10 Tips On How To Seduce A Man
by Eddie Corbano6. The Magic of Anticipation
Now, here’s a good one. This is a variation of “play hard to get”, which by the way is a very doubtful thing. If overdone it will harm you more than being of use. Instead, play a little game called “anticipation”.
Anticipation, excitement, and tension can be a huge turn-on for a man. Delay the gratification. Make two steps forward, one step back. Create a strong feeling of dissatisfaction in him. A dissatisfaction which can only be resolved by having you. It must never seem to be easy for him.
Make two steps forward, one step back. Contradict Yourself! Use the before mentioned signs of interest, then suddenly show disinterest, ignore him for two minutes. Then start again. Two steps forward, one step back.
7. Killing Eyes – The French Technique
Start with almost accidentally sidelong glances. You can follow up with a direct look. Now something starts what can be described as playful innocence (someone once said to me that the French girls invented that): The moment he looks back you instantly lower your eyes and put on an embarrassed smile. You can even emphasize that some moments later by looking again, this time longer and then again lower your eyes.
This is flirting without talking (we can learn a lot from the French, when it comes to lovemaking).
8. Touch Him “Accidentally”
When you reach for something, try to accidentally touch his hand. Don’t make it too obvious. Also touch him briefly during the conversation to make a point or when he just made an interesting remark about something.
The secret is being playful with casually touches now and then. This creates tension and also a physical connection. And more importantly: it subconsciously communicates that you’re not interested in “only being friends”.
9. The Power Of Erotic Dancing
This one is short and simple: learn how to dance
Most women love to express themselves on the dancefloor. Why not learning it and doing it the right way? There are courses on this, or just go to a club, watch and learn.
This is very powerful.
10. The Secret Ingredient
Now, there is a final ingredient to a successful seduction of a man: He must not feel seduced. He must think that he seduced you, not the other way around. Give him his victory, let him be the hero. Men like that. It gives them a feeling of security.
Why not taking advantage of that, if you get what you want!
Conclusion
Some other useful tips in short:
- Be mysterious and playful
- Awake the explorer in him
- Let him do most of the talking
- Flirt intensively with 90 % body-language and only 10 % with words
- Contradict yourself, confuse him
- Try to make an all-senses-explosion: looks, taste, music, touch, scent
- Take care never to appear too needy
As we all know, Jason Biggs from “American Pie” was seduced the easy way, with not much effort (who wonders?), as opposed to you, who now will master the art of seduction the sublime way and get any man you want. Well, almost any.
Happy hunting!
Your friend,
Eddie Corbano
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About The Author:
Eddie Corbano is a breakup-coach, relationship-advisor and founder of LovesAGame. He suffered from a devastating break up in 1998. Since then, he dedicated his life to helping others getting the best of this existential experience. The overcoming of a break up is an important step to autonomy and independency. Eddie Corbano developed some new coaching programs, which focus on evolving inner strength and the power to set and reach any personal goal. (Article written on April 14th, 2007)
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well i get confuse with this guy he said his not inlove with me but he is crazy for me. he also said that he is thinking of me even if he is with someone else.. what do you think?
@others –
i have problem the same…i have a friend also, always telling that he don’t like me at all and yet always calling and chatting with me, we’ve even kiss and he is asking to have that again and again… guys are sometimes crazy.
