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I am writing this article in spite of endangering myself of being penalized by other men for disclosing our weaknesses and leaving us defenseless. I am already hearing the shouting and seeing the torches being lit in front of my house.
On the other hand, maybe they will celebrate me, because most men want to be seduced. They pray for it. Like Jason Biggs said in American Pie
Dear Gals, you want to seduce a man and you don’t know how to? Fear not. Help is on the way, for I write this article on ways how to seduce a man only for you. Like I did in my groundbreaking article how to approach a man, I thought about things I would fall for (and have been fallen for) and additionally asked Brigitte (the man-eater) for her main techniques.
I realize that there are two common situations here: you want to seduce your man, or you want to seduce any man. Either way, the principles are the same. It really comes down to hitting that “hidden switch” that turns the man on. Unfortunately this specific switch is different to every man. Sometimes it is not even related to physicalness. It can be a word, an image in his head, an expectation. On other times you can trigger it with an simple smile, a lascivious look, a seemingly coincidental touch.
It is your job to find and explore this “secret switch” on your man.
This article will help you not only to find this hidden turn-on, but will also give you some ideas how you can win the man you want.
My male readers will discover that several of these techniques can be used to seduce a woman as well. Surprise surprise. Maybe we’re not that different after all.
So read on, here are the 10 ways how to seduce a man (use it cautiously, because with great power comes great responsibility and we men are sooo weak):
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2 kathylynn // Nov 26, 2007 at 9:58 pm
Every one of these points are so true. The chase never gets old even though the times have changed. I try and teach my daughter this.
3 Eddie Corbano // Nov 27, 2007 at 12:22 pm
Thanks kathylynn,
you’re right, the main principles of human interactivity will never change. What worked for you, will also work for your daughter
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4 Mia // Dec 5, 2007 at 5:20 pm
My man love excitement, like any other one
bt these tips will certainly enhance our relationship as i know now the ways to become the mistress of my husband :P. thanks
5 Sam Morgan // Dec 14, 2007 at 2:55 am
I agree with most of the points you make in this article with the one glaring exception of the one in your conclusion: Contradict yourself, confuse him. I don’t think there is a man out there who would find this a turn on. I say this especially to guys who have already had long term relationships that didn’t work out. One of the biggest gaps between men and women is communication and how we interpret the other sex. Contradiction and confusion are usually some of the top causes of arguments in relationships. This for me raises a HUGE red flag if I see this in a woman.
6 Eddie Corbano // Dec 14, 2007 at 7:53 am
Sam, thank you for your thoughts.
I know what you mean. However, we are talking about the seduction process here, not a long term relationship (there I would agree), so normal rules do not apply.
I believe that confusion, playfulness and contradiction can be a huge turn-on at the beginning, if done in a right, intelligent way. The mission is to be different than the mass out there, to be different is always attractive… at least to me.
7 Amy // Jan 14, 2008 at 3:38 am
Question…I have a man that became interested in me at work…I have seen him a couple of times….kissed…heavy…then he quit calling…but when I see him at work he wants to talk and will call…but not for a date…I want to seduce him, but I don’t want to come on strong…..I see him mostly one day a week and I find myself going to talk to him that one day…..should I walk by or stop to talk…..last week I walked by without talking and he said I gave him a stern look….I didn’t I was actually trying to keep from smiling….I told him this and he said why didn’t I just come over to talk to him….I have done everything you have suggested …hair cut and color…great clothes…chanel Co Co and lost weight and continue to loose weight….I think this is about the hunt for me and maybe I will loose interest after he is interested…but for now how do I win?
8 Eddie Corbano // Jan 17, 2008 at 2:06 pm
Amy, relationships at work seems always to be a problem sooner or later. Many men realize that.
Apart from that you could try to completely avoid him and see how he reacts, making him a little jealous might also work.
If all this fails, you could try a confident direct approach, like an invitation to a candle light dinner.
Good hunting,
Eddie
9 Kaie // Jan 23, 2008 at 6:32 am
Amy, have you read the book, “He’s just not that into you. ” Give it up and move on. Too many men, so much time.
10 Janet // Jan 30, 2008 at 1:53 am
i am normally fine with talking to men but a guy i see around at my work place has given me a strange feeling..i am so in awe of him that i cannot even speak to him! i am madly into him and from what i have heard he sounds like a very nice man. how do i go about talking to someone i can barely look in the eye without going all ‘goey’?
Many thanks. (interesting article!)
J
11 Amy // Feb 2, 2008 at 2:08 am
I haven’t read the book “He’s Just…..”, but I have analyzed my attraction to him and I know it is because of the rejection…I haven’t experienced rejection…most of the time I have to tell the freaks to stop calling. I thought about it and I don’t even want a relationship with him…just a couple of nights.
…being totally honest about the situation. ….anyway I googled him and found out that he is married…that explains everything. Only coming over and no actual dates…not calling me very often and only from his cell at weird times…anyway…I guess he was in to me just not easy to burn the candle at both ends. I am certainly not into married men.
12 Katie // Feb 12, 2008 at 10:10 pm
There is a guy I really care about and have become close friends with. We have a deep bond and are undoubtedly attracted to each other. On 2 occasions we’ve even ‘been physical’ with one another… However I am a young widow and have a 3 year old . He is 2 or 3 years younger than me and is best friends with my cousin who is like a brother to me. I want to see where it will go and am happy to go slowly. He however is very confused and says that he really cares about me, is attracted to me but is overwhelmed by a sense of responsibility that he feels towards me. I am very independent and am not looking for a replacement husband or father for my child, but am open to seeing what will happen. what should I do? My cousin seemed to suggest that there is ’something’ missing for him… if it’s not attraction or friendship, what is it??? The chase is all I can think? I am very open and honest and have learnt the hard way that life is sh0rt and that you should seize it… But he is in a different place to me. What should I do??
13 Sensual Gyal // Feb 13, 2008 at 5:40 pm
Hi Katie,
If your friend really cared about you, he wouldn’t care how much responsibility he has, he would want to be with you. My step-dad married my mom because of the person she was in the inside and he didn’t mind taking care of “five children” that my mom have that’s not his biologically his. Men will say anything as an excuse so they won’t hurt our precious feelings. He was was honest, he would be straight up with you. You also made the mistake of giving it up to. It’s time to make men wait and put them to the test. He cared enough to get physical with you, but now what can you show for that. You will know when you found that right man. Just move on , he’s definetly checking another chica out with no baggage. Good luck
14 shar // May 14, 2008 at 8:49 pm
Well, I read this, and actually…there’s one thing missing; being yourself, and enjoy what you’re doing. Anyway…
I ACCIDENTLY seduced a guy. Well, as how it looks like, we’ve been in love for like 5 years now. There’s only this little problem.
It’s not allowed. Why? Because he’s my teacher. We haven’t done anything, and I’m about to leave this school (graduating) but yeah.. I just had to tell that. I wonder what will happen. I accidently seduced him in many, many ways.
Yet, he’s unhappily married.
I wonder. if not, then I will just go on, and see
l’ve got a whole life in front of me.
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