Visualize that you are holding a speech standing in front of a huge crowd on a stage. Everybody looks at you with love and respect. You are surrounded with smiling faces and caring people. You finish your speech and go down stairs to the people who applaud and congratulate you. They look at you full of love and appreciation. You are one of them.

After a while you will see improvement.

Your friend,
Eddie

I was browsing some stuff about men on internet and led me onto your blog page. I have to say that I couldn’t stop reading. You write so many interesting things and many of them are things that I also believe in. I went over the list of 10 books that have changed your life and I realized that 3 of them are my most favorite books…
I want to ask you for help and an advice…
I am an athlete at a university and I have a crush on a coach of another sports team; however, I don’t know how to approach him or whether I should even approach him.

It is weird and I don’t understand it but every time I see him I have to think about him for the rest of the day and I hate that feeling. I am usually very much in control of my thoughts but I can’t get him out of my head.
I’ve never approached any man before because I am usually the one who is being approached… I also don’t know how to contact him because I don’t want anyone from the university to know and I’m actually not sure if it’s not against the university rules for a coach to date another athlete even though they are both in different sports…
Anyways he is extremely hot and he seems to have a really nice personality too… Should I just let it go and let him make the first step or should I try to give some hint?
I have never asked anyone for an advice in this matter and I feel very silly writing this to you, but I thought I may give it a try…There is always a first time, right? ;o)

I’ve read couple more pages and there was an advice: “imagine that he’s already in love with you – because it’s going to make you feel more confident” – do you think is that correct? – Based on the law of attraction it should work but to be honest the law of attraction hasn’t worked for me as much as I would want to. Do you think if I clearly imagine and feel that he already loves me and wants to be with me that it’s simply enough and my thoughts will attract him to me?

Thank you for your advice…

When making these affirmations it is important to stay grounded as to what the goal truly is. For example, simply saying “I’m going to meet a wonderful girl/guy” This may give you false confidence or hope which sets you up for failure and will derail any progress you, yourself may have made. But if you state it realistically, as in, “I’m going to be more open to meeting women/men” or “I’m not going to settle for less than I want”. Again everything has to have boundries and definitions in your head, this is as if not more important than the affirmations themselves.

Also statements like “I am rich/wealthy” are sometimes not always under our control. I have seen many people struggle and through no fault of their own, however, those who keep swimming even against the current don’t sink. But perhaps saying “I am successful” because success is measured in more ways than just monetarily.

Eddie’s advice is extremely helpful and if utilized in the way in which he means for it to be I’m sure it is successful. BUT we are dealing with human beings and unfortunately we don’t always interpret things as they are intended but how we wish them to be.

My point – setting goals and repeating them to yourself both visually (writing them down) and mentally are keys to your success as long as the goal itself is realistic and or reality based. Otherwise this could be devastating to your overall progress.

i saw the movie and i got shocked
but didnt know how to apply the secret

i will make this everyday