Comments on: How To Use The Power Of Now http://lovesagame.com/how-to-use-the-power-of-now/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-use-the-power-of-now Learn how to survive a break up, rediscover your true self and find Mr/s Right Thu, 17 May 2012 03:09:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Vinka Maras http://lovesagame.com/how-to-use-the-power-of-now/comment-page-1/#comment-16543 Vinka Maras Fri, 03 Jun 2011 13:23:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=1194#comment-16543 Dear Fluffy, you wrote this 9 months ago... I hope you see this comment, and tell us are you better, and how everything turned out? Hope you are ok, because now, I need some hope too :) Dear Fluffy, you wrote this 9 months ago…
I hope you see this comment, and tell us are you better, and how everything turned out? Hope you are ok, because now, I need some hope too :)

]]> By: Makkie http://lovesagame.com/how-to-use-the-power-of-now/comment-page-1/#comment-14937 Makkie Wed, 13 Apr 2011 12:06:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=1194#comment-14937 Hi. I can totally relate. I have been with my ex, steady for two years and on and off for another two. 10 days ago I called him (was Sunday morning, 01:00) and he was standing outside a club drinking. I lost it and told him I had had enough. He wanted to talk about it the next day but I told him there was nothing more to be said.I havn't seen or spoken to him since. He isn't good for me. He has lied and cheated in the past and I would always forgive him and take him back. Every time we break up he runs to this other girl. And even though I know I deserve much better and he is all wrong for me, I still miss him terribly! I constantly think about him and wonder what he is doing and who is he with. I wonder if he's with this other girl and if he does with her all the things he did with me. I wonder if she makes him laugh. Sometimes I just want to hear his voice so so so much! And even though I expected this, the pain is indescribable, it really does feel as though my heart is breaking. I cannot say anything to make it better all I can tell you is I know what you feeling. Hi. I can totally relate. I have been with my ex, steady for two years and on and off for another two. 10 days ago I called him (was Sunday morning, 01:00) and he was standing outside a club drinking. I lost it and told him I had had enough. He wanted to talk about it the next day but I told him there was nothing more to be said.I havn’t seen or spoken to him since. He isn’t good for me. He has lied and cheated in the past and I would always forgive him and take him back. Every time we break up he runs to this other girl. And even though I know I deserve much better and he is all wrong for me, I still miss him terribly! I constantly think about him and wonder what he is doing and who is he with. I wonder if he’s with this other girl and if he does with her all the things he did with me. I wonder if she makes him laugh. Sometimes I just want to hear his voice so so so much! And even though I expected this, the pain is indescribable, it really does feel as though my heart is breaking. I cannot say anything to make it better all I can tell you is I know what you feeling.

]]> By: Gutentagkgs http://lovesagame.com/how-to-use-the-power-of-now/comment-page-1/#comment-14932 Gutentagkgs Wed, 13 Apr 2011 06:22:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=1194#comment-14932 I am trying to live in NOW. But what I really want to do now, is call him and tell him, I love him. But we broke up already. How come I still want to undo the past. How come I still think he is a decent guy and wanna be with him. It has been almost 2 months since we broke. How come I still hope that we could get back together. How come I can't let it go. Is it because we have dated for 8 years and suddenly he decided to end it? I am trying to live in NOW. But what I really want to do now, is call him and tell him, I love him. But we broke up already. How come I still want to undo the past. How come I still think he is a decent guy and wanna be with him. It has been almost 2 months since we broke. How come I still hope that we could get back together. How come I can’t let it go. Is it because we have dated for 8 years and suddenly he decided to end it?

]]> By: Gizmo http://lovesagame.com/how-to-use-the-power-of-now/comment-page-1/#comment-11232 Gizmo Thu, 20 Jan 2011 12:47:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=1194#comment-11232 To everyone, I first visited this website when I was searching the web trying to find ways to get over my breakup about 6 or so months ago. I had already been 6 months into the break up when I found these great articles by Eddie. And needless to say I had done everything wrong any one can do after a break up. Trying desperately to get my ex back. Reading through the advice and articles on this website gave me some hope. In fact it gave me direction. Love yourself first; I would tell myself everyday. No contact, how to stop stalking your ex on facebook and how to regain control over your emotions; all these things helped me out alot. I went from being a love sick loser to an in control person. Taking care of myself physically and mentally, and I should add I've never been in better shape my whole life. I took up boxing which just makes me feel great now. Forget about being with someone I liked (I've stopped saying I loved her), the break up was the best thing that happened to me; as Eddie did say so. And yes I will always agree, time will heal all and you WILL love again. Things are back on track and I dont even miss her anymore. Life's good meeting new people and discovering new hobbies and interests. To all the people who are hurting after a break up, you'll get over it soon and you'll look back at this time and laugh :) Thanks Eddie. To everyone,
I first visited this website when I was searching the web trying to find ways to get over my breakup about 6 or so months ago. I had already been 6 months into the break up when I found these great articles by Eddie. And needless to say I had done everything wrong any one can do after a break up. Trying desperately to get my ex back. Reading through the advice and articles on this website gave me some hope. In fact it gave me direction. Love yourself first; I would tell myself everyday. No contact, how to stop stalking your ex on facebook and how to regain control over your emotions; all these things helped me out alot.
I went from being a love sick loser to an in control person. Taking care of myself physically and mentally, and I should add I’ve never been in better shape my whole life. I took up boxing which just makes me feel great now. Forget about being with someone I liked (I’ve stopped saying I loved her), the break up was the best thing that happened to me; as Eddie did say so. And yes I will always agree, time will heal all and you WILL love again.
Things are back on track and I dont even miss her anymore. Life’s good meeting new people and discovering new hobbies and interests. To all the people who are hurting after a break up, you’ll get over it soon and you’ll look back at this time and laugh :)

