Comments on: The Secret How To Get Over A Break Up http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/ Learn how to survive after breaking up and read some great relationship advice for having new and healthy relationships. Tue, 16 Mar 2010 06:43:09 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: nikita http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-15/#comment-6791 nikita Tue, 16 Mar 2010 06:43:09 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/#comment-6791 @kelsey … just read this…..
“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’ re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU… The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her…”
and guess what i got reminded of….the above content was sent to me in a mail by my ex boyfriend when we were dating….
he used to be all the above things….then why did he not stand up for me?….he wants us to be friends because he says i am his best friend….and he cannot let me go….i dont know how to draw the line and so cant understand how this friendship thing will work….he says i am his best friend and he too cannot love anyone like he loved me again….then why is he not strong enough to do something about it and change our lives to the better….i cant let him go….i cant love another man like this….no man will ever love me more than him…..
i cant understand what to do and where did i go wrong….
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]]> By: nikita http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-15/#comment-6790 nikita Tue, 16 Mar 2010 06:30:08 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/#comment-6790 hi...my boyfriend of 5 years said yes to marry another girl out of family pressure and is now engaged to her....i was aware of what he was doing but did not have the courage to stop him and get him back then....i have no doubts in my mind about how much he loves me till now and i too love him a lot.... i can even forgive him walking out of me and not standing up for me when i needed him the most provided he atleast takes a stand now and comes back to me... he is deeply affected at my grievances and wants to help me get out of it...but y cant he understand that to get me out this all he needs to do is the right thing.... ive tried many times to explain to him that he's not doing the right thing my marrying someone else when he loves me so much....its not fair to any of us...i cant move on and forget him....i ve exams in two months and i cannot concentrate on my studies...he is going to be married in two months....should i make more efforts to stop him or do i let him go.... if i let him go...ill loose out on true love...and also neither of us would ever be able to be happy....i can't understand what is the right thing to do and am loosing my mind.... why is the situation so difficult for him to understand...<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6790','nikita'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6790','nikita','hi...my boyfriend of 5 years said yes to marry another girl out of family pressure and is now engaged to her....i was aware of what he was doing but did not have the courage to stop him and get him back then....i have no doubts in my mind about how much he loves me till now and i too love him a lot....\r\ni can even forgive him walking out of me and not standing up for me when i needed him the most provided he atleast takes a stand now and comes back to me...\r\nhe is deeply affected at my grievances and wants to help me get out of it...but y cant he understand that to get me out this all he needs to do is the right thing....\r\nive tried many times to explain to him that he\'s not doing the right thing my marrying someone else when he loves me so much....its not fair to any of us...i cant move on and forget him....i ve exams in two months and i cannot concentrate on my studies...he is going to be married in two months....should i make more efforts to stop him or do i let him go....\r\nif i let him go...ill loose out on true love...and also neither of us would ever be able to be happy....i can\'t understand what is the right thing to do and am loosing my mind....\r\nwhy is the situation so difficult for him to understand...'); return false;">quote</a></div> hi…my boyfriend of 5 years said yes to marry another girl out of family pressure and is now engaged to her….i was aware of what he was doing but did not have the courage to stop him and get him back then….i have no doubts in my mind about how much he loves me till now and i too love him a lot….
i can even forgive him walking out of me and not standing up for me when i needed him the most provided he atleast takes a stand now and comes back to me…
he is deeply affected at my grievances and wants to help me get out of it…but y cant he understand that to get me out this all he needs to do is the right thing….
ive tried many times to explain to him that he’s not doing the right thing my marrying someone else when he loves me so much….its not fair to any of us…i cant move on and forget him….i ve exams in two months and i cannot concentrate on my studies…he is going to be married in two months….should i make more efforts to stop him or do i let him go….
if i let him go…ill loose out on true love…and also neither of us would ever be able to be happy….i can’t understand what is the right thing to do and am loosing my mind….
