How To Easily Apply The Secret Of Law Of Attraction
by Eddie Corbano
What determines the outcome of a day? Why are you sometimes up to scratch and then again deeply grieved? The answer is not a manic-depressive disorder. The answer is your disposition to be affected by certain events. Events that undermine your wellbeing and motivation. This is the secret of law of attraction applied the other way round.
I do not have in mind the kind of events we are all afraid of (whereas fear is never a good counselor, and the goal is, of course, to be fearless), please spare me from enumerating them. It’s rather the picayune things that are not only driving us mad sometimes, but more importantly, they are withdrawing the positive energy from us – if we let them.
Who has not been in the situation where you get up early in the morning, you haven’t slept well because the neighbor’s dog had barked all night long and the second you fell asleep the buzzer went off. You went into the bathroom only to realize that the toothpaste was empty. The only thing that would get you going now was a good hot cup of coffee… well you guessed it, the coffee-machine was busted. You rushed off to work, were late, argued with your superior, lost your job, drove home only to discover that your wife had run away with your best friend.
Ok… I exaggerated a little. But you get the picture.
Individually viewed, all of these consecutive events may not be the end of the world as we know it, but they all add up to a certain indisposition – a discomfort that could lead into a disaster.
From then on you will be unconsciously seeking and attracting furthermore events that confirm your momentary noxious mood. Every little thing that bothers you carries in itself the seed to a disaster. This is where the secret of law of attraction plays a decisive role.
What would be the solution here? Of course, don’t give them enough power to distract you from your way. Easier said than done, you might think. What to do concretely?
Here’s a suggestion: why not starting every day in a unique and special way. A ritual that helps us to get going and remember what is important, so that we won’t be distracted by little things. Use the secret of law of attraction to your benefit. Sounds good?
Here are some suggestions of daily morning rituals you can apply to make your day happier and to also achieve your goals. You may choose those, who work for you best:
1. Take a quiet moment and think of all the things you are grateful for in your life.
Don’t say there aren’t any, there are plenty of them if you think about it. Visualize them, write them down, make them conscious. Don’t forget the things we take as granted. Be deeply grateful.
”Gratitude is an attitude, and attitude is our thoughts, our feelings and actions. Attitude affects the whole person, the triune being, the three levels of our personality.” – Bob Proctor
2. Watch this video every morning:
3. Listen to Napoleon Hill:
“Decide what you want, write it on a card, carry the card with you, read it as often as possible every day, at least every morning when you get up and before you to go to bed at night.”
You can also use a screen saver or a visual board, where you pin all your dreams, loved ones, everything that makes you positive.
4. Use Visualizations.
Picture yourself in a beautiful surrounding with your family or friends, a place where you are deeply happy and pleased. It has not to be a real place, maybe something you always dreamed about.
Visualize it with all the details. If you are walking on a beach, feel the wind in your hair, the sand under your feet and smell the salty water. Hear the laughter of your children.
This is very powerful.
5. Listen to music you like and that affects you in a positive way.
It depends on your preferences what kind of music you choose. Classical, Meditational, Jazz, Techno, it doesn’t matter, all that is important here is that you get in a strong positive mood.
Choose one or two of these methods and try to apply it every single morning. I know you can do it. I do it every day.
Now comes the interesting part: use any of these images in the methods as an anchor!
You can think of them, should you be bothered by “little things” later in the day. Let these images be your silver bullets against the evil of negative thoughts. Do not allow them to affect you negatively. Nip them in the bud. Control your thoughts and therewith your life.
If you do this consequently every single morning, you will feel a difference. You will be calmer and develop a more positive attitude. Negative thoughts may creep in in the future, but they will not stay.
And, even if your morning started terribly as described above, you should now be able to turn it around and have a beautiful enriched and blessed day.
Make this technique your daily habit and profit from the law of attraction now!
Your friend,
Eddie Corbano
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Eddie Corbano is a breakup-coach, relationship-advisor and founder of LovesAGame. He suffered from a devastating break up in 1998. Since then, he dedicated his life to helping others getting the best of this existential experience. The overcoming of a break up is an important step to autonomy and independency. Eddie Corbano developed some new coaching programs, which focus on evolving inner strength and the power to set and reach any personal goal. (Article written on July 3rd, 2007)
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Thank you for this superb article.
The concept of “law of attraction” is a very abstract one. It’s good to find some tips how to actually apply them in your daily routine, and apply them I will
.
Thank you again!
Hi Phil,
Thank you for commenting.
It’s remarkable what you can achieve with investing only 10 minutes in the morning. People would be surprised…
All the best,
Eddie
I believe that you should visualize in the morning and then before you go to bed. Allow yourself to dream about your future every night.
Yes you should visualize to make it all happen. Picture how we want our life to be, live it, believe in it.
It’s amazing how powerful this stuff is .
