I am writing this article in spite of the possible danger of being penalized by other men for disclosing our weaknesses and leaving us – for lack of a better word – defenseless.
I can already hear the shouting, and see the torches lit in front of my house.
On the other hand, maybe they will celebrate because most men want to be seduced. They pray for it.
Like Jason Biggs said in American Pie:
“Oh my God, she used me. I was used. I was used! Cool!”
Dear Gals – you want to seduce a man, and you don't know how to?
Fear not. Help is on the way. I am writing this article only for you.
Exactly as in my article, how to approach a man, I thought about things I would fall for, (and have fallen for repeatedly).
But also, I asked my friend, Brigitte, (the man-eater), for her main techniques.
I realize that there are two common situations here: you want to seduce YOUR man, or you want to seduce ANY man.
Either way, the principles are the same.
It really comes down to hitting that “hidden switch” that turns on the man.
Unfortunately, this particular switch is different for every man.
Sometimes it is not even related to physicalness.
It can be a word, an image in his head, an expectation. Other times, you can trigger it with a simple smile, a lascivious look, a seemingly coincidental touch.
It is your job to find and explore this “secret switch” for your man.
This article will help you to not only find this hidden turn-on but will also give you some ideas about how you can win the man you want.
My male readers will discover that several of these techniques can be used to seduce a woman as well. Surprise, surprise.
Maybe we're not that different after all.
So read on.
Here are 10 tips on how to seduce a man, (use it cautiously, because with great power comes great responsibility and us men are sooo weak):
1. Choose The Battle-Field Well
Believe me, the “where” is very crucial to your success.
Choosing a sports bar while the Superbowl is on may not be crowned with success.
A private dinner, with the appropriate romantic ambiance, on the other hand, will give you the best chances.
Choose places where you can minimize distractions, (and ideally competition). You must have his complete attention.
Besides, the proper surrounding can be very stimulative. Never underestimate the power of candlelight and accompanying soft music.
2. The Power Of Scent
The scent is one of the most powerful subconscious influences that affect our judgments.
In a survey, 89 % of the men revealed that scent can enhance the attractiveness of a woman.
55 % of those polled men went a little further and admitted that they would get amorous with a woman just because of her appealing scent.
Do you believe that?
You better! Everybody who has seen or read, Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, would know what I'm talking about.
Scent is one of the most powerful subconscious influences that affect our judgment about the other sex. The way you smell is a vital factor to your success in seduction.
You can compare it to pheromones in the animal world.
A woman can enhance her natural pheromones by using aromatherapy oils like sandalwood, rose, ylang-ylang, jasmine, and patchouli. They are known for their aphrodisiac properties.
Shakespeare wrote that Cleopatra received Marc Anthony on a ship with perfumed sails. The exotic scent made him fall in love with her immediately.
Even so much that he hopelessly gave his life for her.
Use a perfume that you like, but be careful not to overdo it.
Use it sparingly, and apply it to your body's so-called pulse points – wrists, behind your ears, in the bend of your elbow, behind your knees and on the inside of your ankles.
You can also try to spray the perfume in the air in front of you and walk into the mist.
Make your perfume a recognizable part of you. Make your scent imprinted in his mind.
3. Show A Little, But Hide A Little More
There is a certain way of dressing that drives men crazy. And I certainly don't mean going slutty.
That is a turn-off for most men.
You need to find a compromise between showing and hiding your feminine qualities.
It's the right combination that makes the secret.
I like women who enhance certain body regions without actually showing anything.
Steer clear of the obvious. It is crucial that you actually feel sexy.
And don't forget some killer lingerie and sexy accessories like bracelets and necklaces.
4. Be Super-Confident
Have the confidence of a supermodel.
Be a woman who knows what she wants, and how to get it.
Do you know how to do this?
But be aware – there is also a thin red line. If you overdo it, you will most likely look arrogant instead of confident.
You don't want that. Nobody likes arrogance.
You can start with renewing yourself.
Get a complete makeover – a new haircut, clothes, start losing weight. Never underestimate what a new haircut can do for you.
Also, watch your posture. Keep a straight spine with your shoulders back, exposing your chest.
Do everything that makes your confidence soar.
Men are very impressed by confidence.
5. Send Signs Of Interest
Now it's time to spread a little hint to the man that he may actually have a chance with you.
