Comments on: 10 Things You Don’t Want To Hear From Your Ex http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex Learn how to survive a break up, rediscover your true self and find Mr/s Right Thu, 17 May 2012 03:09:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: 123 Abc http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-4/#comment-20787 123 Abc Mon, 09 Apr 2012 00:10:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-20787 He broke up with me over the phone, he just blurted it out. Said he still loved me, said he coudln't let me make a life changing risk and move 200miles to be with him. Said we weren't right together anymore. Then laid on insults saying I lie and I never trusted him! Heartbroken don't even describe how I feel after what was for me a good relationship for 2 years. Just because I'd gone through a bad time and wasn't acting myself doesn't make it ok for him to up and leave like that. I know the truth see, his lies and stupid comments couldn't cover that rubbish up. Oh he also did the I promised I wouldn't take you for granted and I did, and I don't deserve you speech! And the I hope you will be very happy one day line. Urgghhhh - tears still falling! :'( He broke up with me over the phone, he just blurted it out. Said he still loved me, said he coudln’t let me make a life changing risk and move 200miles to be with him. Said we weren’t right together anymore. Then laid on insults saying I lie and I never trusted him! Heartbroken don’t even describe how I feel after what was for me a good relationship for 2 years. Just because I’d gone through a bad time and wasn’t acting myself doesn’t make it ok for him to up and leave like that. I know the truth see, his lies and stupid comments couldn’t cover that rubbish up.

Oh he also did the I promised I wouldn’t take you for granted and I did, and I don’t deserve you speech! And the I hope you will be very happy one day line. Urgghhhh – tears still falling! :’(

]]> By: No-escape http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-4/#comment-19865 No-escape Thu, 23 Feb 2012 13:10:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-19865 Little Gems Ive heard from my ex.. Most of these were all while we were still together.. Omg what a fool ive been..  why do you ask me for sex more than once a month, its boring.. (how rude!) Youre a sick twisted F***  ( aww thanks sweetheart, you too)Have you been following me? (as if)I wont lie to you, I fell out of love with you  (ouch)Sex is so blazay now im nearly 40. TBH I just cant be bothered... (whatever dude!)Us living together are a joke (not to me!)Lets try living apart (As if!)Thats what you get for treating me badly (Gee thanks, u sure showed me huh, makes me laugh how he says i treated him bad. I caught him out with a weeks worth of lies and brush offs and i dared to ask him for the truth and thats me treating him bad? whatever!)Its not me, its you (Wow really!)Youre so up and down, I never know how to take you (Take me as i am or watch me as i go) I cant help it if im quiet ...(There is being quiet and then there is being a total emotional mute!) (idiot) I am totally broken, used, washed up, depressed... you name, I am feeling it. We moved to a new part of town 3 weeks ago to be closer to his work. Within 5 days of being here he is gone... When leaving he couldnt even face me, he put the keys through the door and walked away.. well no he actually ran because 5 seconds after he put the key through I opened the door and he was nowhere in sight. My path is long, he must have run to get out of sight so quickly. COWARD! He left with just the clothes of his back and a laptop. I had the horrible sick task of packing his stuff, again. As he has told me before, That way I get to watch him leave all over again. He loves the fact that I am hurting. He thrives on it and its just plain sick (He left me before for 5 months but came back 2011) Why did I take him back! Why!!!! My favourite was when after a week of him leaving me he came round and asked to watch a film. The film was Notting Hill.. Why that one! We watched it, it was painful. He held my hand and put his arm around me. I cried throughout the best part of the film. We kissed and I thought that this was his way of showing a bit of an effort and  my heart was filled with new hope. He went back to his brothers and as he left looked at me and I knew we would be ok... He held on to me so tightly and said he didnt want to go. He said he would call me. He didnt. I called him, his phone was off.  2 hours later he blocked me on Facebook. Blocked all my family. No contact since.. Loser. I have since googled all about Narcissism.. I seriously think now that this is what he is.. He is a classic text book case! I may be down now but hopefully in the future I will come to realise just how big of a lucky escape I have had.  Face the pain, dont hide from it. Dont distract yourself. Embrace it.. I was living in denial and held on to the hope he would come back and save me. I longed for him so badly. EVen now a small part of me just wishes he would knock on the door and tell me what a fool he was and come home.. But then I realised that I cant hide from the pain of this, I have to face it fact and accept that its over and he never really loved me. He never will. even if he did come back how can we ever get past what he said. Ive just gone through the most painful and excruciating week of my entire life. I know I can get through this. Its hard, it feels hopeless, you feel like nobody  in the world could ever understand your pain... but we can. Youre not alone. Hang in there :) x x  Little Gems Ive heard from my ex..
Most of these were all while we were still together.. Omg what a fool ive been.. 
why do you ask me for sex more than once a month, its boring.. (how rude!) Youre a sick twisted F***  ( aww thanks sweetheart, you too)Have you been following me? (as if)I wont lie to you, I fell out of love with you  (ouch)Sex is so blazay now im nearly 40. TBH I just cant be bothered… (whatever dude!)Us living together are a joke (not to me!)Lets try living apart (As if!)Thats what you get for treating me badly (Gee thanks, u sure showed me huh, makes me laugh how he says i treated him bad. I caught him out with a weeks worth of lies and brush offs and i dared to ask him for the truth and thats me treating him bad? whatever!)Its not me, its you (Wow really!)Youre so up and down, I never know how to take you (Take me as i am or watch me as i go) I cant help it if im quiet …(There is being quiet and then there is being a total emotional mute!) (idiot) I am totally broken, used, washed up, depressed… you name, I am feeling it. We moved to a new part of town 3 weeks ago to be closer to his work. Within 5 days of being here he is gone… When leaving he couldnt even face me, he put the keys through the door and walked away.. well no he actually ran because 5 seconds after he put the key through I opened the door and he was nowhere in sight. My path is long, he must have run to get out of sight so quickly. COWARD! He left with just the clothes of his back and a laptop. I had the horrible sick task of packing his stuff, again. As he has told me before, That way I get to watch him leave all over again. He loves the fact that I am hurting. He thrives on it and its just plain sick (He left me before for 5 months but came back 2011) Why did I take him back! Why!!!! My favourite was when after a week of him leaving me he came round and asked to watch a film. The film was Notting Hill.. Why that one! We watched it, it was painful. He held my hand and put his arm around me. I cried throughout the best part of the film. We kissed and I thought that this was his way of showing a bit of an effort and  my heart was filled with new hope. He went back to his brothers and as he left looked at me and I knew we would be ok… He held on to me so tightly and said he didnt want to go. He said he would call me. He didnt. I called him, his phone was off. 
2 hours later he blocked me on Facebook. Blocked all my family. No contact since.. Loser. I have since googled all about Narcissism.. I seriously think now that this is what he is.. He is a classic text book case! I may be down now but hopefully in the future I will come to realise just how big of a lucky escape I have had. 
Face the pain, dont hide from it. Dont distract yourself. Embrace it.. I was living in denial and held on to the hope he would come back and save me. I longed for him so badly. EVen now a small part of me just wishes he would knock on the door and tell me what a fool he was and come home.. But then I realised that I cant hide from the pain of this, I have to face it fact and accept that its over and he never really loved me. He never will. even if he did come back how can we ever get past what he said. Ive just gone through the most painful and excruciating week of my entire life. I know I can get through this. Its hard, it feels hopeless, you feel like nobody  in the world could ever understand your pain… but we can. Youre not alone. Hang in there :) x x 

