Comments on: Love Until Madness – Did It Happen To You? http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you Learn how to survive a break up, rediscover your true self and find Mr/s Right Thu, 17 May 2012 03:09:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: LoveLostArt http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-20621 LoveLostArt Wed, 28 Mar 2012 12:46:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=782#comment-20621 I know that it is possible to love too much. I believe that is exactly what it is that I am doing in my current relationship. One that I know will never workout. I don't seem to be able to let go. Our chemistry in bed is amazing, but there is something missing. My best friend says that he is not the one but I do what I wish as I am not seeing it. I do see it but I am not sure how to let go without a hard flat out end to the relationship. My sexual chemistry with him is confusing my emotional self. I have noticed that I am starting to make room for him and not attending to my personal needs and wants. I am in trouble. I know that it is possible to love too much. I believe that is exactly what it is that I am doing in my current relationship. One that I know will never workout. I don’t seem to be able to let go. Our chemistry in bed is amazing, but there is something missing. My best friend says that he is not the one but I do what I wish as I am not seeing it. I do see it but I am not sure how to let go without a hard flat out end to the relationship. My sexual chemistry with him is confusing my emotional self. I have noticed that I am starting to make room for him and not attending to my personal needs and wants. I am in trouble.

]]> By: Vballgrl769 http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-12171 Vballgrl769 Wed, 16 Feb 2011 05:31:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=782#comment-12171 Yes it is definitely possible to love too much. My ex-boyfriend and I were together over 2 years. We talked about marriage and kids and lived through each other but I completely lost who I was. Before we dated I was all about my friends and never sat home for 1 night. He was the guy I had loved all through high school and when I got my chance to be with him I took it.. little did I know that I would throw away everything for him. I blew off my friends and lied to them because I knew they would be upset if they knew I was with him. He didn't like my friends and my friends didn't like him. I wouldn't believe anything bad that they told me about him and gave him everything I had. Soon I realized, when my friends would stop calling, that I had started to lose everything. When my boyfriend went on vacation and I had a chance to spend time with my friends I realized what I had done. I broke it off right away and blamed it on him for pulling me away from my friends because I was looking at any reason to get out. I was truly as deeply in love with him as it is possible to be with one person and will always wonder if I made the right choice, but I have found myself again and regained the friendships that I regretfully threw away at one point in time. It is definitely possible to love until madness. Yes it is definitely possible to love too much. My ex-boyfriend and I were together over 2 years. We talked about marriage and kids and lived through each other but I completely lost who I was. Before we dated I was all about my friends and never sat home for 1 night. He was the guy I had loved all through high school and when I got my chance to be with him I took it.. little did I know that I would throw away everything for him. I blew off my friends and lied to them because I knew they would be upset if they knew I was with him. He didn’t like my friends and my friends didn’t like him. I wouldn’t believe anything bad that they told me about him and gave him everything I had. Soon I realized, when my friends would stop calling, that I had started to lose everything. When my boyfriend went on vacation and I had a chance to spend time with my friends I realized what I had done. I broke it off right away and blamed it on him for pulling me away from my friends because I was looking at any reason to get out. I was truly as deeply in love with him as it is possible to be with one person and will always wonder if I made the right choice, but I have found myself again and regained the friendships that I regretfully threw away at one point in time. It is definitely possible to love until madness.

]]> By: bc http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-10498 bc Tue, 30 Nov 2010 09:32:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=782#comment-10498 i believe we do love to much, I am madly deeply in love with someone now and have been for 8 years, I know he feels to same but it scares him. He said he loves me then threw it back in my face by saying he using me.. almost to justify himself and his feelings. I hope we don't break up after all this time, as they say time will tell. i believe we do love to much, I am madly deeply in love with someone now and have been for 8 years, I know he feels to same but it scares him. He said he loves me then threw it back in my face by saying he using me.. almost to justify himself and his feelings.

I hope we don’t break up after all this time, as they say time will tell.

