When you go through a break up or divorce, everything reminds you of your Ex. There is this curious affinity to suffering. Something forces us to rethink, to evaluate, to relive the moments of the break up again and again, as if we will gain something very important from it.

I would like to share with you what I’ve learned the last two weeks when I was tied to a hospital bed in agonizing pain. I suffered for over 48 hours, from pain that was so overwhelming that all other reality was blurred out - until an emergency operation finally saved me from madness.