Comments on: 12 Uplifting Quotes About Moving On After A Break Up

By: J.PEREZ

J.PEREZ — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 06:40:00 +0000

Well I have a similar story to these, but I didn’t come here for me. I was researching stuff to help a friend out. You know stuff like quotes and images to make her feel better. Shes been doing great thanks to some of these quotes. And I would like to say that anybody who has suffered through a bad break up should look for a friends help. Unfortunately when I went through my break up I was alone, no friend was there to help. Luckily I learned quick to live with out her, and now I can continue without fear. Not a lot of people come out great as I did, and after several years they keep suffering for their lost love. Just like my friend here. It’s been years since she lost her love and thanks to my help she’s been doing better and learning to let go. What I learned is that keeping it inside isn’t doing any good reading post from other people who suffered too doesn’t help as much as a friend could. I’m not saying its a waste of time or something like that but instead I’m saying look for more help, look for a friend.

By: Jaime_single

Jaime_single — Tue, 26 Apr 2011 12:23:00 +0000

this is very beautiful … thank u sooooo much …. finally move on..

By: anonymous

anonymous — Sun, 10 Apr 2011 04:54:00 +0000

Aww thank you so much and I will keep you in my prayers. The hardest part about all this aside from the fact that I didn’t see any of it coming was that he still comes around or tries to contact me and every single time he does its like I start from ground zero all over again. Everyday I pray to just get through the day….thanks again

By: Someone who can relate

Someone who can relate — Sun, 10 Apr 2011 04:40:00 +0000

I wish I knew what to tell you to do but I am still going through the pain myself so I haven’t quite figured out how to solve that part. I don’t know if you are religious or not but I can tell you that God doesn’t take something out of your life not to put something better in it’s place. Now these may just be words to you now but if you repeat it to yourself enough and remind yourself everyday of all the wonderful things you can do without your ex than eventually you will see that all things happen for a reason and he wasn’t meant to be in your life. As far as continuing to be there for him I would say follow your heart and only make decisions based on how YOU feel about it. I don’t even know you but I know you will be ok…smile you deserve to!

By: satish

satish — Sat, 09 Apr 2011 17:03:00 +0000

hii i should say that the guy who come in your life will be very happy to find a divine soul ..u always looked for his happiness and i am sure god must have seen some one very special for you ..and more over he never deserved you ..god can not give his angels to aaltu phatu dear ..u vl very dear soon..all the very best…my email id is satish.singh.kumar@gmail.com