why is the situation so difficult for him to understand…
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]]> By: Tam http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-15/#comment-6787 Tam Mon, 15 Mar 2010 16:50:08 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/#comment-6787 Thanks i really needed to hear that. I'm going through a break up now and it's very hard for me. One min he loves me to death and the next min he doesn't. I have made up in my mind that i don't want to go back...<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6787','Tam'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6787','Tam','Thanks i really needed to hear that. I\'m going through a break up now and it\'s very hard for me. One min he loves me to death and the next min he doesn\'t. I have made up in my mind that i don\'t want to go back...'); return false;">quote</a></div> Thanks i really needed to hear that. I’m going through a break up now and it’s very hard for me. One min he loves me to death and the next min he doesn’t. I have made up in my mind that i don’t want to go back…
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]]> By: Pebbles http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-15/#comment-6786 Pebbles Mon, 15 Mar 2010 15:30:17 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/#comment-6786 Hi everyone. Just wanted to share what I have been doing to help with the healing of my broken heart. I believe I have finally accepted that I am the ex-girlfriend, I find myself refering to myself as such and believe it or not, it has helped me to come to terms with reality a little more. Also over the past five months I have discussed nothing except he said, she said, we said until I believe I have worn myself out the same story over and over and over again. I got sick and tired of hearing myself speak about my break-up and I cannot imagine my family and friends (supportive as they have been) people do get tired of hearing the same sad story after a while. While it is still tempting to do so, I restrain myself whenever the urge comes to talk about it again, instead I have indulge myself in reading healthy, encouraging articles and books( I was NEVER a person that loves to read) I have so far read Gary Chapman's "FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES FOR SINGLES" its great!!! I have learnt so much about me and how best I can address some of the weaker areas of my life in terms of my relation to people in general. The other thing I have done two weekends in a row is to get up and go on a bus for a LONG 4 hours drive. A change of scenery does so much to the mind, not to mention the fresh air along the country side. I will in no wise claim to have arrived but I am surely doing far much better today than I was 4mths ago. Yes I get lonely and I still cry and still hurt when I think of it all. Yes there were a lot of good BUT we both contributed to the break down; I have taken responsibility for my part and have apologized and I am now learning what I need to learn through this disappointment. It is not the end of the world, its the end of a chapter,period, season,phase, whichever word best describes it. Though I would love to(about 2yrs from now) love again, if it doesnt happened, I believe I have tasted of the greatest pleasure one can get on this earth and that is to love and be loved.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6786','Pebbles'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6786','Pebbles','Hi everyone. Just wanted to share what I have been doing to help with the healing of my broken heart. I believe I have finally accepted that I am the ex-girlfriend, I find myself refering to myself as such and believe it or not, it has helped me to come to terms with reality a little more. Also over the past five months I have discussed nothing except he said, she said, we said until I believe I have worn myself out the same story over and over and over again. I got sick and tired of hearing myself speak about my break-up and I cannot imagine my family and friends (supportive as they have been) people do get tired of hearing the same sad story after a while.\r\n\r\nWhile it is still tempting to do so, I restrain myself whenever the urge comes to talk about it again, instead I have indulge myself in reading healthy, encouraging articles and books( I was NEVER a person that loves to read) I have so far read Gary Chapman\'s \"FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES FOR SINGLES\" its great!!!\r\n\r\nI have learnt so much about me and how best I can address some of the weaker areas of my life in terms of my relation to people in general. \r\n\r\nThe other thing I have done two weekends in a row is to get up and go on a bus for a LONG 4 hours drive. A change of scenery does so much to the mind, not to mention the fresh air along the country side.\r\nI will in no wise claim to have arrived but I am surely doing far much better today than I was 4mths ago. Yes I get lonely and I still cry and still hurt when I think of it all. Yes there were a lot of good BUT we both contributed to the break down; I have taken responsibility for my part and have apologized and I am now learning what I need to learn through this disappointment.\r\n\r\nIt is not the end of the world, its the end of a chapter,period, season,phase, whichever word best describes it. Though I would love to(about 2yrs from now) love again, if it doesnt happened, I believe I have tasted of the greatest pleasure one can get on this earth and that is to love and be loved.'); return false;">quote</a></div> Hi everyone. Just wanted to share what I have been doing to help with the healing of my broken heart. I believe I have finally accepted that I am the ex-girlfriend, I find myself refering to myself as such and believe it or not, it has helped me to come to terms with reality a little more. Also over the past five months I have discussed nothing except he said, she said, we said until I believe I have worn myself out the same story over and over and over again. I got sick and tired of hearing myself speak about my break-up and I cannot imagine my family and friends (supportive as they have been) people do get tired of hearing the same sad story after a while.

While it is still tempting to do so, I restrain myself whenever the urge comes to talk about it again, instead I have indulge myself in reading healthy, encouraging articles and books( I was NEVER a person that loves to read) I have so far read Gary Chapman’s “FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES FOR SINGLES” its great!!!

I have learnt so much about me and how best I can address some of the weaker areas of my life in terms of my relation to people in general.

