Comments on: 10 Things You Don’t Want To Hear From Your Ex http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:53:03 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: DK http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-6738 DK Wed, 10 Mar 2010 03:32:15 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-6738 <a href='#comment-6719' rel="nofollow">@tony</a> -As a woman, I have no clue what's wrong with this woman. I've never done anything like what you said she did. Sorry, I wish I could help. But on a personal level, she sounds really mixed up to me, friends whatever that's no biggy. Sometimes I wonder if these are all just games they play with us to see if we will profess our undying love, they really need to understand that that's not the way it works, and it's not fair. When someone says they lost that spark or they need time etc etc. it says they have doubts, how in the world do they expect you to start professing undying love after doing that? Makes no sense to me. <div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6738','DK'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6738','DK','<a href=\'#comment-6719\' rel=\"nofollow\">@tony<\/a> -As a woman, I have no clue what\'s wrong with this woman. I\'ve never done anything like what you said she did. Sorry, I wish I could help. But on a personal level, she sounds really mixed up to me, friends whatever that\'s no biggy. Sometimes I wonder if these are all just games they play with us to see if we will profess our undying love, they really need to understand that that\'s not the way it works, and it\'s not fair. When someone says they lost that spark or they need time etc etc. it says they have doubts, how in the world do they expect you to start professing undying love after doing that? Makes no sense to me. '); return false;">quote</a></div> @tony -As a woman, I have no clue what’s wrong with this woman. I’ve never done anything like what you said she did. Sorry, I wish I could help. But on a personal level, she sounds really mixed up to me, friends whatever that’s no biggy. Sometimes I wonder if these are all just games they play with us to see if we will profess our undying love, they really need to understand that that’s not the way it works, and it’s not fair. When someone says they lost that spark or they need time etc etc. it says they have doubts, how in the world do they expect you to start professing undying love after doing that? Makes no sense to me.
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]]> By: DK http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-6737 DK Wed, 10 Mar 2010 03:26:48 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-6737 <a href='#comment-6716' rel="nofollow">@Marilyn</a> - The part that got me was he'd lost that spark. I think that sums it up, mess on all that wishy washy other stuff. He's just playing you now. With your emotions and who god knows what else he's after really. A player? Say whatever you want then run back in whenever you want? Whatever...<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6737','DK'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6737','DK','<a href=\'#comment-6716\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Marilyn<\/a> - The part that got me was he\'d lost that spark. I think that sums it up, mess on all that wishy washy other stuff. He\'s just playing you now. With your emotions and who god knows what else he\'s after really. A player? Say whatever you want then run back in whenever you want? Whatever...'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Marilyn – The part that got me was he’d lost that spark. I think that sums it up, mess on all that wishy washy other stuff. He’s just playing you now. With your emotions and who god knows what else he’s after really. A player? Say whatever you want then run back in whenever you want? Whatever…
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]]> By: tony http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-6719 tony Mon, 08 Mar 2010 00:10:22 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-6719 <a href='#comment-4906' rel="nofollow">@Andy</a> - just heard every single one of thes over the course of about 3 weeks before i finally cut her off (sometimes i regret that because i miss her fiercely; she either wants me in her life on some level or wants me on a string). hope that you are doing well and have been able to move on.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6719','tony'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6719','tony','<a href=\'#comment-4906\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Andy<\/a> - \r\njust heard every single one of thes over the course of about 3 weeks before i finally cut her off (sometimes i regret that because i miss her fiercely; she either wants me in her life on some level or wants me on a string). hope that you are doing well and have been able to move on.'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Andy –
just heard every single one of thes over the course of about 3 weeks before i finally cut her off (sometimes i regret that because i miss her fiercely; she either wants me in her life on some level or wants me on a string). hope that you are doing well and have been able to move on.
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]]> By: tony http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-6718 tony Sun, 07 Mar 2010 23:59:46 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-6718 <a href='#comment-4543' rel="nofollow">@Lisalisa</a> - I am struggling with this same issue. my ex said that she hoped we could be friends and that we needed to give things a year to see "where our spirits take us" and each time she would reach out i would cling to hope that this meant she was holding onto me for the time when she was ready. if we have things to work on in order to grow, why can't we work on them together?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6718','tony'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6718','tony','<a href=\'#comment-4543\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Lisalisa<\/a> - \r\n\r\nI am struggling with this same issue. my ex said that she hoped we could be friends and that we needed to give things a year to see \"where our spirits take us\" and each time she would reach out i would cling to hope that this meant she was holding onto me for the time when she was ready. if we have things to work on in order to grow, why can\'t we work on them together?'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Lisalisa –

