6. The Magic of Anticipation

Now, here’s a good one. This is a variation of “play hard to get”, which by the way is a very doubtful thing. If overdone it will harm you more than being of use. Instead, play a little game called “anticipation”.

Anticipation, excitement, and tension can be a huge turn-on for a man. Delay the gratification. Make two steps forward, one step back. Create a strong feeling of dissatisfaction in him. A dissatisfaction which can only be resolved by having you. It must never seem to be easy for him.

Make two steps forward, one step back. Contradict Yourself! Use the before mentioned signs of interest, then suddenly show disinterest, ignore him for two minutes. Then start again. Two steps forward, one step back.

7. Killing Eyes – The French Technique

Start with almost accidentally sidelong glances. You can follow up with a direct look. Now something starts what can be described as playful innocence (someone once said to me that the French girls invented that): The moment he looks back you instantly lower your eyes and put on an embarrassed smile. You can even emphasize that some moments later by looking again, this time longer and then again lower your eyes.

This is flirting without talking (we can learn a lot from the French, when it comes to lovemaking).

8. Touch Him “Accidentally”

When you reach for something, try to accidentally touch his hand. Don’t make it too obvious. Also touch him briefly during the conversation to make a point or when he just made an interesting remark about something.

The secret is being playful with casually touches now and then. This creates tension and also a physical connection. And more importantly: it subconsciously communicates that you’re not interested in “only being friends”.

9. The Power Of Erotic Dancing

This one is short and simple: learn how to dance in an erotic way and look for an opportunity for him to see. Don’t underestimate the power of this.

Most women love to express themselves on the dancefloor. Why not learning it and doing it the right way? There are courses on this, or just go to a club, watch and learn.

This is very powerful.

10. The Secret Ingredient

Now, there is a final ingredient to a successful seduction of a man: He must not feel seduced. He must think that he seduced you, not the other way around. Give him his victory, let him be the hero. Men like that. It gives them a feeling of security.

Why not taking advantage of that, if you get what you want!

Conclusion

Some other useful tips in short:

• Be mysterious and playful
• Awake the explorer in him
• Let him do most of the talking
• Flirt intensively with 90 % body-language and only 10 % with words
• Contradict yourself, confuse him
• Try to make an all-senses-explosion: looks, taste, music, touch, scent
• Take care never to appear too needy

As we all know, Jason Biggs from “American Pie” was seduced the easy way, with not much effort (who wonders?), as opposed to you, who now will master the art of seduction the sublime way and get any man you want. Well, almost any.

Happy hunting!

Your friend,

Eddie Corbano