Christian Carter Reveals 10 Secrets About Men
Christian Carter is a traitor.
He is a traitor because he reveals critical secrets about men in his book Catch Him And Keep Him.
Well kept secrets.
I mean, c'mon.
If you were a man, would you want some other man revealing how we think and react in certain situations to the opposite sex? Wouldn't that leave us defenseless? Defenseless toys to all the hungry women out there?
NO and YES.
I believe that this can actually be a GOOD thing.
Because men secretly WISH you could learn how they tick, and how you can make them fall in love with you. They just can't tell you how.
I also wish women knew. It would make certain things much easier.
“Catch Him And Keep Him” is a bestselling book about understanding how men think, and how to use that knowledge to attract and keep them.
Sounds great, but does it actually live up to the hype?
I wanted to know, so I actually bought the book and read it. Don't tell anyone.
The Buying Process
The actual buying process is simple:
1. I had to enter my name and e-mail address to be redirected to the next page, which contains a very solid video titled: “Learn How to Attract Mr. Right and Make Him Beg You For A Commitment”.
2. The next step, after clicking the “Download Now” Button of the Special Bonus Offer below, is to enter some basic data, (Payment Method, Country, Email Address). Here I realized two important facts: the price is only $29.97, and I could get a full refund up to 30 days after the purchase IF I were not satisfied with the book. So the risk was minimal.
3. Now I had to enter my personal and credit card data on a secured page.
4. After that, I was redirected to the download page where I immediately downloaded the book.
I am actually surprised how big the book was: 269 Pages!
The table of contents was very promising: “Catch Him And Keep Him” is divided into 3 parts:
Part 1: Finding The Hidden Secrets To Success With Men
Part 2: Feelings: Your Best Friend And Your Worst Enemy
Part 3: Actions Speak Louder Than Words – So What Are You Saying?
I was very curious about part 1.
It starts with a peek into a man's mind, more precisely with the question of why a man often can't reveal his real feelings to a woman.
Here's where I was surprised for the first time.
Claiming to be an expert of the human mind myself, I had a pretty clear picture of how men think and WHY they tend to hide what they actually feel. What surprised me was HOW you can use this knowledge to make a lasting connection to him.
So much I can reveal: The secret is to work with a man's nature, not against it. The author gives step-by-step instructions on how to do that.
This first part has a lot more to offer. I liked, for instance, “Getting What You Give: 3 Ways To Respond To A Man”, “Are You His Casual ‘For Now” Girl', Or ‘Relationship Material'” and “Why Men Want To ‘Date' Forever”.
Part 1 gives you the inventory, the basic knowledge about how to understand men and their thinking. It's frighteningly accurate. The only chapter I didn't care for was “How To Spot A Player”. I think that real players are very rare, and chances are not high that you will actually meet one.
Apart from that, part 1 was brilliant.
Part 2 is mainly about how to interpret and control your feelings, and how they influence the dating process. I read some solid tips on the nature of emotions, and the main mistakes women are making regarding this. Christian Carter also described a way in that a woman can help a man to reach his emotional potential so he can bond faster.
My absolute favorite was “Why Men Love ‘Cool' Girls”. I LOVE cool girls.
Now let's take a look into part 3.
This is where all the theory is put into action. It starts with: “How to Attract Men”, and more concrete: “Personality Traits That Attract Men”. This is a list with all the traits in a woman that naturally attract men.
I have to say that I agree with that list. I wish I could find them all in one woman, (never have). IF you have all these traits, then you ARE attractive, no matter what your looks are.
That's a fact.
On the other hand, what is the number 1 thing that drives men crazy and scares them off?
I'm sure you know it already – it is neediness and insecurity.
Christian Carter lists examples and gives tips on how to avoid this.
He continues with dating tips and places where to find suitable men.
What I really liked was the list of questions to ask about the perfect man: Every woman SHOULD have a picture of her ideal man. These questions are important to determine IF a man meets your own honest expectations. That way you will minimize disappointment and frustration. Besides, it is more likely that you will FIND what you are looking for, when you know WHAT you are looking for.
How can you prevent a man from “using” you only for casual meetings?
There is a sentence Chris proposes to say to a man at the very beginning. Wow, I have to say, if a woman said that to me, I would certainly be surprised, if not stunned. I think that it's a great idea to state at the very beginning what your intentions are. Honesty pays off.
After this comes what I think is the best part of “Catch Him And Keep Him”: “Pushing His Secret Communication Button” and “Keeping Him Attracted To You”.
This is where I was surprised for the second time.
I expected some intellectual “blahblahblah” about unconscious communication and so on, but nothing more.
I was very wrong.
Christian Carter closes the book with very solid PRACTICAL tips from how to start a conversation with a man, to that secret button which once pushed reveals what men really think and feel. He even tells you exactly WHAT to say in every situation.
This chapter alone is worth buying the book.
The last chapter talks about how to keep a man attracted in a long term relationship. Long term relationships change with time. Christian gives tips on how to deal with that fact and reminds us that it's important to have the right expectations. Never stop working on yourself, because:
“When you work to make yourself happy and balanced in this way, you’ll have a lot more patience and energy to put in the work it takes to make any relationship work for the long-term.”
I completely agree with that.
Would I recommend this book to women?
Definitely! I would even recommend it to men to better understand their nature.
Christian Carter's “Catch Him And Keep Him” is really well written, and jampacked with useful information you need to successfully attract men AND keep them interested.
If I had to say something negative about it, then it would be that it's slightly too long. But then again, it's very solid and detailed.
Is that a book for you?
I think it's a book for every woman, who wants to understand men and their behavior better and learn the techniques to attract any man they want.