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Pick Up LinesGuys, I know you waited for it, yearned for it, and finally here it is, as promised: the groundbreaking article on the 2 best pick up lines ever that will change your life!

But wait a minute. Didn’t I say that there is no such thing as magical pick up lines that make women loose their minds? And more importantly, didn’t I say that there is no such thing at all as a working pick up line?

Well, well, your right… and you’re not.

Actually, I also wrote that, if you had the right mindset and body language, you could say pretty much anything you like AND be successful. Practically that means you could go up to a beautiful woman, have the right body language, voice tone, a bright smile and say confidently: “Come here often?” and you WILL score. As simple as that. Of course you know it’s not simple at all, it takes month to develop the proper mindset.

So what do you actually say when approaching a hot woman?

Wait a minute.

First, allow me to specify the most common mistakes men are making when they approach a woman and deliver the line.

The most frequent mistake is clearly the importance and relevance men are giving to the pick up lines itself. I said it many times, you can use funny pick up lines, sweet pick up lines, corny pick up lines, they alone will not get you where you want to be. Some even may scare the girls away or make you look stupid.

Another very often made mistake is the delivery itself. Wrong body language, voice tone, low self esteem, insecurity, laughing and looking back at your friends. All signs that you are not standing behind the line. Non verbal communication is far more effective. The girl will feel like you make fun of her and she will react accordingly.

Having this in mind it should now be clear what you need, a line that conveys everything a girl likes when being approached. That is what the two best pick up lines will do. This is not manipulation, it’s honesty.

So, no more delaying, here it is, the ultimate, unbelievable, sensational, magical Best Pick Up Line Ever:

1. “Hi”

Am I kidding?

No.

Simply say “hi”. There is no hidden agenda behind it, no innuendo, no “routine”, just a friendly honest “hi”.

Well, the condition here is:

That is really all.

Of course this isn’t new, maybe you just have not thought about it in your search for the magical pick up line that simply doesn’t exist. David DeAngelo often said, that people are always looking for the shortcut, but they didn’t realize that this is actually a process, a state of mind you have to change.

So, this isn’t a pick up line per se, it’s more an introduction without saying your name. Nobody will turn away a “hi”. How it will continue after that solely depends on your experience and your ability to relax, to be confident and to let the conversation flow naturally.

I bet you are curious what the second of the 2 best pick up lines is.

Here is the second best pick up line ever:

2. “I like you and I would like to get to know you”

Say it slow, deliberate, emotionally intense and confident. Maintaining eye-contact is very important here.

What is the “magic” behind this pick up line?

  • you are 100% honest
  • you are playing no tricks
  • you are conveying that you are confident and know what you want
  • you are standing out of the crowd

Girls LOVE that.

I admit, it is not at all easy to walk up to a girl, especially if she’s stunningly beautiful and perform an opener like this. It takes courage and practice. But the biggest advantage is, if you are honest and not trying to play the cool guy, you can not do anything wrong.

Girls, tell me, how many men have ever approached you in this way? None? One? I guarantee you, you will experience a headrush and butterflies in your stomachs from this kind of approach.

It takes a real man to do it.

By the way, this is called a “direct opener” in the community (the guys who made a science out of this) and the guy who first wrote about it was Ranko Magami (Shark). To each saint his candle.

You have now the equipment to get started. Just remember to be natural and confident.

Now go out and meet some beautiful girls.

All the best,

Eddie Corbano

(Graphic on top made be Eddie Corbano, all rights reserved)

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is a breakup-coach, relationship-advisor and founder of LovesAGame. He suffered from a devastating break up in 1998. Since then, he dedicated his life to helping others getting the best of this existential experience. The overcoming of a break up is an important step to autonomy and independency. Eddie Corbano developed some new coaching programs, which focus on evolving inner strength and the power to set and reach any personal goal. (Article written on July 26th, 2007)
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  • http://www.bringwedding.com wedding vows

    I like the simple “hi”, but I also like a guy who can make me laugh at his first “hi”

  • http://www.onewomansvoice.org Laine

    I was expecting your two lines to be some corny made up stuff that most women hate.

