Comments on: 10 Things You Don’t Want To Hear From Your Ex http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:45:08 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Ally http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-5614 Ally Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:32:11 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-5614 its been about three months since my breakup.. and im STILL not over it, it basically sucks cause im litterally stuck in a life i hate.. im a junior in highschool and he went off to college, i just keep thinking about everyhing he promised me that i was the only girl he wanted to be with and all the stuff like that and how him going to college he wanted to make it work. he was my first real relationship, but he was really clingy so i lost most of my friends because of it.. i thought itd be okay and i want to get better im just struggling.. i really just want to go to college somewhere far away so i can just forget about everything..cause now he doesnt even give me the time of day. life sucks. i still love him but i know i shouldnt. what should i do im just miserable from every aspect possible.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5614','Ally'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5614','Ally','its been about three months since my breakup.. and im STILL not over it, it basically sucks cause im litterally stuck in a life i hate.. im a junior in highschool and he went off to college, i just keep thinking about everyhing he promised me that i was the only girl he wanted to be with and all the stuff like that and how him going to college he wanted to make it work. he was my first real relationship, but he was really clingy so i lost most of my friends because of it.. i thought itd be okay and i want to get better im just struggling.. i really just want to go to college somewhere far away so i can just forget about everything..cause now he doesnt even give me the time of day. life sucks. i still love him but i know i shouldnt. what should i do im just miserable from every aspect possible.'); return false;">quote</a></div> its been about three months since my breakup.. and im STILL not over it, it basically sucks cause im litterally stuck in a life i hate.. im a junior in highschool and he went off to college, i just keep thinking about everyhing he promised me that i was the only girl he wanted to be with and all the stuff like that and how him going to college he wanted to make it work. he was my first real relationship, but he was really clingy so i lost most of my friends because of it.. i thought itd be okay and i want to get better im just struggling.. i really just want to go to college somewhere far away so i can just forget about everything..cause now he doesnt even give me the time of day. life sucks. i still love him but i know i shouldnt. what should i do im just miserable from every aspect possible.
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]]> By: Jessie http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-5579 Jessie Thu, 12 Nov 2009 17:59:27 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-5579 My ex dumped me recently and used his family and financial issues as the "problem". He also said "I will always love you, maybe someday we can smile about this". I just think this is a cowardly move, I think the Dumper needs to be honest...it will hurt the Dumpee but atleast it's not giving hope to them.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5579','Jessie'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5579','Jessie','My ex dumped me recently and used his family and financial issues as the \"problem\". He also said \"I will always love you, maybe someday we can smile about this\". I just think this is a cowardly move, I think the Dumper needs to be honest...it will hurt the Dumpee but atleast it\'s not giving hope to them.'); return false;">quote</a></div> My ex dumped me recently and used his family and financial issues as the “problem”. He also said “I will always love you, maybe someday we can smile about this”. I just think this is a cowardly move, I think the Dumper needs to be honest…it will hurt the Dumpee but atleast it’s not giving hope to them.
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]]> By: Heartbroken http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-5578 Heartbroken Thu, 12 Nov 2009 17:41:17 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-5578 <a href='#comment-5573' rel="nofollow">@D</a> - I don't think I"m a relatsionship addict. I mean, I knew the man had faults but I was willing to overlook them and still make a life with him. I think what got him was frist off, he was just divorced in March, I started going out with him in June and he had a relationship before me (after his divorce). I think he was jumping into relationships too soon. But the downfall of the relationship started one night when I told him all my good qualities and named things I had going for me and ask him what he had to add to my life. (We had this conversation because anytime he'd get mad he would say "he was never getting married again". Anyway, I don't even know why I"m upset over the breakup but I am.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5578','Heartbroken'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5578','Heartbroken','<a href=\'#comment-5573\' rel=\"nofollow\">@D<\/a> - \r\n\r\nI don\'t think I\"m a relatsionship addict. I mean, I knew the man had faults but I was willing to overlook them and still make a life with him. I think what got him was frist off, he was just divorced in March, I started going out with him in June and he had a relationship before me (after his divorce). I think he was jumping into relationships too soon. But the downfall of the relationship started one night when I told him all my good qualities and named things I had going for me and ask him what he had to add to my life. (We had this conversation because anytime he\'d get mad he would say \"he was never getting married again\". Anyway, I don\'t even know why I\"m upset over the breakup but I am.'); return false;">quote</a></div> @D –

I don’t think I”m a relatsionship addict. I mean, I knew the man had faults but I was willing to overlook them and still make a life with him. I think what got him was frist off, he was just divorced in March, I started going out with him in June and he had a relationship before me (after his divorce). I think he was jumping into relationships too soon. But the downfall of the relationship started one night when I told him all my good qualities and named things I had going for me and ask him what he had to add to my life. (We had this conversation because anytime he’d get mad he would say “he was never getting married again”. Anyway, I don’t even know why I”m upset over the breakup but I am.

