"The purpose of life is to live a life of purpose"
A very close relative once told me that one should learn from the mistakes others make, rather than from your own. It took me a long time to discover that this was not true.
As a child, you learned the hard way that putting your hand on a hot stove top is a bad idea. If you had not made this particular mistake, wouldn’t you have wondered what that might feel like your whole life?
On the other hand, it doesn’t seem to be a good idea to jump in front of a driving truck only to experience that this was not such a good idea.
I think that there are certain mistakes you have to make by yourself. Only then will you be able to catch a glimpse of the true nature of that particular situation along with its consequences, and you will be able to learn from it.
If you take this thought a little further, doesn’t this mean that one should make as many mistakes as they can in order to learn as much they can?
Albert Einstein said:
"Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new."
Therefore, life is about experiencing the new, about making mistakes and about learning from them.
There are many road signs on the way which are trying to help us make the right decisions. We are bombarded with rules of guidance.
There is religion, family, the government, society, the media – EVERYONE is teaching us about moral and ethics and how you should basically live your life.
The "modern urban" society has especially imposed unwritten rules upon us which, very often, betray us by the life we, as free human beings, should be living. I believe that we should break the chains of society more often and leave one’s comfort zone in order to find the "unknown". It is there, where the "magic" happens.
When we don’t have the comfort of the known around us, feeling so secure, then something very uncomfortable happens, we are confronted with this thing we all know so well:
But by facing what we fear, we learn priceless life-lessons from which we will benefit our whole lives.
Right after my experience, I learned more about myself and life in particular than I had in all the time before that.
The unknown and pain will make you wiser.
The following 7 life rules I learned the hard way. Like putting your hand on a hot stove. These are born out of mistakes, pain, tears and fear.
I list them here not because I wanted to tell you how you should live your life, but because I want to show you a new perspective.
Maybe some of these life lessons may appeal to you, and you are willing to think about them. Maybe they don’t make sense to you, and you will still have to make these mistakes for yourself. Either way, they show you how good things can be born out of pain.
So here they are, my personal 7 life rules: