Comments on: Getting Over A Break Up – The Final Chapter http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Mon, 15 Mar 2010 06:00:40 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Kevin http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-2/#comment-6730 Kevin Tue, 09 Mar 2010 15:42:40 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/#comment-6730 <a href='http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-1/#comment-631' rel="nofollow">@Eddie Corbano</a> - O wow, i know that all to well. I'm 18 and me and my ex dated for 4 years, we moved in together when we were 17( WHAT was i thinking) and i found this site 2 days after we broke up and after a month i felt fantastic, i wasn;t even going up and down, then we met up, talked for like an hour... boom i felt the same way i did when she broke up with me minus the panic. and now i feel im going through the motions again.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6730','Kevin'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6730','Kevin','<a href=\'http:\/\/lovesagame.com\/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter\/comment-page-1\/#comment-631\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Eddie Corbano<\/a> - O wow, i know that all to well. I\'m 18 and me and my ex dated for 4 years, we moved in together when we were 17( WHAT was i thinking) and i found this site 2 days after we broke up and after a month i felt fantastic, i wasn;t even going up and down, then we met up, talked for like an hour... boom i felt the same way i did when she broke up with me minus the panic. and now i feel im going through the motions again.'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Eddie Corbano – O wow, i know that all to well. I’m 18 and me and my ex dated for 4 years, we moved in together when we were 17( WHAT was i thinking) and i found this site 2 days after we broke up and after a month i felt fantastic, i wasn;t even going up and down, then we met up, talked for like an hour… boom i felt the same way i did when she broke up with me minus the panic. and now i feel im going through the motions again.
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]]> By: Brandon http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-2/#comment-6683 Brandon Thu, 04 Mar 2010 14:14:25 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/#comment-6683 I've gone through acceptance & going through derpression. Luckily I had the help of a close friend who has gone through this exact thing 8 years ago and has recently married the love of his life for the last 7 years. So I know it's possible to move on. I love the part about kicking your ex from her pedistal. I never realized I was putting her up there. Once kicked down it doesn't seem as bad a loss. I only focused on the ONE bad thing she did & not her other faults had been accepting (not easily or without problems) over the course of our 9 year marriage. I couldn't imagine my "Angel" doing this to me but now that I think of all the things that take her off her pedistal she doesn't look so angelic anymore. The part about facing them is probably true but I've been facing her the whole time since we are being civil in our divorce & not fighting over anything. She also has answered just about every question I ever asked her. This is good for closure/peace of mind. She didn't understand why I asked what I did but I explained that I was driving myself crazy trying to wonder how & what happened. I hate secrets & told her she owed me answeres. I do warn anyone thinking about asking for details because you might not be able to handle the answers. Friends really help. I'm in the process of reaching out myself.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6683','Brandon'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6683','Brandon','I\'ve gone through acceptance & going through derpression.\r\nLuckily I had the help of a close friend who has gone through this exact thing 8 years ago and has recently married the love of his life for the last 7 years. So I know it\'s possible to move on.\r\n\r\nI love the part about kicking your ex from her pedistal.\r\nI never realized I was putting her up there.\r\nOnce kicked down it doesn\'t seem as bad a loss.\r\nI only focused on the ONE bad thing she did & not her other faults had been accepting (not easily or without problems) over the course of our 9 year marriage.\r\nI couldn\'t imagine my \"Angel\" doing this to me but now that I think of all the things that take her off her pedistal she doesn\'t look so angelic anymore.\r\nThe part about facing them is probably true but I\'ve been facing her the whole time since we are being civil in our divorce & not fighting over anything.\r\n\r\nShe also has answered just about every question I ever asked her.\r\nThis is good for closure\/peace of mind.\r\nShe didn\'t understand why I asked what I did but I explained that I was driving myself crazy trying to wonder how & what happened.\r\nI hate secrets & told her she owed me answeres.\r\nI do warn anyone thinking about asking for details because you might not be able to handle the answers.\r\n\r\nFriends really help.\r\nI\'m in the process of reaching out myself.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I’ve gone through acceptance & going through derpression.
Luckily I had the help of a close friend who has gone through this exact thing 8 years ago and has recently married the love of his life for the last 7 years. So I know it’s possible to move on.