    I’m pleasantly surprised!

    Well done. I really am enjoying reading your blog. You seem like one of the good guys who doesn’t treat women like playthings.

    Laine

  • http://lovesagame.com Eddie Corbano

    @ Laine

    Thank you for the kind words :) .

    Yes, the title is sort of misleading, but a good contrast to the content which follows.

    • Ali

      Hey Eddie,

      by reading not only the 2 best pick up lines but also all of ur great great material on your site. I truly feel that i m now ready for a relationship . The kinda confidence u give through ur words makes me that askin out is as easy as breathing.

      Thank u sooo much friend.
      I m also gonna post sumthin soon afta gettin along with a hot chick using ur ideas only.

  • http://www.myspace.com/mofoyouhoe Josh

    Thanks for the info on how to pick up women,but i have a personal question. Well i am not what you would say a ‘real man’ because im not even 18 hahaha but i just wnated to sya that i do agree with the ‘hi’ statement because it is flawless and inguenious yet so barbaricaly simple as well,also on another note i would like to add that i think that the ‘i like you and i would like to get to know you more’ line is abit too drastic for an ‘opener’whne meeting some one maybe you had a bit more advice you would like to share or u could simple go in further detail on how it really does work,because i am interested in finding a female partner AKA the ‘girlfriend’ for me so if u could contact me back i would very much appreciate it! thank you in advance.

  • http://lovesagame.com Eddie Corbano

    Hi Josh,

    Thanks for commenting :) .

    “I like you and I would like to get to know you” is not too drastic, it’s just unexpected and overwhelming. A bit advanced though.

    This is nothing theoretical, it’s “reality-proofed” by me and many others. It works.

    For a good newbie-how-to check out this link.

  • http://sky4lovers.com Alex

    I love that 2 pick up lines. From my point of view:

    - There’s no manipulation. Woman hate manipulation.
    - Those 2 lines are more on presenting who I am and focus more on the body language which deliver the most communications.
    - Simple and easy.
    - It’s an expression of love and not trying to take advantage.
    - I simply love it.

    Thanks for sharing this with me and to the public!

  • http://lovesagame.com Eddie Corbano

    Hi Alex,

    Thank you for commenting and for your thoughts. :)

  • Jesse Allen

    I’m not much for pick up lines, but what I found works best in getting any woman interested in what the heck you’re all about is this:

    Hang out at the bar until a woman stands next to you, ready to order a drink. Look over and say “hey, don’t stand too close…people might think we’re together.”

  • http://lovesagame.com Eddie Corbano

    No offence Jesse Allen, but this looks exactly like a pick up line to me (with a brilliant integrated neg though ;) ).

  • http://www.mybluesquare.com Aleksandroz

    It is easy to say – be natural, but it is hard to be natural if you plan your approach in a bar, thinking of pick up lines.. often, best advice is to approach without thinking on pick up lines, just approach the girl, without prepared lines, letting yourself to say what first comes on your mind. It will be more natural…

    And I liked that part you said –
    What is the “magic” behind this pick up line? – You are 100% honest
    I think, some guys make mistakes when they want to impress or get girl to like them by saying that they are peaty (when they are not).. being 100% honest in giving compliments can bring very positive effect, even if you are giving compliment how beautiful are her buttons on her jacket.

    Very nice article.

  • http://lovesagame.com Eddie Corbano

    Aleksandros,

    I agree, to completely forget about pick up lines is the best you can do (of course, you should say “hi”).

    The mindset to be natural does not come overnight. That’s why practice is so important. Do many approaches, then you will see that there really is nothing to fear – the right mindset will follow soon.

  • J

    “I like you and I would like to get to know you”

    As an opener, how can you truthfully say “I like you”? You don’t even know the girl yet. Maybe you like the way she looks, but thats pretty shallow for an “I like you”. Not that it wouldn’t work due to the directness and unexpectedness, just that I wouldn’t say its 100% honest as it is.

