Comments on: A Very Special Long Distance Relationship Tip

By: RAi4ev3r

RAi4ev3r — Sat, 10 Dec 2011 07:31:00 +0000

Oh I know EXactly how that goes! Try the U.S. and China. He says he’ll be back next year (the US) but we can’t seem to come up with a date or communicate. Perhaps I’m doing too much leaving him messages on QQ, pictures, and whatnot-I understand that he’s busy but shouldn’t he send me something when he gets the chance? There are days inbetween his comments. How sincere is he about us with all the 我爱你’s but he finds it difficult to talk about anything else….surely I’m just being paranoid…But I find it extremely difficult to not search for some type of reassurance when I’m giving 100% and receiving 25% MAYBE. He’s so different in person, so maybe it’s just equally hard on him as it is for me? We’d met here in the US and been us for several years. IDK what to do anymore besides wait. I trust him. it’s just hard.

By: Esharmaine

Esharmaine — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 05:56:00 +0000

wow….we are in the same situation…..and seriously im thinking about giving up on him…

By: Missraneea

Missraneea — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 08:42:00 +0000

Im in malaysia and my man is in saudi arabia…he went there for good pay job…we talk through the skype everyday and make phone calls and we also plan to meet next year march and also june..so long distance relationship needs constant communication and trust.

By: Mutanu mia

Mutanu mia — Thu, 04 Aug 2011 06:16:00 +0000

long distance relationship? i think i know that it means…between me and the person who took my heart away are almost 4000km…that’s far away ha? i thought so…we started date 1year ago and he worked like crazy to make money and come to see me..but the problem is that he is always saying i will come, have faith but he is delaying so muck time with the book of tickets and the visa things..it’s just i try hard to be on position, to be powerful but i think i’m losing the fight…..we spent hours on internet, slept at 3 in the morning and awakened at 6 , spent money on international calls, spent my time and my trust. now it’s august and he is again fooling me that he come in october and i have to trust him. i put a limit and i said that i want to give me an answer until monday, monday came and he had no answer …since then i did not talk with him ..today it’s the fourth day, he is posting some love things on facebook and i know he is waiting my message..i want not to answer him anymore to see if he has that common sense to send me a message with the answer i want. what to do? i totally love him but i don’t want to accept his fooling things again

By: Y0itsc0c0

Y0itsc0c0 — Sat, 02 Jul 2011 05:41:00 +0000

My boyfriend and I met 6 years ago online. After talking for 4 years, we both admitted we were in love with each other. I’m in Iowa and he’s in Ireland.. That’s the hard part. Right now his Internet is down, so I only hear from him a few times a day. We have set an approximate time for me to visit, but as we all know it’s tough being young with parents who worry. I hope that him and I, along with everyone else who is going through this, end up being together, just as we’ve always wanted. I love him more than anything.

By: long distance relationship

long distance relationship — Fri, 17 Jun 2011 06:01:00 +0000

Hi,

Thanks guys for sharing your very special long distance relationship. Its really very helpful guys for me.

Thanks

By: cath

cath — Sun, 09 Jan 2011 19:03:00 +0000

this is a year late, but I’ll respond in case any other guys have the same question– don’t be afraid to open up. This is a long distance relationship. You have to dive right in or doubts will start to bubble in your minds. It’s cute that you feel shy, but if the girl is expressing herself intimately and you respond gruffly or avoid what she said, she might worry that you don’t feel strongly enough for her to echo her gesture. If she says she misses you, say you miss her too and include an example of during the day of when you thought about her.

By: Brii

Brii — Wed, 08 Dec 2010 10:34:00 +0000

okay, I’m 15 teen & my Boyfriend is 15 also im turning 16 in 1 month He lives in wisconsin & i live in Nevada, Las Vegas. We been together since 14teen 1 year but my dad found out & we couldn’t see each other anymore:( I moved away & then got in touch with him again When this happend i got the most butterflys in my stomach ever! I thought he had a girlfriend. He didn’t date any girls or sleep with any girls since me, Same with me i haven’t sleep with any guys or dated any other guy it just wasn’t the same. Now were back together & happy we are best friends & lovers, I think our realtionship is so strong also is because He lost his virginty to me. He tells me everyday that he is krazy in love with me & would die for me i don’t know what to say when he says this it makes me feel like wow this is my true love. We keep in touch by e-mail, Text, Calling, Sending pics, Playing video games together on the phone:) we try to make it real as possible so it doesn’t feel like were far away. Does anybody think this will last & is he my true love????

By: Tazzy_parkzz

Tazzy_parkzz — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 22:17:57 +0000

im 15yrs old and a girl. i broke up with my bf two weeks ago caz he thought we should but today he told me why caz we never talk (we have a long-distance relationship) and he has a baby with another girl he didn't think it was fair on me. but, i've known him for a year we dated fer 4months were close for the rest of it and after a year got back together. its very hard but it can work, only if BOTH of you want to try. i love my bf and i just want him and i know he feels the same. i think you should talk to this girl like properly and see how she feels caz of she just wants to be with you like you do then it can work.
hoped i helped.

By: Smilycc

Smilycc — Fri, 05 Nov 2010 05:44:19 +0000

right now i am going through a long distance relationship…its very depressing for me not have as much contact with my him….its my very first time at this long distance relationship thing and it scares me to know what is going to come up…..when we started dating we had every possible way to stay in contact but now its hard he has no cell and the only way we stay in contact now is through e-mails…its fustating and plus i sometimes tear up knowing that i cant hear his voice till he solves his problem with his cell and phone….. i need advice please….ooo and we have 3 month dating…he tells me to have faith and mostly trust..and i do..but i need some advice…