Comments on: My Way Back Into Life – A Personal Story http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:45:08 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: lisalisa http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/comment-page-1/#comment-5075 lisalisa Sat, 08 Aug 2009 00:27:18 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=504#comment-5075 @ RJ - did you end it RJ? IMHO, you either work towards a solution, or you don't. If you don't want to improve your relationship with your partner, why are you there? Be really sure of whatever decision you make.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5075','lisalisa'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5075','lisalisa','@ RJ - did you end it RJ?\r\n\r\nIMHO, you either work towards a solution, or you don\'t. If you don\'t want to improve your relationship with your partner, why are you there? Be really sure of whatever decision you make.'); return false;">quote</a></div> @ RJ – did you end it RJ?

IMHO, you either work towards a solution, or you don’t. If you don’t want to improve your relationship with your partner, why are you there? Be really sure of whatever decision you make.

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]]> By: BILLY IN TX. http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/comment-page-1/#comment-5074 BILLY IN TX. Fri, 07 Aug 2009 16:38:11 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=504#comment-5074 love yorself and wen u r in a crossroads make a decision u r in or u r out which side do u wanna be? , dont follow the no contact cuz I have achild with her, but tks, I feel i am getting out of a nut shell! exercise, exercise, excercise! patience, so a big reward will come! thks corbano<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5074','BILLY IN TX.'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5074','BILLY IN TX.','love yorself and wen u r in a crossroads make a decision u r in or u r out which side do u wanna be? , dont follow the no contact cuz I have achild with her, but tks, I feel i am getting out of a nut shell! exercise, exercise, excercise! patience, so a big reward will come! thks corbano'); return false;">quote</a></div> love yorself and wen u r in a crossroads make a decision u r in or u r out which side do u wanna be? , dont follow the no contact cuz I have achild with her, but tks, I feel i am getting out of a nut shell! exercise, exercise, excercise! patience, so a big reward will come! thks corbano
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]]> By: Lisalisa http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/comment-page-1/#comment-4577 Lisalisa Thu, 21 May 2009 12:15:47 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=504#comment-4577 I meant I was the one with codependent behaviours. He is still trying to be buddies though. Just don't know how to do that.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4577','Lisalisa'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4577','Lisalisa','I meant I was the one with codependent behaviours.\r\n\r\nHe is still trying to be buddies though. Just don\'t know how to do that.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I meant I was the one with codependent behaviours.

He is still trying to be buddies though. Just don’t know how to do that.