I am struggling with this same issue. my ex said that she hoped we could be friends and that we needed to give things a year to see “where our spirits take us” and each time she would reach out i would cling to hope that this meant she was holding onto me for the time when she was ready. if we have things to work on in order to grow, why can’t we work on them together?

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]]> By: Marilyn http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-6716 Marilyn Sun, 07 Mar 2010 19:46:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-6716 Background:

Both of us divorced (young adolescent kids getting ready to go off on their own) Me in school full time and after having to get through a terrible abusive relationship lasting 17 years and taking 4 years to find the courage to date again.

This is my first real relationship since then and it was a LD relationship.

The short story goes:

I haven’t seen him for a couple months just prior to a week in Vegas. When he gets back (we had contact everyday that he was gone with lots of “love you babe’s”) I pick him up at the same time having paper deadlines to finish and I take time out to spend time with him and really welcome him home then, for a second time in our relationship, he cuts off communication for no apparent reason, then why I ask why he texts back that ‘why is it I can’s just give him space…then there was other words but he may as well of had these in blaring neon “The spark is gone”. I ended that night’s conversation pretty quickly after that but first I got in a few FU’s. That night was restless and I spent the next day just doing homework and sitting silently with the pain…. then early that evening I got more texts and this is the conversation I chose to have:

Him: Do you still feel the same today?
Me: I’m trying to make my way through a philosophy book…my life will go on with or without you…I’m not sure what it is you want nor do I think you know either…you may be afraid of loosing something if your with me…shall I say freedom…so there is nothing I’m going to do to stop you…I’m not your keeper nor will I try…if you need time take all you want…like I said my life will go on…I want it to mean something to me so I will never give up on it…maybe its best we just let it go…I can’t do this anymore…its hard to find trust in a relationship that your not sure the other wants…and besides its to hard on my emotions to be wanted one day and ignored the rest…take the time to decide what it is you want in life…I may still be around or I may not but hopefully you will have discovered what it is you want…Are you ok?
Him: I guess you’re right in that I don’t know what I want…. I’m actually a wreck
Me: Just let it go…there’s nothing to get wrecked about…you’ll be fine eventually…then when your head is clear you’ll be free to figure out where you want to go from here…I’m not going to beg you to stay…it was always a choice you needed to make for yourself…however since its my feelings that are being tossed around with your indecisiveness it becomes my choice to let you do it to me or not…I choose not to live like that…nor do I think you want to either…we have to say good bye…and yes it hurts but it hurts equally as much if not more to leave it like this…give it time you’ll be fine and you’ll be free from the emotional upheaval that this relationship is causing…
Him: What is it that you want? What are your goals and dreams? You have made comments that there’s nothing holding you where you are … Doesn’t that create a lot of uncertainty for me as well? How am I to interpret all this? I’ve been wondering if I’m disposable when you decide what it is you want.
Me: Well all you had to do was ask me…instead you shut me out…I don’t know where I’m headed…I have school to finish…I set out to do it…its paid for so I’m going to finish…after that I don’t know…I have no plans…I guess I was just planning on going wherever my life takes me…after school I have to work…where or at what is too far in the future for me to see…but it was something I wished we could have talked about but when I brought it up all you could do was go silent and run…and no I have never thought you were disposable…hoping on flexible but never disposable
Him: Well that is what I want to be – flexible. I have no idea of where I’ll be in the future neither and am willing to just go with the flow so to speak, to a certain point. There are practical things, which I must plan for, such as a place to live that is not dependent upon being in [this work]. The writing is on the wall as far as my long-term continuation of what I do. And in all honesty that scares the hell out of me … All I know to do is [this work].

