Comments on: 5 Reasons Why To Go For A Long Distance Relationship http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:45:08 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: brittany http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-5492 brittany Wed, 28 Oct 2009 01:41:05 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/#comment-5492 I was in a long distance relationship and my ex boyfriend couldn't handle it. He couldn't change himself to put long distance relationship into his expectations of a relationship. We were only 2 1/2 hrs away, seeing each other every other weekend. We would fight about our relationship or minor problems during the week and those fights or whatever are the ones that bugged him to much. Now he's trying to figure this all out. Any advice for him?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5492','brittany'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5492','brittany','I was in a long distance relationship and my ex boyfriend couldn\'t handle it. He couldn\'t change himself to put long distance relationship into his expectations of a relationship. We were only 2 1\/2 hrs away, seeing each other every other weekend. We would fight about our relationship or minor problems during the week and those fights or whatever are the ones that bugged him to much. Now he\'s trying to figure this all out. \r\n\r\nAny advice for him?'); return false;">quote</a></div> I was in a long distance relationship and my ex boyfriend couldn’t handle it. He couldn’t change himself to put long distance relationship into his expectations of a relationship. We were only 2 1/2 hrs away, seeing each other every other weekend. We would fight about our relationship or minor problems during the week and those fights or whatever are the ones that bugged him to much. Now he’s trying to figure this all out.

Any advice for him?

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]]> By: Jessica http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-5479 Jessica Mon, 26 Oct 2009 08:10:32 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/#comment-5479 Thank you so much for this website, it is comforting to see the views of other people in LDRs. I have only been with my partner or about 6 months. We met whilst he was in Australia on a working holiday visa. When we started dating, he was seeing someone else and yet did not tell me. It was only after I found out (through ways I am not proud of) that he was "in love" with this other woman and asking her to move to New Zealand with him if that was where work took him. He was saying all this to her, whilst sharing my bed at night. I confronted him. He admitted it. Then he moved in with me and told me he loved me. However, the lies continued and it wasn't until a couple of months ago that he finally stopped all contact with this other woman. Now he is back in the UK and I am a habitual snooper. I constantly feel the need to check back on him. He has bought me a ticket to move to the UK with him and I am scared. I don't feel as strongly for him as I did before and the illusion has completely shattered. I tried breaking up with him and told him I wasn't coming. My mother (who constantly gets involved in my relationships and abuses me when I break up with someone (even if they abused me!), managed to convince me that I should go; that she would pay if it doesn't work out. So I told him I would come and try. But to be honest, I don't know if I want to. I don't want to hurt him (again) but I don't want to be with him. What do I do?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5479','Jessica'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5479','Jessica','Thank you so much for this website, it is comforting to see the views of other people in LDRs. I have only been with my partner or about 6 months. We met whilst he was in Australia on a working holiday visa.\r\n\r\nWhen we started dating, he was seeing someone else and yet did not tell me. It was only after I found out (through ways I am not proud of) that he was \"in love\" with this other woman and asking her to move to New Zealand with him if that was where work took him. He was saying all this to her, whilst sharing my bed at night. I confronted him. He admitted it. Then he moved in with me and told me he loved me. However, the lies continued and it wasn\'t until a couple of months ago that he finally stopped all contact with this other woman. Now he is back in the UK and I am a habitual snooper. I constantly feel the need to check back on him. He has bought me a ticket to move to the UK with him and I am scared. I don\'t feel as strongly for him as I did before and the illusion has completely shattered. I tried breaking up with him and told him I wasn\'t coming. My mother (who constantly gets involved in my relationships and abuses me when I break up with someone (even if they abused me!), managed to convince me that I should go; that she would pay if it doesn\'t work out. So I told him I would come and try. But to be honest, I don\'t know if I want to. I don\'t want to hurt him (again) but I don\'t want to be with him. What do I do?'); return false;">quote</a></div> Thank you so much for this website, it is comforting to see the views of other people in LDRs. I have only been with my partner or about 6 months. We met whilst he was in Australia on a working holiday visa.