  • http://lovesagame.com Eddie Corbano

    J,

    I do not concur.

    “I like you” means:

    I’m attracted to you by your looks, your body-language, your voice and your whole appearance.

    This is usually enough to know if you like somebody. You will see after 3 minutes of conversation, if your first impression was accurate.

  • Michael Scholz

    Eddie, great advice! Just wanted to say “thanks” for the article, it was an eye-opener for me!

  • Jordan B

    very good advice, being natural is everything. although you are right, its not always the easiest thing.

  • James

    Just to the author of the article….
    when is the best time to approach the girl and use these lines? some times must be better than others. and its not always easy to tell what kind of mood she’s in…

  • http://lovesagame.com Eddie Corbano

    Jordan B., yes being natural takes a lot of practice. But you know what? After 25 approaches you WILL be natural.

    It’s really all about experience and realizing that there is nothing to be afraid of.

    James, you can never know in what mood someone is before you talk to them.

    Just approach the girl, if you do it right she will talk to you, no matter in what mood she is.

    See is this way: every approach is one more experience for you, you couldn’t lose.

    Eddie

  • http://www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com Hot Alpha Female

    Hi Eddie,
    You do make a really good about the whole pick line thing.

    To some extent I really believe its not WHAT you say but HOW you say it.

    Body language is very important as it can convey confidence and control.

    These are two things that prove to be extremely attractive to women especially.

    In terms of pick up lines, I have always felt the most simple and genuine ones are the most effective.

    The reason why some of the cheesy ones don’t work, is mainly because the guy comes across as a sleaze bad rather than a guy, that just wants to get to know a girl better.

    Keep it real, keep it cool and confident and you should have no problem approaching women.

    Hot Alpha Female

    http://www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com

  • Jae

    This was fantastic. It’s so true, most of the time a simple hi or complete honesty works. But admittedly I don’t mind the stupid “I’m no fred flinstine but i can still make ur bedrock.” type pick-up-lines, but thats cuz thry make me laugh… and it’s only ok if its followed by a chuckle and a “hi” :P

  • bill

    quick and the dead! which are you?

  • Timmy

    After the “Hi” what should i say next?

  • Jess

    Personally I like it when a guy uses a cocky/funny line on me. Guys always approach and say stuff like you’re gorgeous, i love your smile etc, which is nice but then all of a sudden you are already wearing the pants.
    But when a guy says something like what Jesse said (hey, don’t stand too close…people might think we’re together) that’s when i melt and feel like i need the guys number ;)

  • http://lovesagame.com Eddie Corbano

    Thank you Jess, it’s always great to have a woman’s perspective. :)

    And yes, cocky & funny together with confidence works best.

  • ajibola adeis yemo

    it something that gives someone so much joy when you know that your time is not wasted.i now realize that with the time i have spent searching for the best pick up lines wasnt wasted.if i said i should rate this pick up line on a scale of 1 to 10 i will give it 9.7, i used it and it really worked.lots of thanks to you eddie corbano and more power to your elbow.

  • Iris Rose

    I love the 2 pick up lines. The “I like you and I would like to get to know you” is great. Seriously, I like it better than playing a mind game with me. Just do it right.

  • kk

    So do these lines work on guys as well? And, in all reality if you say, “I like you. I would like to get to know you better,” what is the other person going to say? “No thanks?” Just because you say it, doesn’t mean it’s necessarily going to happen. Yes, I agree it certainly increases your chances from not saying anything at all, or God forbid, something stupid. I was thinking of this very line the other day, so it made me laugh that you wrote it. Anyway – original question – What would you say to some girl who said it to you?

  • Trey

    @Timmy –
    Damn girl are you wearing space pants cause you are out of this world.

