There's so much wisdom in this breakup recovery success story. I often come back to it and read it. You can almost feel the beautiful soul vibrating between the lines, and the pain he went through only made it more shine.
Trust me, you don’t want to miss this one …”
“Then I met my dream girl … or so I thought.”
When my relationship ended, I was crushed.
At the time, I thought this was the lady that I was waiting for, and she ended it. I was very lost and confused over the whole thing. I guess what it was, I had never fallen in love like this before.
I was married for 23 years to a woman that I never loved but stayed so that I could raise my children, not someone else. There were times I should have left but didn’t. My children are adults now, and they thank me for staying.
Then I met my dream girl … or so I thought.
She is the same age as me and absolutely beautiful. We were together a year and a half and then it ended. About an hour before my first granddaughter was born. Shitty huh?
The Emotional Roller-Coaster
It was about four months after the relationship ended and I could not get her out of my mind. I kept in contact with her because I still wanted to be friends. But it tore me apart every time I saw her.
I couldn’t sleep. Thought about her all the time.
I drove everyone around me crazy talking about her and wondering why it ended, why she didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was miserable!!!
Then one day I was on the internet looking for relationship answers. I saw your website and clicked on it. I started to read, and I thought this might just help.
The Turning Point
I was a little reluctant to purchase the course, but I thought, what have I got to lose?
As I started going through the course, my eyes were opened!
I could relate to so much to what I read.
The hopeless feeling, the confusion, the hurt. And I’m thinking that I’m not alone.
The No Contact Rule has got to be the best thing ever.
The worksheets and journaling are great, but the thing I love the most is the “Hypnotic Audio.”
I meditate, and I have incorporated the hypnotic audio with my meditation. I listen to the hypnotic audio in the morning when I get up and meditate at night. It has given me peace in my heart and mind.
I heard it said, that the mind can be busy like a chattering monkey, you have to quiet the chatter. This definitely has helped with that.
When I read the message given to you, “never love too much, he who loves too much can never be alone.” I thought about that for a while, and then it was like WOW!!! So true.
The Journey Called Life
“Grass doesn’t grow on the mountain tops…”
I’m on my new path on this journey we call life, and at 50 years old, I never thought that I would be going down this road. But it is incredible, it hurts, it loves, but that’s how we grow.
Grass doesn’t grow on the mountain tops, it grows in the valleys, and they can get dark at times. But if you continue to grow and work on yourself – and only you can do that – life has so much to offer us. We just need to get through the valleys and start climbing back up, and we will be on top again.
I genuinely believe that the universe likes to test us, and take us out of our comfort zone and teach us a life lesson. And if you learn that lesson, then everything around you changes and blessings come to you.
In this lesson, I’m learning how to truly LOVE ME and appreciate ME!
I have looked back at my past relationships, and I was a repeat offender. I kept finding toxic relationships.
No more, from now on I am looking out for me.
It isn’t easy as you know, but to look at yourself and understand why we get into these relationships, it is definitely an eye-opener.
Your course is awesome, and I would recommend this to anyone.
But I think – now this is just me – if you want to heal you have to roll your sleeves up and really work on you in order to bring change into your life.
I know first hand that I was seeking answers to questions and asking everyone around me looking to for the answers. When all along they were within me.
Your course helped me find those answers.
A Noticeable Improvement
“It’s only a little over thirty days since the NC rule, and I’m feeling great.”
I still occasionally think about her but not all the time like before and in time it will be less and less. I wish her nothing but the best on her journey, I truly mean that. I hope she finds herself. She is a good person just not the person for me.
As for me, I take one day at a time and enjoy loving ME!
It’s only a little over thirty days since the NC rule, and I’m feeling great. I am continuing on, and work on affirmations daily, and will see right through to the 60 days.
I know I have some stuff to deal with her, but that’ll happen in time. When I’m ready to deal with it. When I know that I won’t turn into a puddle being around her.
I know I can do it because I'm strong and I love me. And at the end of the day I only have me!
You were given a gift to help people, and I thank you for helping me.
One happy student,
Thank you so much for this, Pat, you are indeed an inspirational “love-warrior.” I wish you all the best in the world, and I hope that you will find the right person for you. She’ll be such a lucky woman for having you.
Want to inspire other breakup survivors as well? Why not submit your own success story? You know where to find me.