Comments on: Is It OK To Snoop In Your Partner’s Email? http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:27:10 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: DK http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/comment-page-1/#comment-6665 DK Tue, 02 Mar 2010 12:31:36 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=787#comment-6665 <a href='#comment-6646' rel="nofollow">@Stormy</a> - Sounds like he felt you were hiding something maybe, and thought he needed to snoop - like something was up (still a new relationship, learning to trust each other etc), he may be very serious about the relationship and doesn't want to get hurt. Wants to know who it is he's dealing with now before it's too late. You should just say to him, I'm really just not comfortable with sharing the intimate details of my past just yet, sorry, but when I feel ready I will, but please respect my privacy. And get a lock box!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6665','DK'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6665','DK','<a href=\'#comment-6646\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Stormy<\/a> - Sounds like he felt you were hiding something maybe, and thought he needed to snoop - like something was up (still a new relationship, learning to trust each other etc), he may be very serious about the relationship and doesn\'t want to get hurt. Wants to know who it is he\'s dealing with now before it\'s too late. You should just say to him, I\'m really just not comfortable with sharing the intimate details of my past just yet, sorry, but when I feel ready I will, but please respect my privacy. And get a lock box!'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Stormy – Sounds like he felt you were hiding something maybe, and thought he needed to snoop – like something was up (still a new relationship, learning to trust each other etc), he may be very serious about the relationship and doesn’t want to get hurt. Wants to know who it is he’s dealing with now before it’s too late. You should just say to him, I’m really just not comfortable with sharing the intimate details of my past just yet, sorry, but when I feel ready I will, but please respect my privacy. And get a lock box!
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]]> By: Stormy http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/comment-page-1/#comment-6646 Stormy Mon, 01 Mar 2010 18:11:08 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=787#comment-6646 I hate snooping! i value my privacy more than anything. I am a very open person but due to events in my past i found comfort in my notebooks. I write my thoughts, poems, rants, and letters to people that are no longer with me. My notebooks are incredibly personal! If i decide to share any part of them with someone it should be my choice! Recently the guy i have been seeing for quite a few months, read them wihtout my permission! i have no idea how much he has read and although he tells me it was only this that and the other.. i strongly believe he has read as much as he possibly could without getting caught red handed. I simply do not trust him anymore and feel i need to lock away anything and everything that could possibly be examined without asking first. Do i try and get over this trust issue with him or leave? Its not only my notebooks though. He has also on several different occasions, read my text messages, and gone through my call log on my phone. God only knows what else the little snooper has gotten into. Any thoughts?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6646','Stormy'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6646','Stormy','I hate snooping! i value my privacy more than anything. I am a very open person but due to events in my past i found comfort in my notebooks. I write my thoughts, poems, rants, and letters to people that are no longer with me. My notebooks are incredibly personal! If i decide to share any part of them with someone it should be my choice! Recently the guy i have been seeing for quite a few months, read them wihtout my permission! i have no idea how much he has read and although he tells me it was only this that and the other.. i strongly believe he has read as much as he possibly could without getting caught red handed. I simply do not trust him anymore and feel i need to lock away anything and everything that could possibly be examined without asking first. Do i try and get over this trust issue with him or leave? Its not only my notebooks though. He has also on several different occasions, read my text messages, and gone through my call log on my phone. God only knows what else the little snooper has gotten into. Any thoughts?'); return false;">quote</a></div> I hate snooping! i value my privacy more than anything. I am a very open person but due to events in my past i found comfort in my notebooks. I write my thoughts, poems, rants, and letters to people that are no longer with me. My notebooks are incredibly personal! If i decide to share any part of them with someone it should be my choice! Recently the guy i have been seeing for quite a few months, read them wihtout my permission! i have no idea how much he has read and although he tells me it was only this that and the other.. i strongly believe he has read as much as he possibly could without getting caught red handed. I simply do not trust him anymore and feel i need to lock away anything and everything that could possibly be examined without asking first. Do i try and get over this trust issue with him or leave? Its not only my notebooks though. He has also on several different occasions, read my text messages, and gone through my call log on my phone. God only knows what else the little snooper has gotten into. Any thoughts?