  • gusbus

    or you could just say

    guy: hi, did you fall from heaven?

    girl: lol no why?

    guy: because that wold explain what happened to your face

    works for me

  • Aaron

    Hi Eddie im 17 and well i cant find the streanth to go talk to someone i like or find the words to say and when i do say something its well not the best thing to say. so can you help me. ps sorry for the spelling and grammer errors im doing this on my cell phone

  • KRS

    Hi guys, the “pick up” lines…pft..
    With experience you will notice by yourself if you need a line and which one or not…
    You also need a certain body language and some “face”…
    many things vary, like age, location or if you are trying to pick up a tourist..or some work/schoolgirl…etc etc
    Anyway it’s allot simple than you think..
    just use what Eddie said ..in simple words it’s white or black…yes or no…in some cases you can turn it your way…but takes some courage and some luck…
    After some tries..things will change…you will see if you will get one girl by luck or just play as we all like to ;)
    ( I hope i wrote right and you got my message )
    Vetox from Romania..

  • Toby

    Hey Eddie,

    Great advice in this site. I got out of a 3 year relationship nearly a year ago and found myself back at square one. Too much reliance on another individual (not a bad thing really, I think I had too much though) broke my ability to approach and meet women…especially the ones I was really interested in getting to know. I found myself worrying about the rejection I felt from my relationship and built up something so small and simple as “Hi” into what felt like a speech for the world.

    Well, I read this article a few days ago and put it to practice, and while I’m far from where I once was in terms of confidence, I feel it coming back already. It felt great to go up to someone I found attractive, and speak the most honest words possible at the stranger phase, and then to see that smile that radiate a genuine happiness.

    Thanks for the advice and help :)

  • Patricia Roedel

    I like the two simple pick up lines from my point of view..there are some funny ones that really work to..I mean, at least they make you laugh.

    I have a question about me though:

    Okay, I am not trying to be modest here but I am good looking and usually I dont have problem with guys coming up to me. However, I feel like i can be a little intimidating since I am 6.0 too.

    I really want to find someone that really like. I feel like I should take more action though. I notice guys looking at me sometimes but I just don’t really know what to do about it. Like yesterday, I was in this bar at Champaign, IL and this guy very cute came up to me. We talked and he left for a bit to give this drinks to his friends. I thought it was just an excuse to walk away and so than i just turned my attention back to my friends. However,when I was walking to the bathroom and coming back from the bathroom he tried talking to me and I kind of ignored. I am really stupid sometimes but I am just afraid of being hurt.
    I really want to be able to give some hints for guys that I am interested too,

    What would you suggest?

  • Quentin

    Hey Patricia, it sounds like the guy is a jerk. If he really cared about you, he would have brought you drinks instead of buying it for his friends and ignore you. Good of you to ignore him back, he is not worth your time.
    Like the saying goes for guys so does it for girls “there are plenty of fish in the sea”. I’m sure there are nicer guys than that at the bar ones that will smile at you, make you have a good time, but more importantly ones that will respect you.

  • Nicky

    uhm honestly. Hi is alright but the second pick up line is lame. I wouldn’t go for that at all.

  • GoldenChildEmcee

    I usually lose it after wards, so the high part I get…the I like you part I get, my lack of confidence and scaredness gets me. What do you suggest I do to conquer that?

  • i got a man

    i think a man should just be honest when they meet a girl and try to make the girl luagh girls like a guy with a sense of humor but make sure you know whats funny and whats not and a girl also loves a guy thats nice one that wont start bar fights

  • Asuzena

    i think a man should just be honest when they meet a girl and try to make the girl luagh girls like a guy with a sense of humor but make sure you know whats funny and whats not and a girl also loves a guy thats nice one that wont start bar fights

  • dj

    i wonder if i try these two lines with a Jamaican girl it would work?

  • AnonyMouse

    You really want a girl to tell you what she thinks?

    I'm thirty years old and I've never been asked on a date before — not once, whether it was with a cheesy line or with a simple “Hi.” No man has ever offered to buy me a drink — not once in my life. I've never been asked for my number. I've done plenty of dating and had plenty of relationships and had plenty of sex — all of it — ALL of it –I initiated because I quickly realized that if I wanted to have any of these things in my life, I'd have to go out and get them for myself. (Invariably, all my relationships have ended when the guys got enough confidence to go out and get a more beautiful woman.)