When we started dating, he was seeing someone else and yet did not tell me. It was only after I found out (through ways I am not proud of) that he was “in love” with this other woman and asking her to move to New Zealand with him if that was where work took him. He was saying all this to her, whilst sharing my bed at night. I confronted him. He admitted it. Then he moved in with me and told me he loved me. However, the lies continued and it wasn’t until a couple of months ago that he finally stopped all contact with this other woman. Now he is back in the UK and I am a habitual snooper. I constantly feel the need to check back on him. He has bought me a ticket to move to the UK with him and I am scared. I don’t feel as strongly for him as I did before and the illusion has completely shattered. I tried breaking up with him and told him I wasn’t coming. My mother (who constantly gets involved in my relationships and abuses me when I break up with someone (even if they abused me!), managed to convince me that I should go; that she would pay if it doesn’t work out. So I told him I would come and try. But to be honest, I don’t know if I want to. I don’t want to hurt him (again) but I don’t want to be with him. What do I do?

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]]> By: blue butterfly http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-5258 blue butterfly Tue, 01 Sep 2009 09:07:37 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/#comment-5258 Me and my bf start as a friend with short distance as students. Became sweet couple with long distance because of the large difference between our careers. Trust and consistency of communications are important aside from LOVE (obviously it must certainly follows in deep..strong affection you really feel it). Its really hard especially if TIME is always an issue to be constantly given by solution (effort must be work out by both of you like a real team). Rare intimate moments to be treasure are the best part of having this kind of set-up.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5258','blue butterfly'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5258','blue butterfly','Me and my bf start as a friend with short distance as students. Became sweet couple with long distance because of the large difference between our careers.\r\n\r\nTrust and consistency of communications are important aside from LOVE (obviously it must certainly follows in deep..strong affection you really feel it).\r\n\r\nIts really hard especially if TIME is always an issue to be constantly given by solution (effort must be work out by both of you like a real team). Rare intimate moments to be treasure are the best part of having this kind of set-up.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Me and my bf start as a friend with short distance as students. Became sweet couple with long distance because of the large difference between our careers.

Trust and consistency of communications are important aside from LOVE (obviously it must certainly follows in deep..strong affection you really feel it).

Its really hard especially if TIME is always an issue to be constantly given by solution (effort must be work out by both of you like a real team). Rare intimate moments to be treasure are the best part of having this kind of set-up.

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]]> By: Roze http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-5141 Roze Tue, 18 Aug 2009 13:17:09 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/#comment-5141 Hi Wow..First number four hit me. When you do get to see each other you do treasure those moments. I survived a 9 months long distance relationship which started in 1999. We met through friends and started seeing each other once a month for 9 months before he moved from his hometown to mine. We were married three months later and just celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary. However, surviving the long distance part was easy. It was the living together day by day with all the responsibilities that entails that made it difficult for him and then due to his drinking, made it impossible for me. We seperated 9 months ago(9 is really not a theme here lol ). I am now in another long distance relationship and things are going well. We are mature adults and we work hard on treasuring the moments we get together. Modern technology has come a long way and we see each other daily and talk often. I like the daily report blog idea and am going to bring that up to him when I kiss him goodnight tonight. I am glad I stumbled on to your site. Roze<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5141','Roze'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5141','Roze','Hi\r\nWow..First number four hit me. When you do get to see each other you do treasure those moments.\r\n\r\nI survived a 9 months long distance relationship which started in 1999. We met through friends and started seeing each other once a month for 9 months before he moved from his hometown to mine. We were married three months later and just celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary. \r\n\r\nHowever, surviving the long distance part was easy. It was the living together day by day with all the responsibilities that entails that made it difficult for him and then due to his drinking, made it impossible for me. We seperated 9 months ago(9 is really not a theme here lol ).\r\n\r\nI am now in another long distance relationship and things are going well. We are mature adults and we work hard on treasuring the moments we get together. Modern technology has come a long way and we see each other daily and talk often. I like the daily report blog idea and am going to bring that up to him when I kiss him goodnight tonight. I am glad I stumbled on to your site.\r\nRoze'); return false;">quote</a></div> Hi
Wow..First number four hit me. When you do get to see each other you do treasure those moments.

I survived a 9 months long distance relationship which started in 1999. We met through friends and started seeing each other once a month for 9 months before he moved from his hometown to mine. We were married three months later and just celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary.

However, surviving the long distance part was easy. It was the living together day by day with all the responsibilities that entails that made it difficult for him and then due to his drinking, made it impossible for me. We seperated 9 months ago(9 is really not a theme here lol ).