I love the part about kicking your ex from her pedistal.
I never realized I was putting her up there.
Once kicked down it doesn’t seem as bad a loss.
I only focused on the ONE bad thing she did & not her other faults had been accepting (not easily or without problems) over the course of our 9 year marriage.
I couldn’t imagine my “Angel” doing this to me but now that I think of all the things that take her off her pedistal she doesn’t look so angelic anymore.
The part about facing them is probably true but I’ve been facing her the whole time since we are being civil in our divorce & not fighting over anything.

She also has answered just about every question I ever asked her.
This is good for closure/peace of mind.
She didn’t understand why I asked what I did but I explained that I was driving myself crazy trying to wonder how & what happened.
I hate secrets & told her she owed me answeres.
I do warn anyone thinking about asking for details because you might not be able to handle the answers.

Friends really help.
I’m in the process of reaching out myself.

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]]> By: Purpose « The Days After Today http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-2/#comment-6346 Purpose « The Days After Today Sun, 07 Feb 2010 12:58:39 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/#comment-6346 [...] everything, after reading the articles I suddenly felt a little hope in me. I was inspired by those articles and I kept on reading the following articles. After this jolt of hope in me I started to think [...]<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6346','Purpose « The Days After Today'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6346','Purpose « The Days After Today','[...] everything, after reading the articles I suddenly felt a little hope in me. I was inspired by those articles and I kept on reading the following articles. After this jolt of hope in me I started to think [...]'); return false;">quote</a></div> [...] everything, after reading the articles I suddenly felt a little hope in me. I was inspired by those articles and I kept on reading the following articles. After this jolt of hope in me I started to think [...]
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]]> By: Dionee http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-2/#comment-6221 Dionee Sat, 30 Jan 2010 17:28:22 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/#comment-6221 Well the guy i was dating, started to see another woman while my dad was dying in the hospital. I didnt have enough time to spend with him since I had to look after my dad. He then avoided me at all costs during the time I needed him most. He would call occasionally but seldom asked how I was doing or about my dad. Actually one time he said "I don't care about how you are feeling" and I was like "seriously??". Now that I look back he was a real jerk and not worthy of my love. I tried to get a confrontation out of him just so we could talk out what really happened and for me to tell him He was an ass and to wish him the best...but he wouldn't commit to doing so . I got the message and made up my mind that, that was it. He had photos up with him and this girl I knew on facebook and yet he said she was not his woman etc...damn liar. This guy hurt me deep and at the worst time ...during the grieving period for my father...I severed contact with an occasional text or email (nothing personal at all) because I am a christian and i still wanted to show love. However it really did hurt so everything is over now. I was way too into him and come to think of it way too good for him too...it was time to break free ...there really is better out there. We just need to be patient and wait.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6221','Dionee'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6221','Dionee','Well the guy i was dating, started to see another woman while my dad was dying in the hospital. I didnt have enough time to spend with him since I had to look after my dad. He then avoided me at all costs during the time I needed him most.\r\n\r\n He would call occasionally but seldom asked how I was doing or about my dad. Actually one time he said \"I don\'t care about how you are feeling\" and I was like \"seriously??\". Now that I look back he was a real jerk and not worthy of my love. \r\n\r\nI tried to get a confrontation out of him just so we could talk out what really happened and for me to tell him He was an ass and to wish him the best...but he wouldn\'t commit to doing so . I got the message and made up my mind that, that was it. \r\n\r\nHe had photos up with him and this girl I knew on facebook and yet he said she was not his woman etc...damn liar. This guy hurt me deep and at the worst time ...during the grieving period for my father...I severed contact with an occasional text or email (nothing personal at all) because I am a christian and i still wanted to show love. However it really did hurt so everything is over now. \r\n\r\nI was way too into him and come to think of it way too good for him too...it was time to break free ...there really is better out there. We just need to be patient and wait.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Well the guy i was dating, started to see another woman while my dad was dying in the hospital. I didnt have enough time to spend with him since I had to look after my dad. He then avoided me at all costs during the time I needed him most.