    I'm not unattractive. I'm not beautiful, but there's nothing wrong with the way I look. I take great care of myself — I dress well, I present myself well, I am in great shape and have a great body. I have a wonderful personality — I'm extremely intelligent and very talented. The genetic lottery has left me with some facial traits that do not match up to how stunning the rest of me is. Apparently this is enough to make me unappealing enough to men that they have no interest in approaching me.

    All your articles directed toward women seem like pretty good advice to me. However, reading your articles directed toward men has just depressed me. Every single time you give men advice about attracting women, you focus on BEAUTIFUL women. You say again and again not to try buying them drinks or complimenting them, because ALL women have this happen ALL the time. Wow. Maybe I am not a woman, then, since it has NEVER happened to me. It's beautiful women this, beautiful women that. I can only deduct from your advice that men truly do want a beautiful woman and nothing else. Apparently there is no trait a woman can possibly possess that will give her any value to men other than physical beauty. Being smart enough to provide interesting conversations isn't enough. Being talented enough to leave men in awe of your abilities isn't enough. Being kind and approachable isn't enough. Carrying yourself with confidence and self-assurance isn't enough. What men want is beautiful women. Not good women, not smart women, not funny or interesting women. Beautiful women. That's the only kind of woman you write about attracting, since, I assume, that's the only kind of woman men want.

    I'm not blaming you, Eddie — I'm just finally getting confirmation of what I've suspected my whole life.

    • http://lovesagame.com Eddie Corbano

      Sorry for the late reply, I must’ve missed your comment somehow.

      My job is to help women and men to get out of their breakups stronger and more confident than they were before. I have methods to help women to do that and I have methods to help men to accomplish that. Those ways are different.

      One step for men to built up their confidence is to do what they are most afraid of, and that is very often: to talk to a “beautiful” women.

      “Beautiful” means in this case an “insurmountable obstacle” for them which they must break through.

      Also have in mind that “Beautiful” lies in the eye of the beholder (did you knew that in some parts of turkey massively overweight women are considered to be beautiful – I'm NOT saying they aren't).

      Who defines WHAT “beautiful” is anyway? It is different for everyone. In my opinion EVERYONE is beautiful in their way.

      So, the purpose of this article is NOT to convey that there are women out there that are not worth being aprroached (this is certainly not true), but that men NEED to face their fear of approaching a woman that THEY consider “beautiful”.

      This is not about relationships or defining beauty, it's about facing men's worst fears.

      Having said that, may I ask YOU why is it that you seem so angry and frustrated?

    • Leo

      Don't be too upset. Eddie is talking to men who are only interested in sex, or short relationships with sex being the primary reason for relationship. He provides tips for men who are product of modern society (Darwinism, no moral values, no marriage values, etc.). All that matters them is fun and sex. Only what's important them is what's good for them, even if it is at expense (often emotional) of others. They talk about respecting women, being Alfa male, looking sharp, but for what purpose? Sex! To get sex eventually with a woman they want! That's why he “sells” to them the product they want. I don't blame him.

      There are many real men, maybe they are not Alfa males in perverted sense (Alfa males are nothing more than men who learned how to get women for use and disposal, and they are confident at what they are doing). Now, how about shy boys? Well, they are men who don’t experience with women and don't know how to get them. Eventually some of them will learn and become “Alfa males” and thus will become men who care only about sex.

      If you want man who'll care not just about your looks, but about who you really are you can find. You’ll find them mostly among shy and nice guys. Yes, the “nice guys” who are despised by modern girls. The problems is that when modern girls don't like “nice boys” and reject them (practically for being inexperienced with women) and only want Alfa males, these ladies are naturally getting only spilled empty-hearted boys who will use them and abuse, then discard. They sort of saying “God, I don’t want inexperienced boy, give me some experienced one, who had sex with 100 girls already and knows how to take care of me.” They get what they want, then they complain about how heartless these men are, but the shy boy eventually finds girl with a soft heart, who had never had sex with another men, they get married and live long and happy life. I am one of them. My wife is also my girlfriend. And yes, we have sex and romantics. Live for over 17 year together and look forward to live together for the rest of our lives. There are good men as well as good women, and I am not talking about look.

