Comments on: How To Defy The Distance In A Long Distance Relationship http://lovesagame.com/how-to-defy-the-distance-in-a-long-distance-relationship/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:45:08 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Shaka Asif http://lovesagame.com/how-to-defy-the-distance-in-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-5530 Shaka Asif Thu, 05 Nov 2009 12:12:51 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=485#comment-5530 'Lisa', i agree. It's all about trying to make the most of the situation and enjoying the time apart. Think of the opportunities an LDR creates!!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5530','Shaka Asif'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5530','Shaka Asif','\'Lisa\', i agree. It\'s all about trying to make the most of the situation and enjoying the time apart. Think of the opportunities an LDR creates!!'); return false;">quote</a></div> ‘Lisa’, i agree. It’s all about trying to make the most of the situation and enjoying the time apart. Think of the opportunities an LDR creates!!
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]]> By: Chels http://lovesagame.com/how-to-defy-the-distance-in-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-5048 Chels Sun, 02 Aug 2009 16:00:55 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=485#comment-5048 <a href='#comment-4901' rel="nofollow">@adam</a> - Adam, I don't think the article is depressing. It is just realistic. If you focus on the distance and define your relationship by the distance, then you will not survive it. You have to make the most of it and do what you can to "minimize" the distance so you can actually feel like you are a part of each others lives.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5048','Chels'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5048','Chels','<a href=\'#comment-4901\' rel=\"nofollow\">@adam<\/a> -\n\nAdam, I don\'t think the article is depressing. It is just realistic. If you focus on the distance and define your relationship by the distance, then you will not survive it. You have to make the most of it and do what you can to \"minimize\" the distance so you can actually feel like you are a part of each others lives.'); return false;">quote</a></div> @adam -

Adam, I don’t think the article is depressing. It is just realistic. If you focus on the distance and define your relationship by the distance, then you will not survive it. You have to make the most of it and do what you can to “minimize” the distance so you can actually feel like you are a part of each others lives.

