Considering the growing number of daily comments on this site and the need to interact and connect with each other I’ve implemented a new comment system called “Disqus” (you’ve probably noticed that post comments don’t look quite the same as they previously did).

It is now much easier to reply to people, mark the comments you like (by clicking on the “like” button) and a whole bunch of other new things.

You can still post comments in the same manner as before by simply providing your name and email address (email address will still NEVER be revealed)

However, the new comment system has many new additional advantages for you:

• You can now easily log in via Facebook Connect, Yahoo!, Twitter or OpenID and also SHARE your comments
• You can sort comments, at your option, by Newest First, Oldest First, Popular Now and Best Rating
• We have now threaded comments and replies so that you can respond to other readers, indenting them under that comment
• You get notifications of new comments (as before) but you can now reply directly by email
• You can also easily subscribe to all comments without logging in, either by email or RSS feed
  (Important: If you have subscribed before, the notifications might not work any more, please subscribe again by checking. “Subscribe to all comments by email” under the comments box.)
• You can now edit your own comments

The best thing is (for me and for you) that IF you have a verified account (means you login via Facebook, Twitter, OpenID, Yahoo! or Disqus) you don’t have to wait that I approve your comment. It will appear immediately.

IF you want to stay anonymous and you still want to take advantage of some of the additional benefits you can also create a Disqus account. All you need is a valid email address for verification.

Creating a Disqus account also enables a number of additional benefits:

• You can share your comments by default via via Facebook, Twitter, Yahoo!, and many popular blogging platforms
• You can upload your own picture, use a previous Gravatar picture, OR use your Facebook or Twitter picture
• You can track and edit your comments across all websites that use Disqus

AND additionally stay anonymous.

You can sign up for Disqus on our site by following the instructions below:

Step 1: Underneath each post, there is a linked button for “Disqus”. (Note: If you’re already signed up and logged in, you won’t see this.) To create a Disqus account click the linked button that reads “Disqus.”

Step 2: After you click on the Disqus-Button, you’ll be prompted for your username and password. Instead, click the link below that says “Don’t have one? Register a new profile.”

Step 3: At the registration screen, enter an email address, username and password. Click the register button. As long as the username you’ve selected isn’t taken by another Disqus user, you’ll receive a verification email directly from Disqus.

After that you can edit your profile and change your display name.

Note: In order to view all the comments you’ve made with your Disqus account anywhere on the web, customize your Disqus profile and add features like avatars, go to your profile at Disqus.com and navigate the links on the left side or in the top nav bar.

All other features should be pretty self explanatory, if not, just write a comment or drop me an email.

I hope this new comments system will make it easier to help each other.

I’d love to hear your opinion on how you like the new comments system. Please comment below, thanks.

Your friend,
Eddie

I’m sure you have noticed it by now: the new design is finally live!

LovesAGame is nearly 2 1/2 years old, and I wanted something fresh and new. The old design was fine, but it lacked flexibility and I desperately wanted a recognizable logo and some fresh new colors.

After several tries with different logo-designers, nobody came up with anything I liked, so I simply sat down and created one on my own. I’m only a hobby designer so this undertaking was very risky, but I am pretty satisfied with it.  I hope you like it too.

Some new things we have now are a paged comments feature.  This is something the site desperately needed as one article has over 400 comments and the site took really long to load.

As we have avatars now, you might want your image to appear beside your comment. This is very easily done – just visit gravatar.com, sign up, upload an image and it will instantly appear beneath all your comments.

If you notice some errors or strange looking pages, please comment here or send me an e-mail.  I will try to fix it right away.

I also very much appreciate your opinion and suggestions.

Thank you!

Your friend,
Eddie

For probably most of my readers (the breakup survivors) the year 2008 was definitely not their best one. For many others however, it was hopefully a start into a new and better future.

To me personally the year 2008 brought very radical but happy changes. I will never forget this year and what it meant to me.

I wanted to remind you that we alone are the masters of our own destiny. We are free to choose our own paths at any time and consciously create the future we want for ourselves. Never be afraid of changes in your life.

A new year is an excellent opportunity for a fresh new start.

I wish everybody a very happy, healthy and successful New Year.

If you need some help with New Year’s resolutions, check out the article I wrote last year about resolutions that can change your life.

All the best to everybody, your friend,

Eddie Corbano

(Photograph is a courtesy of Mohan.M.)

This is something I have been looking forward to for a long time: Creating a FREE break up recovery newsletter for you, which will help you with the most common problems you will encounter when breaking up or going through a divorce.

But I never got around to it… until now.

I’m happy to announce that the first “LovesAGame” Free Break Up Recovery Newsletter is live as of now:

The Secrets of Ultrafast Break Up Recovery Newsletter

What can you expect from this FREE newsletter?

First of all, the newsletter is on a weekly basis, so you have time to read it and to apply the suggestions and exercises in it.

Every issue is composed of a reader’s question and my answer, with some broader explanation for the topic.

I chose the questions due to the frequency of appearance and the relevancy to a certain topic. The topics are arranged as they normally appear when going through the phases of suffering from a broken heart.

How can the newsletter help YOU?

Because the newsletter follows the common 4 phases of a break up, you will get great advice every week for the exact questions and problems that are relevant to you at this very moment.

What are some examples of the questions?

The first few weeks after a break up are concerned with acceptance and dealing with the No-Contact problem.

So the first topics are:

“Do YOU Make These Mistakes On No-Contact?”
“6 Rules Of No-Contact If Your Ex Is Still Around”

Other issues deal with some other common problems and questions you might have during a break up or divorce:

“What To Do When You Miss Your Partner”
“How To Deal With Infidelity”
“Does Your Ex Still Love You?”

and many more…

Another very useful feature of the newsletter includes the “Success Story” issues.

Read how other “LovesAGame” readers overcame their own break ups and exactly WHAT they did. Read their inspirational stories, and get comfort that others have managed to get over it eventually.

So can you.

Is it really FREE?

Yes, completely free, no strings attached. If you don’t like it, you can unsubscribe anytime without further obligations.

Why am I doing it?

I have been giving FREE email advice since the beginning of “LovesAGame” in February 2007, (a service that other coaches charge a lot of money for), and get A LOT of emails.

My goal here is to make my answers available for everyone, so that everyone can profit from it and get over their break ups or divorces faster than normal.

How can I subscribe?

Just click on the following link, fill in your Name and Email and click on “Free Instant Access”.

FREE Break Up Recovery Newsletter

You will get the first issue of the newsletter right away.

So, what are you waiting for?  Subscribe, take action and start your healing process right now!

Your friend,

Eddie Corbano