Me: Don’t you have bowling tonight?

(Ok in all honesty I switched the conversation here by not responding to his uncertainties. He could have brought them up way before this. Now I really don’t care what or what he doesn’t want or need or is confused about. Aren’t we all at times in our lives, is that a reason to just shut your feelings off? I don’t think so.)

Him: I’m not going. [Friend] and I went to the [restaurant] for supper and I couldn’t even finish one beer … It just started my guts churning so I’m staying home and trying to find something brainless to watch on tv and hopefully fall asleep

(Wants sympathy that I don’t have to give him)

Me: I didn’t go to class either…this mornings class was cancelled…but I am trying to get through some homework…and I’m trying to just stay calm…there is nothing I can do to change things so I’m just going to surrender to it and let it be…getting angry or falling into an emotional wreck just means I’m trying to control what is not in my control…basically just being still with the hurt…
Him: I’m sorry
Me: Don’t be…I’m not sorry I met you…just let me go …and don’t feel guilty I’ll be fine
Him: I know you’ll be fine as you’re a very strong lady … Its me that I’m worried about … For I do love you very deeply and I don’t know if I can go on without you

(I love you so deeply but “there is no spark” – This one isn’t worth a response and “I need space” – How much more space do you need was the last 2 months not enough?)

Me: You were doing perfectly fine before me and you will again…seems to me your problems started because you were with me…
Him: Not at all
Me: I’ll leave you be with your homework :*
Him: … That’s for now … Not permanently

(It’s permanent for me…I have set up the NC (No Contact) strategy and plan on sticking to it…after my silent retreat, Me, myself and I have all agreed that we will not be treated in such a manner and plan on putting one foot in front of the other and continue on. Looking back, I saw it coming I read the signs and figured I’d be the one to not act in a cowardice way by taking control of my life and making decisions that are in my best interest. The love and trust are gone, I will not beg for someone to love me for I love myself enough already. So if I’m going to be in a relationship then I want one in which “Love is the responsibility of an I for a You”. One that brings me joy to do things for another, not wanting to change them, liking everything about them (even the things I don’t like), feeling loved whether together or apart, putting an effort into making two ways of living into a respected and honored one way and hopefully they will reciprocate by finding joy in doing these things as well…If loving someone becomes a burden it wasn’t really love in the first place because there was never a time that you let the other be a subject (instead of an object) long enough in order to feel their true essence as a person…Now I say up and on with LIFE!)

