Have personality

“Personality is more important than looks”

You may have always assumed it: personality is more important than looks. Again: personality is more important than looks. I have talked to so many beautiful women, but finding that they had no personality whatsoever was always a big turnoff for me. The beauty was suddenly gone.

Give away more eye-contact if interested

Most men don’t have the skills and the guts to approach you when you play the “pretend-not-interested-and-very-arrogant-game”. So why not make it easier for them and give them a warm eye-contact combined with a smile. This sends out the right signal.

Be different

This is a great interest-factor to me. When I meet a woman and I realize after 3 minutes of conversation, that she’s not like the other girls (and thrust me, unfortunately 99 % behave the same way), then I feel very attracted to that person. Even if she’s not that attractive.

Stand out of the crowd.

Ok, this is my personal wish-list. You may also check out my advice for men on approaching women. You will find some ideas for you.

Try it out!

Now, let’s have a look at what Brigitte, a real “woman playress”, a “man-eater” and a good friend of mine, has to say:

1. Be confident

If you aren’t, then learn how to be.

The only fact, that you as a women approach a man, makes you appear confident. You only have to maintain this confidence during the upcoming conversation.

2. Be different, be unpredictable

Again here, approaching men is a very uncommon thing and mostly blows them out of their socks. Simply do things they won’t expect.