The other thing I have done two weekends in a row is to get up and go on a bus for a LONG 4 hours drive. A change of scenery does so much to the mind, not to mention the fresh air along the country side.
I will in no wise claim to have arrived but I am surely doing far much better today than I was 4mths ago. Yes I get lonely and I still cry and still hurt when I think of it all. Yes there were a lot of good BUT we both contributed to the break down; I have taken responsibility for my part and have apologized and I am now learning what I need to learn through this disappointment.

It is not the end of the world, its the end of a chapter,period, season,phase, whichever word best describes it. Though I would love to(about 2yrs from now) love again, if it doesnt happened, I believe I have tasted of the greatest pleasure one can get on this earth and that is to love and be loved.

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]]> By: anotherdud http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-15/#comment-6775 anotherdud Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:53:03 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/#comment-6775 <a href='#comment-6774' rel="nofollow">@Kelsey</a> - Take my word Darling, when you hold that little boy or girl for the first time, most of the pain will go away. You will be a new person with strengths and will to do more than you can even imagine at the moment. YOu think you love him so mch right now.....just wait till you have that baby. You will be far more picky of who is worthy to be around you or her. THEN you will know real love! LOve shouldn't hurt or confuse. Some people can , but I've learned at my ripe of age, some people can not love or feel emotion whatsoever. There's lots of them out there too....Even if he comes back...make sure that's what you want, for a snake can shed his skin, but he's still a snake...<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6775','anotherdud'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6775','anotherdud','<a href=\'#comment-6774\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Kelsey<\/a> - Take my word Darling, when you hold that little boy or girl for the first time, most of the pain will go away. You will be a new person with strengths and will to do more than you can even imagine at the moment. YOu think you love him so mch right now.....just wait till you have that baby. You will be far more picky of who is worthy to be around you or her. THEN you will know real love!\nLOve shouldn\'t hurt or confuse. Some people can , but I\'ve learned at my ripe of age, some people can not love or feel emotion whatsoever. There\'s lots of them out there too....Even if he comes back...make sure that\'s what you want, for a snake can shed his skin, but he\'s still a snake...'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Kelsey – Take my word Darling, when you hold that little boy or girl for the first time, most of the pain will go away. You will be a new person with strengths and will to do more than you can even imagine at the moment. YOu think you love him so mch right now…..just wait till you have that baby. You will be far more picky of who is worthy to be around you or her. THEN you will know real love!
LOve shouldn’t hurt or confuse. Some people can , but I’ve learned at my ripe of age, some people can not love or feel emotion whatsoever. There’s lots of them out there too….Even if he comes back…make sure that’s what you want, for a snake can shed his skin, but he’s still a snake…
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]]> By: Kelsey http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-15/#comment-6774 Kelsey Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:02:17 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/#comment-6774 <a href='#comment-6769' rel="nofollow">@anotherdud</a> - Thank you for this post. It seems nearly impossible to be rational and objective when there's a big hole in your chest where you heart once was. My boyfriend of 8 years broke up with me when I was 4 months pregnant with the child we planned. I am now 6 months pregnant, and doing everything in my power to be strong and stay healthy for this little girl growing in my belly. There are some days I just want to crawl into a hole disappear forever, but I know that isn't an option. We planned a life together, and now that life is gone. My heart still belongs to him, but I can't obsess about us not being together. You said put yourself first. That is something I have to make a conscious effort to do, and I'm trying so damn hard to be successful at. I gave every part of myself to him, and feel as if I am left with nothing. I got the best part of the deal though. I am going to have a beautiful baby girl. You said, "if he loves you then he'll come get you," and I just have to keep reminding myself that. I want to be with someone who is going to want and love me as much as I do them. If he loves me and this baby he will choose to be with us. It just breaks my heart to think about the possibility and reality of us never again being together. I'm doing my very best to stay strong for this little baby, but I feel dead inside. I just want the pain to go away!!!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6774','Kelsey'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6774','Kelsey','<a href=\'#comment-6769\' rel=\"nofollow\">@anotherdud<\/a> - Thank you for this post. It seems nearly impossible to be rational and objective when there\'s a big hole in your chest where you heart once was. My boyfriend of 8 years broke up with me when I was 4 months pregnant with the child we planned. I am now 6 months pregnant, and doing everything in my power to be strong and stay healthy for this little girl growing in my belly. There are some days I just want to crawl into a hole disappear forever, but I know that isn\'t an option. We planned a life together, and now that life is gone. My heart still belongs to him, but I can\'t obsess about us not being together. \r\n\r\nYou said put yourself first. That is something I have to make a conscious effort to do, and I\'m trying so damn hard to be successful at. I gave every part of myself to him, and feel as if I am left with nothing. I got the best part of the deal though. I am going to have a beautiful baby girl. You said, \"if he loves you then he\'ll come get you,\" and I just have to keep reminding myself that. I want to be with someone who is going to want and love me as much as I do them. If he loves me and this baby he will choose to be with us. It just breaks my heart to think about the possibility and reality of us never again being together. \r\n\r\nI\'m doing my very best to stay strong for this little baby, but I feel dead inside. I just want the pain to go away!!!'); return false;">quote</a></div> @anotherdud – Thank you for this post. It seems nearly impossible to be rational and objective when there’s a big hole in your chest where you heart once was. My boyfriend of 8 years broke up with me when I was 4 months pregnant with the child we planned. I am now 6 months pregnant, and doing everything in my power to be strong and stay healthy for this little girl growing in my belly. There are some days I just want to crawl into a hole disappear forever, but I know that isn’t an option. We planned a life together, and now that life is gone. My heart still belongs to him, but I can’t obsess about us not being together.

