Comments on: The Circle Of Pain? Relationship & Break Up http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up Learn how to survive a break up, rediscover your true self and find Mr/s Right Fri, 18 May 2012 14:22:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Fiffy Nurisliana http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-9520 Fiffy Nurisliana Sun, 31 Oct 2010 13:42:47 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/#comment-9520 Its been 2 years since i had my relationship with my boyfriend. we knew each other when i was working in a F and B restaurant. i was the waiter and the was the delivery guy.<br>i get to know him as someone's boyfriend. nevertheless at first he start to ask for my number. i was reluctant. after few weeks i got to know he had broke up with his girlfriend as she was someone's fiancee. <br>he was totally heartbroken and at that point of time he was my colleague and in a way we had treated each other as siblings.the age gapbetween us was 9 years apart.<br>we keep on texting each other and months past.he went back to his ex-gf as she had broken off with her <a href="http://fiancee.it" rel="nofollow">fiancee.it</a> was a lie afterall. <br>after 4 months of relationship and going through series of sex.they broke up.<br>it was then he came to me. at first it was just for e sake of comforting <a href="http://him.as" rel="nofollow">him.as</a> times goes by love starts to blossom.but in a way there was no sex opportunity.cause i dont prefer having sex before marriage.<br>during our relationship he was a great listener,every girl dreamt of.but when problems strikes he starts to neglect me.he went missing for months and came back with eyes full of tears.<br>i forgive him and naw he did it again. no sharing of problems.he neglected me and it seems he hurts me alot. what should i do? Its been 2 years since i had my relationship with my boyfriend. we knew each other when i was working in a F and B restaurant. i was the waiter and the was the delivery guy.
i get to know him as someone's boyfriend. nevertheless at first he start to ask for my number. i was reluctant. after few weeks i got to know he had broke up with his girlfriend as she was someone's fiancee.
he was totally heartbroken and at that point of time he was my colleague and in a way we had treated each other as siblings.the age gapbetween us was 9 years apart.
we keep on texting each other and months past.he went back to his ex-gf as she had broken off with her fiancee.it was a lie afterall.
after 4 months of relationship and going through series of sex.they broke up.
it was then he came to me. at first it was just for e sake of comforting him.as times goes by love starts to blossom.but in a way there was no sex opportunity.cause i dont prefer having sex before marriage.
during our relationship he was a great listener,every girl dreamt of.but when problems strikes he starts to neglect me.he went missing for months and came back with eyes full of tears.
i forgive him and naw he did it again. no sharing of problems.he neglected me and it seems he hurts me alot. what should i do?

]]> By: Betty http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-8159 Betty Fri, 16 Jul 2010 01:06:40 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/#comment-8159 Eddie, I wonder why the girlfriend left Simon soon after he started to love her and was pleased with the relationship. If she fought so hard, why give up after she got what she wanted? It's obvious that Simon needs to work on himself, but I'd be interested in knowing the ex-girlfriend's POV. Eddie, I wonder why the girlfriend left Simon soon after he started to love her and was pleased with the relationship. If she fought so hard, why give up after she got what she wanted? It's obvious that Simon needs to work on himself, but I'd be interested in knowing the ex-girlfriend's POV.

]]> By: Poychris http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-7546 Poychris Wed, 02 Jun 2010 11:38:08 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/#comment-7546 I am 35 and is with my current gf for about 2 years now. <br>However, my current relationship with gf is fatal. After about 6 months of dating. Somehow is becomes a borderline person. She wouldn't leave me alone. She follows me everywhere I go, she threaten to kill herself when I suggested break up and was even violet at many occasions when she didn't get what she wanted. I have difficulties breaking up with her. She doesn't anyone to break up with her. So I keep waiting for the day when she will just decide to leave on her own but instead it has been almost 2 years, she still wouldn't leave. She is two years my senior and initially I thought she was really matured and a caring person but it turned out she really has a different personality. <br>Her constant violent and threats are really frightening, she could just do anything without any remorse. Each time she was violent or loses her reason, I couldn't retaliate being the man. I have tried talking nicely to break up somehow she always will have a way to stay around again.<br>She is living at my place and she hasn't even gone for (i don't know when). As she only work part time a few night a week, she practically follows me around even when I am at work.<br><br>Can someone give me some suggestion? I am 35 and is with my current gf for about 2 years now.
However, my current relationship with gf is fatal. After about 6 months of dating. Somehow is becomes a borderline person. She wouldn't leave me alone. She follows me everywhere I go, she threaten to kill herself when I suggested break up and was even violet at many occasions when she didn't get what she wanted. I have difficulties breaking up with her. She doesn't anyone to break up with her. So I keep waiting for the day when she will just decide to leave on her own but instead it has been almost 2 years, she still wouldn't leave. She is two years my senior and initially I thought she was really matured and a caring person but it turned out she really has a different personality.
Her constant violent and threats are really frightening, she could just do anything without any remorse. Each time she was violent or loses her reason, I couldn't retaliate being the man. I have tried talking nicely to break up somehow she always will have a way to stay around again.
She is living at my place and she hasn't even gone for (i don't know when). As she only work part time a few night a week, she practically follows me around even when I am at work.