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]]> By: D http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-5573 D Thu, 12 Nov 2009 16:22:20 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-5573 <blockquote><a href='#comment-5565' rel="nofollow">Originally Posted By HeartBroken</a>Dino, I am like that also. Guys I meet can't believe how lucky they are to be with me. Their families are so happy their son has found this hidden "gem". They marvel at how beautiful, confident, ect. I am but I then jump in and give all my love. I love with all my heart, too much. I give up everything and concentrate only on them. At first I think they're flattered and i take that to mean they like it but then later it becomes too much. How do I stop those feelings? I don't know, I"ve not figured that out yet. How do I love just a little and not too much?</blockquote> MAybe you are a little relationhsip addicted? I think I was for certain. I felt the same way about my ex BF...very addicted. He ws like a drug to me.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5573','D'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5573','D','<blockquote><a href=\'#comment-5565\' rel=\"nofollow\">Originally Posted By HeartBroken<\/a>Dino, I am like that also. Guys I meet can\'t believe how lucky they are to be with me. Their families are so happy their son has found this hidden \"gem\". They marvel at how beautiful, confident, ect. I am but I then jump in and give all my love. I love with all my heart, too much. I give up everything and concentrate only on them. At first I think they\'re flattered and i take that to mean they like it but then later it becomes too much. How do I stop those feelings? I don\'t know, I\"ve not figured that out yet. How do I love just a little and not too much?<\/blockquote>\r\n\r\nMAybe you are a little relationhsip addicted? I think I was for certain. I felt the same way about my ex BF...very addicted. He ws like a drug to me.'); return false;">quote</a></div>

Originally Posted By HeartBrokenDino, I am like that also. Guys I meet can’t believe how lucky they are to be with me. Their families are so happy their son has found this hidden “gem”. They marvel at how beautiful, confident, ect. I am but I then jump in and give all my love. I love with all my heart, too much. I give up everything and concentrate only on them. At first I think they’re flattered and i take that to mean they like it but then later it becomes too much. How do I stop those feelings? I don’t know, I”ve not figured that out yet. How do I love just a little and not too much?

MAybe you are a little relationhsip addicted? I think I was for certain. I felt the same way about my ex BF…very addicted. He ws like a drug to me.

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]]> By: D http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-5572 D Thu, 12 Nov 2009 16:20:44 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-5572 <blockquote><a href='#comment-5372' rel="nofollow">Originally Posted By Kelvin</a><a href='#comment-5370' rel="nofollow">@Michele</a> - You might never know why you were dumped. These statements from the dumper never really helps the dumpee. It will hurt, BUT, don't blame yourself. It is the worst thing you can do. I've been through it. My ex said most if not all of the statements above. No matter what he/she say, it will NEVER be good enough to bring comfort. Just make sure to take care of yourself. Trust me...</blockquote> NEVER been said better...so true. You will NEVER know but really...who cares? he's done..he's moved on...you can do the same. And remember..the BEST revenge i a GOOD LIFE!!!! Find yourself someone who will treat you like a princess and our ex will (TRUST ME) be soooo jealous! lol NOT tha we do this so they want us ack...we do it because we want them to feel as bad as they made us feel.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5572','D'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5572','D','<blockquote><a href=\'#comment-5372\' rel=\"nofollow\">Originally Posted By Kelvin<\/a><a href=\'#comment-5370\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Michele<\/a> - \r\nYou might never know why you were dumped. These statements from the dumper never really helps the dumpee. It will hurt, BUT, don\'t blame yourself. It is the worst thing you can do. I\'ve been through it. My ex said most if not all of the statements above. No matter what he\/she say, it will NEVER be good enough to bring comfort. Just make sure to take care of yourself.\r\nTrust me...<\/blockquote>\r\n\r\nNEVER been said better...so true. You will NEVER know but really...who cares? he\'s done..he\'s moved on...you can do the same. And remember..the BEST revenge i a GOOD LIFE!!!! Find yourself someone who will treat you like a princess and our ex will (TRUST ME) be soooo jealous! lol NOT tha we do this so they want us ack...we do it because we want them to feel as bad as they made us feel.'); return false;">quote</a></div>