]]> By: NewDumpee http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-4/#comment-19837 NewDumpee Mon, 20 Feb 2012 11:37:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-19837 His words: I cannot commit. I am not comfortable with the concept. I gave us a try (which I never asked for in the first place) but doesn't seen to work out anymore. Besides, I have enough on my plate. Please move on and get over me. I am not the one you are looking for. Take care and live well. His words:
I cannot commit. I am not comfortable with the concept. I gave us a try (which I never asked for in the first place) but doesn’t seen to work out anymore. Besides, I have enough on my plate. Please move on and get over me. I am not the one you are looking for. Take care and live well.

]]> By: Jabou200 http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-4/#comment-19518 Jabou200 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 13:07:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-19518 Oh, whoops, he didn't say 7... but all the other ones... Oh, whoops, he didn’t say 7… but all the other ones…

]]> By: Jabou200 http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-4/#comment-19517 Jabou200 Mon, 23 Jan 2012 13:04:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-19517 HA! I've heard all of these from the same "dumper" and it's been the most difficult ending of a relationship in my life. He's made it so much harder than it needs to be. I even have a new one to add... he wanted to brainstorm ideas for "protocol" if he happens to see me out with someone (or vice versa) HA! I’ve heard all of these from the same “dumper” and it’s been the most difficult ending of a relationship in my life. He’s made it so much harder than it needs to be. I even have a new one to add… he wanted to brainstorm ideas for “protocol” if he happens to see me out with someone (or vice versa)

]]> By: Eddie Corbano http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-4/#comment-19443 Eddie Corbano Sun, 15 Jan 2012 15:54:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-19443 Don't believe that, we create your own destiny, and everyday we can turn around our lives. Don’t believe that, we create your own destiny, and everyday we can turn around our lives.

]]> By: Ritahawkins http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-4/#comment-19018 Ritahawkins Sun, 18 Dec 2011 08:41:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-19018 I agree with that. They say all kinds of crap to make themselves seam justified or hurt, but really what they have done is unjust and far from okay. I agree with that. They say all kinds of crap to make themselves seam justified or hurt, but really what they have done is unjust and far from okay.

]]> By: Alison http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-4/#comment-18530 Alison Mon, 07 Nov 2011 18:30:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-18530 "I don't love you the way that I thnk a husband should love his wife" “I don’t love you the way that I thnk a husband should love his wife”

]]> By: Nanaan http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-4/#comment-18475 Nanaan Sun, 30 Oct 2011 18:11:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-18475 My ex decided to give me some time (without discussing it with me) to straighten out personal problems I was having with my children. My ex decided to give me some time (without discussing it with me) to straighten out personal problems I was having with my children.

]]> By: guest http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-4/#comment-18385 guest Sat, 15 Oct 2011 20:24:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-18385 The one that i hate the most is when a guy breaks up with you and then you continue to be friendly with each other and then he goes i still love you i just dont think that right now is the right time for us  oh that confused me and made me mad and hurt i was in tears for hours because of this then when i asked him when the right time was he said idk The one that i hate the most is when a guy breaks up with you and then you continue to be friendly with each other and then he goes i still love you i just dont think that right now is the right time for us 

oh that confused me and made me mad and hurt i was in tears for hours because of this

then when i asked him when the right time was he said idk

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