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]]> By: tony http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-6711 tony Sun, 07 Mar 2010 01:04:32 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-6711 I had found the one that i thought i was going to marry. i knew that she had fears about commitment because she had been married and left with a 7-month old baby, so I avoided the subject of marriage. after one year of dating, much of which consisted of time at home with her daughter, she began saying things like excited she gets about the thought of marrying me one day. she even had a conversation with her daughter, in front of me, about having a baby sister very soon. so, a few days later i bring up the idea of marriage, just to see where she stands and if she is more comfortable with the idea. she says that she is not, but a couple of days later tells me that she is falling in love with me all over again (to reassure me that she still wants to be with me) and a few nights later, she breaks up with me with vague comments about just being confused about what she wants. the next day she sends me a text about how she knows she is giving up a whole hell of a lot in me and kicking herself in the ass for breaking up with me, but that she knows it has to be this way right now. she also tells me that she is hopeful we can come back together some day but that she knows it can't happen now. she tells me that she is not yet ready for commitment and i can't help asking "why would you tell me how excited you were about the thought of marrying me and ask your daughter about having a sister or brother soon. about a week later she texts me again to tell me how depressed she is since breaking up with me and how she has realized so many things that she missed about me, but that she still doesn't think we should be together right now. another week passes and she emails me to tell me that she has gotten on medication for bipolar disorder and that everything is so much clearer to her now....and that her daughter asks about me all of the time since we broke up. what is this person's deal? everything she has done or said has served to keep me hanging on. is this her purpose? and for what?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6711','tony'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6711','tony','I had found the one that i thought i was going to marry. i knew that she had fears about commitment because she had been married and left with a 7-month old baby, so I avoided the subject of marriage. after one year of dating, much of which consisted of time at home with her daughter, she began saying things like excited she gets about the thought of marrying me one day. she even had a conversation with her daughter, in front of me, about having a baby sister very soon. so, a few days later i bring up the idea of marriage, just to see where she stands and if she is more comfortable with the idea. she says that she is not, but a couple of days later tells me that she is falling in love with me all over again (to reassure me that she still wants to be with me) and a few nights later, she breaks up with me with vague comments about just being confused about what she wants. the next day she sends me a text about how she knows she is giving up a whole hell of a lot in me and kicking herself in the ass for breaking up with me, but that she knows it has to be this way right now. she also tells me that she is hopeful we can come back together some day but that she knows it can\'t happen now. she tells me that she is not yet ready for commitment and i can\'t help asking \"why would you tell me how excited you were about the thought of marrying me and ask your daughter about having a sister or brother soon. about a week later she texts me again to tell me how depressed she is since breaking up with me and how she has realized so many things that she missed about me, but that she still doesn\'t think we should be together right now. another week passes and she emails me to tell me that she has gotten on medication for bipolar disorder and that everything is so much clearer to her now....and that her daughter asks about me all of the time since we broke up.\r\nwhat is this person\'s deal? everything she has done or said has served to keep me hanging on. is this her purpose? and for what?'); return false;">quote</a></div> I had found the one that i thought i was going to marry. i knew that she had fears about commitment because she had been married and left with a 7-month old baby, so I avoided the subject of marriage. after one year of dating, much of which consisted of time at home with her daughter, she began saying things like excited she gets about the thought of marrying me one day. she even had a conversation with her daughter, in front of me, about having a baby sister very soon. so, a few days later i bring up the idea of marriage, just to see where she stands and if she is more comfortable with the idea. she says that she is not, but a couple of days later tells me that she is falling in love with me all over again (to reassure me that she still wants to be with me) and a few nights later, she breaks up with me with vague comments about just being confused about what she wants. the next day she sends me a text about how she knows she is giving up a whole hell of a lot in me and kicking herself in the ass for breaking up with me, but that she knows it has to be this way right now. she also tells me that she is hopeful we can come back together some day but that she knows it can’t happen now. she tells me that she is not yet ready for commitment and i can’t help asking “why would you tell me how excited you were about the thought of marrying me and ask your daughter about having a sister or brother soon. about a week later she texts me again to tell me how depressed she is since breaking up with me and how she has realized so many things that she missed about me, but that she still doesn’t think we should be together right now. another week passes and she emails me to tell me that she has gotten on medication for bipolar disorder and that everything is so much clearer to her now….and that her daughter asks about me all of the time since we broke up.
what is this person’s deal? everything she has done or said has served to keep me hanging on. is this her purpose? and for what?