Originally Posted By Kelvin@Michele –
You might never know why you were dumped. These statements from the dumper never really helps the dumpee. It will hurt, BUT, don’t blame yourself. It is the worst thing you can do. I’ve been through it. My ex said most if not all of the statements above. No matter what he/she say, it will NEVER be good enough to bring comfort. Just make sure to take care of yourself.
Trust me…

NEVER been said better…so true. You will NEVER know but really…who cares? he’s done..he’s moved on…you can do the same. And remember..the BEST revenge i a GOOD LIFE!!!! Find yourself someone who will treat you like a princess and our ex will (TRUST ME) be soooo jealous! lol NOT tha we do this so they want us ack…we do it because we want them to feel as bad as they made us feel.

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]]> By: D http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-5571 D Thu, 12 Nov 2009 16:18:36 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-5571 it is unfortunate but you will never know the real reasons. My ex waited until we had been broken up for 2 months and then had sex again to tel me he had fallen out of love with me months before we broke up.....and ten when I left he called me and said "I want you to know i'd try again with you if our family and friends did not know all that happened" (ie: he cheated on me and was a drug user/alchoholic/ and physically abusive). WHY would someone say that?? You're telling me you'd want to work it out BUT you just said you wre NOT in love with me? PHYSCO. Thats why.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5571','D'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5571','D','it is unfortunate but you will never know the real reasons. My ex waited until we had been broken up for 2 months and then had sex again to tel me he had fallen out of love with me months before we broke up.....and ten when I left he called me and said \"I want you to know i\'d try again with you if our family and friends did not know all that happened\" (ie: he cheated on me and was a drug user\/alchoholic\/ and physically abusive). WHY would someone say that?? You\'re telling me you\'d want to work it out BUT you just said you wre NOT in love with me? PHYSCO. Thats why.'); return false;">quote</a></div> it is unfortunate but you will never know the real reasons. My ex waited until we had been broken up for 2 months and then had sex again to tel me he had fallen out of love with me months before we broke up…..and ten when I left he called me and said “I want you to know i’d try again with you if our family and friends did not know all that happened” (ie: he cheated on me and was a drug user/alchoholic/ and physically abusive). WHY would someone say that?? You’re telling me you’d want to work it out BUT you just said you wre NOT in love with me? PHYSCO. Thats why.
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]]> By: D http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-5570 D Thu, 12 Nov 2009 16:13:55 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-5570 The same thing happened to me actually almost on the same day (aug 30th). He was controlling but WOW I loved him so whatever he said to do, wear, talk to I did. He became emotionally AND physically abusive and we arent kids..we are 40 and 42. He broke up with me then had sex w me one more time and 3 days later was dating someone else who thought we had been broken up for months. Hindsight.: the man is and always WILL BE a liar, Since then I have found out basically EVERYTHING he ever told me about himself, his life etc were lies. He, I believe, has a personality disorder and DEF. has a drinking and cocaine abuse habit. I am SO better off without him in my life. However..part of me wants to still be with him. guess that's my codependent side. Anyway it gts better. It never gts easier. I don't cry daily anymore but Iget choked up sometimes. When I see how DUMB his new GF is (she knows what he is..I told her..Oh and also, he cheated on her two different times w me and I did tell her that) it makes me feel better...he is HER problem now..she still goes back even though she says she believes me. She had been dating him for 5 weeks and he was telling her he loved her...then coming home and sleeping with me...and the other half of Nashville. He's disgusting. He is also broke and is trying to latch onto her money. She has no clue..thinks he is loaded. If she only believed the truth...a rolex and a mercedes and a porsche do NOT make a man a rich man when they can't even pay the bills. and has like 0 credit. and a credit rating of 200. Anyway I had no closure either. He broke u with me via text..lol I had to go thru a lot of pain. I went back to church and that helped me to know he was God's problem..not mine. I see him out drunk and I do try to tell myself he is doing to her what he did to me now....and it makes it better. I am friends with BOTH his ex wives and they are SO supportive..they had it allll happen to them to. It has been about 2.5 months now and I still think about him daily..but it did get better. I have met a WONDERFUL, kind and very generous man who treats me lik a queen. I don;t want the crap I put up with for 18 months anymore. Moral of the story is a leopard never changes his spots. PERIOD. There are WAY too many good men out there to be conned by a piece of crap. Do NOT become bitter...just ackowledge the red flags..don't think they arepretty flowers swaying in the breeze...<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5570','D'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5570','D','The same thing happened to me actually almost on the same day (aug 30th). He was controlling but WOW I loved him so whatever he said to do, wear, talk to I did. He became emotionally AND physically abusive and we arent kids..we are 40 and 42. He broke up with me then had sex w me one more time and 3 days later was dating someone else who thought we had been broken up for months. \r\n\r\nHindsight.: the man is and always WILL BE a liar, Since then I have found out basically EVERYTHING he ever told me about himself, his life etc were lies. He, I believe, has a personality disorder and DEF. has a drinking and cocaine abuse habit. I am SO better off without him in my life. However..part of me wants to still be with him. guess that\'s my codependent side.\r\n\r\nAnyway it gts better. It never gts easier. I don\'t cry daily anymore but Iget choked up sometimes. When I see how DUMB his new GF is (she knows what he is..I told her..Oh and also, he cheated on her two different times w me and I did tell her that) it makes me feel better...he is HER problem now..she still goes back even though she says she believes me. She had been dating him for 5 weeks and he was telling her he loved her...then coming home and sleeping with me...and the other half of Nashville. He\'s disgusting. He is also broke and is trying to latch onto her money. She has no clue..thinks he is loaded. If she only believed the truth...a rolex and a mercedes and a porsche do NOT make a man a rich man when they can\'t even pay the bills. and has like 0 credit. and a credit rating of 200.\r\n\r\nAnyway I had no closure either. He broke u with me via text..lol I had to go thru a lot of pain. I went back to church and that helped me to know he was God\'s problem..not mine. I see him out drunk and I do try to tell myself he is doing to her what he did to me now....and it makes it better. I am friends with BOTH his ex wives and they are SO supportive..they had it allll happen to them to. It has been about 2.5 months now and I still think about him daily..but it did get better. I have met a WONDERFUL, kind and very generous man who treats me lik a queen. I don;t want the crap I put up with for 18 months anymore.\r\n\r\nMoral of the story is a leopard never changes his spots. PERIOD. There are WAY too many good men out there to be conned by a piece of crap. Do NOT become bitter...just ackowledge the red flags..don\'t think they arepretty flowers swaying in the breeze...'); return false;">quote</a></div> The same thing happened to me actually almost on the same day (aug 30th). He was controlling but WOW I loved him so whatever he said to do, wear, talk to I did. He became emotionally AND physically abusive and we arent kids..we are 40 and 42. He broke up with me then had sex w me one more time and 3 days later was dating someone else who thought we had been broken up for months.

