Approaching Women – 5 Secrets For Newbies

by Eddie Corbano
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Approaching WomenBelieve it or not, there is one thing that scares many men more than hell:
that is to approach a beautiful woman.

Why is that the case? What can a beautiful woman possibly do to an approaching man? Rip his head off? Not likely.

But I understand it. I once was there myself.

It is a fundamental fear of rejection that dominates here. An attractive woman has lots of power. Everybody is polite to her, wants to get her drinks, wants to be with her. She is a status symbol. An indication of personal power. And she knows that. But the power she has over you, is only the power that you give her.

Besides the fear of rejection, what frustrates most men additionally is also an inhibitory approach anxiety.

What actually is approach anxiety? It is a fear that is implanted in you by society.

Scientific research proves, that the only thing, that a newborn baby is afraid of are loud noises and free falling. Everything else is induced by the outside world. The environment. It’s important to realize that. The fear has no foundation.

“Approach anxiety is a fear that is implanted in you by society”

The bad news is: there is nothing you can read or revolve in your mind that would make the fear of rejection or approach anxiety disappear. Like to the most fears that are blocking you, there is only one way to overcome them: by facing repeatedly what you fear.

Repeating over and over again what you fear, and realizing, that there in fact is nothing to fear about, is the only way to make that fear go away.

I know. You don’t like that. I didn’t myself.

The good news is: it takes only 25 approaches to conquer this fear. So I suggest that you start right away!

Since you now know how to get what you wish for, I’d like to give you some insights on how to get this issue done right from the beginning.

Ok, so lets start with the 5 secrets on approaching a beautiful woman:

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About The Author:

Eddie Corbano is a breakup-coach, relationship-advisor and founder of LovesAGame. He suffered from a devastating break up in 1998. Since then, he dedicated his life to helping others getting the best of this existential experience. The overcoming of a break up is an important step to autonomy and independency. Eddie Corbano developed some new coaching programs, which focus on evolving inner strength and the power to set and reach any personal goal. (Article written on February 11th, 2007)
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4 Responses to “Approaching Women – 5 Secrets For Newbies”

I just want to thank the person who wrote this, I’m a 15 year old in high school and this really worked, I through I was ugly and no one would want me but I approached her and got her number no problem and I have been practicing and it works I have lots of friends now, some girls even noticed me and said I’m cute… I guess its because I never talked but thank you so much!

noone 9-29-2007

dude, this is good stuff.

thanks.

dima 12-6-2007

nice


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