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]]> By: Kelly http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-6539 Kelly Sat, 20 Feb 2010 19:03:36 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-6539 <a href='#comment-6536' rel="nofollow">@Cat</a> - Thanks! I hope he and his ex wife are happy together - they divorced four years ago - and as my good friend said - "you'd think that a grown adult going through the process of a divorce - especially if there are kids involved - would be in the "damn sure nothing else to think about category". Anyway, my earring is still in his bed (yep, I was in his bed the night before his ex was) so maybe it stabbed both of them in the eye...<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6539','Kelly'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6539','Kelly','<a href=\'#comment-6536\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Cat<\/a> - Thanks! I hope he and his ex wife are happy together - they divorced four years ago - and as my good friend said - \"you\'d think that a grown adult going through the process of a divorce - especially if there are kids involved - would be in the \"damn sure nothing else to think about category\". Anyway, my earring is still in his bed (yep, I was in his bed the night before his ex was) so maybe it stabbed both of them in the eye...'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Cat – Thanks! I hope he and his ex wife are happy together – they divorced four years ago – and as my good friend said – “you’d think that a grown adult going through the process of a divorce – especially if there are kids involved – would be in the “damn sure nothing else to think about category”. Anyway, my earring is still in his bed (yep, I was in his bed the night before his ex was) so maybe it stabbed both of them in the eye…
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]]> By: Cat http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-6536 Cat Sat, 20 Feb 2010 05:06:04 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-6536 <a href='#comment-6532' rel="nofollow">@Kelly</a> - To everyone who has had a broken heart! why do you think its called FALLING in love? Because it HURTS!!! Just remember to get up, brush yourself off and try again when you are ready. xoxo<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6536','Cat'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6536','Cat','<a href=\'#comment-6532\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Kelly<\/a> - To everyone who has had a broken heart! why do you think its called FALLING in love?\r\nBecause it HURTS!!! Just remember to get up, brush yourself off and try again when you are ready. xoxo'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Kelly – To everyone who has had a broken heart! why do you think its called FALLING in love?
Because it HURTS!!! Just remember to get up, brush yourself off and try again when you are ready. xoxo
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]]> By: Kelly http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-6532 Kelly Fri, 19 Feb 2010 20:18:45 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-6532 I was dumped just a few days ago. Here's exactly how it happened: This is the email (yep, email) he sent... I'm sorry I missed your call. I was taking a nap and it rang out before I could answer. I've been a bit in a cave this week for a reason. Well, my ex came over on my birthday and said she wants to get back together. Yes, this is complicated and kind of brings my life to a halt. I'm trying to work this idea out in my head and my heart, and what is the right thing to do. It isnt easy, and I/we see the therapist on Wednesday for support. Life is way too complicated sometimes, and the burden of being heartbroken sometimes is overwhelming in itself. I need some time to breathe and figure out what to do at this point. I think it helps I have [my son - parentheses are mine I took out his kid's name] all this week with me because of the holidays so I have some diversion and can put it all in perspective. I hope the seminars down South went well for you. Time to go back to sleep a bit. I'm terribly sorry not to say this over the phone but I dont think I could express very much right now; and honestly my emotions are pretty fried/they have been the last few years so anything emotional kind of sends me scurrying back to my cave. Please excuse me. I called and said I have one question: "Did you sleep with her?" He said "yes". I said "Then that's all I need to know. Please mail back my stuff." That was it. I hung up. He did then send an email saying how much he respected me - I HATE that line, because it just makes me think, "Wow, if this is how treat me when you DO respect me, how would you have treated me if you DIDN'T respect me". Then he said he was sorry for "being a dick and being clumsy". I think that's about the only apology I"m going to get. Both emails were all about him and what he was feeling - wow. He didn't have the guts to completely break it off (I had to do that - he just did the "I need some time" shtick) and he wasn't even willing to talk to me on the phone, let alone in person. Sheesh.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6532','Kelly'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6532','Kelly','I was dumped just a few days ago. Here\'s exactly how it happened: This is the email (yep, email) he sent... \r\n\r\nI\'m sorry I missed your call. I was taking a nap and it rang out before I could answer. \r\nI\'ve been a bit in a cave this week for a reason. Well, my ex came over on my birthday and said she wants to get back together. Yes, this is complicated and kind of brings my life to a halt. I\'m trying to work this idea out in my head and my heart, and what is the right thing to do. It isnt easy, and I\/we see the therapist on Wednesday for support. Life is way too complicated sometimes, and the burden of being heartbroken sometimes is overwhelming in itself. \r\nI need some time to breathe and figure out what to do at this point. I think it helps I have [my son - parentheses are mine I took out his kid\'s name] all this week with me because of the holidays so I have some diversion and can put it all in perspective. I hope the seminars down South went well for you. Time to go back to sleep a bit. I\'m terribly sorry not to say this over the phone but I dont think I could express very much right now; and honestly my emotions are pretty fried\/they have been the last few years so anything emotional kind of sends me scurrying back to my cave. Please excuse me.\r\n\r\nI called and said I have one question: \"Did you sleep with her?\" He said \"yes\". I said \"Then that\'s all I need to know. Please mail back my stuff.\" That was it. I hung up. He did then send an email saying how much he respected me - I HATE that line, because it just makes me think, \"Wow, if this is how treat me when you DO respect me, how would you have treated me if you DIDN\'T respect me\". Then he said he was sorry for \"being a dick and being clumsy\". I think that\'s about the only apology I\"m going to get. Both emails were all about him and what he was feeling - wow. He didn\'t have the guts to completely break it off (I had to do that - he just did the \"I need some time\" shtick) and he wasn\'t even willing to talk to me on the phone, let alone in person. Sheesh.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I was dumped just a few days ago. Here’s exactly how it happened: This is the email (yep, email) he sent…