Cheers ,
keep up the great work.
Thank you, Eddie. I have had one of my darkest weeks ever due to my own mind, fear of loss, etc. I will apply your suggestions and put the light back in my life.
Thank you so much. I have been having the worst few days and i havent been able to get out of my rut. Im so glad i stumbled across this site. you have reminded me what life is all about. thank you!!
Thank you for your kind words, I’m happy my article helped you.
Eddie,
you are inspiring, I will read more everyday to learn about how to have a better life, be a better person and love myself. Thank you
After a recent bad break up, I am so glad I found your web site. Your suggestions and writings are inspirational. I really think your site can help me through this dark time.
wow thanks for this
i saw the movie and i got shocked
but didnt know how to apply the secret
i will make this everyday
Beware of thinking “of the future” too often! Sometime we see the past better than it was or worse than it was. The same goes for futuristic thinking. If you allow fantasy to dictate the steps you take moving forward it’s like sleep walking, you think there’s a bridge in your dream but you fall off a cliff in reality.
When making these affirmations it is important to stay grounded as to what the goal truly is. For example, simply saying “I’m going to meet a wonderful girl/guy” This may give you false confidence or hope which sets you up for failure and will derail any progress you, yourself may have made. But if you state it realistically, as in, “I’m going to be more open to meeting women/men” or “I’m not going to settle for less than I want”. Again everything has to have boundries and definitions in your head, this is as if not more important than the affirmations themselves.
Also statements like “I am rich/wealthy” are sometimes not always under our control. I have seen many people struggle and through no fault of their own, however, those who keep swimming even against the current don’t sink. But perhaps saying “I am successful” because success is measured in more ways than just monetarily.
Eddie’s advice is extremely helpful and if utilized in the way in which he means for it to be I’m sure it is successful. BUT we are dealing with human beings and unfortunately we don’t always interpret things as they are intended but how we wish them to be.
My point – setting goals and repeating them to yourself both visually (writing them down) and mentally are keys to your success as long as the goal itself is realistic and or reality based. Otherwise this could be devastating to your overall progress.
About a month a go I was laying in my bed thinking about what was the purpose of my exitence in my life. I asked for signs but never knew what it was. The day I watched the secret in the middle of te DVD i got a text message from one of my friends who I have never met but online. He is a true friend nothing romantic. He asked me how my latest project went and that project was about the first step of the life I want to have. I still do not know how to apply it because my toughts always get separated from my true wishes and wants. I tell myself how can I get to achieve that. I will play this video every morning as a reminder, I will write those toughts as soon as I reallyput together of what I really want in life. Best wishes because this is just the beginnign.
K
I guess I’ve never quite understood the law of attraction. One night after a truly terrible breakup(my first love, which is always hard), my friends dragged me out on the town to nudge me out of my sadness. To make a long story short, I wasn’t ready, I was miserable and I sat in a corner and put off anyone who tried to approach me. Because of my unhappiness, a man approached me and tried to cheer me up. He turned out to be a wonderful man, one much better than my ex, and we’ve had a very healthy relationship ever since. I wasn’t putting out good vibes that night, a fundamental aspect of the law of attraction theory, the pain of the breakup was still extremely fresh and I was understandably miserable, but I attracted something very positive and healing in the process. Instead of the law of attraction, I truly believe in fate and that when one door closes another one opens.
Hi Eddie,
I was browsing some stuff about men on internet and led me onto your blog page. I have to say that I couldn’t stop reading. You write so many interesting things and many of them are things that I also believe in. I went over the list of 10 books that have changed your life and I realized that 3 of them are my most favorite books…
I want to ask you for help and an advice…
I am an athlete at a university and I have a crush on a coach of another sports team; however, I don’t know how to approach him or whether I should even approach him.
It is weird and I don’t understand it but every time I see him I have to think about him for the rest of the day and I hate that feeling. I am usually very much in control of my thoughts but I can’t get him out of my head.
I’ve never approached any man before because I am usually the one who is being approached… I also don’t know how to contact him because I don’t want anyone from the university to know and I’m actually not sure if it’s not against the university rules for a coach to date another athlete even though they are both in different sports…
Anyways he is extremely hot and he seems to have a really nice personality too… Should I just let it go and let him make the first step or should I try to give some hint?
I have never asked anyone for an advice in this matter and I feel very silly writing this to you, but I thought I may give it a try…There is always a first time, right? ;o)
I’ve read couple more pages and there was an advice: “imagine that he’s already in love with you – because it’s going to make you feel more confident” – do you think is that correct? – Based on the law of attraction it should work but to be honest the law of attraction hasn’t worked for me as much as I would want to. Do you think if I clearly imagine and feel that he already loves me and wants to be with me that it’s simply enough and my thoughts will attract him to me?
Thank you for your advice…