Comments on: Have YOU Made These Mistakes After Your Relationship Break Up?

By: drois

drois — Sat, 12 May 2012 11:35:00 +0000

I was having serious relationship problems with my husband and it had resulted in him moving out.Everything got worse,he started going to strip clubs frequently,getting drunk and passing out..Sometimes when we talked on phone,he would threaten me,he was just not himself and our children were suffering for all the drama. I really love him and we had been married for 15yrs which gave us three beautiful daughters..I had also lost a lot of money on therapists and spell-casters..I was in debt and I felt my world crumbling..I was introduced to a spell caster by a friend who he helped with the same thing and I thought it was just a scam all over again but this time it was different..I did all he asked me to and after a few days,he started getting better,he started calling,texting,things just changed between us,emotions,our love.He has a job and has been sober since and am also out of debt..Its a miracle I never believed was possible,I had lost all hope until I found him..He works and if you have the same problem I did,he is the solution: templeoflove1@gmail.com

By: Ruby

Ruby — Thu, 10 May 2012 18:33:00 +0000

Linda – when i read your post, I had to read it again to make sure it wasn’t about me and something i had written and forgotten about!! my 8 year fantastic relationship ended suddenly when my partner announced out of the blue that she was leaving me for someone else. i am totally broken and feel my whole life as i knew and wanted it, is gone and over, and whilst i am trying so hard to seek support and new times from family and friends – this isn’t what i want. like you – my partner had everything she wanted, until she suddenly decided that in fact she wanted someone else. our plans and hopes and dreams and future, and also our past and memories were just instantly shattered. i hope you are doing okay. X

By: Guesty

Guesty — Tue, 01 May 2012 17:00:00 +0000

Yup. Me too. It’s Day 2 of No Contact for me right now, too, and as I try to work at my computer (about the only thing that’s keeping me distracted an barely, as you see), I keep thinking of all the ways I might try to convince her and which carefully chosen words might bring the epiphany to her that it was all a big mistake. And I know that’s ridiculous, and I’ve already tried that route several times since last week (when it happened). I feel like such a fool. The problem is: who doesn’t want to play the fool when we’re so convinced we’ve lost the love of our lives?

The worst is her all-consuming guilt, which she keeps trying to compensate for through sweet words and pet names, with utterly no regard, it seems, for the false hopes she’s stirring.

All very, very sad, and I, like you, am absolutely devastated. Let us get through this!!

By: Linda

Linda — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 03:14:00 +0000

I could totally tell when my ex was slipping away. We used to text all day and suddenly the texts became further apart and she was full of excuses. Also, they were one liners. And…she stopped talking about future plans together. Just her whole body movement and tone told the sotry

By: Linda

Linda — Sat, 07 Apr 2012 02:54:00 +0000

Dear Sadie,

So well said!!!!!!!! I pleaded, begged, cried, negotiated, you named it. I was the most pathetic person on this Earth. And now that I’m gaining some self control, (day 3 not texting) I just feel so stupid and humiliated. I wish I could re wind this whole thing. I’ve also lost so much self respect for my self, I’ve never felt so bad about my self. As she goes on her Marry Way while I pick up the pieces. Ugh!!!!!! It helps so much to talk about it.

By: Linda

Linda — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 23:49:00 +0000

How are you feeling now?? Im at two months now. It’s so Hard!!!!!!!

Thanks!!!!!!

Linda

By: Linda

Linda — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 22:13:00 +0000

That would be so hard to work in the same place. My ex works in a place where all my friends see her so Im getting constant reminders of how shes so happy. It kills me everyday. She stole my heart and now she could give a crap!!!!!!!!! It makes me so MAD!!! It makes me never want to be with anyone again for fear of this happening.

By: Linda

Linda — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 22:10:00 +0000

So much of what you said is exactly what I’m going through. Its been about a month and a half and I’d say maybe 2 or 2 days I didnt text her. I actually think she blocked me!!!!!! But, I know that what your saying is true. The no contact is the best. It’s just so hard because we were so close and had so many plans and then out of no where she just changed. I got the” I can’t give you what you want right now”. Really??? You wanted everything I wanted for months!! Something changed and I think we try to find out what it is. But, you know I just think some things take their course. And maybe they just fell out of love with us. My self esteem is at an all time low. I’ve never felt so bad about myself. It’s really, really hard. This is my first dumping and it sucks!!!!!! And yes, I hope we both feel better soon. (

By: Linda

Linda — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 22:02:00 +0000

I made all the mistakes. I am now trying really hard to move forward. My Girlfriend has a new Girlfriend and is happy as a butterfly in Spring. So, I’m pretty hurt. But, trying to be strong. Everything I read above really helped.

By: PH

PH — Fri, 23 Mar 2012 17:14:00 +0000

I broke up with the guy I have been dating for a month 6 weeks ago. We fell hard for eachother fast. He is super busy and wasn’t making any time for me so I told him we shouldn’t talk anymore. When I hung up I immediatly changed my mind and knew I had made a mistake. I have called, emailed and texted a total of about 20 total times in the last 6 weeks. He responded (nicely) twice. Whay would he respond if he was done with me?