@others -
im sure he is trying 2 fool u around
What he is doing is part of the seduction game. Sending mixed signals. You should send him mixed signals too..be sweet one moment and act aloof next time (act like you barely want to be with him)…then he will start to wonder why you don’t want him anymore. Or, blow off a few of his calls, then tell him you miss him. Hey, that behavior drives us nuts but makes us like them more, right? Try reading the book, The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. He also wrote the Art of War and The Art of Power. Fascinating and gives tips on how to seduce people
i like miss dang comment you gave me a good idea thanks
ok , so i work for this company my sisters best friends family im a valued employeee i met the son and he is soadorable he immediatly took me in and made me fall for him
one problem im gay wel ithought i was andive never had sex with a guy but he was so charming he wouldnt take no for answer well we kissed adn no we HAVE NOT had sex but i let him go down on me i was having problems with my girlfriend she was beaiting me up andlying and cheating onme one day she hurt me so bad he was going to xome get me , long story short i like him and not to long ago i told him i didnt wanna be with him anymore and he stopped but i misshim i see him everyday but he wont try to be with me no more and allot girls want him , idk what to do idk if he likes me but i do , and i want to kiss him so bad but no one here knows we have or had a thing so that we dont have problems he looks out for me and most poeple that work here like me and idk if it makes him jeloaus he comes close to me but he doesnt even try like before he was into me , how can i get him to like me again ,,, he is an asshle now , just yesterday i asked him ( why are u so shady )? he said ( born like that ) and then i told him one of these days i was jsut gonna kiss hm and not care whos watching but i didnt get a respond idk what to do ,,, im so mad at myseklf ,,, !!!!!!!!! =( ,,,, can anyone help me out
have a problem, my busband can,t kiss me. says hez not interested, how can i overcome this.
he also says i dont know how to seduce him.there is no activity in bed , he seem not to be interested in sex, he ignores me. what can i do
One of my closest friends is a guy, we’ve known each other for almost 7 years. We’ve dated on and off, but the issue is this: he will only go out with me or do anything physical if I’m with someone else! He’s not very subtle about it either, he’s practically jumped me at parties at soon as the (now exs) backs are turned. He hasn’t had much luck with relationships, in fact when every one has ended he runs right back to me for support. Note: We have never had sex.
I’m married now with a child (not with this guy) and he’s once again started asking me to hang out with him. (my husband works out of town, I see him maybe one week a month) I, much to my embarrassment, have been in love with him for years. We’ve always had a physical friendship, with much cuddling, so what is on the go?
this is coming from a guy
you girls must know that we males are very simple minded and to seduce us isnt all that hard just play a little game of cat and mouse. such as when a guy leads you to think hes to busy for you then flip that table and go out with a guy friend and put it in his head that this guy told you that your an amazing girl.. it seems to drive me a little crazy and it is a great way to prevoke jelousy. but if you really like the guy you must tell him after you have been out with the guy that you only want him and it doesnt matter what others say your feelings are set. !! I also understand guys only wanting friends and keeping things low and simple for the real reason of family expectations and so many stressful things a relationship entitles for the fact that alot of women make a man cower in his shell and hurt him to much so that he cant express himself properly due to a mind set which is almost impossible to change. . love and determination will slowly help but dont go crazy there. theres a few sweet an d incredible men out there that will make you feel like the princess that you are inside and will give you something you have only dreampt about
if you wanna talk more email me davidrobb2003 (at) hotmail (dot) com
Of all the advice online, I have found this so very helpful. It’s been so long that I’ve had a first date and will be going on one tomorrow. Although the subject isn’t rocket science we sure can let it worry us to think it is. This article has calmed my nerves. I appreciate it and will certainly come back to this site for more info!
okay well anynomous girl you betta break up wit yo girlfriend and go wit dat boy u need to tel him you gotta talk to him and when yall get in a place where yall can talk tell him you love him and tell him you didnt mean it when u said you didnt like him no more tell him you was just in a bad relationship at the time (dont go into details) and tell him that you reallly want another chance with him and when you are saying this look him in his eye and be clear and dont studder that will make him think you are nervous and you want him to know that you are comfortable around him and
if he says nothing say nevermind and say i guess you dont like me
if he says i love you to i always did or something like this smile and then kiss him
if he walks away never talk to him again unless he talks to you 1st
welll i hope this helps you
dear confused you need to folow your heart if you really love your friend tell your husband you just not feeling it anymore
if you really love your husband tell your friend that you and him can only be friends nothing more if he ask why tell him cuz i got a husband and a child and tell him he had his chance tell him he should have put a ring on it while you was out there
hope this helps