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10 Tips On How To Seduce A Man

1. Choose The Battle-Field Well

Believe me, the “where” is very crucial to your success.

Choosing a sports bar while the Superbowl is on may not be crowned with success. A private dinner, with the appropriate romantic ambiance, on the other hand, will give you the best chances.

Choose places where you can minimize distractions, (and ideally competition). You must have his complete attention.

Besides, the proper surrounding can be very stimulative. Never underestimate the power of candlelight and accompanying soft music.

2. The Power Of Scent

The scent is one of the most powerful subconscious influences that affect our judgments.

In a survey, 89 % of the men revealed that scent can enhance the attractiveness of a women. 55 % of those polled men went a little further, and admitted that they would get amorous with a women just because of her appealing scent.

Do you believe that? You better! Everybody who has seen or read, Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, would know what I’m talking about.

Scent is one of the most powerful subconscious influences that affect our judgment about the other sex. The way you smell is a vital factor to your success in seduction. You can compare it to pheromones in the animal world.

A woman can enhance her natural pheromones by using aromatherapy oils like sandalwood, rose, ylang ylang, jasmine and patchouli. They are known for their aphrodisiac properties.

Shakespeare wrote that Cleopatra received Marc Anthony on a ship with perfumed sails. The exotic scent made him fall in love with her immediately. Even so much that he hopelessly gave his life for her.

Use a perfume that you like, but be careful not to overdo it. Use it sparingly, and apply it to your body’s so called pulse points – wrists, behind your ears, in the bend of your elbow, behind your knees and on the inside of your ankles. You can also try to spray the perfume in the air in front of you and walk into the mist.

Make your perfume a recognizable part of you. Make your scent imprinted in his mind.

3. Show A Little, But Hide A Little More

There is a certain way of dressing that drives men crazy. And I certainly don’t mean going slutty. That is a turn-off for most men.

You need to find a compromise between showing and hiding your womanly qualities. It’s the right combination that makes the secret.

I like women who enhance certain body regions without actually showing anything.

Steer clear of the obvious. It is very important that you actually feel sexy.

And don’t forget some killer-lingerie and sexy accessories like bracelets and necklaces.

4. Be Super-Confident

Have the confidence of a supermodel. Be a woman who knows what she wants, and how to get it.

Do you know how to do this?

But be aware – there is also a thin red line. If you overdo it, you will most likely look arrogant instead of confident. You don’t want that. Nobody likes arrogance.

You can start with renewing yourself.

Get a complete makeover – a new haircut, clothes, start losing weight. Never underestimate what a new haircut can do to you.

Also watch your posture. Keep a straight spine with your shoulders back, exposing your chest. Do everything that makes your confidence soar.

Men are very impressed by confidence.

5. Send Signs Of Interest

Now it’s time to spread a little hint to the man that he may actually have a chance with you. Send him little signs of interest from time to time that will make him come forward:

  • Show unclenched hands
  • Play with your hair or caress other objects. Push your fingers through your hair
  • Pick some fluff of his jacket, (even if there is none!)
  • Face him directly, and slightly lean forward every now and then
  • Wet and bite your lips from time to time

Here again – do not overdo it!

Experienced men can read these signs, the inexperienced, well, even they will feel that something’s going on.

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139 Responses to 10 Tips On How To Seduce A Man

  1. Bookity March 13, 2011 at 7:54 pm #

    If you really “love” that man, then do what’s best for him. Don’t interrupt his relationship, it will only cause grief to him, his wife, and their family.

    Just cut off contact with him, and go to cafes, marathons, charity organizations- places where nice, charming men can be found.

  2. Wink'd, Ltd. March 14, 2011 at 11:31 am #

    Interesting article. Not sure if I agree with all of it, but I do like the part about learning from the French. C’est the city of romance, after all!

  3. Shruti March 18, 2011 at 8:40 am #

    its better to marry a person who loves u a lot.. raher than u loving another one whoz still not aware that u r in luv with him.. htink over it frnd

  4. Eddie Corbano October 29, 2011 at 9:38 am #

    How about inviting him over to a candlelight dinner?

  5. Sasha_307 November 17, 2011 at 1:46 pm #

    incredible… ill try them on my boyfriend :) 

  6. BABA...BABABOOMANDCRASH November 30, 2011 at 4:55 am #

    Awesome! Thanks :)

  7. Arun Godwin August 3, 2012 at 10:29 pm #

    Nice article and the hidden switch is interesting!!

  8. jada October 4, 2012 at 11:31 am #

    but what if his married his married and has a daughter older then you

  9. princess May 16, 2013 at 3:17 am #

    Nice and sweet article.
    I love to try them but i hope i will not be sending the wrong signals.
    However, i shall remain positive.

  10. marlene September 30, 2013 at 8:48 am #

    Hi Eddie, I came across your page by chance. Excellent tips & helpful advice. I love it. I even wrote down these perfume tricks. Please do notify me of new posts. I would like to keep reading your blog. I’m also a freelance writer. I blog online.

  11. Nicole October 25, 2013 at 9:12 am #

    What if he’s a lot older than you ( about 10 years ) is there a chance?

  12. John March 31, 2015 at 4:48 am #

    Ok, this article is interesting to read as a guy with an understanding of the male side of the card.

    The advice is ok, but theres a problem. The woman should be aware that seduction and understanding it isnt a set of instructions; its a mindset. The mindset should be based around understanding men.

    There are two types of guys: betas and alphas. Betas dont know what they’re doing and arent really that confident. Alphas know the game in and out and arent going to chase you just because you show interest.

    Infact, I assume interest if I’m talking to you already, so I think the question for the woman is what does she want from a guy? I know. Complicated. Lets simplify.

    What do you want from a guy NOW?
    A) Sex with a submissive guy
    B) Relationship with powerful guy
    C) Sex with Powerful guy
    D) Relationship with submissive guy

    You’ll want a mixture of this, I’m sure. You need to make a choice though, because in every relationship or encounter, there arent ever equals. One party is in charge.

    Once you decide that, you’ll be able to figure out what to do.

    First, and you do this naturally, you’ll wanna test him. You need to be talking to him first (develop the ability to approach and start a conversation). Now a quick test: command him to do something (almost rudely). His response will tell you ultimately what hes willing to put up with. You’ll be “put in your place” if hes an alpha. If hes beta, though, he’ll just comply. It sounds mean, I know, but thats an easy way to tell what hes like.

    Now onto how to get what you decided you want:

    Beta: Show interest to the guy and lead the interaction where you want to take it. He’s not going to be sure whats going on in your head, so use that to make him want you. You’ll have a fun power trip if nothing else.

    Alpha: This one is harder. You need to keep in mind that this guy can effectively read your mind. Showing him interest in obvious signals isnt necessary. It can make him see your “fuck me please” face, which is physically attractive, but it doesnt tell him anything he doesnt already know. You need to decide if you want this guy once or for longer than that. Then stick with that decision. If you want him once, allow yourself to cave in and sleep with him. If you want him for more, you need to be harder to seduce. This takes self control, but it can help him want you a little more.


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