Send him little signs of interest from time to time that will make him come forward:
- Show unclenched hands
- Play with your hair or caress other objects. Push your fingers through your hair
- Pick some fluff of his jacket, (even if there is none!)
- Face him directly, and slightly lean forward now and then
- Wet and bite your lips from time to time
Here again – do not overdo it!
Experienced men can read these signs, the inexperienced, well, even they will feel that something's going on.
6. The Magic of Anticipation
Now, here's a good one.
This is a variation of “playing hard to get,” which by the way is very doubtful to work. If overdone, it will harm you more than being of use.
Instead, play a little game called “anticipation.”
Anticipation, excitement, and tension can be a huge turn-on for a man. Delay the gratification.
Make two steps forward, one step back.
Create a strong feeling of dissatisfaction in him. A dissatisfaction which can only be resolved by having you.
It must never seem to be easy for him.
Make two steps forward, one step back.
Contradict yourself!
Use the before mentioned signs of interest, then suddenly show disinterest, ignore him for two minutes. Then start again.
Two steps forward, one step back.
7. Killing Eyes – The French Technique
Start with almost accidental sidelong glances. You can follow up with a straight look.
Now, something starts that can simply be described as playful innocence, (someone once said to me that the French girls invented that).
The moment he looks back, you instantly lower your eyes and put on an embarrassed smile.
You can even emphasize it some moments later by looking again, this time longer, and then again lower your eyes.
This is flirting without talking, (we can learn a lot from the French when it comes to lovemaking).
8. Touch Him “Accidentally”
When you reach for something, try to touch his hand accidentally.
Don't make it too obvious.
Also, touch him briefly during the conversation to make a point or when he just made an interesting remark about something.
The secret is being playful with casual touches now and then.
This creates tension as well as a physical connection. And more importantly, it subconsciously communicates that you’re not interested in “only being friends.”
9. The Power Of Erotic Dancing
This one is short and simple: learn how to dance in an erotic way, and look for an opportunity for him to see.
Don’t underestimate the power of this.
Most women love to express themselves on the dance floor. Why not learn it and do it the right way?
There are courses on this, or just go to a club, watch and learn.
This is very powerful.
10. The Secret Ingredient
Now, there is a final ingredient to a successful seduction of a man.
He must not feel seduced.
He must think that he seduced you, not the other way around. Give him his victory, let him be the hero.
Men like that. It gives them a feeling of security.
Why not take advantage of that, if you get what you want!
Conclusion
Some other useful tips in short:
- Be mysterious and playful
- Awake the explorer in him
- Let him do most of the talking
- Flirt intensively with 90% body language and only 10% with words
- Contradict yourself, confuse him
- Try to make an all-senses-explosion: looks, taste, music, touch, scent
- Take care never to appear too needy
(MORE: Learn 10 Secrets About Men)
As we all know, Jason Biggs from American Pie was seduced the easy way, with not much effort, (who wonders?).
You are now ready to master – the art of seduction the sublime way, and getting any man you want.
Well, almost any.
Happy hunting!
Your friend,
Eddie Corbano
My Boyfriend dumped me cause we are living in different countries and now he is on a mission for the military, he said that it wasnt about me or our relationship that were both perfect but because he's getting lost and he is not sure he can handle an “intense” relation as our for the moment. I asked him if he still have some feelings for me and he answered “yes, but not as before, and not as u want me to… that's why we should stay friend.” then he insists to keep seeing each other, to keep in touch and to be friends cause he said “you are more than important for me, you're not just a friend and i will always be there for you”. I'm sad, but i'm feeling deep in myself it's not totally over for both of us. The fact is that i can just see him when he will finish military, so in october. But if till then it seems we are still really close, can this advice of “how to seduce a man” also be used for an exboyfriend?
ok so i had this one boyfriend all through highschool, until a girl i knew (and was becoming friends with) also befriended him. i grew suspicious and brought it to his attention, and of course he played it off that i was jelous and they were just friends. needless to say he ended up dumping me for her. after highschool i have a new boyfriend of 4 years, and suddenly she is arround again. she even started dating his less than attractive best friend! she calls him, texts him, and messages him. i am not worried about him leaving me for her, because he is in love with me, and loylal. how do i get her to stop stalking me and all my boyfriends?
Good grief, she sounds like an insecure loser who has to intentionally go after other people's relationships to feel like she's worth something.