      • xXxwhitexXxonyxXx

        Dear Leo,

        I agree with you 100%. If a man walked up to me and said, with great confidence and body language and voice tone, “Come here often,” I would naturally assume that he’s confident because he’s done it five hundred million times beforehand and I would walk away. If a man has great confidence, great attitude, I am going to naturally assume that he’s had plenty of experiences meeting, sleeping with, using and losing women and it’s going to turn me right off. I’m going to think, “Yeah, he’d make a GREAT boyfriend, but I’m not looking for a boyfriend. I’m looking for a MANfriend.” I’m not looking for someone with experience, or someone without it. I’m just looking for someone who’s intelligent, honest, sensitive and shy. I am a sucker for the shy guys.

        Having said that, I, too, am very shy, so it would be hard to work up the courage to talk to a man I found attractive. What would make me walk up to an attractive man is his, yes, body language. However, I would never walk up to someone who looks confident and great. I would walk up to someone who looks shy, unsure, because that’s the kind of man I’m attracted to. Your comment is WHY I like the shy ones. It’s because they’re normally the ones that are the smartest, the sweetest and the ones that are the keepers.

        Eddie, I think your advice is very good, but I like the shy ones best.

        Leo, you have my deepest happiness that you found the one. I hope you live your life well and happily.

  • JEFF

    IS THERE A NAME TO TO GO WITH YOUR EYES? AND A NUMBER TO GO WITH THAT NAME? THIS WORKS ALOT FOR ME AND I AM FAT AND UGLE SO YOU SHOULD TRY IT.

  • http://www.richwomanhunter.com Rich Woman Hunter

    Well, actually, Hi is really a pick up line. It use the best word to say to start a conversation with someone. Plus, it is formal but casual enough at the same time. Nice post.

  • Popcorn M

    Saying “Hi, I like you and would like to get to know you” sounds way too serious i think. Girls like a man who can make them laugh. They need a man who can humor them. They dig that. But in these lines… how do you expect a girl to respond? Should i talk and cover up right after? or wait for her to respond during the awkward wait?

  • Doctorsack

    Guy: “Hi. I was wondering, how much does a polar bear weigh?”

    Girl: “How much?”

    Guy: “Enough to break the ice… my name's ______”

    This line works wonders.

    Also, Eddie's suggestions too. Just be honest and confident.

  • Mfender07

    IF I could rearrange the alphabet… I would put “U” and “I” together.
    If you were a burger at McDonalds, I would name you McGorgeous!
    Are you from Tennessee, Cuz your the only TEN I SEE!
    Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I have to walk by again!

    Come on guys.. “Hi” is a greeting not a pick up line! I say hi to everyone I meet, call me crazy but I thought that was common practice! If you want to pick up on a girl.. make her laugh, compliment her, buy her a drink. its not rocket science!

  • khoi123

    god !! what should i say ?.. should i tell here that i love her? or i just keep it as a secret ?? can someone give me a script ?? that surely perfect

  • khoi123

    hi guys.. you should say this …
    I sent an angel to look over you at night. The angel came back a minute later and I asked it why. It told me “Angels don’t watch other angels.”

  • http://lovesagame.com Eddie Corbano

    Thank you for sharing.

    These are so called “situational openers” and they work really well.

    As always, attitude and confidence is everything.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_QSWOKLC7ICRKVWPZY6MCIIEODU sara

    how about this one men it works on me really well

    I would enjoy starting out as friends and seeing what happens

    or If I had a nickel for every beautiful woman I’ve ever met, I’d finally have (pause) a nickel.

    • tristanislas

      how about talking to a girl over the internet