]]> By: Juli http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-9600 Juli Fri, 05 Nov 2010 22:09:59 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=782#comment-9600 i find it quite interesting that this story is so similar to my own love story. When i was in High School I also met a turkish guy and we fell in love. It was great while it lasted, i had never met somebody like him and i loved him soooooooooo much that i can't even explain. Unfortunately i loved him too much and when our relationship ended i lost myself. I went through depression and just couldn't get my life back. Sadly until today i can't say that i have completely forgotten about him :( i find it quite interesting that this story is so similar to my own love story. When i was in High School I also met a turkish guy and we fell in love. It was great while it lasted, i had never met somebody like him and i loved him soooooooooo much that i can't even explain. Unfortunately i loved him too much and when our relationship ended i lost myself. I went through depression and just couldn't get my life back. Sadly until today i can't say that i have completely forgotten about him :(

]]> By: Mandaholaway http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-9582 Mandaholaway Thu, 04 Nov 2010 17:40:20 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=782#comment-9582 I absolutely think it's possible to love too much until madness. I have always had a big heart and always dreamed of one day finding somebody to give all that love I had to. At 20, I dated my first boyfriend and we dated for about 2 and a half years. I fell so completely in love with him. Not because he was the perfect guy for me (he really wasn't...) but because I felt like I found somebody to give away all that love that I had. I have always been a very independent girl and I never expected myself to get to the point of "love" and "madness" that I did with my ex. But, as they say, love makes you do crazy things. I lost myself in him. Everything was about him. I dedicated all my time and energy to him. I would cancel activities with friends, stay out late when I had work the next morning-all to be with him. I spent so much money on him. Doing those things for him made ME happy though. At the end of our relationship, I could clearly see that I loved him more than he loved me. The things I was willing to do for him went far beyond what he was willing to do for me. It was almost a one way street with our relationship. I lost it when we broke up. I felt like my world came to an end because I became dependent on him to make me happy. I wish I hadn't lost myself in the relationship like I did. I believe had I not loved too much, I would have been able to cope easier. There is nothing wrong with loving, but never forget yourself in the process. There IS a world outside of your significant other. In my next relationship, I now know how to and how to not act. Ever life experience is a blessing in disguise. It makes you the person you are and helps you to make better decisions. I absolutely think it's possible to love too much until madness. I have always had a big heart and always dreamed of one day finding somebody to give all that love I had to. At 20, I dated my first boyfriend and we dated for about 2 and a half years. I fell so completely in love with him. Not because he was the perfect guy for me (he really wasn't…) but because I felt like I found somebody to give away all that love that I had. I have always been a very independent girl and I never expected myself to get to the point of “love” and “madness” that I did with my ex. But, as they say, love makes you do crazy things. I lost myself in him. Everything was about him. I dedicated all my time and energy to him. I would cancel activities with friends, stay out late when I had work the next morning-all to be with him. I spent so much money on him. Doing those things for him made ME happy though. At the end of our relationship, I could clearly see that I loved him more than he loved me. The things I was willing to do for him went far beyond what he was willing to do for me. It was almost a one way street with our relationship. I lost it when we broke up. I felt like my world came to an end because I became dependent on him to make me happy. I wish I hadn't lost myself in the relationship like I did. I believe had I not loved too much, I would have been able to cope easier. There is nothing wrong with loving, but never forget yourself in the process. There IS a world outside of your significant other. In my next relationship, I now know how to and how to not act. Ever life experience is a blessing in disguise. It makes you the person you are and helps you to make better decisions.