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]]> By: stacey http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/comment-page-1/#comment-4561 stacey Mon, 18 May 2009 12:26:40 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=504#comment-4561 <a href='#comment-4541' rel="nofollow">@Lisalisa</a> - Codependent! Ha, I went out withsomeone like this and he dumped me! Crazy, took 2 years to get over, He tried to be all buddies and i said, you have issues, i htink you should see someone before you get intot another relationship. He then acknowldeged what a prick he was which sooo made me feel better closure. In the meantime, be STRONG! He wants your attention without wanting to commit to you. Keep reminding and retraining yourself to look for postivie people. Take on a new challenge, exercise.. Good luck!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4561','stacey'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4561','stacey','<a href=\'#comment-4541\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Lisalisa<\/a> - Codependent! Ha, I went out withsomeone like this and he dumped me! Crazy, took 2 years to get over, He tried to be all buddies and i said, you have issues, i htink you should see someone before you get intot another relationship. He then acknowldeged what a prick he was which sooo made me feel better closure. In the meantime, be STRONG! He wants your attention without wanting to commit to you. Keep reminding and retraining yourself to look for postivie people. Take on a new challenge, exercise.. Good luck!'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Lisalisa – Codependent! Ha, I went out withsomeone like this and he dumped me! Crazy, took 2 years to get over, He tried to be all buddies and i said, you have issues, i htink you should see someone before you get intot another relationship. He then acknowldeged what a prick he was which sooo made me feel better closure. In the meantime, be STRONG! He wants your attention without wanting to commit to you. Keep reminding and retraining yourself to look for postivie people. Take on a new challenge, exercise.. Good luck!
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]]> By: Shopper http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/comment-page-1/#comment-4559 Shopper Sun, 17 May 2009 06:10:31 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=504#comment-4559 Wow, I can totally relate to your story. I too was in a relationship for just about 10 years and all of a sudden he didn't want to be with me anymore but as months passed by he started contacting me by text just to see if I was interested in a sex only relationship. I of course told him no even though it hurt like hell. To contact me only for sex was like a slap in the face. It was like he didn't even acknowledge we had a 10 year relationship and it was so insensitive of him. It has been just about a year since I've seen him and I am still hurting but I am trying to adjust my life now. I have enrolled in school and am looking forward to attending so maybe I can start meeting people and re-connecting with people and moving on with my life. Everyday is a struggle but I force myself each day to get out of the house and inter-act with people. I wish you luck and I hope things get easier for you.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4559','Shopper'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4559','Shopper','Wow, I can totally relate to your story. I too was in a relationship for just about 10 years and all of a sudden he didn\'t want to be with me anymore but as months passed by he started contacting me by text just to see if I was interested in a sex only relationship. I of course told him no even though it hurt like hell. To contact me only for sex was like a slap in the face. It was like he didn\'t even acknowledge we had a 10 year relationship and it was so insensitive of him. It has been just about a year since I\'ve seen him and I am still hurting but I am trying to adjust my life now. I have enrolled in school and am looking forward to attending so maybe I can start meeting people and re-connecting with people and moving on with my life. Everyday is a struggle but I force myself each day to get out of the house and inter-act with people. I wish you luck and I hope things get easier for you.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Wow, I can totally relate to your story. I too was in a relationship for just about 10 years and all of a sudden he didn’t want to be with me anymore but as months passed by he started contacting me by text just to see if I was interested in a sex only relationship. I of course told him no even though it hurt like hell. To contact me only for sex was like a slap in the face. It was like he didn’t even acknowledge we had a 10 year relationship and it was so insensitive of him. It has been just about a year since I’ve seen him and I am still hurting but I am trying to adjust my life now. I have enrolled in school and am looking forward to attending so maybe I can start meeting people and re-connecting with people and moving on with my life. Everyday is a struggle but I force myself each day to get out of the house and inter-act with people. I wish you luck and I hope things get easier for you.
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]]> By: FLAKA http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/comment-page-1/#comment-4557 FLAKA Sat, 16 May 2009 01:57:34 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=504#comment-4557 <a href='#comment-4316' rel="nofollow">@Eddie Corbano</a> - EDDIE, FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS WEBSITE WAS THE BEST!!!! THANK YOU FOR HELP PEOPLE LIKE ME, TO OVERCOME A BREAKUP.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4557','FLAKA'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4557','FLAKA','<a href=\'#comment-4316\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Eddie Corbano<\/a> - \r\n\r\nEDDIE, FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS WEBSITE WAS THE BEST!!!! THANK YOU FOR HELP PEOPLE LIKE ME, TO OVERCOME A BREAKUP.'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Eddie Corbano –

EDDIE, FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS WEBSITE WAS THE BEST!!!! THANK YOU FOR HELP PEOPLE LIKE ME, TO OVERCOME A BREAKUP.

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]]> By: Lisalisa http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/comment-page-1/#comment-4541 Lisalisa Sun, 10 May 2009 05:15:04 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=504#comment-4541 I am 6 months out of a 10 year relationship. I have learnt a lot about myself since the breakup. I see I was too focussed on him and his happiness and not my own (codependent issues). I recognise this now, and it's such a relief to put a name to it. Problem is I still love my ex and haven't completely let go. He is dating again. He is trying to be friends and contacted me not long ago to talk about what we've both been going through. I'm not sure I want to - he left after all and is dating, so it's not like he wants to reconcile. I have received mixed messages from him like sometimes he misses me a lot and it hurts, like he's changing, etc. But bottom line is he isn't here. Not sure what to do.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4541','Lisalisa'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4541','Lisalisa','I am 6 months out of a 10 year relationship. I have learnt a lot about myself since the breakup. I see I was too focussed on him and his happiness and not my own (codependent issues). I recognise this now, and it\'s such a relief to put a name to it.\n\nProblem is I still love my ex and haven\'t completely let go. He is dating again. He is trying to be friends and contacted me not long ago to talk about what we\'ve both been going through. I\'m not sure I want to - he left after all and is dating, so it\'s not like he wants to reconcile. I have received mixed messages from him like sometimes he misses me a lot and it hurts, like he\'s changing, etc. But bottom line is he isn\'t here.\n\nNot sure what to do.'); return false;">quote</a></div> I am 6 months out of a 10 year relationship. I have learnt a lot about myself since the breakup. I see I was too focussed on him and his happiness and not my own (codependent issues). I recognise this now, and it’s such a relief to put a name to it.