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]]> By: DK http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/comment-page-1/#comment-6287 DK Thu, 04 Feb 2010 00:45:10 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=787#comment-6287 <a href='#comment-6272' rel="nofollow">@Kat</a> - aww well I think that's just mean what he did. If he loved you he wouldn't make a big issue out of letting you into his life... If he does then he is trying to push buttons for some other reason, or is hiding something, passwords or not. If I was hiding something I'd never give my passwords out, if not then I would give them and be willing to share the fact that he can trust me and would NOT CARE if he looked in every account I had. Then I would smile at him and say, see I love you. Secrets are the killer in a relationship, it's not the trust factor. Nothing should be hidden, and everyone has a right to know what their significant other is doing. Period.. <div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6287','DK'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6287','DK','<a href=\'#comment-6272\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Kat<\/a> -\r\n\r\naww well I think that\'s just mean what he did. If he loved you he wouldn\'t make a big issue out of letting you into his life... If he does then he is trying to push buttons for some other reason, or is hiding something, passwords or not. If I was hiding something I\'d never give my passwords out, if not then I would give them and be willing to share the fact that he can trust me and would NOT CARE if he looked in every account I had. Then I would smile at him and say, see I love you. Secrets are the killer in a relationship, it\'s not the trust factor. Nothing should be hidden, and everyone has a right to know what their significant other is doing. Period.. '); return false;">quote</a></div> @Kat -

aww well I think that’s just mean what he did. If he loved you he wouldn’t make a big issue out of letting you into his life… If he does then he is trying to push buttons for some other reason, or is hiding something, passwords or not. If I was hiding something I’d never give my passwords out, if not then I would give them and be willing to share the fact that he can trust me and would NOT CARE if he looked in every account I had. Then I would smile at him and say, see I love you. Secrets are the killer in a relationship, it’s not the trust factor. Nothing should be hidden, and everyone has a right to know what their significant other is doing. Period..

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]]> By: Kat http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/comment-page-1/#comment-6272 Kat Wed, 03 Feb 2010 03:43:22 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=787#comment-6272 Ok I will confess to being a snooper and I regret every minute of it! It started early into our relationship and I couldn't stop even when I said I wasn't gonna do it! It was like something came over me and I just need to look to make sure he was faithful to me! It was a true addiction..Let me point out I really didn't have a reason!! I just wanted to feel secure that he loved only me...wrong way!!!! Well with all this untrust it was the demise to my relationship and the main factor for him was we have NO trust in our relationship. trust is the number one thing you need in a relationship! In the end I did finally find something but I believe he did it on purpose!!!! So anyone out there knowing passwords.. Block them from your mind.. I have learned what you dont know dosn't hurt you!!! Come on people if someone really wants to cheat do you really think they will let you know the email or messenger account they use!!! Todays world makes everything easy!!! If there is no trust there is no relationship..... I wish I could turn the clock back, I would probaly still have my relationship!!! Maybe I will be one of the lucky one and get a second chance, I know I don't want to know any passwords!!!!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6272','Kat'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6272','Kat','Ok I will confess to being a snooper and I regret every minute of it! It started early into our relationship and I couldn\'t stop even when I said I wasn\'t gonna do it! It was like something came over me and I just need to look to make sure he was faithful to me! It was a true addiction..Let me point out I really didn\'t have a reason!! I just wanted to feel secure that he loved only me...wrong way!!!! Well with all this untrust it was the demise to my relationship and the main factor for him was we have NO trust in our relationship. trust is the number one thing you need in a relationship! In the end I did finally find something but I believe he did it on purpose!!!!\r\nSo anyone out there knowing passwords.. Block them from your mind.. I have learned what you dont know dosn\'t hurt you!!! Come on people if someone really wants to cheat do you really think they will let you know the email or messenger account they use!!! Todays world makes everything easy!!! If there is no trust there is no relationship.....\r\nI wish I could turn the clock back, I would probaly still have my relationship!!! Maybe I will be one of the lucky one and get a second chance, I know I don\'t want to know any passwords!!!!'); return false;">quote</a></div> Ok I will confess to being a snooper and I regret every minute of it! It started early into our relationship and I couldn’t stop even when I said I wasn’t gonna do it! It was like something came over me and I just need to look to make sure he was faithful to me! It was a true addiction..Let me point out I really didn’t have a reason!! I just wanted to feel secure that he loved only me…wrong way!!!! Well with all this untrust it was the demise to my relationship and the main factor for him was we have NO trust in our relationship. trust is the number one thing you need in a relationship! In the end I did finally find something but I believe he did it on purpose!!!!
So anyone out there knowing passwords.. Block them from your mind.. I have learned what you dont know dosn’t hurt you!!! Come on people if someone really wants to cheat do you really think they will let you know the email or messenger account they use!!! Todays world makes everything easy!!! If there is no trust there is no relationship…..
I wish I could turn the clock back, I would probaly still have my relationship!!! Maybe I will be one of the lucky one and get a second chance, I know I don’t want to know any passwords!!!!