Hindsight.: the man is and always WILL BE a liar, Since then I have found out basically EVERYTHING he ever told me about himself, his life etc were lies. He, I believe, has a personality disorder and DEF. has a drinking and cocaine abuse habit. I am SO better off without him in my life. However..part of me wants to still be with him. guess that’s my codependent side.

Anyway it gts better. It never gts easier. I don’t cry daily anymore but Iget choked up sometimes. When I see how DUMB his new GF is (she knows what he is..I told her..Oh and also, he cheated on her two different times w me and I did tell her that) it makes me feel better…he is HER problem now..she still goes back even though she says she believes me. She had been dating him for 5 weeks and he was telling her he loved her…then coming home and sleeping with me…and the other half of Nashville. He’s disgusting. He is also broke and is trying to latch onto her money. She has no clue..thinks he is loaded. If she only believed the truth…a rolex and a mercedes and a porsche do NOT make a man a rich man when they can’t even pay the bills. and has like 0 credit. and a credit rating of 200.

Anyway I had no closure either. He broke u with me via text..lol I had to go thru a lot of pain. I went back to church and that helped me to know he was God’s problem..not mine. I see him out drunk and I do try to tell myself he is doing to her what he did to me now….and it makes it better. I am friends with BOTH his ex wives and they are SO supportive..they had it allll happen to them to. It has been about 2.5 months now and I still think about him daily..but it did get better. I have met a WONDERFUL, kind and very generous man who treats me lik a queen. I don;t want the crap I put up with for 18 months anymore.