I am now in another long distance relationship and things are going well. We are mature adults and we work hard on treasuring the moments we get together. Modern technology has come a long way and we see each other daily and talk often. I like the daily report blog idea and am going to bring that up to him when I kiss him goodnight tonight. I am glad I stumbled on to your site.
Roze

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]]> By: Kristen Ayers http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-5076 Kristen Ayers Sat, 08 Aug 2009 07:40:58 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/#comment-5076 Eddie- Thank you infinitely for this article and your other article(s) about LDRs. Obviously, I am in one, otherwise there would be no need for reading them, but I had thought about ending it because the distance was too much for me, but...( after about a day, haha) I realized that if we mutually love one another, it could work. I still had some doubt about it, but after reading your articles and the stories about how people have made their relationships successful even if they are LD, I have renewed faith. I also would like to thank you for your #1 point. It helped reinforce, once again, that I should take this opportunity if we mutually like one another. And we do. We have our plans, and now you've given me more faith in LDRs, and I thank you infinitely for that. Sincerely, Kristen.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5076','Kristen Ayers'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5076','Kristen Ayers','Eddie-\r\n\r\nThank you infinitely for this article and your other article(s) about LDRs. Obviously, I am in one, otherwise there would be no need for reading them, but I had thought about ending it because the distance was too much for me, but...( after about a day, haha) I realized that if we mutually love one another, it could work. I still had some doubt about it, but after reading your articles and the stories about how people have made their relationships successful even if they are LD, I have renewed faith. I also would like to thank you for your #1 point. It helped reinforce, once again, that I should take this opportunity if we mutually like one another. And we do. We have our plans, and now you\'ve given me more faith in LDRs, and I thank you infinitely for that.\r\n\r\nSincerely, \r\nKristen.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Eddie-

Thank you infinitely for this article and your other article(s) about LDRs. Obviously, I am in one, otherwise there would be no need for reading them, but I had thought about ending it because the distance was too much for me, but…( after about a day, haha) I realized that if we mutually love one another, it could work. I still had some doubt about it, but after reading your articles and the stories about how people have made their relationships successful even if they are LD, I have renewed faith. I also would like to thank you for your #1 point. It helped reinforce, once again, that I should take this opportunity if we mutually like one another. And we do. We have our plans, and now you’ve given me more faith in LDRs, and I thank you infinitely for that.

Sincerely,
Kristen.

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]]> By: Amy Hunter http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-5063 Amy Hunter Wed, 05 Aug 2009 09:36:12 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/#comment-5063 I Have Been In My Relationship For 5 Month Nearly And Im16. People Make It Our Harder Than It Is If You Always Set A Date When You Want To Meet Next It Keeps Your Hopes And Faith Up On A High,My Boyfriend Is Moving Up In May And Were Very Serious About It.Age And Distance Is Nothing Its Feelings And Motovation Thta Fails Relationships You Both Have To Want It More Than Anything In The World Then You Have Yourself The One If You Respect That You Have To Wait Longer To Be With Each Other. They Do Work!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5063','Amy Hunter'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5063','Amy Hunter','I Have Been In My Relationship For 5 Month Nearly And Im16. People Make It Our Harder Than It Is If You Always Set A Date When You Want To Meet Next It Keeps Your Hopes And Faith Up On A High,My Boyfriend Is Moving Up In May And Were Very Serious About It.Age And Distance Is Nothing Its Feelings And Motovation Thta Fails Relationships You Both Have To Want It More Than Anything In The World Then You Have Yourself The One If You Respect That You Have To Wait Longer To Be With Each Other. They Do Work!'); return false;">quote</a></div> I Have Been In My Relationship For 5 Month Nearly And Im16. People Make It Our Harder Than It Is If You Always Set A Date When You Want To Meet Next It Keeps Your Hopes And Faith Up On A High,My Boyfriend Is Moving Up In May And Were Very Serious About It.Age And Distance Is Nothing Its Feelings And Motovation Thta Fails Relationships You Both Have To Want It More Than Anything In The World Then You Have Yourself The One If You Respect That You Have To Wait Longer To Be With Each Other. They Do Work!
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]]> By: Shannon http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-5058 Shannon Tue, 04 Aug 2009 18:54:42 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/#comment-5058 I am still on the fence on whether this long distance relationship is something I want to go for. I have never been so entwined emotionally with someone as him... He moved to a different school three hours away nearly two years ago but we have still kept in touch. It has almost been as if we were dating... the emotional intimacy. Recently there was a downturn in the unofficial relationship, some shared doubts and confusion on whether this was the right thing to do. But we are both on the same page now and understand the importance of such decision. We are both very mature for our tender age of 15; our priorities are firmly set. We both believe strongly that physical intimacy should come after marriage, so that isn't an issue. Further, we understand what is needed for this relationship to work. But we just don't know if it is too early... Afterall, the future goal, or "light at the end of the tunnel" is marriage.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5058','Shannon'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5058','Shannon','I am still on the fence on whether this long distance relationship is something I want to go for.\r\n\r\nI have never been so entwined emotionally with someone as him... He moved to a different school three hours away nearly two years ago but we have still kept in touch. It has almost been as if we were dating... the emotional intimacy. Recently there was a downturn in the unofficial relationship, some shared doubts and confusion on whether this was the right thing to do. But we are both on the same page now and understand the importance of such decision.\r\n\r\nWe are both very mature for our tender age of 15; our priorities are firmly set. We both believe strongly that physical intimacy should come after marriage, so that isn\'t an issue. Further, we understand what is needed for this relationship to work. But we just don\'t know if it is too early...\r\nAfterall, the future goal, or \"light at the end of the tunnel\" is marriage.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I am still on the fence on whether this long distance relationship is something I want to go for.