By: anonymous

anonymous — Fri, 08 Apr 2011 09:24:00 +0000

I really appreciate these quotes. It is good to read something inspirational and uplifting after experiencing all that I have. I caught my what is now ex-boyfriend cheating on me by texting other girls. At the time I caught him cheating we had been together for five years. We were at a relatives house of mine and after his texting was interfering with him interacting with me and my family I decided to snatch the phone and to my surprise he was texting another girl. I confronted him about it and he insisted that she was just a friend and if I didn’t trust him then we didn’t need to be together anyway and with that I told him he was right and that it was over. After a week he contacted me saying he was sorry and he would never do it again but since this was not the first time I had caught him texting other women I told him I couldn’t forgive him. We continued talking and hanging out against my better judgment and I was slowly starting to regain trust in him. Although we weren’t officially together he would tell me how he wished we could be and that there was nobody else in his life. I ran into a relative of his and he told me how he had met the girl I caught my ex texting and that they had gone out to the movies and that my ex had been cheating on me all along with many different women. I was devastated to say the least. I confronted my ex about it and again he insisted that she was just a friend and that he was lonely and needed someone to be there for him while he was coping with our break up and that it was nothing more. He also said that his relative lied on him to make him look bad so he could sleep with me. I wasn’t buying it and I insisted on knowing the truth about her and any other women and when he wouldn’t tell me the truth I didn’t talk to him for over a month. After I ignored all of his calls, texts, and a letter he wrote he came to my house crying with flowers saying how sorry he was for the misunderstanding and how he was telling me the truth about her just being a friend of his and how he wants me back and can’t live without me. I told him before I could even consider it I had to know the truth about everything. Initially he kept saying he was telling me the truth but then after I kept pushing he said if I tell you the truth about everything you will never be with me again but just know I did you wrong and I’m sorry. I wanted to know just how he did me wrong and he became angry and finally said forget it I’ll give you what you’ve been asking for but this is for you not for me….he then went on to tell me how he had been having sex with girls he worked with, girls he met at work, girls he met on the bus to and from work, how he had one night stands towards the end of our relationship and after we broke up. He blamed me for why he was doing the things he did by saying that I wasn’t paying him enough attention and how he intentionally texted girls in front of me as a way of getting my attention. When I asked him if that was the case then why did you have sex with them and he said he didn’t know that he was drunk and rebellious but that it was just pussy to him and that he didn’t have any sort of feelings for any of the girls he had sex with. I never suspected he was having sex with other girls because he was always so emotionally available to me and literally every moment of free time I had he wanted to be with me all the way up until the day we broke up. This is why finding out he was cheating has come as such a shocker to me and honestly I still haven’t come to grips with all the dirt he’s done. I feel so stupid for still loving someone who is capable of such horrible things and although I know I could never be with him again I can’t get over not having him in my life because he was my best friend for six years. A couple weeks ago he invited me to have breakfast with him and his son and I politely declined and about a week ago he called me in the middle of the night several times. I haven’t heard from him since then but I’m sure I will hear from him again and I desperately need to get over him for my own mental health because he means me no good.

By: Abby Brown

Abby Brown — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 05:03:00 +0000

my boyfriend of 2 years and 9 months left me on Monday…i didn’t know why at first and it killed me he was talking about the weekend then he just was like I’m done? it tore me to pieces after a few days apart i called him and asked to come down to my college and see me and he did…he went on to tell me he still loved me, but he doesn’t know who he is anymore and only for him to admit that after telling me from the start of our relationship he has a “sleeping problem” that he actually was addicted to sleeping pills…and he NEVER had a sleeping problem! it killed me, but i told him we cant be together until he gets better and i cant be there to help him because he needs to understand why he did this for so long and couldn’t tell me till it was too late. We agreed to talk in 2 months and i would see how he was going with his recovery and in 6 months we might meet back up to see each other. I love him so much and being only 19 i knew i wanted to spend my life with him, but now after all this time i don’t know how to function without him and there’s reminders of him everywhere i go! At my home and college. How am I suppose to move on when we both still love each other? =’(

By: Jatz

Jatz — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 08:47:00 +0000

wow get rid of a jerk like that, u deserve better…no gf should be treated like that….let this dude go, u’ll be in pain for a while but believe me u’ll meet someone else who respects you and loves you in a real way….this guy’s jus using u, in life, its mostly yes and no, illusions r jus there, to keep u as a second fiddle so let this guy go.

By: Loldc85

Loldc85 — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 19:16:00 +0000

My boyfriend/Partner father of my only child has broken up with me after 8 YEARS!!!! I’ve never been able to let him go. I”m very independent, I can take care of myself, but I”m scared to be out on my own with the thought that I can never do things with him like I loved to!! He’s never been the good boyfriend, he’s never been affectionate/romantic. I should’ve walked away a LONG time ago, but my love has always been so strong! He’s left so many bruises and scars in my heart and my mind that it’s hard to ever trust a man in my life..I’m traumatized I feel as if I know how a man THINKS!!! I’ve left him with a deep scar as well that was caused 3 years ago, but that’s pretty much the only negative memory he’ll ever have of me!! As far as good memories with him, there isn’t that many, but I still love him! Is there something better out there for me? I dont know.. but I will hope that my journey to find out isn’t very painful, stressfull and long. =(

By: kevz

kevz — Sat, 22 Jan 2011 18:03:00 +0000

hi Rubi..where you from in the Philippines?
thanks for the advice. but the hard part is, i really still love her. and i’m still expecting her to come back. hope time can really heal a broken heart,,as they say.. thanks.