If you are of the opinion that a woman should sit there, look nicely, slightly smile from time to time and wait her prince to finally come up to her, then this article is not for you.

If you are, on the other hand, a woman, who is living in the 21st century, knowing who she is and taking what she wants, than read on. You will like it.

First of all: there is really nothing wrong for a women to approach a man. It shows that you are confident and that you know what you want. Men really like that.

Trust me on this one.

Some may ask themselves: what do I know about the secrets of a woman approaching men?

For one thing, I know what I would like a women to say and do if she’d approach me. This happened by the way quite often. For another thing, I interviewed some of my female friends for a simple guide on how to approach and get to know men.

So here it is.

Let’s start with a small list what I would like to see a woman doing when she sees a man she likes. A wish-list, so to speak, of all the things women didn’t do long time ago when I would have needed it.

This list, of course, would be highly subjective, but hey, maybe you’ll find something you could try for a change:

Just be yourself, don’t bitch-shield

I know, I know. If you are very beautiful, then you get approached all the time and heavy arrogance is your weapon, your shield to keep away the jerks. But if you’re not, then what’s the point. Then it’s only insecurity, a fear of getting hurt. Come on. Nothing from the outside can hurt you. The only one who can hurt you are yourself. Know that.

And what about Mr. Right, maybe he’s extremely shy. Shouldn’t he also get a change knowing your wonderful personality? Which brings us to the next point.