You said put yourself first. That is something I have to make a conscious effort to do, and I’m trying so damn hard to be successful at. I gave every part of myself to him, and feel as if I am left with nothing. I got the best part of the deal though. I am going to have a beautiful baby girl. You said, “if he loves you then he’ll come get you,” and I just have to keep reminding myself that. I want to be with someone who is going to want and love me as much as I do them. If he loves me and this baby he will choose to be with us. It just breaks my heart to think about the possibility and reality of us never again being together.

I’m doing my very best to stay strong for this little baby, but I feel dead inside. I just want the pain to go away!!!

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]]> By: anotherdud http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-15/#comment-6769 anotherdud Sat, 13 Mar 2010 17:52:49 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/#comment-6769 <a href='#comment-6768' rel="nofollow">@Marie</a> - There is much to be said for tough love. As long as you are there, obviously when he is unsure if he wants you to be, you are devaluing yourself and saying that you will settle for what little you get. Believe me, I know this. I have done this. I did not exercise tough love...I tiptoed around on eggshells trying to please my husband, trying to be the perfect wife, trying to be understanding and patient...when I should have been mad as Hell and put boundaries in place a long time ago. I was afraid I'd lose him............. but guess what? I lost him anyway, and with him went my self value, the only life I had built for myself and my two children, and every dream I had dared to dream. Do I wish I had been different? Absolutely. Perhaps he wouldn't have pursued another married woman, perhaps he would.....but at least I would have been left with myself. Now, I don't even know who the Hell I am! I'm just a discarded and broken woman that still twirling around looking my soul! You sound young Honey. Don't ever let any man do you that way. I didn't when I was young...and I wish I had never changed. Men want women that love themselves,, and you have to put yourself first. That's hard to do for us, for many women are loving and giving, to a fault. I would fall into that category....... Move on. If he loves you, he'll come get you. If he doesn't, then stop wasting your time with his ambivalence. Bless you...and protect your heart........There is no one ike you, remember that.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6769','anotherdud'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6769','anotherdud','<a href=\'#comment-6768\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Marie<\/a> - There is much to be said for tough love. As long as you are there, obviously when he is unsure if he wants you to be, you are devaluing yourself and saying that you will settle for what little you get. Believe me, I know this. I have done this. I did not exercise tough love...I tiptoed around on eggshells trying to please my husband, trying to be the perfect wife, trying to be understanding and patient...when I should have been mad as Hell and put boundaries in place a long time ago. I was afraid I\'d lose him.............\r\nbut guess what? I lost him anyway, and with him went my self value, the only life I had built for myself and my two children, and every dream I had dared to dream.\r\nDo I wish I had been different? Absolutely. Perhaps he wouldn\'t have pursued another married woman, perhaps he would.....but at least I would have been left with myself. Now, I don\'t even know who the Hell I am! I\'m just a discarded and broken woman that still twirling around looking my soul!\r\nYou sound young Honey. Don\'t ever let any man do you that way.\r\nI didn\'t when I was young...and I wish I had never changed. Men want women that love themselves,, and you have to put yourself first. That\'s hard to do for us, for many women are loving and giving, to a fault. I would fall into that category.......\r\nMove on. If he loves you, he\'ll come get you. If he doesn\'t, then stop wasting your time with his ambivalence. Bless you...and protect your heart........There is no one ike you, remember that.'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Marie – There is much to be said for tough love. As long as you are there, obviously when he is unsure if he wants you to be, you are devaluing yourself and saying that you will settle for what little you get. Believe me, I know this. I have done this. I did not exercise tough love…I tiptoed around on eggshells trying to please my husband, trying to be the perfect wife, trying to be understanding and patient…when I should have been mad as Hell and put boundaries in place a long time ago. I was afraid I’d lose him………….
but guess what? I lost him anyway, and with him went my self value, the only life I had built for myself and my two children, and every dream I had dared to dream.