Thanks Eddie.

]]> By: Har30 http://lovesagame.com/how-to-use-the-power-of-now/comment-page-1/#comment-10890 Har30 Tue, 28 Dec 2010 07:58:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=1194#comment-10890 Dear dawn... i was feeling so low today....i opened up this blog after along time... as i read these lines "Be happy that you know you are capable of loving someone so much that it hurts, be happy that you had time with that person, and most of all be happy that you have another chance now to be with someone better" "remind yourself at least I know how to love and can love someone again. There is always someone else out there!!! " trust me....tears rolled down my eyes....i bursted out crying ....iam still crying as i write this.... is crying a sign of weakness...?? it has been one and a half month and 13 days of nc IT HURTS i dont know whether i'll ever get over a man who wronged me in every possible way....I JUST DONT KNOW.... how do i stay positive when i miss the old times terribly....what do u do..? dear Eddie....any suggestions...?? m feeling very low....m home with my family....for a while... still not feeling better... Dear dawn…
i was feeling so low today….i opened up this blog after along time…
as i read these lines

“Be happy that you know you are capable of loving someone so much that it hurts, be happy that you had time with that person, and most of all be happy that you have another chance now to be with someone better”

“remind yourself at least I know how to love and can love someone again. There is always someone else out there!!! ”

trust me….tears rolled down my eyes….i bursted out crying ….iam still crying as i write this….
is crying a sign of weakness…??
it has been one and a half month and 13 days of nc
IT HURTS
i dont know whether i’ll ever get over a man who wronged me in every possible way….I JUST DONT KNOW….
how do i stay positive when i miss the old times terribly….what do u do..?

dear Eddie….any suggestions…?? m feeling very low….m home with my family….for a while…
still not feeling better…

]]> By: Eddie Corbano http://lovesagame.com/how-to-use-the-power-of-now/comment-page-1/#comment-10724 Eddie Corbano Tue, 14 Dec 2010 08:43:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=1194#comment-10724 Thank you dawn for sharing your story. You've doing great, I can't tell. For me personally it was a big issue back then to NOT dwell upon the negative. Keep it up! Thank you dawn for sharing your story.

You’ve doing great, I can’t tell.

For me personally it was a big issue back then to NOT dwell upon the negative.

Keep it up!

]]> By: Heidi http://lovesagame.com/how-to-use-the-power-of-now/comment-page-1/#comment-10314 Heidi Thu, 18 Nov 2010 07:45:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=1194#comment-10314 I can relate to you a little bit. After almost 6years of living together, We broke up a week ago and now he wants to get back with me, but i dont want to anymore. He texts me everyday saying how sad he is and there's no reason for him to live anymore and he wants to die, etc. I told him over and over that i don't want to be in a relationship with anybody right now and he's not getting it. I don't know what else to do to to make him understand. I know he's hurt but like i said, i don't want to be in a relationship. How do i make him understand that? I need some advice. I can relate to you a little bit. After almost 6years of living together, We broke up a week ago and now he wants to get back with me, but i dont want to anymore. He texts me everyday saying how sad he is and there’s no reason for him to live anymore and he wants to die, etc. I told him over and over that i don’t want to be in a relationship with anybody right now and he’s not getting it. I don’t know what else to do to to make him understand. I know he’s hurt but like i said, i don’t want to be in a relationship. How do i make him understand that? I need some advice.