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]]> By: adam http://lovesagame.com/how-to-defy-the-distance-in-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-4901 adam Fri, 10 Jul 2009 08:26:13 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=485#comment-4901 jesus christ this is the saddest article i've ever read. i just got out of a LDR. She was in New York and I was in LA. We held on for two years. Now she's going to MIami for another 3 years - I can't leave LA because of my career. This article depresses me because it's literally saying the key to a LDR is pretending like there is no distance, saying clearly that LDR is inferior to the real thing (which it is). I was in love with this girl, and it killed me to end it, but LDR is an inherently unhappy way to live.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4901','adam'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4901','adam','jesus christ this is the saddest article i\'ve ever read. i just got out of a LDR. She was in New York and I was in LA. We held on for two years. Now she\'s going to MIami for another 3 years - I can\'t leave LA because of my career. This article depresses me because it\'s literally saying the key to a LDR is pretending like there is no distance, saying clearly that LDR is inferior to the real thing (which it is). I was in love with this girl, and it killed me to end it, but LDR is an inherently unhappy way to live.'); return false;">quote</a></div> jesus christ this is the saddest article i’ve ever read. i just got out of a LDR. She was in New York and I was in LA. We held on for two years. Now she’s going to MIami for another 3 years – I can’t leave LA because of my career. This article depresses me because it’s literally saying the key to a LDR is pretending like there is no distance, saying clearly that LDR is inferior to the real thing (which it is). I was in love with this girl, and it killed me to end it, but LDR is an inherently unhappy way to live.
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]]> By: A little sad http://lovesagame.com/how-to-defy-the-distance-in-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-4445 A little sad Wed, 15 Apr 2009 21:08:08 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=485#comment-4445 It took me 5 months to get my LDR to understand that we need to communicate more regularly. Sometimes he could go for 5-6 days without contacting me at all. It is an 8h time difference between us and I tried to use this excuse to justify the lack of communication until I simply exploded. Thigs have finally changed and he finally gets the message. Not sure why it has taken him 5 months to finally listen. This is a wonderful idea to watch a movie together at the same time, but If we can't communicate on a daily basis how on earth are we going to watch a move together? Why am I doing this exactly?? and why is HE doing this? I have never been this confused in my entire life. Please help someone.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4445','A little sad'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4445','A little sad','It took me 5 months to get my LDR to understand that we need to communicate more regularly. Sometimes he could go for 5-6 days without contacting me at all. It is an 8h time difference between us and I tried to use this excuse to justify the lack of communication until I simply exploded. Thigs have finally changed and he finally gets the message. Not sure why it has taken him 5 months to finally listen. This is a wonderful idea to watch a movie together at the same time, but If we can\'t communicate on a daily basis how on earth are we going to watch a move together? Why am I doing this exactly?? and why is HE doing this? I have never been this confused in my entire life. Please help someone.'); return false;">quote</a></div> It took me 5 months to get my LDR to understand that we need to communicate more regularly. Sometimes he could go for 5-6 days without contacting me at all. It is an 8h time difference between us and I tried to use this excuse to justify the lack of communication until I simply exploded. Thigs have finally changed and he finally gets the message. Not sure why it has taken him 5 months to finally listen. This is a wonderful idea to watch a movie together at the same time, but If we can’t communicate on a daily basis how on earth are we going to watch a move together? Why am I doing this exactly?? and why is HE doing this? I have never been this confused in my entire life. Please help someone.
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]]> By: lisa http://lovesagame.com/how-to-defy-the-distance-in-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-4320 lisa Tue, 17 Mar 2009 02:28:06 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=485#comment-4320 hello, the movie is a super cute idea! I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years... its all about being creative and coming with ways to enjoy the time apart. www.coupledtogether.com has a blog with great long distance relationship advice :)<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4320','lisa'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4320','lisa','hello, \r\nthe movie is a super cute idea! I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years... its all about being creative and coming with ways to enjoy the time apart. \r\nwww.coupledtogether.com has a blog with great long distance relationship advice :)'); return false;">quote</a></div> hello,
the movie is a super cute idea! I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years… its all about being creative and coming with ways to enjoy the time apart.
http://www.coupledtogether.com has a blog with great long distance relationship advice :)
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]]> By: Megan http://lovesagame.com/how-to-defy-the-distance-in-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-4281 Megan Wed, 04 Mar 2009 21:52:40 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=485#comment-4281 Hey, I recently have started talking to a guy I used to know in highschool. We've been sparingly talking for about 2 or 3 months now, but just these past two weeks we started really getting to know eachother again. After reading some of your articles on long-distance relationships I've realized I need to tell him I have begun to like him, but I had brought up going to see him and he was really excited. I just wanted to know, is it too soon? Thank in advance<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4281','Megan'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4281','Megan','Hey,\r\nI recently have started talking to a guy I used to know in highschool. We\'ve been sparingly talking for about 2 or 3 months now, but just these past two weeks we started really getting to know eachother again. After reading some of your articles on long-distance relationships I\'ve realized I need to tell him I have begun to like him, but I had brought up going to see him and he was really excited. I just wanted to know, is it too soon? \r\nThank in advance'); return false;">quote</a></div> Hey,
I recently have started talking to a guy I used to know in highschool. We’ve been sparingly talking for about 2 or 3 months now, but just these past two weeks we started really getting to know eachother again. After reading some of your articles on long-distance relationships I’ve realized I need to tell him I have begun to like him, but I had brought up going to see him and he was really excited. I just wanted to know, is it too soon?
Thank in advance
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]]> By: Dirk http://lovesagame.com/how-to-defy-the-distance-in-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-4257 Dirk Sat, 28 Feb 2009 08:48:56 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=485#comment-4257 Thank you very much for this article. I like your idea of a movie date, if you keep your phone on it's almost like watching it together side by side.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4257','Dirk'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4257','Dirk','Thank you very much for this article.\r\n\r\nI like your idea of a movie date, if you keep your phone on it\'s almost like watching it together side by side.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Thank you very much for this article.

I like your idea of a movie date, if you keep your phone on it’s almost like watching it together side by side.

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