It could also be a timeless case of “wanting what someone else has”. We all have that trait to some degree, because the perceived value of something goes up when it becomes harder to obtain (a basic law of economics). However, some people don't grow out of the childish mindset that what someone else has is better than what they have. This girl is like a little bratty toddler who cries and screams because she's jealous and wants her friend's toy, but as soon as she actually has it she quickly loses interest. It wasn't the “toy” that motivates her, but the jealousy of seeing someone else having fun when she's not.
As for practical advice on how to deal with her, I would first recommend you tell your boyfriend about your past history with this girl. Let him know calmly and maturely that you don't mistrust him, but that she is the one behaving inappropriately and that he should keep an eye out. Suggest limiting the time spent with his friends who are dating her, and maybe he can inform them of your suspicions if they'll listen. As a last resort, if you see her getting a little *too* close for comfort, confront her. Tell her what I mentioned in the beginning, about how wanting what someone else has is pathetic and childish. She doesn't genuinely like him, she's in fact more obsessed with you and her all-consuming jealousy of you. Most importantly though, don't let her intimidate you in any way. The less you act like she's a threat, the less of an actual threat she will be. Hopefully your bf will back you up on this and make it crystal clear that he's only into you and he doesn't find her BS appealing!
Hi Bombshell88,
I hope by now ur problems are solved, I truly hope so.
And I am so happy that u have that much faith on ur love tht u could certainly say tht ur bf is totally into u.
But if thrs sth i have learnt froma a 3 yr relationship which ended a while ago, is tht u can neva take ur better half for granted, and by granted i dont mean, not paying attention, or no time for him/he, I mean, U the intial stage of dating when u are tryin ur best to impress him with ur charm, well NEVA let go off tht, the love only on likes to stay in the house if theres things to keep his curiosity on at all times, if not taken care of his “interest” soon he stats peeping outside the window and wishing for more,sth like the saying goes “the grass is greener on the other side”, and i do just mean men do this women to, i belive this is natural human insticts.
If I would have read this, earlier i would like to suggest, tht dont tell ur bf at the initial stage of ur suspicions about ur past, if thrs anything i know of these kind of girls(as the bf stealer friend u mentioned) is tht they make themselves to available to men, eg. ‘reaaly’ low neck line, visually obscene make-up, sky high heels, and a lil over board with the hair do….invite ur bf’s friends(including the one u dated)and thr wives/gf’s , like for a dinner party, and make sure before tht u know all the other ladies(wives/gf) a lil better like name, what they do, simple things like interest, and dress ur self in a nice sofisticated manner like a cocktail dress, strapless and knee lengthwould be nice, sth tht wow’s ur bf but is also not offensive infront of his friends, then when the guest arrive socialize w every one so sweetly and in a friendly manner, what will happen is tht u’ll impress the men in the room(including ur bf), with ur social behaiviour,(may be u might even get ur bf to think to take ur relationship futher), and most of all, with make tht girl friend of urs feel really small. And she’ll know tht ur bf is way out of her league. and the whole point of these whole arrangement is to make her feel odd amongst everyone.
Oh and dont forget to some time romantically hold his hand kiss him slightly(theres nothing a man loves more who is not afraid to announce who is the keeper of her heart), or just wipe the small desert remaining from his face( or just pretend tht theres sth), n when ur wiping it lean close, first look at the small speck they look up to meet his gaze, and hold it for a while which tell him “whats waiting in store for him after everyones gone 😉 “.
U just have to work ur charm and before u know, if tht gurl was truly in the intentions to repeat the past then soon she’ll get frustated and eventually driving the bf she’s dating off.
and if u c she tht she’s growing closeness towards him by callingm on his personal phone or calling him in middle of the night cuz her cats up on the tree and wouldn’t come down, dont worry tagg along with ur bf, u give a supporting shoulder to ur friend, and if she calls in middle of the night u pick up, ask her what is it concerning, cuz he just went to sleep and wouldnt want to disturb him if its not an emergency. Do all this and ur bf will c what a great friend u can be, so tht when she makes advances on him, he just thinks what a shallow human being she is….
hope it helps….i know i write along im sorry, but i kept myself in ur condition and tried to describe u in the utmost details tht i could.
take care and let us know how it went.