He would call occasionally but seldom asked how I was doing or about my dad. Actually one time he said “I don’t care about how you are feeling” and I was like “seriously??”. Now that I look back he was a real jerk and not worthy of my love.

I tried to get a confrontation out of him just so we could talk out what really happened and for me to tell him He was an ass and to wish him the best…but he wouldn’t commit to doing so . I got the message and made up my mind that, that was it.

He had photos up with him and this girl I knew on facebook and yet he said she was not his woman etc…damn liar. This guy hurt me deep and at the worst time …during the grieving period for my father…I severed contact with an occasional text or email (nothing personal at all) because I am a christian and i still wanted to show love. However it really did hurt so everything is over now.

I was way too into him and come to think of it way too good for him too…it was time to break free …there really is better out there. We just need to be patient and wait.

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]]> By: Sarah http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-2/#comment-6029 Sarah Sat, 09 Jan 2010 23:55:16 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/#comment-6029 Thankyou so much for this article. I just found out a horrible detail about what my ex had been doing behind my back, and was overwhelmed with anger. I had so many questions and "why?" s and "F**K YOU" s. I literally felt like that crazy girl who throws plates at her ex's head. I was ready to drive to his house and beat the shit out of him. Thank god my phone was nowhere in sight or I would have broken the no contact rule (it's been 10 days) and screamed down the phone and humiliated myself. Instead: I used the punching bag, then dissolved into tears of sheer relief. I'm still angry, but it's not overwhelming like before and I'm sure a few more punching bag sessions will being me closer to peace.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6029','Sarah'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6029','Sarah','Thankyou so much for this article. I just found out a horrible detail about what my ex had been doing behind my back, and was overwhelmed with anger. I had so many questions and \"why?\" s and \"F**K YOU\" s.\r\n I literally felt like that crazy girl who throws plates at her ex\'s head. I was ready to drive to his house and beat the shit out of him. Thank god my phone was nowhere in sight or I would have broken the no contact rule (it\'s been 10 days) and screamed down the phone and humiliated myself.\r\n\r\nInstead:\r\nI used the punching bag, then dissolved into tears of sheer relief.\r\nI\'m still angry, but it\'s not overwhelming like before and I\'m sure a few more punching bag sessions will being me closer to peace.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Thankyou so much for this article. I just found out a horrible detail about what my ex had been doing behind my back, and was overwhelmed with anger. I had so many questions and “why?” s and “F**K YOU” s.
I literally felt like that crazy girl who throws plates at her ex’s head. I was ready to drive to his house and beat the shit out of him. Thank god my phone was nowhere in sight or I would have broken the no contact rule (it’s been 10 days) and screamed down the phone and humiliated myself.

Instead:
I used the punching bag, then dissolved into tears of sheer relief.
I’m still angry, but it’s not overwhelming like before and I’m sure a few more punching bag sessions will being me closer to peace.

