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Guys, I know you waited for it, yearned for it, and finally here it is, as promised: the groundbreaking article on the 2 best pick up lines ever that will change your life!
But wait a minute. Didn’t I say that there is no such thing as magical pick up lines that make women loose their minds? And more importantly, didn’t I say that there is no such thing at all as a working pick up line?
Well, well, your right… and you’re not.
Actually, I also wrote that, if you had the right mindset and body language, you could say pretty much anything you like AND be successful. Practically that means you could go up to a beautiful woman, have the right body language, voice tone, a bright smile and say confidently: “Come here often?” and you WILL score. As simple as that. Of course you know it’s not simple at all, it takes month to develop the proper mindset.
So what do you actually say when approaching a hot woman?
Wait a minute.
First, allow me to specify the most common mistakes men are making when they approach a woman and deliver the line.
The most frequent mistake is clearly the importance and relevance men are giving to the pick up lines itself. I said it many times, you can use funny pick up lines, sweet pick up lines, corny pick up lines, they alone will not get you where you want to be. Some even may scare the girls away or make you look stupid.
Another very often made mistake is the delivery itself. Wrong body language, voice tone, low self esteem, insecurity, laughing and looking back at your friends. All signs that you are not standing behind the line. Non verbal communication is far more effective. The girl will feel like you make fun of her and she will react accordingly.
Having this in mind it should now be clear what you need, a line that conveys everything a girl likes when being approached. That is what the two best pick up lines will do. This is not manipulation, it’s honesty.
So, no more delaying, here it is, the ultimate, unbelievable, sensational, magical Best Pick Up Line Ever:
1. “Hi”
Am I kidding?
No.
Simply say “hi”. There is no hidden agenda behind it, no innuendo, no “routine”, just a friendly honest “hi”.
Well, the condition here is:
- to be natural
- to be spontaneous
- to be confident
- to have the right body language and voice tone
That is really all.
Of course this isn’t new, maybe you just have not thought about it in your search for the magical pick up line that simply doesn’t exist. David DeAngelo often said, that people are always looking for the shortcut, but they didn’t realize that this is actually a process, a state of mind you have to change.
So, this isn’t a pick up line per se, it’s more an introduction without saying your name. Nobody will turn away a “hi”. How it will continue after that solely depends on your experience and your ability to relax, to be confident and to let the conversation flow naturally.
I bet you are curious what the second of the 2 best pick up lines is.
Here is the second best pick up line ever:
2. “I like you and I would like to get to know you”
Say it slow, deliberate, emotionally intense and confident. Maintaining eye-contact is very important here.
What is the “magic” behind this pick up line?
- you are 100% honest
- you are playing no tricks
- you are conveying that you are confident and know what you want
- you are standing out of the crowd
Girls LOVE that.
I admit, it is not at all easy to walk up to a girl, especially if she’s stunningly beautiful and perform an opener like this. It takes courage and practice. But the biggest advantage is, if you are honest and not trying to play the cool guy, you can not do anything wrong.
Girls, tell me, how many men have ever approached you in this way? None? One? I guarantee you, you will experience a headrush and butterflies in your stomachs from this kind of approach.
It takes a real man to do it.
By the way, this is called a “direct opener” in the community (the guys who made a science out of this) and the guy who first wrote about it was Ranko Magami (Shark). To each saint his candle.
You have now the equipment to get started. Just remember to be natural and confident.
Now go out and meet some beautiful girls.
All the best,
Eddie Corbano
(Graphic on top made be Eddie Corbano, © all rights reserved)
19 responses so far ↓
1 wedding vows // Jul 31, 2007 at 5:04 am
I like the simple “hi”, but I also like a guy who can make me laugh at his first “hi”
2 Laine // Aug 2, 2007 at 5:58 pm
I was expecting your two lines to be some corny made up stuff that most women hate.
I’m pleasantly surprised!
Well done. I really am enjoying reading your blog. You seem like one of the good guys who doesn’t treat women like playthings.
Laine
3 Eddie Corbano // Aug 10, 2007 at 8:55 am
@ Laine
Thank you for the kind words
.
Yes, the title is sort of misleading, but a good contrast to the content which follows.
4 Josh // Aug 14, 2007 at 4:53 am
Thanks for the info on how to pick up women,but i have a personal question. Well i am not what you would say a ‘real man’ because im not even 18 hahaha but i just wnated to sya that i do agree with the ‘hi’ statement because it is flawless and inguenious yet so barbaricaly simple as well,also on another note i would like to add that i think that the ‘i like you and i would like to get to know you more’ line is abit too drastic for an ‘opener’whne meeting some one maybe you had a bit more advice you would like to share or u could simple go in further detail on how it really does work,because i am interested in finding a female partner AKA the ‘girlfriend’ for me so if u could contact me back i would very much appreciate it! thank you in advance.