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um this is great and all for a couple that is just starting out but say for me and my boyfriend where we're anyways joined in some form or another (hands, arms, hips, lips, tongues, ect.) a simple touch won't really work. We are very close as far as touching goes but I REALLY want to arouse him more than usual. His control is almost iron-clad, his respect for me interferes with the pure animal power and passion that letting loose could give to us; I want to make him so horny he wants to rip my clothes right off me! You think you could teach me that one?
Dear Eddie,
Your post is very accurate and fun, thank you for that! Unfortunately I still have an unsolved problem that maybe I can share. I've met a man who would appear to be the man of my dreams – everything I want in a man and exactly what I've been looking for. We did not have a lot of time to spend together, to get to know each other or even less to fall in love. In fact, most of the time I felt that he was too good to be true, that the signs of interest he may have shown were just my imagination…
Until one day everything happened just as you described in this blog post: making eye contact, playing the shy but confident girl… even the part of taking a step back (which in the given moment was my way to test his reaction, make sure I'm not just being pushy and give him a chance to 'escape' if he wants to). It's amazing to read about this point by point because it all just came naturally. And by the end of the evening, when I didn't even dare to hope for anything to happen, he finally made his move. It wasn't anything sexual (that was not the place nor the time for it), but very romantic. We slept wrapped closely in each other's arms, my nose against his cheek. It was perfect!
But then he had to leave and so we never got the chance to go any further from there. We didn't have time to become good enough friends to just randomly phone each other, I only see him occasionally online. We've had a few nice conversations since then, but always too short and pretending that nothing ever happened between us. Besides that I've noticed that he never actually starts the conversation (with one exception), so I can't help but to feel insecure.
I'm torn between two options: either leave it be (and keep forever wondering 'what if') or somehow keep going after the man of my dreams. For now giving up still doesn't seem like an option, especially because I'm a hopeless romantic and because I believe that the night spent together was not meaningless to him. I don't yet have the means to travel to where he is at the moment and I don't want to seem annoying or like a stalker by saying 'hi how are you' every time he appears online. Does anyone have any subtle techniques of how to seduce a man at a long distance or at least keep him intrigued without being overly obvious or needy?
send and recieve lots of nude photos and naughty emails. works best trust me in a long relationship at present myself 🙂
occasionally chat with him, but not too often…maybe ever 4 times he's online.ask him about his life, but nothing too personal. do this long enough for him to be comfortable with you chatting to him. then bring up that night. see if he's comfortable with that, if not, you might have to give him up.
Hey, i have a situation to others maybe as simple as “to choose”.. but its more that that. It goes like this…
What i wanted[ to really love] killed who he was.. what i was, made him love to the extent after all these years hes still craving and stuck, while I evolve selfishly adapt to this cruel emotionless world, hes still stuck.. and it canes for me to watch him that way. And right ABOUT i’d be angry tearing my eyes out and tell the world i wont ask for anything in life cause what i want kills another….And the thing is.. he is only one example out of sooo many other things i care for, even my family…
hes stuck, we've survived a long distance relationship for 3yearsnow.. even though we're on “a break” but at heart we know we're stuck…
on the other hand.. i know im playful, in need of physical closure.. This other guy, who he is just exactly like me, out going, playful, compassionate and loud ( physically & emotionally a giver), we always have the maximum fun and happiness when we're together just hangging out.. and its a total different LOVE to the first one…. The thing is hes local… and i cant hide the fact that he's reachable.
And finally.. the 3rd guy, dreamy, my league, my expectations, my page .. internally and externally.. very strong.We're almost perfect togetherr, not because i think so, its because WE Know so. the vibe, the language, the mood, the meaning.. everything meets as one. But the thing is we're apart…=(
what should i believe? i know i cant have them all at once & i know timing is important.. but they cant loose me, they need me equally. and i'm a giver, too loving to hurt anything.. and thats just me.. what do i do?
I have a question for myself. There is this guy that I really like and im not sure if he likes me back or if he know that I like him. Were in diffrent grades and we talk sometimes and he usally starts the convo. One time I was talking to my friend and he just interrupts her talking and starts talking to me. Awhile ago the word got out that I like him and he found out but said he knew. So I told everyone I didnt like him anymore and they belived me. Im just not sure if he likes me or if he knows that I like him and if he knows I still like him why does he talk to me?
I have a huge crush on this guy at work. i don't think i want it to get sexual because we are both married, but I do like to flirt. How can I flirt without being obvious and get this guy to flirt back?