Can someone give me some suggestion?

]]> By: Kevin http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-6732 Kevin Tue, 09 Mar 2010 19:31:24 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/#comment-6732 I am 18, me and my ex girlfriend of 3 years( isn't it funny how in most of the comments we say how long we've been dating) broke up about a month ago. I moved in with my two best friends and i am regain-... or actually im gaining for the first time, my independence. I have healed a lot thanks to this site( thank you SO much eddie) , i honestly do feel that i am dealing with everything in a healthy manner. I am trying to SUCK this break up of all it's positive benefits so i can grow the maximum amount from it. I learned to self love, and one thing i took out of the break up( along with the xbox, and the tv's,haha) is my self-esteem, which was something that came from the relationship and her. And so i don't feel a need to find a new relationship in order to be happy, i have so much in my life right now, that a girl would only be extra, bonus. but this article got me worried that i need to live alone to learn to be alone. is this necessary? becuase even though im living with other people, i feel emotionally alone. and my current happyness is coming from me, not the people i live with or my situation or anything like that. I am 18, me and my ex girlfriend of 3 years( isn’t it funny how in most of the comments we say how long we’ve been dating) broke up about a month ago. I moved in with my two best friends and i am regain-… or actually im gaining for the first time, my independence. I have healed a lot thanks to this site( thank you SO much eddie) , i honestly do feel that i am dealing with everything in a healthy manner. I am trying to SUCK this break up of all it’s positive benefits so i can grow the maximum amount from it. I learned to self love, and one thing i took out of the break up( along with the xbox, and the tv’s,haha) is my self-esteem, which was something that came from the relationship and her. And so i don’t feel a need to find a new relationship in order to be happy, i have so much in my life right now, that a girl would only be extra, bonus. but this article got me worried that i need to live alone to learn to be alone. is this necessary? becuase even though im living with other people, i feel emotionally alone. and my current happyness is coming from me, not the people i live with or my situation or anything like that.

]]> By: Matt http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-6424 Matt Fri, 12 Feb 2010 21:09:08 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/#comment-6424 Hello! I've just discovered this website today searching for an understanding as I have for many weeks all about my recently ended 3 year relationship. Thank you Eddie for this that you've created. I think it's stellar. My appetite for these pages and the associated commentary has been insatiable. Without explaning exactly why, so much of what I read on your site has vindicated me in how I conducted myself in this ended relationship, and eases my partner battered self respect and reasoning. Wow that's nice! Matt Hello!

I’ve just discovered this website today searching for an understanding as I have for many weeks all about my recently ended 3 year relationship. Thank you Eddie for this that you’ve created. I think it’s stellar. My appetite for these pages and the associated commentary has been insatiable.

Without explaning exactly why, so much of what I read on your site has vindicated me in how I conducted myself in this ended relationship, and eases my partner battered self respect and reasoning. Wow that’s nice!

Matt

]]> By: RS http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-6107 RS Tue, 19 Jan 2010 18:48:10 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/#comment-6107 this was a really good article! thanks for sharing. i'm going through the very beginning of a breakup stage. anything that can give me hope that its going to be okay really helps. this was a really good article! thanks for sharing. i’m going through the very beginning of a breakup stage. anything that can give me hope that its going to be okay really helps.

]]> By: Vicki http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-1832 Vicki Thu, 24 Apr 2008 14:53:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/#comment-1832 My problem is how do you learn to be by yourself or alone and be ok with it! Not feel like a loser. My problem is how do you learn to be by yourself or alone and be ok with it! Not feel like a loser.

]]> By: Are You Caught In The Relationship Trap? http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-724 Are You Caught In The Relationship Trap? Wed, 12 Dec 2007 21:28:05 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-circle-of-pain-relationship-break-up/#comment-724 [...] Welcome to the vicious cycle. [...] [...] Welcome to the vicious cycle. [...]

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