Problem is I still love my ex and haven’t completely let go. He is dating again. He is trying to be friends and contacted me not long ago to talk about what we’ve both been going through. I’m not sure I want to – he left after all and is dating, so it’s not like he wants to reconcile. I have received mixed messages from him like sometimes he misses me a lot and it hurts, like he’s changing, etc. But bottom line is he isn’t here.

Not sure what to do.

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]]> By: Eddie Corbano http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/comment-page-1/#comment-4536 Eddie Corbano Fri, 08 May 2009 05:19:39 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=504#comment-4536 <a href='#comment-4526' rel="nofollow">@tina</a> - Tina, improving my self-esteem and self-worth did pretty much the trick for me (among other things). When I felt that changing many things in my life started to resolve. Eddie<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4536','Eddie Corbano'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4536','Eddie Corbano','<a href=\'#comment-4526\' rel=\"nofollow\">@tina<\/a> - \r\n\r\nTina, improving my self-esteem and self-worth did pretty much the trick for me (among other things). When I felt that changing many things in my life started to resolve.\r\n\r\nEddie'); return false;">quote</a></div> @tina –

Tina, improving my self-esteem and self-worth did pretty much the trick for me (among other things). When I felt that changing many things in my life started to resolve.

Eddie

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]]> By: tina http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/comment-page-1/#comment-4526 tina Tue, 05 May 2009 09:16:08 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=504#comment-4526 eddy, I loved your article. I saw myself in every way. However I am not to the recovery point you got to. I had the same type of father, controlling and demanding, now I too have dependecy issues. How do I, or how did you get over that???! help!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4526','tina'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4526','tina','eddy, I loved your article. I saw myself in every way. However I am not to the recovery point you got to. I had the same type of father, controlling and demanding, now I too have dependecy issues. \r\n\r\nHow do I, or how did you get over that???! \r\n\r\nhelp!'); return false;">quote</a></div> eddy, I loved your article. I saw myself in every way. However I am not to the recovery point you got to. I had the same type of father, controlling and demanding, now I too have dependecy issues.

How do I, or how did you get over that???!

help!

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]]> By: Cindy http://lovesagame.com/my-way-back-into-life-a-personal-story/comment-page-1/#comment-4474 Cindy Thu, 23 Apr 2009 14:31:32 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/?p=504#comment-4474 Kutty, Ive been in your shoes. I was in a realtionship for four yrs that ended 2months ago. Please dont look into his information, I had access to my exs phone and bank accounts. All it did was hurt me and pound me into the floor. After seeing the good time he was already having without me it was devestating! So my advice to you is be strong tell yourself that if you do that you are the one hurting yourself and no one else. Tell yourself everyday that you are choosing to be happy and dont let anyone tell you otherwise. You'll get through this stage just like I did! <div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4474','Cindy'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4474','Cindy','Kutty, Ive been in your shoes. I was in a realtionship for four yrs that ended 2months ago. Please dont look into his information, I had access to my exs phone and bank accounts. All it did was hurt me and pound me into the floor. After seeing the good time he was already having without me it was devestating! So my advice to you is be strong tell yourself that if you do that you are the one hurting yourself and no one else. Tell yourself everyday that you are choosing to be happy and dont let anyone tell you otherwise. You'll get through this stage just like I did! '); return false;">quote</a></div> Kutty, Ive been in your shoes. I was in a realtionship for four yrs that ended 2months ago. Please dont look into his information, I had access to my exs phone and bank accounts. All it did was hurt me and pound me into the floor. After seeing the good time he was already having without me it was devestating! So my advice to you is be strong tell yourself that if you do that you are the one hurting yourself and no one else. Tell yourself everyday that you are choosing to be happy and dont let anyone tell you otherwise. You'll get through this stage just like I did!
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