He's married; if he's a good husband he won't be flirting around with the office staff 🙁
This is asking for trouble. Flirting is different from being nice or giving compliments, because it's meant to express sexual interest at SOME level, at least.
I suggest working on what's missing in your own marriage that would cause you to stray emotionally and consider straying physically. If it can't be fixed, end it before starting a new relationship. That's just common decency and will save you a lot of trouble too. If adultery is a factor in your divorce proceedings (even if there was no sex I'm sure your husband would not be happy), that could cost you financially or worse, if you have kids and get into an ugly custody battle. Cheated lovers can be VERY vengeful.
Plus this guy is married, and he may be disgusted by your willingness to flirt inappropriately. And even if he is not, then that would make him a jerk who would probably flirt behind YOUR back. I can't believe some cheaters are so dense as not to see the obvious – if he's willing to cheat on someone else, he'll cheat on you too!
hey come on, it's a very natural and innocent demand that dosen't harm anyone
No, Aprils feelings seem far from innocent in this case.
Well, this isnt a question for me, but its for a good friend of mine. My friend dates a black guy, (shes white). They do not hangout, outside of school, but in school they suffocate each other. they can't spend time outside of school because her dads quite races and if he ever knew she was dating a black guy, he would kill her. I believe she dates black guys cause her sister does it, she actually ha a black baby dad, but her sister doesnt have the same dad). Her moms fine with he dating any kind of race, in fact my friend claims her mom wants to meet her boyfriend. My friend lives with her dad, she has to in order to go to the school she goes to now. So its technically screw her mom, its basically whatever her dad says goes. Plus she has made huge changes in the actions she does while shes had this new b/f. She's basically really sexual. Nobody likes them together and everyone at school would be too happy if they split up.
Should she be with him?
Are they going to last long with her dad not allowing her to date outside of her race?
If they'e happy together, who's to say they should slit up?
As her friend, you need to be happy for her and allow her to use her own good judgement. Colour is only skin deep, it afterall whats within that counts. The minute people realise that, thats when everything changes. As for her dad, he's going to push her away further and further by his actions. The harder he fights, the more she'll pull away.
I can understand that dating someone your parents don't like or even worse, races against is not that easy. This all depend on how races the dad is and how much your friend loves this guy. I mean if she's not totally serious, then don't go too far as to go against your father. But if this is truley the man then do it cause i know i would.
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he's cheating on you!
cn i talk about myself? am involved with a guy but im much older than him.now am just sick of how he behaves always so rude generally taking me for granted. now i want to leave him but at the same time i cant cos i dont want to be alone.am so so confused.can someone please bash me on the head so i wake up and get on with my life instead of just quite literally waiting for this fellow to call.! HELP!!
you know what, this happened to me too. he totally just stopped doign things for me. i did everything in the relationship. he straight up told me – in the beginnig i was scared to lose you, but now that i have you, i feel like your not going anywhere. and so, i just broke up with him. those guys are so not worth wasting time for… i know your iinlove, and its gonna frigen suck when you breakup. but its the right thing to do. dont be a girl who sticks around just because shes lonely. trust me. youll find someone who actually give a shit.
hi nike,
No one is alone forever, if you think you cannot take him anymore, leave him…he doesnt deserve you 🙂
You shouldnt waste your time for a jerk like that.
I understand you dont want to be alone, but cant you think of when you let him go, you have more opportunity to meet someone else better than him 🙂
i think he is cheating on you..
@others -i think your man is an asshole leave the bastard and find yourself a man who is worthy of your love and attention
i am in this relationship for almost a year now and things are going bad. i met this guy last year nd everything worked out well. we both are in different cities which makes it difficult for us to meet every now and then.. we used to tok on phone and all. but now no more calls.. we just chat online at times and when i try to breakup with him he tells me how much he loves me and all that crap and doesn’t wanna let me go.. now am pretty confused as to whether he really likes me or not.. and i can’t leave him.. i don’t kno what to do..
