Comments on: Dealing With Anger After A Break Up – Part 2/3 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2 Learn how to survive a break up, rediscover your true self and find Mr/s Right Thu, 17 May 2012 03:09:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Irene http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-19825 Irene Sun, 19 Feb 2012 18:15:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/#comment-19825 I have so much anger towards my ex, although I left him (6 monts ago).He wasn't treating me good, disrespected me, didn't apreciate me, criticized me, treated me with indiference and I had enough! And now I feel so much anger towards him because he never appologied, never believed that he was wrong and that he managed to moved on, have again another good woman for him.I really don't understand.And me I have all this anger and can't move on.I will really like to punch him, tell him in the face that he is a jerk,an asshole that doesn't deserve anything good in life.But good things happen for him now; it's just not right!Life is not fair sometimes and doing and being good with the others it's just not worthed... I have so much anger towards my ex, although I left him (6 monts ago).He wasn’t treating me good, disrespected me, didn’t apreciate me, criticized me, treated me with indiference and I had enough! And now I feel so much anger towards him because he never appologied, never believed that he was wrong and that he managed to moved on, have again another good woman for him.I really don’t understand.And me I have all this anger and can’t move on.I will really like to punch him, tell him in the face that he is a jerk,an asshole that doesn’t deserve anything good in life.But good things happen for him now; it’s just not right!Life is not fair sometimes and doing and being good with the others it’s just not worthed…

]]> By: Eddie Corbano http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-11079 Eddie Corbano Sat, 08 Jan 2011 07:47:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/#comment-11079 Well, that's not so easy to answer. It depends on the situation. If there are negative circumstances like abuse, cheating, etc., then I recommend going NC right away. If not, a closure conversation right at the beginning (during the fist week) could help you. Well, that’s not so easy to answer. It depends on the situation.

If there are negative circumstances like abuse, cheating, etc., then I recommend going NC right away.

If not, a closure conversation right at the beginning (during the fist week) could help you.

]]> By: Rebecca http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-11070 Rebecca Fri, 07 Jan 2011 16:46:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/#comment-11070 Hi,My breakup happened Jan.2,out of the blue,I started NC the next day.Is it possible to start NC too soon...I feel i have things to say to him...Im unsure if it will make me feel better or not after reading many of your articles...how does getting closure fit into NC??? Hi,My breakup happened Jan.2,out of the blue,I started NC the next day.Is it possible to start NC too soon…I feel i have things to say to him…Im unsure if it will make me feel better or not after reading many of your articles…how does getting closure fit into NC???

]]> By: Rebecca http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-11071 Rebecca Fri, 07 Jan 2011 16:46:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/#comment-11071 Hi,My breakup happened Jan.2,out of the blue,I started NC the next day.Is it possible to start NC too soon...I feel i have things to say to him...Im unsure if it will make me feel better or not after reading many of your articles...how does getting closure fit into NC??? Hi,My breakup happened Jan.2,out of the blue,I started NC the next day.Is it possible to start NC too soon…I feel i have things to say to him…Im unsure if it will make me feel better or not after reading many of your articles…how does getting closure fit into NC???

]]> By: Rebecca http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-11072 Rebecca Fri, 07 Jan 2011 16:46:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/#comment-11072 Hi,My breakup happened Jan.2,out of the blue,I started NC the next day.Is it possible to start NC too soon...I feel i have things to say to him...Im unsure if it will make me feel better or not after reading many of your articles...how does getting closure fit into NC??? Hi,My breakup happened Jan.2,out of the blue,I started NC the next day.Is it possible to start NC too soon…I feel i have things to say to him…Im unsure if it will make me feel better or not after reading many of your articles…how does getting closure fit into NC???

]]> By: Rebecca http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-11073 Rebecca Fri, 07 Jan 2011 16:46:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/#comment-11073 Hi,My breakup happened Jan.2,out of the blue,I started NC the next day.Is it possible to start NC too soon...I feel i have things to say to him...Im unsure if it will make me feel better or not after reading many of your articles...how does getting closure fit into NC??? Hi,My breakup happened Jan.2,out of the blue,I started NC the next day.Is it possible to start NC too soon…I feel i have things to say to him…Im unsure if it will make me feel better or not after reading many of your articles…how does getting closure fit into NC???