]]> By: guest http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-9456 guest Tue, 26 Oct 2010 17:08:12 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=782#comment-9456 Hey ppl! Everyone here is talking just about someone whom he has lost! About someone whom s/he used to love!!! Why ppl realize how much they loved only after hey lose their partner??? Nobody writes how mad s/he is in love now!!! That is what ppl should try to do! To feel all the love deep inside when they through it and not when they brake up! I came p with this articles because I want to keep my love so big and forver now, when I have it! And hope I will not use it! Just think like this and then maybe less suffer will be ;) Hey ppl! Everyone here is talking just about someone whom he has lost! About someone whom s/he used to love!!! Why ppl realize how much they loved only after hey lose their partner??? Nobody writes how mad s/he is in love now!!! That is what ppl should try to do! To feel all the love deep inside when they through it and not when they brake up! I came p with this articles because I want to keep my love so big and forver now, when I have it! And hope I will not use it! Just think like this and then maybe less suffer will be ;)

]]> By: Sweet68november http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-9412 Sweet68november Sun, 24 Oct 2010 10:12:08 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=782#comment-9412 You learn by loving and giving, sometimes we meet people throughout our journey in life, that have learned these lessons,you were able to hear the the words, embeded them in your mind, a diaster waiting to happen,months later it did, any message when well received can be learned from someone who has treaded down the same path, to shed light on your own personal love disaster, we can only know and learn these lessons on our own,trust and do anything in life with all your heart, <br>but it is always better if he/she loves you more... <br> You learn by loving and giving, sometimes we meet people throughout our journey in life, that have learned these lessons,you were able to hear the the words, embeded them in your mind, a diaster waiting to happen,months later it did, any message when well received can be learned from someone who has treaded down the same path, to shed light on your own personal love disaster, we can only know and learn these lessons on our own,trust and do anything in life with all your heart,

but it is always better if he/she loves you more…

]]> By: Presunto http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-9320 Presunto Sun, 17 Oct 2010 05:51:53 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=782#comment-9320 What about obsession and controlling relationships? This site is too useful but it seems it's just about "average" break ups. Some of us have had to literally "run away" from a freaky partner..... What about obsession and controlling relationships? This site is too useful but it seems it's just about “average” break ups. Some of us have had to literally “run away” from a freaky partner…..

]]> By: Alphonse http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-9208 Alphonse Sat, 09 Oct 2010 01:07:23 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=782#comment-9208 Absolutely!! And only can say this now due to my recent break-up. We were very much in love, or so I thought. The sex and Intimacy were out of this world off the charts. Which blinded me to her insecurities and Jealousy. I mistook her jealousy and loving attention. This relationship was 2 years long as we both were separated from our souses at the time, Once my divorce was finial she forbid me to talk to my Ex. My Ex and I have 2 children, and are doing our best to Co-Parent. This is imposable with out communication. This was finally not the red flag I should have seen earlier but a huge red beacon flashing at me. I can now look back and honestly admit to Loving her too much and allowing myself to not be treated with the respect we all deserve. I definitely was no longer my self in the final 8 months of that relationship. I certainly miss the great times we had, but it is very clear to me that was not the right person for me and HOPEFULLY learned a valuable lesson. Always; "To thine own self be true!" Absolutely!! And only can say this now due to my recent break-up. We were very much in love, or so I thought. The sex and Intimacy were out of this world off the charts. Which blinded me to her insecurities and Jealousy. I mistook her jealousy and loving attention. This relationship was 2 years long as we both were separated from our souses at the time, Once my divorce was finial she forbid me to talk to my Ex. My Ex and I have 2 children, and are doing our best to Co-Parent. This is imposable with out communication. This was finally not the red flag I should have seen earlier but a huge red beacon flashing at me. I can now look back and honestly admit to Loving her too much and allowing myself to not be treated with the respect we all deserve. I definitely was no longer my self in the final 8 months of that relationship. I certainly miss the great times we had, but it is very clear to me that was not the right person for me and HOPEFULLY learned a valuable lesson. Always; “To thine own self be true!”

]]> By: Infinity http://lovesagame.com/love-until-madness-did-it-happen-to-you/comment-page-1/#comment-9163 Infinity Wed, 06 Oct 2010 19:42:58 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=782#comment-9163 It is very true. It happened to me. It is very true. It happened to me.

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