Comments on: The Saddest Thing In The World http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:45:08 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Luisa http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-4133 Luisa Wed, 14 Jan 2009 19:08:35 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/#comment-4133 I agree! I read in a book before (I think it was "The Aladdin Factor") about the meaning of Fear : F - Fantasized E - Experiences A - Appearing R - Real We don't lose anything by trying. We should never allow ourselves to have the mindset that our past experiences have a bearing on the present. For me, it's a little 'delete button' on the bad memories - it's past!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4133','Luisa'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4133','Luisa','I agree! I read in a book before (I think it was \"The Aladdin Factor\") about the meaning of Fear :\r\n\r\nF - Fantasized\r\nE - Experiences\r\nA - Appearing\r\nR - Real\r\n\r\nWe don\'t lose anything by trying. \r\nWe should never allow ourselves to have the mindset that our past experiences have a bearing on the present. For me, it\'s a little \'delete button\' on the bad memories - it\'s past!'); return false;">quote</a></div> I agree! I read in a book before (I think it was “The Aladdin Factor”) about the meaning of Fear :

F – Fantasized
E – Experiences
A – Appearing
R – Real

We don’t lose anything by trying.
We should never allow ourselves to have the mindset that our past experiences have a bearing on the present. For me, it’s a little ‘delete button’ on the bad memories – it’s past!

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]]> By: Raindreamer http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-1253 Raindreamer Thu, 14 Feb 2008 13:08:50 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/#comment-1253 It is not just bad experience once in a childhood, but when bad experience keep repeating along the way of life it is hard to trust. It is like one is socialised to excpect bad things to happend. But you are right: the saddest thing is the missed opportunity.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('1253','Raindreamer'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('1253','Raindreamer','It is not just bad experience once in a childhood, but when bad experience keep repeating along the way of life it is hard to trust. It is like one is socialised to excpect bad things to happend. But you are right: the saddest thing is the missed opportunity.'); return false;">quote</a></div> It is not just bad experience once in a childhood, but when bad experience keep repeating along the way of life it is hard to trust. It is like one is socialised to excpect bad things to happend. But you are right: the saddest thing is the missed opportunity.
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]]> By: Eddie Corbano http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-502 Eddie Corbano Wed, 07 Nov 2007 11:48:00 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/#comment-502 Rock, thank you for your kind words. Marie, I agree, although I think that the reasons for fear are more complex (yes, bad experiences especially from early childhood are the most frequent causes for this).<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('502','Eddie Corbano'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('502','Eddie Corbano','Rock,\r\n\r\nthank you for your kind words.\r\n\r\nMarie,\r\n\r\nI agree, although I think that the reasons for fear are more complex (yes, bad experiences especially from early childhood are the most frequent causes for this).'); return false;">quote</a></div> Rock,

thank you for your kind words.

Marie,

I agree, although I think that the reasons for fear are more complex (yes, bad experiences especially from early childhood are the most frequent causes for this).

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]]> By: Marie http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-499 Marie Wed, 07 Nov 2007 00:30:29 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/#comment-499 In my experience, people who take a fear-based approach to life do so because of traumatizing past experiences. How can one move beyond that attitude with tools other than a mantra?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('499','Marie'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('499','Marie','In my experience, people who take a fear-based approach to life do so because of traumatizing past experiences. How can one move beyond that attitude with tools other than a mantra?'); return false;">quote</a></div> In my experience, people who take a fear-based approach to life do so because of traumatizing past experiences. How can one move beyond that attitude with tools other than a mantra?
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]]> By: Rock http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-487 Rock Mon, 05 Nov 2007 10:33:35 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-saddest-thing-in-the-world/#comment-487 That was absolutely a riveting post Eddie. As you said, you can take by default that everyone had such experiences of that sort, and I am no exception. Haven't gone through your other posts. Would definitely read them soon.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('487','Rock'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('487','Rock','That was absolutely a riveting post Eddie. As you said, you can take by default that everyone had such experiences of that sort, and I am no exception. \r\n\r\nHaven\'t gone through your other posts. Would definitely read them soon.'); return false;">quote</a></div> That was absolutely a riveting post Eddie. As you said, you can take by default that everyone had such experiences of that sort, and I am no exception.

Haven’t gone through your other posts. Would definitely read them soon.

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