]]> By: Rebecca http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-11074 Rebecca Fri, 07 Jan 2011 16:46:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/#comment-11074 Hi,My breakup happened Jan.2,out of the blue,I started NC the next day.Is it possible to start NC too soon...I feel i have things to say to him...Im unsure if it will make me feel better or not after reading many of your articles...how does getting closure fit into NC??? Hi,My breakup happened Jan.2,out of the blue,I started NC the next day.Is it possible to start NC too soon…I feel i have things to say to him…Im unsure if it will make me feel better or not after reading many of your articles…how does getting closure fit into NC???

]]> By: @crossroads http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-10729 @crossroads Tue, 14 Dec 2010 10:53:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/#comment-10729 hey eddie..... this is great advise. thnx. i had heard that we shud remain single for sumtym aftr a breakup but had nevr really understud y. 2day u enlightened me. :) god bless you. hey eddie….. this is great advise. thnx. i had heard that we shud remain single for sumtym aftr a breakup but had nevr really understud y. 2day u enlightened me. :) god bless you.

]]> By: Infinity1009 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-7980 Infinity1009 Sun, 04 Jul 2010 11:16:12 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/#comment-7980 Hi, I am sorry to hear that. i was in your position for many times from a same man I loved so much. 50 times that he broke up and got back together with me, i wanted him so much until the last time I did a stupid thing, like Eddie said - PAC (Panic Action Control), i lied to get his attention and he caught me, that was bad. I am a good person but what I did somehow put myself way lower than I already was. I kept beating myself up until i found Eddie's website and I stopped beating myself up. I walked thru the reading from many people here and they had so much problem like cheating and trust issue. My ex dumped me because I am not enough for him - communication skill, emotion state and i have ego. You can feel angry about it but you need to control it, you are giving him control and power to make you feel miserable. I know it is hard. It is almost 30 days NC, I still miss him very much but I know I cannot force someone who rejected me to be with me. Take some time to calm down, start the NC rule and have sometimes to think about who you are. also take an objective reason to improve yourself if you do really have some weakness and be proud of the strength that you have. Calm down, follow Eddie's advise and start it from today. Hi, I am sorry to hear that. i was in your position for many times from a same man I loved so much. 50 times that he broke up and got back together with me, i wanted him so much until the last time I did a stupid thing, like Eddie said – PAC (Panic Action Control), i lied to get his attention and he caught me, that was bad. I am a good person but what I did somehow put myself way lower than I already was. I kept beating myself up until i found Eddie's website and I stopped beating myself up. I walked thru the reading from many people here and they had so much problem like cheating and trust issue. My ex dumped me because I am not enough for him – communication skill, emotion state and i have ego. You can feel angry about it but you need to control it, you are giving him control and power to make you feel miserable. I know it is hard. It is almost 30 days NC, I still miss him very much but I know I cannot force someone who rejected me to be with me. Take some time to calm down, start the NC rule and have sometimes to think about who you are. also take an objective reason to improve yourself if you do really have some weakness and be proud of the strength that you have. Calm down, follow Eddie's advise and start it from today.

]]> By: Hurtsalot http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-9938 Hurtsalot Sun, 04 Jul 2010 03:27:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/dealing-with-anger-after-a-break-up-part-2/#comment-9938 Help, i completely understand what you are going through, i am on the same boat, my situation is very taboo and very unconventional to say the least... i am not the greatest person right now to myself, but i do know that anger will take out the best in you... because it has in me already... i am full of it... i want to hurt him but at the same time love him.... he is great with his defaults of course and i am here hurting like you. You are not alone in this and you will go through the motions of anger, strength then depression in all different cycles. You will be feeling them all over the place.. like a lost puppy but you will get yourself back... sooner or later and i know that the in between is what hurts... know ur not alone. Help, i completely understand what you are going through, i am on the same boat, my situation is very taboo and very unconventional to say the least… i am not the greatest person right now to myself, but i do know that anger will take out the best in you… because it has in me already… i am full of it… i want to hurt him but at the same time love him…. he is great with his defaults of course and i am here hurting like you. You are not alone in this and you will go through the motions of anger, strength then depression in all different cycles. You will be feeling them all over the place.. like a lost puppy but you will get yourself back… sooner or later and i know that the in between is what hurts… know ur not alone.

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