When we decide to start our recovery after a breakup – and this has to be a conscious decision – we are often faced with the frightening prospect of pain and suffering. It then helps to remind ourselves of WHAT we really want to accomplish.
When I look back at my personal recovery journey, there are three main reasons WHY I’m happy to have gone through the pain. Will they apply to you as well? Please read on…
The reasons for a relationship ending are not always obvious to the one who was left alone. One of the true benefits of break-up recovery is that we discover what went wrong, and are able to learn from these mistakes.
When I got to the point where I was aware of what led to our break-up, I knew exactly where I had to improve and what I had to avoid in future relationships. It was a painful realization, but my marriage wouldn’t be the same today had I not faced it.
Do you know what went wrong in your relationship? If not, please read on.
A break-up is usually followed by pain – if you cared, there’s no way around it. But it doesn’t have to stay this way. You have the choice to turn this around and make your break-up the best thing that ever happened to you – a success. Something that changed your life profoundly. As I did back then.
Please read on to understand what I mean.
Why do people suddenly fall out of love and how is that even possible? Isn’t real love supposed to be eternal?
What first seems so unimaginable for those left behind after a breakup, becomes bitter reality. People do fall out of love and there are 5 main reasons they do so.
Please read on to learn about these reasons and what you can do to prevent them from happening.
Revenge on your Ex. That’s what you want when you start your recovery. No matter how, we want them to feel our pain. While taking revenge might help us short-term, the anger must be resolved in healthy ways… ways that profit us and don’t do us harm.
There are many ways to do this, but there is one in particular that helped me most during my break-up. Read the following article to learn all about it.
Right after the break-up it is almost impossible to see the big picture. All we feel is loss and grief. It takes some time before we realize that we make a mistake when we think of the love we felt for our Ex.
Is it a separate entity that can exist without the person of our Ex? Watch the following video that is heart-wrenching and inspirational at the same time. It illustrates so profoundly what it means to love and to let go. But heads-up, read the article first, before watching the video.
“I can handle anything that life throws at me” . This is not just a bold statement, it is a testament of strength of someone who has gone through hell and back. Someone who survived and earned the certainty that nothing can bring them down.
But there’s more. Please read on.
There will come a point in your recovery where you have to take a very important step – letting go of your Ex. If you are ready to do this, it will bring you freedom and boost your self-esteem.
But there is a danger here. A fork in the road that can lead you in a false direction. Read all about how to avoid taking this wrong turn in the following article.
How do you stop loving someone? How to overcome the battle between heart and mind? It is one of the most difficult decisions in life, to deliberately “un-love” your Ex because you know it’s the right thing to do. But HOW do we do it? As always, a long journey begins with a decision and the first step. Please read on.
Right after a breakup, we torture ourselves by trying to figure out that one question that we think will make a big difference – the “Why”. Why have they left us, why have they said and done all these things to us? It seems so important, so vital to our recovery.
Is it really? Please read on.