Do I wish I had been different? Absolutely. Perhaps he wouldn’t have pursued another married woman, perhaps he would…..but at least I would have been left with myself. Now, I don’t even know who the Hell I am! I’m just a discarded and broken woman that still twirling around looking my soul!
You sound young Honey. Don’t ever let any man do you that way.
I didn’t when I was young…and I wish I had never changed. Men want women that love themselves,, and you have to put yourself first. That’s hard to do for us, for many women are loving and giving, to a fault. I would fall into that category…….
Move on. If he loves you, he’ll come get you. If he doesn’t, then stop wasting your time with his ambivalence. Bless you…and protect your heart……..There is no one ike you, remember that.
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]]> By: Marie http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-15/#comment-6768 Marie Sat, 13 Mar 2010 17:03:36 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/#comment-6768 I have been reading through these posts as I was looking for answers to my Relationship breakdown.. My boyfriend of 4 years told me last week that he didn't know if he wanted to be in a relationship with me anymore.. although tells me he loves me and is confused.. He says he is not ready for marriage or kids as he is too young.. I'm a state. Any little thing I do seems to piss him off and trigger another row.. Im so unhappy but want this to work so much. I thought we would be together forever - he used to say we were going to be together forever :-( Why do people say this if they dont mean it? When I got with him I couldn't believe my luck, he was perfect in my eyes and i thought i was the luckiest girl alive to be with him.. Now i can't imagine not being with him and feel so alone.. i moved away from all my family and friends to be with him.. I seem to be hanging around hoping things will get better? He says he doesnt want to lose me and misses me when im away, so why does he have thoughts of not wanting to be in a relationship anymore.. Im so confused.. After reading your posts on here I should probably walk away and be with someone that wants the same things as me but i dont have the will power :-( I will keep reading through this site..<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6768','Marie'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6768','Marie','I have been reading through these posts as I was looking for answers to my Relationship breakdown.. My boyfriend of 4 years told me last week that he didn\'t know if he wanted to be in a relationship with me anymore.. although tells me he loves me and is confused.. He says he is not ready for marriage or kids as he is too young.. I\'m a state. Any little thing I do seems to piss him off and trigger another row.. Im so unhappy but want this to work so much. I thought we would be together forever - he used to say we were going to be together forever :-( Why do people say this if they dont mean it? When I got with him I couldn\'t believe my luck, he was perfect in my eyes and i thought i was the luckiest girl alive to be with him.. Now i can\'t imagine not being with him and feel so alone.. i moved away from all my family and friends to be with him.. I seem to be hanging around hoping things will get better? He says he doesnt want to lose me and misses me when im away, so why does he have thoughts of not wanting to be in a relationship anymore.. Im so confused.. After reading your posts on here I should probably walk away and be with someone that wants the same things as me but i dont have the will power :-( \r\nI will keep reading through this site..'); return false;">quote</a></div> I have been reading through these posts as I was looking for answers to my Relationship breakdown.. My boyfriend of 4 years told me last week that he didn’t know if he wanted to be in a relationship with me anymore.. although tells me he loves me and is confused.. He says he is not ready for marriage or kids as he is too young.. I’m a state. Any little thing I do seems to piss him off and trigger another row.. Im so unhappy but want this to work so much. I thought we would be together forever – he used to say we were going to be together forever :-( Why do people say this if they dont mean it? When I got with him I couldn’t believe my luck, he was perfect in my eyes and i thought i was the luckiest girl alive to be with him.. Now i can’t imagine not being with him and feel so alone.. i moved away from all my family and friends to be with him.. I seem to be hanging around hoping things will get better? He says he doesnt want to lose me and misses me when im away, so why does he have thoughts of not wanting to be in a relationship anymore.. Im so confused.. After reading your posts on here I should probably walk away and be with someone that wants the same things as me but i dont have the will power :-(
I will keep reading through this site..
