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I am writing this article in spite of endangering myself of being penalized by other men for disclosing our weaknesses and leaving us defenseless. I am already hearing the shouting and seeing the torches being lit in front of my house.

On the other hand, maybe they will celebrate me, because most men want to be seduced. They pray for it. Like Jason Biggs said in American Pie: “Oh my God, she used me. I was used. I was used! Cool!”

Dear Gals, you want to seduce a man and you don’t know how to? Fear not. Help is on the way, for I write this article on ways how to seduce a man only for you. Like I did in my groundbreaking article how to approach a man, I thought about things I would fall for (and have been fallen for) and additionally asked Brigitte (the man-eater) for her main techniques. Click to continue »

Nearly everyone has experienced a long distance relationship at some point in his life. Most of us have failed to maintain it and have broken up, even though this may have been a promising relationship. Why is that so? What are the common reasons to break up in those long distance relationships and how can you make them work?

To begin with, I was there myself. A good friend of mine gave my e-mail address to his wife’s best friend. Shortly after that she dropped me a line. So we got to know each other. By e-mail.

The great thing about e-mail communication is, there are no games. At least there shouldn’t be. You can present yourself as the person you are. You can truly open up.

So we fell in love just for the persons we were. No masks, no shields. But still 2000 miles apart. Click to continue »

If you are of the opinion that a woman should sit there, look nicely, slightly smile from time to time and wait her prince to finally come up to her, then this article is not for you.

If you are, on the other hand, a woman, who is living in the 21st century, knowing who she is and taking what she wants, than read on. You will like it.

First of all: there is really nothing wrong for a women to approach a man. It shows that you are confident and that you know what you want. Men really like that.

Trust me on this one.

Some may ask themselves: what do I know about the secrets of a woman approaching men? Click to continue »

Believe it or not, there is one thing that scares many men more than hell:
that is to approach a beautiful woman.

Why is that the case? What can a beautiful woman possibly do to an approaching man? Rip his head off? Not likely.

But I understand it. I once was there myself.

It is a fundamental fear of rejection that dominates here. An attractive woman has lots of power. Everybody is polite to her, wants to get her drinks, wants to be with her. She is a status symbol. An indication of personal power. And she knows that. But the power she has over you, is only the power that you give her.

Besides the fear of rejection, what frustrates most men additionally is also an inhibitory approach anxiety. Click to continue »

A good friend asked me two years ago a very fundamental question. She said: “I wish I had a secret treasure map on how to escape my misery, because I don’t have the strength to think about it. Is there one?”.

This got me thinking.

I knew, that achieving any goal requires the very same process. No matter what you want, be it physical things or an inner state of happiness, you get it the same way.

“Who and where you are today is simply the result of your thoughts, feelings and actions up to this day.”

Whenever you are unsatisfied with your life, a specific situation, you’ll ask for a new condition. A way things should be. Whether this is to have a better job, to earn more money, to have a fulfilling relationship or simply to be the coolest guy/babe in the universe. Click to continue »