Ive been in a similar situation. In fact im in it right now. We live in the same area yet it does get difficult for us to meet up because of different college and stuffs. Anyway, its not that he doesnt like/love you, he may just be used to the relationship and see it as youve been together a while now and he doesnt need to try much anymore. He could have no motivation, he loves you and doesnt want to let go of you like he says, he just cant be bothered to make sure he doesnt loose you. Let him know how you feel and that if he really loves you and doesnt want to loose you he needs to try and put effort in. If things dont improve then think things over, can you be happy with him and do you believe what he says? If you cant leave him you dont have to. You could phone him and get talking again, that may help. Rough patches in a relationship can be helpful as it gives you something to build on and make your relationship stronger. Give him a chance to improve before you decide whether you can leave him or not. Hope this helps.
hey ……….you have to think about this deeply …b'coz he alwalys try to convience you when ever you think to go far from him right! so, just think over it and try to know whether his love is true or not and then you take a decision……………………………………….. don be confused ………learn to trust him and see and one thing try to meet him once again ……
I was in a lot of relationships as a teenager bcuz I think I was so insecure about myself til I was 17 I feel in love w/ this amazing boy w/ an amazing family… well he decided to do something really stupid and went to jail for 5 years well during my senior year in high school this girl (a friend of his bothers) came up to me and said he didn’t want to go out w/ me any more and the only reason he didn’t write/call me was bcuz he was out of $$… long story short I didn’t hear or see him til 5 years later and I had gotten married a year b4 that and had a daughter.. long story short when he saw me he asked y didn’t I wait and i told him what had happened and it turned out that the biotch was just wanting him.. ): well neways he came up to my work one night and told me he wanted me to kiss him and honestly I wanted to bcuz it was like all my feelings came back for him BUT I knew how happy I was/am in my marriage and i told him sorry.. He was so respectful and now we talk almost every week via IM, he lives out of state… We still reminisce every now and then bout what we had and I always tell him U made the stupid decision to do something stupid…. but he is ok w/ it.. Things happen for a reason and I am happy where I am at…
I wish u all good luck on ur relationships (:
Hi Deb,
show, not tell. If he’s coming over for a little lovin’ & can’t stay…the next time he wants to go on a “date”, tell him your home is being fumigated, cleaned, being filmed for a reality tv show, or whatever. You can inform him you are free for a picnic in the park, movies, dinner, carnival, etc. Don’t allow the chance to be alone with him. If he truly likes you, he’ll be up for anytime he can spend with you.
Good luck.
I ve been seeing someone for a little over a month and we really like each other. I like being with him but the issue that I really have that he calls me every so often and talks about 5 mins. and he will come over once a week and stays for a couple of hours and when we make love he gets so excited that it doesnt last even 5 mins.and hes done. Im so frustrated by this. I like him but I dont know what to do.He says he wants to take it slow. Am I wasting my time with him? I just dont know what to do . He always ask me if Im mad when he says he is gonna get going afterwards, he says he doesnt want me to think that its just a sex thing. And that is what I think it is even though he tells me otherwise. I really dont know what to do?
DEB~it really is a sex thing.. come on now… tell him like it is and if he doesn’t like it then leave him… If u are into just a sex hook up then stay but really he is just there for a booty call …. good luck in any decision u make (:
He can obviously see that ur upset over the fact that hes leaving after he gets what he wants, which doess show that he picks up on things u do and how your feeling. i would give it alittle more time and see how things play out. try mentioning just being together without doing all the physicall stuff and see where that gets you. im not saying deprive him from having sex with you, but just try it out now and again, use that time to see a movie or go out to dinner. something where sex is…well mostly is hard to acheive(not too many people do it in resturants) If he doesnt like the idea, or is hesitant then thats your first red flag there. You dont want a man to use you, im pretty sure your too good for that, so drop him right there. best of luck
dear confused you need to folow your heart if you really love your friend tell your husband you just not feeling it anymore
if you really love your husband tell your friend that you and him can only be friends nothing more if he ask why tell him cuz i got a husband and a child and tell him he had his chance tell him he should have put a ring on it while you was out there
hope this helps
okay well anynomous girl you betta break up wit yo girlfriend and go wit dat boy u need to tel him you gotta talk to him and when yall get in a place where yall can talk tell him you love him and tell him you didnt mean it when u said you didnt like him no more tell him you was just in a bad relationship at the time (dont go into details) and tell him that you reallly want another chance with him and when you are saying this look him in his eye and be clear and dont studder that will make him think you are nervous and you want him to know that you are comfortable around him and
if he says nothing say nevermind and say i guess you dont like me
if he says i love you to i always did or something like this smile and then kiss him
if he walks away never talk to him again unless he talks to you 1st
welll i hope this helps you