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]]> By: mimi http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-15/#comment-6764 mimi Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:07:19 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/#comment-6764 <a href='#comment-6743' rel="nofollow">@Kelsey</a> - i think this quote describes my boyfriend that i just broke up with because a) i think i was the type of girl he was into 10 yrs ago when we met but not now b) i know if he had the chance to go with a few various ladies he would but he said 'sure she wouldnt go out with me' ie. he's with me cause im the best he can get' which has resulted in me loosing a few groups of friends and becoming isolated and c) he lies and watches porn even though it really upsets me. So even if u do find a guy that matches all the characteristics in this quote, it may last a long time like my relationship- 10yrs but nothing lasts forever<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6764','mimi'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6764','mimi','<a href=\'#comment-6743\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Kelsey<\/a> -\n\ni think this quote describes my boyfriend that i just broke up with because a) i think i was the type of girl he was into 10 yrs ago when we met but not now b) i know if he had the chance to go with a few various ladies he would but he said \'sure she wouldnt go out with me\' ie. he\'s with me cause im the best he can get\' which has resulted in me loosing a few groups of friends and becoming isolated and c) he lies and watches porn even though it really upsets me. \nSo even if u do find a guy that matches all the characteristics in this quote, it may last a long time like my relationship- 10yrs but nothing lasts forever'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Kelsey -

i think this quote describes my boyfriend that i just broke up with because a) i think i was the type of girl he was into 10 yrs ago when we met but not now b) i know if he had the chance to go with a few various ladies he would but he said ’sure she wouldnt go out with me’ ie. he’s with me cause im the best he can get’ which has resulted in me loosing a few groups of friends and becoming isolated and c) he lies and watches porn even though it really upsets me.
So even if u do find a guy that matches all the characteristics in this quote, it may last a long time like my relationship- 10yrs but nothing lasts forever

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]]> By: Kelsey http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-15/#comment-6759 Kelsey Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:12:36 +0000 http://lovesagame.com/the-secret-how-to-get-over-a-break-up/#comment-6759 <a href='#comment-6747' rel="nofollow">@Pebbles</a> - You're still giving him waaayyy too much. He knows you still care about him and that you would take him back. Your actions say you still do even though you don't want to. Taking his calls...talking to him when he goes to your gate...letting him see it hurt you when he flaunts other girls in your face. He knows that you are still holding on regardless of what he does and how he treats you. He knows that if he were to tell you he loved you and only you and wanted to be with you that you'd take him back. He's stringing you along because he knows he can. You need to be strong even though it is hard. You need to not accept his calls. Don't answer and tell him you shouldn't have to put up with his crap...just don't answer. Don't acknowledge his existence. The best revenge is to show them that you are happy and suscessful without them. Make him think you are happier without him even if it kills you. Always remind yourself of the bad he has done. YOU DESERVE BETTER!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6759','Kelsey'); return false;">reply</a> | <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6759','Kelsey','<a href=\'#comment-6747\' rel=\"nofollow\">@Pebbles<\/a> - You\'re still giving him waaayyy too much. He knows you still care about him and that you would take him back. Your actions say you still do even though you don\'t want to. Taking his calls...talking to him when he goes to your gate...letting him see it hurt you when he flaunts other girls in your face. He knows that you are still holding on regardless of what he does and how he treats you. He knows that if he were to tell you he loved you and only you and wanted to be with you that you\'d take him back. He\'s stringing you along because he knows he can. You need to be strong even though it is hard. You need to not accept his calls. Don\'t answer and tell him you shouldn\'t have to put up with his crap...just don\'t answer. Don\'t acknowledge his existence. The best revenge is to show them that you are happy and suscessful without them. Make him think you are happier without him even if it kills you. Always remind yourself of the bad he has done. YOU DESERVE BETTER!'); return false;">quote</a></div> @Pebbles – You’re still giving him waaayyy too much. He knows you still care about him and that you would take him back. Your actions say you still do even though you don’t want to. Taking his calls…talking to him when he goes to your gate…letting him see it hurt you when he flaunts other girls in your face. He knows that you are still holding on regardless of what he does and how he treats you. He knows that if he were to tell you he loved you and only you and wanted to be with you that you’d take him back. He’s stringing you along because he knows he can. You need to be strong even though it is hard. You need to not accept his calls. Don’t answer and tell him you shouldn’t have to put up with his crap…just don’t answer. Don’t acknowledge his existence. The best revenge is to show them that you are happy and suscessful without them. Make him think you are happier without him even if it kills you. Always remind yourself of the bad he has done. YOU DESERVE BETTER!
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