Comments on: The Magic Formula For Overcoming A Break-Up Fast

By: Laura

Laura — Tue, 18 Jan 2011 21:44:00 +0000

Hi Pauline,

Day 6 or 7, feeling the same way as you. You’re not alone but we will all get through this

By: Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 02 Aug 2010 14:18:21 +0000

"In my experience the healing process has ups and downs. So if you feeling euphoric today, you might feel bad tomorrow.

Know that and don’t allow that it get you down. It’s 10 steps forward and 3 steps back. That’s the game."

This is so true. Trying so hard to cope with this ups and downs emotion too. Now i know this is just a game and that im going to play it right. Thanks for this realization.

By: maryam

maryam — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 23:41:48 +0000

i had a relationship with a guy for 7 months. after 4 monthes we started to fight for everything and last week he said he cant handle these all fights and left me. i feel terrible and i think a;; of it was my fault.
by reading these articles im feeling so much better.
thank you Eddie.
by the way im from Iran

By: Malchik

Malchik — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 08:34:28 +0000

Hi, Manal.

The very first thing I'd like to tell you that there is no such a man in the whole world that it's worth of cutting yourself over him. The second, you won't accomplish what you want by doing so. It's quite opposite. It'll make him run from you. Sweetie, let him go even if it's so hard for you. If it's yours, it'll come back to you. Meanwhile, take care of yourself. Learn loving yourself and respecting yourself.

By: Courtney

Courtney — Wed, 09 Jun 2010 13:31:24 +0000

Hi Paulina,
I'm just finishing day 1 of the break up. Like you, I haven't been alone for a very long time, and dated him for 2 years. I feel scared and desperate and have a constant pain and ache and like I need another man to love and feel needed. I totally know how you feel, and the articles are starting to make sense. I just wanted to let you know you're not alone, and I miss him too.

By: manal

manal — Thu, 27 May 2010 14:56:26 +0000

hi. i broke up with my ex cuz he think i am immature. i cut my vein for him but it didnt matter to him. he says he cant take my drama anymore. i used to start crying on ever little thing. i started cutting my self. i knw alll dat was ahyt. i wnt him bck. he says no matter what happens he wpnt come bck. i promise to change my self. he is my world. plz tell me what to do? how can i get him bck

By: niev

niev — Mon, 19 Apr 2010 15:44:31 +0000

i had relation ship 4 almost 7years 9months… the last maybe around 7-8 months … she starts picking fights in everything i do. eventually get what she wanted… now it already 2n half years passed… i had worst times of my life.. everything falls apart. i can wake up… get to sleep… get things done… i became alcoholic… and thats for almost 2 years and finally i manage to get things on track… and can focus again but i manage to do that after i decide that i’ll always love her .. whatever it is… i dunno weather what i doin ius rite or wrong but 1 thing i know is even though it’s 1 way but some part of my self remain strong and i can life… 2 day it’s impossible 4 me even to think of being with another person… thats all … nothing much i can add.

By: Paulina

Paulina — Tue, 06 Apr 2010 22:34:35 +0000

I’m going through Day 4 of a break up. We were together for over a year, pretty much lived together. We met eachothers parents, had many mutual friends..everything. I met him while I was ending a 4 year relationship with my ex, so I never really had the chance to “be alone”. Now that I am “alone”, I feel awful. I’m feeling like I need to find another man, QUICK. I’m scared, lost, confused, desperate to contact him every day telling him “I miss him”. Let me say first of all, that I’ve never in my adult life been alone (I am 23).

We broke things off because the relationship was just sour. Mostly due to my personal mistakes and bad habits. I was very negative, mean, moody, irritable, etc. Due to my old (abusive and dramatic) relationship, I somewhat got addicted to the drama, and everytime things were fine in my new one, I started a fight for no reason, I was mean, etc.

Anyway, reading many of these articles is helping me cope. It’s hard for me to look foward, because all I want is him. But I know I need to learn to be alone, and love myself.

Let’s hope I can do that.

By: gelaine

gelaine — Sun, 04 Apr 2010 21:13:56 +0000

Hello. Please help me. Im 18 years old and i don’t know what to do. I don’t feel happy now, I have depression and I think my partner is the only solution to my problem. I don’t have self confidence anymore because of what happened, I tried to convince him to come back to me and he rejected me for three times. He was also the friend of my bestfriend. But the problem is, my bestfriend and him are close leaving me behind. I love this guy, and i just don’t treat him as a boyfriend, but as a brother as well, i accepted all his flaws and imperfections and i think im going crazy because i can’t believe that He’s gone. After all the good things he had shown me, It’s hard for me to trust again. I don’t want another guy anymore. Even though there are many guys out there, it’s him that I always wanted. it’s like an addiction. We have not sex yet but I don’t know why Im so attached to this person. I love him more than myself and my parents. sounds crazy but true, Im thinking that maybe, he hypnotizes me or something. I really don’t know. I think I’ll be single forever. please help me. I want to be happy. I think Im dead already like i dont have emotions anymore to trust and love. What can I do to forget this person, have a life, and enjoy my life.
Thank you!

By: Kevin

Kevin — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 19:29:34 +0000

@Jeff – I am 18 and me and my ex broke up about a month ago. We had a more serious relationship then most people our age, which initially was a mistake(but now that it’s over I’m glad it happened). We met when we were 15 and instantly fell into a serious relationship( which was based on need, since we were both insecure, unhappy people who found happiness and purpose within each other) after 7 months i had to move, so we decided that we would do long distance. after two years of long distance i moved back to the city and we moved in together, after I graduated. I’m beginning to realize that what got us through long distance wasn’t our love, or our strong bond, but it was our fear of losing happiness and purpose. As for me, even when we met, i didn’t develop feelings for her until i heard she liked me and heard the things she said about me. Anyway what i am trying to get at, is i’m learning that i need more purpose in my life than just a girl, and that only I ccan make myself happy. So now im really confused about relationships. I feel almost as if wanting to be in a relationship is wrong. My only experience with love was based off need. so, now i don;t know why i would want to be in a relationship if i can make myself feel happy. I’m really confused. Even after putting a 3 year relationship under my belt, i still have no idea what love is.