Archive for July, 2007

Healing a broken heart from a lost love seems to be the most challenging venture one could imagine. A break up usually starts with a phase of paralyzing shock then turns into helplessness and deep grief. It appears impossible to ever be happy again. Wouldn’t it be good if there was a secret how to get over a break up?

What if I told you that a break up or divorce is also a very good chance? Your opportunity? Look into the abyss and see who you really are! Do you believe in this?

Well, I for one, I believe. Because it happened to me and I experienced it myself.

“You don’t know what love is
Until you’ve learned the meaning of the blues
Until you’ve loved a love you’ve had to lose
You don’t know what love is”

–Chet Baker

My own break up in 1998 was on the one hand the most terrible and painful incident that ever happened to me, again on the other hand, the very best that happened to me. Sounds pretty paradoxical, huh?

For now, I would like to ask you just to take my word for it and read on, you will understand. Click to continue »

Guys, I know you waited for it, yearned for it, and finally here it is, as promised: the groundbreaking article on the 2 best pick up lines ever that will change your life!

But wait a minute. Didn’t I say that there is no such thing as magical pick up lines that make women loose their minds? And more importantly, didn’t I say that there is no such thing at all as a working pick up line?

Well, well, your right… and you’re not.

Actually, I also wrote that, if you had the right mindset and body language, you could say pretty much anything you like AND be successful. Practically that means you could go up to a beautiful woman, have the right body language, voice tone, a bright smile and say confidently: “Come here often?” and you WILL score. As simple as that. Of course you know it’s not simple at all, it takes month to develop the proper mindset.

So what do you actually say when approaching a hot woman? Click to continue »

Years back, at the time when I was really down – I was left just before marriage, devastated, lost my direction and joy in life – I received a mysterious letter. It came in a beige envelope with nothing on it but my handwritten name.

At first I thought it was some kind of new advertising and I nearly threw it away, I wasn’t in the mood for reading letters anyway. But would they handwrite only my first name on it and then manually throw it in my mailbox?

Very mysterious.

I will never forget the moment when I opened the envelope and pulled out the letter. It was some kind of vintage-made paper, like an antique papyrus.

When I finally read it I was so touched that tears ran out of my eyes. Click to continue »

“The fear of loss is a path to the dark side” – Master Yoda

Fears. Or more precisely: Fear Of Loss.

We know them, we are aware that they are bad, yet most of us seem incapable of shaking them off. I tell you, in fact, they are more dangerous for you than you can image. They paralyze you, make it impossible for you to stand up and take care of the problem. It’s important, however, to know them by name, so that you can choke them off early. This article will teach you how.

Napoleon Hill introduced us to the six ghosts of fear: the basic fears of which every human suffers to a certain degree. They are:

• The fear of POVERTY
• The fear of CRITICISM
• The fear of ILL HEALTH
• The fear of LOSS OF LOVE OF SOMEONE
• The fear of OLD AGE
• The fear of DEATH

Some people tend to suffer only from one specific fear, but most of us are affected by several of them.

It is vitally important that you are absolutely clear that fears are a state of mind. We consciously or unconsciously create fears to protect ourselves, allegedly. In fact, they create an opposite effect to protection. In the stone age fears had their right to exist. A “good healthy fear” of anything insured the stone age man’s survival. Yet he knew nothing about fear of criticism, poverty or old age. These are “civilization fears” we created artificially. Click to continue »

What determines the outcome of a day? Why are you sometimes up to scratch and then again deeply grieved? The answer is not a manic-depressive disorder. The answer is your disposition to be affected by certain events. Events that undermine your wellbeing and motivation. This is the secret of law of attraction applied the other way round.

I do not have in mind the kind of events we are all afraid of (whereas fear is never a good counselor, and the goal is, of course, to be fearless), please spare me from enumerating them. It’s rather the picayune things that are not only driving us mad sometimes, but more importantly, they are withdrawing the positive energy from us – if we let them.

Who has not been in the situation where you get up early in the morning, you haven’t slept well because the neighbor’s dog had barked all night long and the second you fell asleep the buzzer went off. You went into the bathroom only to realize that the toothpaste was empty. The only thing that would get you going now was a good hot cup of coffee… well you guessed it, the coffee-machine was busted. You rushed off to work, were late, argued with your superior, lost your job, drove home only to discover that your wife had run away with your best friend.

Ok… I exaggerated a little. But you get the picture. Click to continue »