I have never been so entwined emotionally with someone as him… He moved to a different school three hours away nearly two years ago but we have still kept in touch. It has almost been as if we were dating… the emotional intimacy. Recently there was a downturn in the unofficial relationship, some shared doubts and confusion on whether this was the right thing to do. But we are both on the same page now and understand the importance of such decision.

We are both very mature for our tender age of 15; our priorities are firmly set. We both believe strongly that physical intimacy should come after marriage, so that isn’t an issue. Further, we understand what is needed for this relationship to work. But we just don’t know if it is too early…
Afterall, the future goal, or “light at the end of the tunnel” is marriage.

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]]> By: Jack http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-4804 Jack Sun, 21 Jun 2009 11:29:30 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/#comment-4804 T. I would say as he was cryin when he said it he may regret it and apologise and phone you back, thats if its really worth having him back when he clearly isnt as comitted as you. That feeling inside of him well every1 gets that, there will always be doubt i think for the other person whereas he might think he is more than capable of doing it maybe he has a few trust issues i cant reli say. if he doesnt want to even try then hes not worth ur time and effort, id say you'd be better off finding someone else! me and my girlfriend were together 4 months ( so no it shudnt of been serious ) but it really was! Then we moved 8/9 hours away from each other so I used to come home every 6 weeks and get either a long weekend or on holidays a week or two. there has been some really hard times and ill admit at first I didnt think it would work but I hoped for the best! now 10 months on we've been together for 14 months nearly and I'm home for good in 4/5 weeks.! I would maybe point him in the direction of this page or some other ones, because people said to me beforehand long distance CANNOT work they NEVER do, and it gave me a negative view on it until I came on the internet and pages like this which really do help. If you both really want it, and think that urselves are capable theres every reason to go for it, try and explain this to him! he may come round. good luck.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4804','Jack'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4804','Jack','T. I would say as he was cryin when he said it he may regret it and apologise and phone you back, thats if its really worth having him back when he clearly isnt as comitted as you.\r\nThat feeling inside of him well every1 gets that, there will always be doubt i think for the other person whereas he might think he is more than capable of doing it maybe he has a few trust issues i cant reli say.\r\nif he doesnt want to even try then hes not worth ur time and effort, id say you\'d be better off finding someone else!\r\nme and my girlfriend were together 4 months ( so no it shudnt of been serious ) but it really was! Then we moved 8\/9 hours away from each other so I used to come home every 6 weeks and get either a long weekend or on holidays a week or two.\r\nthere has been some really hard times and ill admit at first I didnt think it would work but I hoped for the best! now 10 months on we\'ve been together for 14 months nearly and I\'m home for good in 4\/5 weeks.!\r\nI would maybe point him in the direction of this page or some other ones, because people said to me beforehand long distance CANNOT work they NEVER do, and it gave me a negative view on it until I came on the internet and pages like this which really do help.\r\nIf you both really want it, and think that urselves are capable theres every reason to go for it, try and explain this to him! he may come round.\r\ngood luck.'); return false;">quote</a></div> T. I would say as he was cryin when he said it he may regret it and apologise and phone you back, thats if its really worth having him back when he clearly isnt as comitted as you.
That feeling inside of him well every1 gets that, there will always be doubt i think for the other person whereas he might think he is more than capable of doing it maybe he has a few trust issues i cant reli say.
if he doesnt want to even try then hes not worth ur time and effort, id say you’d be better off finding someone else!
me and my girlfriend were together 4 months ( so no it shudnt of been serious ) but it really was! Then we moved 8/9 hours away from each other so I used to come home every 6 weeks and get either a long weekend or on holidays a week or two.
there has been some really hard times and ill admit at first I didnt think it would work but I hoped for the best! now 10 months on we’ve been together for 14 months nearly and I’m home for good in 4/5 weeks.!
