;">quote</a></div> There is something truly special about long distance relationships. As frustrating as it may be sometimes it is always worth it in the end. My boyfriend is in the Marine Corps and I am in my 4th yr of college. We are each doing our own thing seperately, and it’s terribly difficult to be apart all of the time because of school, work, and deployments. When we are together there is nothing better. We cherish every minute we have together even if it’s only for a weekend. I have to say that I definitely agree with all ten rules!
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]]> By: jennifer http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/comment-page-6/#comment-5367 jennifer Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:54:54 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/#comment-5367 hi im 18 and i met my boyfriend in high school and we've been going out a little over a year now. and hes away at college and im still in the city. i trust him irly do with everything and i rly believe he wnt hurt me. but he doesn't feel the same way. he tells me he can't trust me and all these things. and he's the one going out to parties and drinking, dancing, and i'm thinking is it pissible to have too much trust in someone? i'M AFRAId of being hurt and i think that's the problem i'm jusst tooafriaid and i could be getting my heart broken and not even noticing it. wat do u think ?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5367','jennifer'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5367','jennifer','hi im 18 and i met my boyfriend in high school and we\'ve been going out a little over a year now. and hes away at college and im still in the city. i trust him irly do with everything and i rly believe he wnt hurt me. but he doesn\'t feel the same way. he tells me he can\'t trust me and all these things. and he\'s the one going out to parties and drinking, dancing, and i\'m thinking is it pissible to have too much trust in someone? i\'M AFRAId of being hurt and i think that\'s the problem i\'m jusst tooafriaid and i could be getting my heart broken and not even noticing it. wat do u think ?'); return false;">quote</a></div> hi im 18 and i met my boyfriend in high school and we’ve been going out a little over a year now. and hes away at college and im still in the city. i trust him irly do with everything and i rly believe he wnt hurt me. but he doesn’t feel the same way. he tells me he can’t trust me and all these things. and he’s the one going out to parties and drinking, dancing, and i’m thinking is it pissible to have too much trust in someone? i’M AFRAId of being hurt and i think that’s the problem i’m jusst tooafriaid and i could be getting my heart broken and not even noticing it. wat do u think ?
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