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]]> By: Jon http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/comment-page-1/#comment-5581 Jon Thu, 12 Nov 2009 19:57:18 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=787#comment-5581 <a href='#comment-5503' rel="nofollow">@J Desperaux</a> - I agree completely. In a marriage....with the way facebook and myspace and everything else is, with so many ways to get in touch with those from the past....email privacy is all of a sudden a big issue. I gave up my password and phone cause I knew I had nothing to hide. When I found out what was going on because she "forgot" to delete something, truth was confirmed. If anyone in today's age is gonna be unfaithful or flirt....the two biggest things are text messages and email. If you are married...and trust each other and its up front, fine. Snooping hurts, but if you ain't got nothing to hide....whats the problem???<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5581','Jon'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5581','Jon','<a href=\'#comment-5503\' rel=\"nofollow\">@J Desperaux<\/a> - \r\n\r\n\r\nI agree completely. In a marriage....with the way facebook and myspace and everything else is, with so many ways to get in touch with those from the past....email privacy is all of a sudden a big issue. I gave up my password and phone cause I knew I had nothing to hide.\r\n\r\nWhen I found out what was going on because she \"forgot\" to delete something, truth was confirmed. If anyone in today\'s age is gonna be unfaithful or flirt....the two biggest things are text messages and email. \r\n\r\nIf you are married...and trust each other and its up front, fine. Snooping hurts, but if you ain\'t got nothing to hide....whats the problem???'); return false;">quote</a></div> @J Desperaux –

I agree completely. In a marriage….with the way facebook and myspace and everything else is, with so many ways to get in touch with those from the past….email privacy is all of a sudden a big issue. I gave up my password and phone cause I knew I had nothing to hide.

When I found out what was going on because she “forgot” to delete something, truth was confirmed. If anyone in today’s age is gonna be unfaithful or flirt….the two biggest things are text messages and email.

If you are married…and trust each other and its up front, fine. Snooping hurts, but if you ain’t got nothing to hide….whats the problem???

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]]> By: J Desperaux http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/comment-page-1/#comment-5503 J Desperaux Sat, 31 Oct 2009 14:16:58 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=787#comment-5503 I disagree completely. I was suspicious of my ex and checked email. Confirmed my suspicions that ex had ben unfaithful. Ex had lied to me to my face and would never have told me. i was able to end the relationship and move on with my life. I knew, I checked, I confirmed. Thank God for snooping. in a committed, long-term relationship (or marriage) there is no reason for email privacy. What earthly reason could there be to hide ANYTHING from the person you are with forever? if you still need to keep secrets like a junior high school kid, you're not ready to be in a committed relationship. There should be no nothing kept from one another. If you partner is demanding privacy with regards to email etc, it's time to get suspicious. Trust me.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5503','J Desperaux'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5503','J Desperaux','I disagree completely. I was suspicious of my ex and checked email. Confirmed my suspicions that ex had ben unfaithful. Ex had lied to me to my face and would never have told me. i was able to end the relationship and move on with my life. I knew, I checked, I confirmed. Thank God for snooping. in a committed, long-term relationship (or marriage) there is no reason for email privacy. What earthly reason could there be to hide ANYTHING from the person you are with forever? if you still need to keep secrets like a junior high school kid, you\'re not ready to be in a committed relationship. There should be no nothing kept from one another. If you partner is demanding privacy with regards to email etc, it\'s time to get suspicious. Trust me.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I disagree completely. I was suspicious of my ex and checked email. Confirmed my suspicions that ex had ben unfaithful. Ex had lied to me to my face and would never have told me. i was able to end the relationship and move on with my life. I knew, I checked, I confirmed. Thank God for snooping. in a committed, long-term relationship (or marriage) there is no reason for email privacy. What earthly reason could there be to hide ANYTHING from the person you are with forever? if you still need to keep secrets like a junior high school kid, you’re not ready to be in a committed relationship. There should be no nothing kept from one another. If you partner is demanding privacy with regards to email etc, it’s time to get suspicious. Trust me.
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]]> By: Cat http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/comment-page-1/#comment-5388 Cat Sun, 04 Oct 2009 16:25:06 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=787#comment-5388 Please, control freaks -- stop snooping on us sane folks (sorry, but I've been burned in the past).<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5388','Cat'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5388','Cat','Please, control freaks -- stop snooping on us sane folks (sorry, but I\'ve been burned in the past).'); return false;">quote</a></div> Please, control freaks — stop snooping on us sane folks (sorry, but I’ve been burned in the past).