I would maybe point him in the direction of this page or some other ones, because people said to me beforehand long distance CANNOT work they NEVER do, and it gave me a negative view on it until I came on the internet and pages like this which really do help.
If you both really want it, and think that urselves are capable theres every reason to go for it, try and explain this to him! he may come round.
good luck.
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]]> By: T. http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-4803 T. Sun, 21 Jun 2009 09:03:36 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/#comment-4803 I just got dumped because my boyfriend - well, my ex.. - didn't believe a LDR could work out. I'm only 18 and we were dating for 9 months and a half, so maybe you don't consider that to be that serious. But I'm really crushed. Because he basically said I'm not worth the trouble of traveling 3,5 hours by train every two weeks. He said he wants to be able to go out in weekends and see his friends. And when he broke up with me he was crying, he didn't want to break up. But there's this feeling inside him that is telling him it would never work out. He doesn't know that, why am I being punished for his feeling, his *I think, I suppose*?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4803','T.'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4803','T.','I just got dumped because my boyfriend - well, my ex.. - didn\'t believe a LDR could work out. I\'m only 18 and we were dating for 9 months and a half, so maybe you don\'t consider that to be that serious. But I\'m really crushed. Because he basically said I\'m not worth the trouble of traveling 3,5 hours by train every two weeks. He said he wants to be able to go out in weekends and see his friends. And when he broke up with me he was crying, he didn\'t want to break up. But there\'s this feeling inside him that is telling him it would never work out.\r\nHe doesn\'t know that, why am I being punished for his feeling, his *I think, I suppose*?'); return false;">quote</a></div> I just got dumped because my boyfriend – well, my ex.. – didn’t believe a LDR could work out. I’m only 18 and we were dating for 9 months and a half, so maybe you don’t consider that to be that serious. But I’m really crushed. Because he basically said I’m not worth the trouble of traveling 3,5 hours by train every two weeks. He said he wants to be able to go out in weekends and see his friends. And when he broke up with me he was crying, he didn’t want to break up. But there’s this feeling inside him that is telling him it would never work out.
He doesn’t know that, why am I being punished for his feeling, his *I think, I suppose*?
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]]> By: Angela http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-4701 Angela Tue, 09 Jun 2009 00:44:21 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-why-to-go-for-a-long-distance-relationship/#comment-4701 <a href='#comment-4674' rel="nofollow">@ann</a> - Thanks Anne, I appreciate your advice, but it is not as easy as it sounds to move 2000 miles away when there are kids involved. I spent 2 months living at his place with him and his kids. We all got along great. He is an amazing person, and I fell in love with the area he lives in. He, my boyfriend, is more than willing to come out my way if he can find a job out here comparable to what he is making now. My issue is with my kids. I am more than willing to move to his side of the country but want to stay here with my kids at least until they graduate in 2 years. Is that too much to ask for.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4701','Angela'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4701','Angela','<a href=\'#comment-4674\' rel=\"nofollow\">@ann<\/a> - \r\nThanks Anne, I appreciate your advice, but it is not as easy as it sounds to move 2000 miles away when there are kids involved. I spent 2 months living at his place with him and his kids. We all got along great. He is an amazing person, and I fell in love with the area he lives in. He, my boyfriend, is more than willing to come out my way if he can find a job out here comparable to what he is making now. My issue is with my kids. I am more than willing to move to his side of the country but want to stay here with my kids at least until they graduate in 2 years. Is that too much to ask for.'); return false;">quote</a></div> @ann –
Thanks Anne, I appreciate your advice, but it is not as easy as it sounds to move 2000 miles away when there are kids involved. I spent 2 months living at his place with him and his kids. We all got along great. He is an amazing person, and I fell in love with the area he lives in. He, my boyfriend, is more than willing to come out my way if he can find a job out here comparable to what he is making now. My issue is with my kids. I am more than willing to move to his side of the country but want to stay here with my kids at least until they graduate in 2 years. Is that too much to ask for.
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