1. Choose The Battle-Field Well
Believe me, the “where” is very crucial to your success.
Choosing a sports bar while the Superbowl is on may not be crowned with success. A private dinner, with the appropriate romantic ambiance, on the other hand, will give you the best chances.
Choose places where you can minimize distractions, (and ideally competition). You must have his complete attention.
Besides, the proper surrounding can be very stimulative. Never underestimate the power of candlelight and accompanying soft music.
2. The Power Of Scent
The scent is one of the most powerful subconscious influences that affect our judgments.
In a survey, 89 % of the men revealed that scent can enhance the attractiveness of a women. 55 % of those polled men went a little further, and admitted that they would get amorous with a women just because of her appealing scent.
Do you believe that? You better! Everybody who has seen or read, Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, would know what I’m talking about.
Scent is one of the most powerful subconscious influences that affect our judgment about the other sex. The way you smell is a vital factor to your success in seduction. You can compare it to pheromones in the animal world.
A woman can enhance her natural pheromones by using aromatherapy oils like sandalwood, rose, ylang ylang, jasmine and patchouli. They are known for their aphrodisiac properties.
Shakespeare wrote that Cleopatra received Marc Anthony on a ship with perfumed sails. The exotic scent made him fall in love with her immediately. Even so much that he hopelessly gave his life for her.
Use a perfume that you like, but be careful not to overdo it. Use it sparingly, and apply it to your body’s so called pulse points – wrists, behind your ears, in the bend of your elbow, behind your knees and on the inside of your ankles. You can also try to spray the perfume in the air in front of you and walk into the mist.
Make your perfume a recognizable part of you. Make your scent imprinted in his mind.
3. Show A Little, But Hide A Little More
There is a certain way of dressing that drives men crazy. And I certainly don’t mean going slutty. That is a turn-off for most men.
You need to find a compromise between showing and hiding your womanly qualities. It’s the right combination that makes the secret.
I like women who enhance certain body regions without actually showing anything.
Steer clear of the obvious. It is very important that you actually feel sexy.
And don’t forget some killer-lingerie and sexy accessories like bracelets and necklaces.
4. Be Super-Confident
Have the confidence of a supermodel. Be a woman who knows what she wants, and how to get it.
Do you know how to do this?
But be aware – there is also a thin red line. If you overdo it, you will most likely look arrogant instead of confident. You don’t want that. Nobody likes arrogance.
You can start with renewing yourself.
Get a complete makeover – a new haircut, clothes, start losing weight. Never underestimate what a new haircut can do to you.
Also watch your posture. Keep a straight spine with your shoulders back, exposing your chest. Do everything that makes your confidence soar.
Men are very impressed by confidence.
5. Send Signs Of Interest
Now it’s time to spread a little hint to the man that he may actually have a chance with you. Send him little signs of interest from time to time that will make him come forward:
- Show unclenched hands
- Play with your hair or caress other objects. Push your fingers through your hair
- Pick some fluff of his jacket, (even if there is none!)
- Face him directly, and slightly lean forward every now and then
- Wet and bite your lips from time to time
Here again – do not overdo it!
Experienced men can read these signs, the inexperienced, well, even they will feel that something’s going on.