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]]> By: Betty http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/comment-page-1/#comment-5327 Betty Fri, 18 Sep 2009 18:51:14 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=787#comment-5327 Another thing you can do if you want to force-stop snooping, is change their password on them. Change it to random characters. They will try and log in, not be able to, and then reset their password to hopefully something else. But don't check. Just do that and never try again. Or if you can't help yourself and you do try, and they used the same password as before, force-reset it again. Keep doing this and if they are smart they'll switch it to something different and you'll be locked out. Not that I have don't this or needed to do this, but I ws thinking it would be a good way to force yourself out of their accounts.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5327','Betty'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5327','Betty','Another thing you can do if you want to force-stop snooping, is change their password on them. Change it to random characters. They will try and log in, not be able to, and then reset their password to hopefully something else. But don\'t check. Just do that and never try again. Or if you can\'t help yourself and you do try, and they used the same password as before, force-reset it again. Keep doing this and if they are smart they\'ll switch it to something different and you\'ll be locked out. Not that I have don\'t this or needed to do this, but I ws thinking it would be a good way to force yourself out of their accounts.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Another thing you can do if you want to force-stop snooping, is change their password on them. Change it to random characters. They will try and log in, not be able to, and then reset their password to hopefully something else. But don’t check. Just do that and never try again. Or if you can’t help yourself and you do try, and they used the same password as before, force-reset it again. Keep doing this and if they are smart they’ll switch it to something different and you’ll be locked out. Not that I have don’t this or needed to do this, but I ws thinking it would be a good way to force yourself out of their accounts.
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]]> By: criminally unenthused http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/comment-page-1/#comment-5163 criminally unenthused Fri, 21 Aug 2009 14:27:38 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=787#comment-5163 Excellent article, as always!!! Shortly after my breakup i decided to peek into my ex's email, desperately looking for answers or clues as to why she left me. No emails from guys, but rather emails from a girlfriend of hers encouraging her to hook-up with other specific people. I was so upset since i knew who these guys were and immediately told her to please change her password so that i wont be tempted to look again. Now, more than two months later, what i read is still haunting me; Obsessing over whether or not she's followed through on her friends advice with these guys, and i wish so much that i hadn't looked. So if you're in a similar situation and want to sneak a peek at emails. DON'T DO IT!!!!!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5163','criminally unenthused'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5163','criminally unenthused','Excellent article, as always!!! Shortly after my breakup i decided to peek into my ex\'s email, desperately looking for answers or clues as to why she left me. No emails from guys, but rather emails from a girlfriend of hers encouraging her to hook-up with other specific people. I was so upset since i knew who these guys were and immediately told her to please change her password so that i wont be tempted to look again. Now, more than two months later, what i read is still haunting me; Obsessing over whether or not she\'s followed through on her friends advice with these guys, and i wish so much that i hadn\'t looked. So if you\'re in a similar situation and want to sneak a peek at emails. DON\'T DO IT!!!!!'); return false;">quote</a></div> Excellent article, as always!!! Shortly after my breakup i decided to peek into my ex’s email, desperately looking for answers or clues as to why she left me. No emails from guys, but rather emails from a girlfriend of hers encouraging her to hook-up with other specific people. I was so upset since i knew who these guys were and immediately told her to please change her password so that i wont be tempted to look again. Now, more than two months later, what i read is still haunting me; Obsessing over whether or not she’s followed through on her friends advice with these guys, and i wish so much that i hadn’t looked. So if you’re in a similar situation and want to sneak a peek at emails. DON’T DO IT!!!!!
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]]> By: energytalkradio http://lovesagame.com/is-it-ok-to-snoop-in-your-partners-email/comment-page-1/#comment-5142 energytalkradio Tue, 18 Aug 2009 13:28:34 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=787#comment-5142 I love this post! Lucky me, my husband is not into this - like a dinosaur in computer age - really! I agree that if you have snooping around all the time, you may have not only have trust issues but more importantly is the communication issue. Instead of snooping, just ask all about what you're thinking. That's it.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5142','energytalkradio'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5142','energytalkradio','I love this post! Lucky me, my husband is not into this - like a dinosaur in computer age - really! I agree that if you have snooping around all the time, you may have not only have trust issues but more importantly is the communication issue. Instead of snooping, just ask all about what you\'re thinking. That\'s it.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I love this post! Lucky me, my husband is not into this – like a dinosaur in computer age – really! I agree that if you have snooping around all the time, you may have not only have trust issues but more importantly is the communication issue. Instead of snooping, just ask all about what you’re thinking. That’s it.
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