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]]> By: kathleen http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-2/#comment-5722 kathleen Mon, 07 Dec 2009 16:53:07 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/#comment-5722 Please someone help me!!! I feel like I am going to loose my mind... I have tried but I just want to know WHY?? please ??<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5722','kathleen'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5722','kathleen','Please someone help me!!! I feel like I am going to loose my mind... I have tried but I just want to know WHY?? please ??'); return false;">quote</a></div> Please someone help me!!! I feel like I am going to loose my mind… I have tried but I just want to know WHY?? please ??
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]]> By: Rasvanthi http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-2/#comment-5632 Rasvanthi Mon, 23 Nov 2009 05:49:48 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/#comment-5632 You know what ? You should seriously chuck him. Start the no contact rule. Start ignoring him. Remove him form facebook (if you have afb account) , Delete him from your contact list. Don't ever call him or text him. Just be like you didnt come across him at all in your life. All you have to do is... IGNORE him ! It really works. Trust me. :) Take care. Love. Later. Here's my ID if at all you require: rasvanthi.reddy@hotmail.com<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5632','Rasvanthi'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5632','Rasvanthi','You know what ? You should seriously chuck him. Start the no contact rule. Start ignoring him. Remove him form facebook (if you have afb account) , Delete him from your contact list. Don\'t ever call him or text him. Just be like you didnt come across him at all in your life. \r\nAll you have to do is... IGNORE him ! \r\nIt really works. Trust me. :)\r\nTake care.\r\nLove.\r\nLater.\r\nHere\'s my ID if at all you require: rasvanthi.reddy@hotmail.com'); return false;">quote</a></div> You know what ? You should seriously chuck him. Start the no contact rule. Start ignoring him. Remove him form facebook (if you have afb account) , Delete him from your contact list. Don’t ever call him or text him. Just be like you didnt come across him at all in your life.
All you have to do is… IGNORE him !
It really works. Trust me. :)
Take care.
Love.
Later.
Here’s my ID if at all you require: rasvanthi.reddy@hotmail.com
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]]> By: angelita http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-2/#comment-5542 angelita Sat, 07 Nov 2009 23:57:48 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/#comment-5542 is been almost 7 months now, after he dumped me and i had broke the non-contact rule almost 10 times and every time i due it's worst, but i just can't understand why i still thinking about him and feeling bad and everything, if he is not the kind of guy i want next to me......... i guess everything will make sense later!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5542','angelita'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5542','angelita','is been almost 7 months now, after he dumped me and i had broke the non-contact rule almost 10 times and every time i due it\'s worst, but i just can\'t understand why i still thinking about him and feeling bad and everything, if he is not the kind of guy i want next to me......... i guess everything will make sense later!'); return false;">quote</a></div> is been almost 7 months now, after he dumped me and i had broke the non-contact rule almost 10 times and every time i due it’s worst, but i just can’t understand why i still thinking about him and feeling bad and everything, if he is not the kind of guy i want next to me……… i guess everything will make sense later!
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]]> By: Adriana http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-2/#comment-5527 Adriana Wed, 04 Nov 2009 23:40:55 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/#comment-5527 <a href='#comment-5507' rel="nofollow">@jvrie</a> - I am so sorry to hear that,I know EXACLTY how you feel dont worry girlie you're gonna be okay just give it time at night instaed of thinikinngg watch one of your fav moviee till you get exhausted that way you dont end up tjhinking of him. Girl look at hte brightside of it!! if he;'s stupid enough to hurt youu he isnt worth itt you're so much valuablee than he'll EVER bee<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5527','Adriana'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5527','Adriana','<a href=\'#comment-5507\' rel=\"nofollow\">@jvrie<\/a> -\r\n\r\nI am so sorry to hear that,I know EXACLTY how you feel dont worry girlie you\'re gonna be okay just give it time at night instaed of thinikinngg watch one of your fav moviee till you get exhausted that way you dont end up tjhinking of him. Girl look at hte brightside of it!! if he;\'s stupid enough to hurt youu he isnt worth itt you\'re so much valuablee than he\'ll EVER bee'); return false;">quote</a></div> @jvrie -

I am so sorry to hear that,I know EXACLTY how you feel dont worry girlie you’re gonna be okay just give it time at night instaed of thinikinngg watch one of your fav moviee till you get exhausted that way you dont end up tjhinking of him. Girl look at hte brightside of it!! if he;’s stupid enough to hurt youu he isnt worth itt you’re so much valuablee than he’ll EVER bee

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]]> By: Success Story: How Closure Made Me Stronger http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/comment-page-2/#comment-5513 Success Story: How Closure Made Me Stronger Mon, 02 Nov 2009 19:17:59 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/getting-over-a-break-up-the-final-chapter/#comment-5513 [...] He fell off his pedestal. For me, this was closure. [...]<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5513','Success Story: How Closure Made Me Stronger'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5513','Success Story: How Closure Made Me Stronger','[...] He fell off his pedestal. For me, this was closure. [...]'); return false;">quote</a></div> [...] He fell off his pedestal. For me, this was closure. [...]
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