]]> By: audrey http://lovesagame.com/how-to-use-the-power-of-now/comment-page-1/#comment-9403 audrey Sat, 23 Oct 2010 17:41:53 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=1194#comment-9403 My no-contact rule started this year August, only after breaking-up for nearly 2 years. Initially I thought that deleting his Windows Live Messenger contact without blocking would be sufficient but in mid-July, he tried to tell (hint) me that he has found a girl. That time I was really busy as I was doing my university co-curricular activities and 'sort of' ignored that conversation without thinking too long. After that, I blocked his contact until now. Only a month later, I thought that I was recovered already, I unblocked his facebook account, and found out that he has a girlfriend already.<br><br>And I went on to block and unblock his facebook account intermittently for the past few months. He also tried to contact me (I was guessing that he might want to tell me about his current relationship status) via Yahoo messenger (I use more than one messengers and added him there too last time) but I wasn't beside my comp when he sent me message. And I finally blocked all his contacts after that incident.<br><br>I felt like, there's no point for him to update me, as both of us have already resolved to not to cross each other's world anymore, although all the while I am seemed to be the more-reluctant-to-give-up party. That's why my NC rule started only recently when break-up is soon three years.<br><br>I guess, it is right to always remind ourselves that our happiness is in our hands. There's absolutely nothing to gain. Even though how much tears I have shed for this worthless guy, he wouldn't know and appreciate.<br><br>After reading the comments, I am glad to know that I am not alone in fighting for my happiness.<br> My no-contact rule started this year August, only after breaking-up for nearly 2 years. Initially I thought that deleting his Windows Live Messenger contact without blocking would be sufficient but in mid-July, he tried to tell (hint) me that he has found a girl. That time I was really busy as I was doing my university co-curricular activities and 'sort of' ignored that conversation without thinking too long. After that, I blocked his contact until now. Only a month later, I thought that I was recovered already, I unblocked his facebook account, and found out that he has a girlfriend already.

And I went on to block and unblock his facebook account intermittently for the past few months. He also tried to contact me (I was guessing that he might want to tell me about his current relationship status) via Yahoo messenger (I use more than one messengers and added him there too last time) but I wasn't beside my comp when he sent me message. And I finally blocked all his contacts after that incident.

I felt like, there's no point for him to update me, as both of us have already resolved to not to cross each other's world anymore, although all the while I am seemed to be the more-reluctant-to-give-up party. That's why my NC rule started only recently when break-up is soon three years.

I guess, it is right to always remind ourselves that our happiness is in our hands. There's absolutely nothing to gain. Even though how much tears I have shed for this worthless guy, he wouldn't know and appreciate.

After reading the comments, I am glad to know that I am not alone in fighting for my happiness.

]]> By: christina http://lovesagame.com/how-to-use-the-power-of-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8853 christina Sat, 11 Sep 2010 09:25:10 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=1194#comment-8853 Hi everyone its christina :) i started posting about a a month ago i think and have said a few things about my break up. At first i was really sad, feeling depressed, tried to do things with friends and nothing worked. but im gladly to say now...that Im doing great:) besides my ex calling my house constantly all day for 3 weeks calling me vulgar nasty names on my answering machine, stalking me, and doing anything possible to TRY to make my life a living hell. I DECIDED to go get an order of protection.:) so now mr. "I CAN DO WHAT I WANT ! AND HARRASS YOU ALL DAY EVERY DAY...wont be able to anymore. ANYONE WHO IS READING THIS...BEST ADVISE....TIME IS EVERYTHING! TIME HEALS! TIME GIVES YOU KNOWLEDGE AND POWER THAT YOU NEVER KNEW YOU HAD.cuz about 3 weeks ago i let him do whatever he wanted and harrass and abuse me. and now i went from being head over heals in love thought i couldnt be without <a href="http://him..to" rel="nofollow">him..to</a> absoutly hating him. i will never date someone who is controlling, doesnt let me hang with friends, call me names, puts his hands on me, verbally and physically abusive...ever again!! i just got a new job, im single,happy, and worrying about me for once. good luck to everyone ! ***you can do bad all by yourself :) never let anyone mis treat you or tell you your self worth... Hi everyone its christina :) i started posting about a a month ago i think and have said a few things about my break up. At first i was really sad, feeling depressed, tried to do things with friends and nothing worked. but im gladly to say now…that Im doing great:) besides my ex calling my house constantly all day for 3 weeks calling me vulgar nasty names on my answering machine, stalking me, and doing anything possible to TRY to make my life a living hell. I DECIDED to go get an order of protection.:) so now mr. “I CAN DO WHAT I WANT ! AND HARRASS YOU ALL DAY EVERY DAY…wont be able to anymore. ANYONE WHO IS READING THIS…BEST ADVISE….TIME IS EVERYTHING! TIME HEALS! TIME GIVES YOU KNOWLEDGE AND POWER THAT YOU NEVER KNEW YOU HAD.cuz about 3 weeks ago i let him do whatever he wanted and harrass and abuse me. and now i went from being head over heals in love thought i couldnt be without him..to absoutly hating him. i will never date someone who is controlling, doesnt let me hang with friends, call me names, puts his hands on me, verbally and physically abusive…ever again!! i just got a new job, im single,happy, and worrying about me for once. good luck to everyone ! ***you can do bad all by yourself :) never let anyone mis treat you or tell you your self worth…

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