5 Eddie Corbano // Aug 14, 2007 at 9:48 am
Hi Josh,
Thanks for commenting
.
“I like you and I would like to get to know you” is not too drastic, it’s just unexpected and overwhelming. A bit advanced though.
This is nothing theoretical, it’s “reality-proofed” by me and many others. It works.
For a good newbie-how-to check out this link.
6 Alex // Aug 29, 2007 at 12:09 am
I love that 2 pick up lines. From my point of view:
- There’s no manipulation. Woman hate manipulation.
- Those 2 lines are more on presenting who I am and focus more on the body language which deliver the most communications.
- Simple and easy.
- It’s an expression of love and not trying to take advantage.
- I simply love it.
Thanks for sharing this with me and to the public!
7 Eddie Corbano // Aug 31, 2007 at 2:55 pm
Hi Alex,
Thank you for commenting and for your thoughts.
8 Jesse Allen // Sep 9, 2007 at 7:43 pm
I’m not much for pick up lines, but what I found works best in getting any woman interested in what the heck you’re all about is this:
Hang out at the bar until a woman stands next to you, ready to order a drink. Look over and say “hey, don’t stand too close…people might think we’re together.”
9 Eddie Corbano // Sep 10, 2007 at 10:27 am
No offence Jesse Allen, but this looks exactly like a pick up line to me (with a brilliant integrated neg though
).
10 Aleksandroz // Nov 6, 2007 at 12:11 am
It is easy to say - be natural, but it is hard to be natural if you plan your approach in a bar, thinking of pick up lines.. often, best advice is to approach without thinking on pick up lines, just approach the girl, without prepared lines, letting yourself to say what first comes on your mind. It will be more natural…
And I liked that part you said –
What is the “magic” behind this pick up line? - You are 100% honest
I think, some guys make mistakes when they want to impress or get girl to like them by saying that they are peaty (when they are not).. being 100% honest in giving compliments can bring very positive effect, even if you are giving compliment how beautiful are her buttons on her jacket.
Very nice article.
11 Eddie Corbano // Nov 7, 2007 at 12:32 pm
Aleksandros,
I agree, to completely forget about pick up lines is the best you can do (of course, you should say “hi”).
The mindset to be natural does not come overnight. That’s why practice is so important. Do many approaches, then you will see that there really is nothing to fear - the right mindset will follow soon.
12 J // Dec 4, 2007 at 6:44 am
“I like you and I would like to get to know you”
As an opener, how can you truthfully say “I like you”? You don’t even know the girl yet. Maybe you like the way she looks, but thats pretty shallow for an “I like you”. Not that it wouldn’t work due to the directness and unexpectedness, just that I wouldn’t say its 100% honest as it is.
13 Eddie Corbano // Dec 5, 2007 at 10:37 am
J,
I do not concur.
“I like you” means:
I’m attracted to you by your looks, your body-language, your voice and your whole appearance.
This is usually enough to know if you like somebody. You will see after 3 minutes of conversation, if your first impression was accurate.
14 Michael Scholz // Dec 16, 2007 at 1:51 pm
Eddie, great advice! Just wanted to say “thanks” for the article, it was an eye-opener for me!
15 Jordan B // Jan 22, 2008 at 10:06 am
very good advice, being natural is everything. although you are right, its not always the easiest thing.
16 James // Jan 23, 2008 at 3:06 am
Just to the author of the article….
when is the best time to approach the girl and use these lines? some times must be better than others. and its not always easy to tell what kind of mood she’s in…
17 Eddie Corbano // Jan 28, 2008 at 9:33 am
Jordan B., yes being natural takes a lot of practice. But you know what? After 25 approaches you WILL be natural.
It’s really all about experience and realizing that there is nothing to be afraid of.
James, you can never know in what mood someone is before you talk to them.
Just approach the girl, if you do it right she will talk to you, no matter in what mood she is.
See is this way: every approach is one more experience for you, you couldn’t lose.
Eddie
18 Hot Alpha Female // Feb 29, 2008 at 9:05 am
Hi Eddie,
You do make a really good about the whole pick line thing.
To some extent I really believe its not WHAT you say but HOW you say it.
Body language is very important as it can convey confidence and control.
These are two things that prove to be extremely attractive to women especially.
In terms of pick up lines, I have always felt the most simple and genuine ones are the most effective.
The reason why some of the cheesy ones don’t work, is mainly because the guy comes across as a sleaze bad rather than a guy, that just wants to get to know a girl better.
Keep it real, keep it cool and confident and you should have no problem approaching women.
Hot Alpha Female
http://www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com
19 Jae // Mar 14, 2008 at 1:59 pm
This was fantastic. It’s so true, most of the time a simple hi or complete honesty works. But admittedly I don’t mind the stupid “I’m no fred flinstine but i can still make ur bedrock.” type pick-up-lines, but thats cuz thry make me laugh… and it’s only ok if its followed by a chuckle and a “hi”
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