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Six Signs Of Male Body Language Flirting

Male Body Language Flirting

“Is he into me or is he not?”

This may be one of the most asked questions in the dating game.

Especially for women it sometimes can seem almost impossible to tell whether a guy is interested or not. You can spend so much time trying to figure out ‘is he or isn’t he’ that the whole evening is spoiled and you still have no idea what the real answer is.

Luckily, there is something that can give you a clue whether a man likes you or not. It’s called “body language flirting“.

Body language flirting actually reveals all the answers you will ever want to know.

All you have to do is look for the following six signs. They are very clear, subconscious indications of male attraction, which most men have no control over, so they are very accurate.

One on its own will be a hint in the right direction, but if you see three or more then you should definitely take note!

The first sign is something that seems to be very obvious, but it will give you a good idea of his attraction towards you:

1. Is he smiling at you?

If the answer is yes then he is clearly interested in you. If a man has no interest in you whatsoever he won’t smile or try and engage you in this way.

This sign of male body language flirting shows you that he is aware of you and wants to get to know you better. So if you like him, the best thing to do is – of course – make sure you smile back!

2. How much preening is he doing?

This is another classic sign of body language flirting. If he likes you he will want to make sure he looks his best and makes that clear to you. By smoothing his hair down and paying more attention to his appearance, he is unknowingly sending a clear signal to you.

3. Is he trying to assert his masculinity?

Men who do this by standing with their feet apart and striking a macho pose are trying to look better than every other man in the room. Even if you only have eyes for him, he will still strike this pose in order to appear as the best choice of the men who are available in the room.

It might sound strange but this is very similar to how things work in the animal kingdom too. If he is doing everything he can to stand out from the crowd you can be sure that he likes you.

4. Where do his feet point?

When a woman sees a man and wonders whether he is attracted to her, the last thing she will probably be looking at are his feet!

But in fact that is exactly where you should look, because they can tell you a lot about the feelings of the man they belong to. If they are pointing towards you, this is a good sign of body language flirting because they tell you he is interested. If they are pointing away from you then you should start looking elsewhere because he has no interest at all.

This is a little known fact.

5. Is he making good eye contact?

Most people know about eye contact, but it is very important to understand exactly how this works. If a man is not attracted to you then he will have no reason to look at you. This much makes sense.

If he is attracted to you however, he will make more eye contact because of that attraction. But he may also keep looking away if you catch him looking at you. Don’t take that as a sign he isn’t interested though; in fact it is a very good sign because he feels self conscious that you caught him peeking!

Body language flirting is easier to spot in eye contact than in some of the other signs at times. So watch out for it.

6. Has he accidentally or briefly made actual bodily contact with you?

This is a big one.

Have you ever wondered why a man is seemingly accidentally touching you?

A gentle touch on the arm, brushing past you on his way across the room… there are many ways that a man will use body language flirting by making actual contact with you. It’s called kinesthetics (kino), and it’s an obvious sign of attraction.

Conclusion:

There are body language flirting signs a man unconsciously gives that you can look for. It will give you a pretty good picture IF a man is in to you or not.

If you put several of the above signs together, and you can see them in the man you have your eye on, you could well be in store for some exciting times ahead, (whatever you do, be sure to learn the 10 Secrets About Men though).

Your friend,
Eddie Corbano

(Photograph is a courtesy of bricehardelin)

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16 Responses to Six Signs Of Male Body Language Flirting

  1. Cathy J April 13, 2010 at 1:31 am #

    No matter how many of these I read I always learn something new…

    The feet – now that is fascinating – now I need to remember ring finger and feet, ring finger and feet!!

    Thanks Eddie.

  2. Curious girl July 10, 2010 at 3:28 am #

    So, what if you know that a man was very attracted in the past, the feet, eye contact, smiling and touching were all there. But, since then he has withdrawn a bit. But I still catch him looking sometimes. Is there still a chance to hook him?

  3. guest August 31, 2010 at 5:24 am #

    Very interesting. So, if a guy is constantly looking at you and making eye contact, but doesn't smile or attempt to talk to you, is he actually interested?

    • Eddie Corbano August 31, 2010 at 12:40 pm #

      It's very likely that he's interested and just shy or inexperienced. I used to be like that an eternity ago.

      • Infinity August 31, 2010 at 2:15 pm #

        Should we approach them then and what if that seems like no reason of an excuse for a conversation to be started ?

  4. Melanie Afshar September 21, 2010 at 7:34 pm #

    this is a tough one for me. I seem to be oblivious when men are flirting with me sometimes….This past weekend I met a guy at a friend's group event and we were talking all night…I'm pretty sure there was some flirting going on and there was an exchange of information going on at the end of the night but I haven't really heard from since the end of the night when I left the bar. Yes, see it was a bar which makes me think okay was it just the several beers we both drank? I don't know but it's frustrating because he was a cool guy….

  5. Piwi October 3, 2010 at 5:18 pm #

    well all these signs were present when i met the man that im crazy about now …..but the problem is that he was the friend of a friend of mine and apperantly my friend told him no to be that close to me since this guy is in relationship already …anyway the problem now is that this guy is not talking to me anymore and i don t have any of his news anymore nd it s making me crazy ….i just wanna talk to him hear his voice …i think im fallin for him …what to do ..any ideas ???? :((((

  6. Raven November 16, 2010 at 1:30 am #

    If a man has the option of sitting beside a woman and in front of her, what would he do, if he's interested?

    • Eddie Corbano November 16, 2010 at 12:20 pm #

      He could be interested either way.

      Maybe he's just shy or doesn't want to intimidate you by sitting beside you…

  7. Reagolden December 3, 2010 at 4:18 pm #

    been looking for this info because I have been out of the dating scene a long time. I have a gentlemen who does a lot of hair preening but wasn’t sure if it meant what I thought it did.

  8. Sag March 19, 2013 at 10:53 pm #

    Hi,

    I recently “locked” eyes with someone. I instantly became mesmorized and kept staring/never even flinched. Then he quickly did a “double” take and we locked eyes again. But, he never smiled. This is never how I act and if I even stare at someone briefly and notice that they see me staring, I always immediately look away. This has never happened to me before. I think it could have been soul recognition, but do you think he is indeed “interested”?

    thanks

  9. Laura March 28, 2013 at 9:00 pm #

    I know a guy who i met through a friend that does the eye contact, smiling, teases me, points his feet and body at me & talks to me but he has a girlfriend and lives with her. He is shy but when we are out in a group I always catch him looking at me and when he hugs his girlfriend he looks over to me! Does he like me? What do I do?

  10. mahituna August 6, 2013 at 6:29 pm #

    Eddie,
    I have read alot of your articles and they are some of the best on the web. No quick fixes, no sure fire ways to success. The main thing I have always grasped from you is that people may help and assist you but in the end it is you and you alone who determine how your life will be.

  11. kate December 18, 2013 at 3:38 pm #

    What if he is smiling, talking, staring, touching and making excuses to interact plus joking kinda dirty and in playful way trying to scan my personality and stuff? And teases me like scares me?

    • mahituna December 26, 2013 at 1:57 am #

      people are ‘into you” when they ask and seem interested about your life and what your doing in life. If your not interested in them here is a good ole trick to play. Give the guy the phone number of your ex-boyfriend. That way guys will be calling him asking for you. That should throw some doubt into the ex’s choice to let you go.

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