Moral of the story is a leopard never changes his spots. PERIOD. There are WAY too many good men out there to be conned by a piece of crap. Do NOT become bitter…just ackowledge the red flags..don’t think they arepretty flowers swaying in the breeze…

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]]> By: HeartBroken http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-5565 HeartBroken Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:56:17 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-5565 Dino, I am like that also. Guys I meet can't believe how lucky they are to be with me. Their families are so happy their son has found this hidden "gem". They marvel at how beautiful, confident, ect. I am but I then jump in and give all my love. I love with all my heart, too much. I give up everything and concentrate only on them. At first I think they're flattered and i take that to mean they like it but then later it becomes too much. How do I stop those feelings? I don't know, I"ve not figured that out yet. How do I love just a little and not too much?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5565','HeartBroken'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5565','HeartBroken','Dino, I am like that also. Guys I meet can\'t believe how lucky they are to be with me. Their families are so happy their son has found this hidden \"gem\". They marvel at how beautiful, confident, ect. I am but I then jump in and give all my love. I love with all my heart, too much. I give up everything and concentrate only on them. At first I think they\'re flattered and i take that to mean they like it but then later it becomes too much. How do I stop those feelings? I don\'t know, I\"ve not figured that out yet. How do I love just a little and not too much?'); return false;">quote</a></div> Dino, I am like that also. Guys I meet can’t believe how lucky they are to be with me. Their families are so happy their son has found this hidden “gem”. They marvel at how beautiful, confident, ect. I am but I then jump in and give all my love. I love with all my heart, too much. I give up everything and concentrate only on them. At first I think they’re flattered and i take that to mean they like it but then later it becomes too much. How do I stop those feelings? I don’t know, I”ve not figured that out yet. How do I love just a little and not too much?
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]]> By: Michele http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-5380 Michele Thu, 01 Oct 2009 13:48:34 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-5380 @Sergio - I don't think I will ever turn into a cold, paranoid person over this. I have a good sense of self and I know that I am capable of giving all of my love to someone. I think that I am still in shock and without closure, so I am searching for reasons to fill my head. I know its not the right move, but that doesn't make it easy to stop. I am trying my best, but its the phase I am in trying to deal with this. Thank you for your advice. I can't go back and change anything. Maybe we weren't meant to be together, but I don't believe that in the slightest at this point; one day I will realize it. I was myself and I gave my all and I have to feel good about that and move forward.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5380','Michele'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5380','Michele','@Sergio -\r\n\r\nI don\'t think I will ever turn into a cold, paranoid person over this. I have a good sense of self and I know that I am capable of giving all of my love to someone. I think that I am still in shock and without closure, so I am searching for reasons to fill my head. I know its not the right move, but that doesn\'t make it easy to stop. I am trying my best, but its the phase I am in trying to deal with this. \r\nThank you for your advice. I can\'t go back and change anything. Maybe we weren\'t meant to be together, but I don\'t believe that in the slightest at this point; one day I will realize it.\r\n\r\nI was myself and I gave my all and I have to feel good about that and move forward.'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Sergio -

I don’t think I will ever turn into a cold, paranoid person over this. I have a good sense of self and I know that I am capable of giving all of my love to someone. I think that I am still in shock and without closure, so I am searching for reasons to fill my head. I know its not the right move, but that doesn’t make it easy to stop. I am trying my best, but its the phase I am in trying to deal with this.
Thank you for your advice. I can’t go back and change anything. Maybe we weren’t meant to be together, but I don’t believe that in the slightest at this point; one day I will realize it.

I was myself and I gave my all and I have to feel good about that and move forward.

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]]> By: Kelvin http://lovesagame.com/10-things-you-dont-want-to-hear-from-your-ex/comment-page-2/#comment-5379 Kelvin Thu, 01 Oct 2009 09:33:53 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=582#comment-5379 <a href='#comment-5373' rel="nofollow">@Michele</a> - You will be fine. Just stop overthinking. It will just make yourself miserable. Been there, done that. I am still working on it. Personally, stop blaming yourself. Like Sergio says, there are many fishes in the ocean. Don't put "The One" on a pedestal... Cuz it will crash and hurt like crap...<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5379','Kelvin'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5379','Kelvin','<a href=\'#comment-5373\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Michele<\/a> - \r\n\r\nYou will be fine. Just stop overthinking. It will just make yourself miserable. Been there, done that. I am still working on it. Personally, stop blaming yourself. \r\nLike Sergio says, there are many fishes in the ocean.\r\nDon\'t put \"The One\" on a pedestal...\r\nCuz it will crash and hurt like crap...'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Michele –

You will be fine. Just stop overthinking. It will just make yourself miserable. Been there, done that. I am still working on it. Personally, stop blaming yourself.
Like Sergio says, there are many fishes in the ocean.
Don’t put “The One” on a pedestal…
Cuz it will crash and hurt like crap…

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