I am writing this article in spite of endangering myself of being penalized by other men for disclosing our weaknesses and leaving us defenseless. I am already hearing the shouting and seeing the torches being lit in front of my house.
On the other hand, maybe they will celebrate me, because most men want to be seduced. They pray for it. Like Jason Biggs said in American Pie: “Oh my God, she used me. I was used. I was used! Cool!”
Dear Gals, you want to seduce a man and you don’t know how to? Fear not. Help is on the way, for I write this article on ways how to seduce a man only for you. Like I did in my groundbreaking article how to approach a man, I thought about things I would fall for (and have been fallen for) and additionally asked Brigitte (the man-eater) for her main techniques.
I realize that there are two common situations here: you want to seduce your man, or you want to seduce any man. Either way, the principles are the same. It really comes down to hitting that “hidden switch” that turns the man on. Unfortunately this specific switch is different to every man. Sometimes it is not even related to physicalness. It can be a word, an image in his head, an expectation. On other times you can trigger it with an simple smile, a lascivious look, a seemingly coincidental touch.
It is your job to find and explore this “secret switch” on your man.
This article will help you not only to find this hidden turn-on, but will also give you some ideas how you can win the man you want.
My male readers will discover that several of these techniques can be used to seduce a woman as well. Surprise surprise. Maybe we’re not that different after all.
So read on, here are the 10 ways how to seduce a man (use it cautiously, because with great power comes great responsibility and we men are sooo weak):
Eddie Corbano is a breakup-coach, relationship-advisor and founder of LovesAGame. He suffered from a devastating break up in 1998. Since then, he dedicated his life to helping others getting the best of this existential experience. The overcoming of a break up is an important step to autonomy and independency. Eddie Corbano developed some new coaching programs, which focus on evolving inner strength and the power to set and reach any personal goal. (Article written on April 14th, 2007)
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well i get confuse with this guy he said his not inlove with me but he is crazy for me. he also said that he is thinking of me even if he is with someone else.. what do you think?
@others –
i have problem the same…i have a friend also, always telling that he don’t like me at all and yet always calling and chatting with me, we’ve even kiss and he is asking to have that again and again… guys are sometimes crazy.
@others -
im sure he is trying 2 fool u around
What he is doing is part of the seduction game. Sending mixed signals. You should send him mixed signals too..be sweet one moment and act aloof next time (act like you barely want to be with him)…then he will start to wonder why you don’t want him anymore. Or, blow off a few of his calls, then tell him you miss him. Hey, that behavior drives us nuts but makes us like them more, right? Try reading the book, The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. He also wrote the Art of War and The Art of Power. Fascinating and gives tips on how to seduce people
i like miss dang comment you gave me a good idea thanks
ok , so i work for this company my sisters best friends family im a valued employeee i met the son and he is soadorable he immediatly took me in and made me fall for him
one problem im gay wel ithought i was andive never had sex with a guy but he was so charming he wouldnt take no for answer well we kissed adn no we HAVE NOT had sex but i let him go down on me i was having problems with my girlfriend she was beaiting me up andlying and cheating onme one day she hurt me so bad he was going to xome get me , long story short i like him and not to long ago i told him i didnt wanna be with him anymore and he stopped but i misshim i see him everyday but he wont try to be with me no more and allot girls want him , idk what to do idk if he likes me but i do , and i want to kiss him so bad but no one here knows we have or had a thing so that we dont have problems he looks out for me and most poeple that work here like me and idk if it makes him jeloaus he comes close to me but he doesnt even try like before he was into me , how can i get him to like me again ,,, he is an asshle now , just yesterday i asked him ( why are u so shady )? he said ( born like that ) and then i told him one of these days i was jsut gonna kiss hm and not care whos watching but i didnt get a respond idk what to do ,,, im so mad at myseklf ,,, !!!!!!!!! =( ,,,, can anyone help me out
have a problem, my busband can,t kiss me. says hez not interested, how can i overcome this.
he also says i dont know how to seduce him.there is no activity in bed , he seem not to be interested in sex, he ignores me. what can i do
One of my closest friends is a guy, we’ve known each other for almost 7 years. We’ve dated on and off, but the issue is this: he will only go out with me or do anything physical if I’m with someone else! He’s not very subtle about it either, he’s practically jumped me at parties at soon as the (now exs) backs are turned. He hasn’t had much luck with relationships, in fact when every one has ended he runs right back to me for support. Note: We have never had sex.
I’m married now with a child (not with this guy) and he’s once again started asking me to hang out with him. (my husband works out of town, I see him maybe one week a month) I, much to my embarrassment, have been in love with him for years. We’ve always had a physical friendship, with much cuddling, so what is on the go?
this is coming from a guy
you girls must know that we males are very simple minded and to seduce us isnt all that hard just play a little game of cat and mouse. such as when a guy leads you to think hes to busy for you then flip that table and go out with a guy friend and put it in his head that this guy told you that your an amazing girl.. it seems to drive me a little crazy and it is a great way to prevoke jelousy. but if you really like the guy you must tell him after you have been out with the guy that you only want him and it doesnt matter what others say your feelings are set. !! I also understand guys only wanting friends and keeping things low and simple for the real reason of family expectations and so many stressful things a relationship entitles for the fact that alot of women make a man cower in his shell and hurt him to much so that he cant express himself properly due to a mind set which is almost impossible to change. . love and determination will slowly help but dont go crazy there. theres a few sweet an d incredible men out there that will make you feel like the princess that you are inside and will give you something you have only dreampt about
if you wanna talk more email me davidrobb2003 (at) hotmail (dot) com
Of all the advice online, I have found this so very helpful. It’s been so long that I’ve had a first date and will be going on one tomorrow. Although the subject isn’t rocket science we sure can let it worry us to think it is. This article has calmed my nerves. I appreciate it and will certainly come back to this site for more info!
okay well anynomous girl you betta break up wit yo girlfriend and go wit dat boy u need to tel him you gotta talk to him and when yall get in a place where yall can talk tell him you love him and tell him you didnt mean it when u said you didnt like him no more tell him you was just in a bad relationship at the time (dont go into details) and tell him that you reallly want another chance with him and when you are saying this look him in his eye and be clear and dont studder that will make him think you are nervous and you want him to know that you are comfortable around him and
if he says nothing say nevermind and say i guess you dont like me
if he says i love you to i always did or something like this smile and then kiss him
if he walks away never talk to him again unless he talks to you 1st
welll i hope this helps you
dear confused you need to folow your heart if you really love your friend tell your husband you just not feeling it anymore
if you really love your husband tell your friend that you and him can only be friends nothing more if he ask why tell him cuz i got a husband and a child and tell him he had his chance tell him he should have put a ring on it while you was out there
hope this helps