I’m sorry I missed your call. I was taking a nap and it rang out before I could answer.
I’ve been a bit in a cave this week for a reason. Well, my ex came over on my birthday and said she wants to get back together. Yes, this is complicated and kind of brings my life to a halt. I’m trying to work this idea out in my head and my heart, and what is the right thing to do. It isnt easy, and I/we see the therapist on Wednesday for support. Life is way too complicated sometimes, and the burden of being heartbroken sometimes is overwhelming in itself.
I need some time to breathe and figure out what to do at this point. I think it helps I have [my son - parentheses are mine I took out his kid's name] all this week with me because of the holidays so I have some diversion and can put it all in perspective. I hope the seminars down South went well for you. Time to go back to sleep a bit. I’m terribly sorry not to say this over the phone but I dont think I could express very much right now; and honestly my emotions are pretty fried/they have been the last few years so anything emotional kind of sends me scurrying back to my cave. Please excuse me.

I called and said I have one question: “Did you sleep with her?” He said “yes”. I said “Then that’s all I need to know. Please mail back my stuff.” That was it. I hung up. He did then send an email saying how much he respected me – I HATE that line, because it just makes me think, “Wow, if this is how treat me when you DO respect me, how would you have treated me if you DIDN’T respect me”. Then he said he was sorry for “being a dick and being clumsy”. I think that’s about the only apology I”m going to get. Both emails were all about him and what he was feeling – wow. He didn’t have the guts to completely break it off (I had to do that – he just did the “I need some time” shtick) and he wasn’t even willing to talk to me on the phone, let alone in person. Sheesh.

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]]> By: emily http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-6309 emily Fri, 05 Feb 2010 05:21:03 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-6309 "i don't want to hurt you" ... yeah i got that one. only it was followed by "i have to tell you the full and honest truth.... all this time i've only been using you for sex." i'm just laughed in his face after that one.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6309','emily'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6309','emily','\"i don\'t want to hurt you\" ... yeah i got that one. only it was followed by \"i have to tell you the full and honest truth.... all this time i\'ve only been using you for sex.\"\r\n\r\n\r\ni\'m just laughed in his face after that one.'); return false;">quote</a></div> “i don’t want to hurt you” … yeah i got that one. only it was followed by “i have to tell you the full and honest truth…. all this time i’ve only been using you for sex.”

i’m just laughed in his face after that one.

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