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10 Tips On How To Seduce A Man

seduce a manI am writing this article in spite of the possible danger of being penalized by other men for disclosing our weaknesses, and leaving us – for lack of a better word – defenseless.

I can already hear the shouting, and see the torches being lit in front of my house.

On the other hand, maybe they will celebrate me, because most men want to be seduced. They pray for it.

Like Jason Biggs said in American Pie: “Oh my God, she used me. I was used. I was used! Cool!”

Dear Gals – you want to seduce a man, and you don’t know how to?

Fear not. Help is on the way. I am writing this article only for you.

Like I did in my article, how to approach a man, I thought about things I would fall for, (and have fallen for), as well as asked my friend Brigitte, (the man-eater), for her main techniques.

I realize that there are two common situations here: you want to seduce YOUR man, or you want to seduce ANY man.

Either way, the principles are the same. It really comes down to hitting that “hidden switch” that turns the man on.

Unfortunately, this specific switch is different for every man.

Sometimes it is not even related to physicalness. It can be a word, an image in his head, an expectation. Other times, you can trigger it with an simple smile, a lascivious look, a seemingly coincidental touch.

It is your job to find and explore this “secret switch” for your man.

This article will help you to not only find this hidden turn-on, but will also give you some ideas about how you can win the man you want.

My male readers will discover that several of these techniques can be used to seduce a woman as well. Surprise, surprise.

Maybe we’re not that different after all.

So read on, here are 10 tips on how to seduce a man, (use it cautiously, because with great power comes great responsibility and we men are sooo weak):

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141 Responses to 10 Tips On How To Seduce A Man

  1. Bokity March 13, 2011 at 7:52 pm #

    …You’re flirting with a married man? :/

  2. Bookity March 13, 2011 at 7:54 pm #

    If you really “love” that man, then do what’s best for him. Don’t interrupt his relationship, it will only cause grief to him, his wife, and their family.

    Just cut off contact with him, and go to cafes, marathons, charity organizations- places where nice, charming men can be found.

  3. Wink'd, Ltd. March 14, 2011 at 11:31 am #

    Interesting article. Not sure if I agree with all of it, but I do like the part about learning from the French. C’est the city of romance, after all!

  4. Shruti March 18, 2011 at 8:40 am #

    its better to marry a person who loves u a lot.. raher than u loving another one whoz still not aware that u r in luv with him.. htink over it frnd

  5. Eddie Corbano October 29, 2011 at 9:38 am #

    How about inviting him over to a candlelight dinner?

  6. Sasha_307 November 17, 2011 at 1:46 pm #

    incredible… ill try them on my boyfriend 🙂 

  7. BABA...BABABOOMANDCRASH November 30, 2011 at 4:55 am #

    Awesome! Thanks 🙂

  8. Arun Godwin August 3, 2012 at 10:29 pm #

    Nice article and the hidden switch is interesting!!

  9. jada October 4, 2012 at 11:31 am #

    but what if his married his married and has a daughter older then you

  10. princess May 16, 2013 at 3:17 am #

    Nice and sweet article.
    I love to try them but i hope i will not be sending the wrong signals.
    However, i shall remain positive.

  11. marlene September 30, 2013 at 8:48 am #

    Hi Eddie, I came across your page by chance. Excellent tips & helpful advice. I love it. I even wrote down these perfume tricks. Please do notify me of new posts. I would like to keep reading your blog. I’m also a freelance writer. I blog online.

  12. Nicole October 25, 2013 at 9:12 am #

    What if he’s a lot older than you ( about 10 years ) is there a chance?

  13. John March 31, 2015 at 4:48 am #

    Ok, this article is interesting to read as a guy with an understanding of the male side of the card.

    The advice is ok, but theres a problem. The woman should be aware that seduction and understanding it isnt a set of instructions; its a mindset. The mindset should be based around understanding men.

    There are two types of guys: betas and alphas. Betas dont know what they’re doing and arent really that confident. Alphas know the game in and out and arent going to chase you just because you show interest.

    Infact, I assume interest if I’m talking to you already, so I think the question for the woman is what does she want from a guy? I know. Complicated. Lets simplify.

    What do you want from a guy NOW?
    A) Sex with a submissive guy
    B) Relationship with powerful guy
    C) Sex with Powerful guy
    D) Relationship with submissive guy

    You’ll want a mixture of this, I’m sure. You need to make a choice though, because in every relationship or encounter, there arent ever equals. One party is in charge.

    Once you decide that, you’ll be able to figure out what to do.

    First, and you do this naturally, you’ll wanna test him. You need to be talking to him first (develop the ability to approach and start a conversation). Now a quick test: command him to do something (almost rudely). His response will tell you ultimately what hes willing to put up with. You’ll be “put in your place” if hes an alpha. If hes beta, though, he’ll just comply. It sounds mean, I know, but thats an easy way to tell what hes like.

    Now onto how to get what you decided you want:

    Beta: Show interest to the guy and lead the interaction where you want to take it. He’s not going to be sure whats going on in your head, so use that to make him want you. You’ll have a fun power trip if nothing else.

    Alpha: This one is harder. You need to keep in mind that this guy can effectively read your mind. Showing him interest in obvious signals isnt necessary. It can make him see your “fuck me please” face, which is physically attractive, but it doesnt tell him anything he doesnt already know. You need to decide if you want this guy once or for longer than that. Then stick with that decision. If you want him once, allow yourself to cave in and sleep with him. If you want him for more, you need to be harder to seduce. This takes self control, but it can help him want you a little more.

  14. White December 20, 2015 at 6:43 am #

    I disagree on many points. Especially the part-talk only 10%…Also, using perfume is very tricky. You never know what would someone like/dislike…It reduces the chances of successful seduction. Another thing :if woman looks perfect it intimidates most men. For some reason they like you most when something is off: no makeup, messy hair, jeans instead of evening gown, etc…

  15. John November 20, 2016 at 12:12 pm #

    No antiperspirant,no deodorant, no perfumes, your own natural body scents,instantly alert a man about compatibility. Be brave be bold and talk straight and positive.
    To a real man your own natural body scents are a million times more exciting than anything artificial.

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